The State of the Site

[spare_change]

Friends -

M&FC has always been a little different than most chat sites. It was originally designed to be a place where adults could come, could express their opinions without fear of ridicule, could fool around, sometimes act a little silly.

But, what we aren’t is almost as important as what we are. We don’t want M&FC to be a meat market, a place where women are afraid of being accosted by rude perverts, where people are put on display, where the only purpose is to get laid (an admirable cause, though, I must admit). We truly want M&FC to be a home away from home – the place, if you will, where your friends hang out, where you can come, sit a while, be accepted for who you are, tell a lie or two, and go on your way content with knowing that there are people out there who care about you. We don’t want M&FC to just be another cyber body shop - a pick up place, if you will. While we certainly don't discourage personal interactions between the members, we truly do not want that to be the main focus of the site. We want the site to be more than that - we want it to be a sanctuary, a home, a place where our members can come, feel free to express themselves, and know that they will not be subjected to attack or ridicule.

This goal of providing a home for our members has led us in many directions - discussions of love, of lust, of medicine, sports, politics, and even religion. We carefully monitor threads, not only for individual posts, but also for their contribution to the overall site. In the recent past, we have noted a trend away from shared conversation, open dialog, and free thinking, and a wandering toward the “meat market” mentality.

This unique approach is unusual for most new members – they tend to think we are just another one of the cyber body shops. Thus, the site tends to wander in that direction, and needs to be pulled back occasionally.

This is part of the normal cycle of the site – just as our “spring cleaning” to help guide the site back toward its original goals. Over the next few weeks, you will see some threads disappear from the site, as we try to realign our subject matter to refocus the site on its primary goals. The process for determining removal will be a consensus of opinion by the assigned moderators about the value of the contribution of that particular thread to the site goals. In addition, we will be combining threads of like subject matter. We will also be moving threads around – from forum to forum – in order to better align the subjects.

One of the things we will be trying to do is to provide better security for our site members. Accordingly, personal threads (those threads focusing on, or managed by, a single member) will all be moved behind the Gold Club door. This will ensure that guests (unregistered visitors) and newly registered members will not be privy to the more intimate information about our members.

We understand that some may be upset by the removal of their thread, or a thread that they enjoyed, but in order to revitalize the site, these actions are necessary. You may, of course, protest the removal of any thread. We will establish a single thread (“What the Hell Did You Do with My Thread?” – in the Gold Club forum) on which you may make your displeasure known, and the moderators will review that constantly. If your case is strong enough, the thread will be reactivated. HOWEVER - that is the only place that you may make your protest known publicly. Comments in other threads will be summarily deleted. If you wish to protest, but do not wish to make your concerns public, then, of course, you may send a PM directly to any moderator, who will raise your concerns to the moderator panel.

We realize this will cause a certain amount of upheaval, but we believe that these actions will make M&FC a better site for ALL its members.

Thank you.

[cherokeered]

Well, seems to be a good idea....and yes, thank you for mentioning this is not a meat market.....or a pick-up joint...:)

[Sneaky]

But, what we aren’t is almost as important as what we are. We don’t want M&FC to be a meat market, a place where women are afraid of being accosted by rude perverts, where people are put on display, where the only purpose is to get laid (an admirable cause, though, I must admit).
Thank you for saying that. The pervert part is ok with most of us. It's the rude part that is bothersome. :55

[hoss]

Well said ...just like i said it ...u take dictation well and that sexy summer dress u had on helped too .....

[OnlyOneMan]

I appreciate the thought that has gone into this site and the care that the people keeping it humming continue to give to it.

[learman3]

I love the idea.


I can think of nothing more important than the safety of our members. It's always been a pleasure to frequent this site. I also think those that moderate the site have always done a wonderful and thankless job.

I thank each and everyone of you for all your hard work.

[OICurready4me]

Good idea, Spare, and think that should work well. After all, I have been one of the people who has had threads deleted in the past and was not happy about it, as you know.



I think another good idea to try that you guys (the moderators) should discuss is the use of the chat room. Too often, there are people that have not even made a post yet that are in there chatting (cyber sex) with some of the members. That, I believe, may be a HUGE contributing factor to women feeling that they are being accosted, harassed, etc. When the start to use the site, that is the first they they encounter, thus, they may get the feeling that this is some sort of porn site, which we know it isn't. I think it would be a good idea that a member is blocked from using he chat room until they reach Gold or at least Premium. That way, they get a good idea of what the site is about by being around a while and at that point, they can have interactions with the women here that are productive instead of destructive. Thanks for listening.

[sawflyman]

I realize there is a fine line between what is acceptable and what isn't. It is hard a times to know where that line is. I have enjoyed our discussions and dialogue on the polical topics. Spare, and I have respected your opinion even though I haven't always agreed with thiem. I hope I haven't crossed the line and made anyone feel uncomfortable that was not my intention. Thank all those involved with this site for all there hard work and dedication this is a truely remarkable and enjoyable site. congrats

[mysticalwinter]

Even though I am new to this site, I appreciate the efforts that are made to keep everyone safe. I think that was a hesitation to even register was the saftey. Although I am not able to visit very often, I find it reassuring that the moedertors are and the members are watching out for one another.

[tiger50]

I realize there is a fine line between what is acceptable and what isn't. It is hard a times to know where that line is. I have enjoyed our discussions and dialogue on the polical topics. Spare, and I have respected your opinion even though I haven't always agreed with thiem. I hope I haven't crossed the line and made anyone feel uncomfortable that was not my intention. Thank all those involved with this site for all there hard work and dedication this is a truely remarkable and enjoyable site. congrats

god i cant reist.....
if u havent been edited then u havent crossed tha line... disagreein with spare is a sport....hell he really knows jackshit about fukall.....:lmao :lmao :lmao

[UltimateNaneki]

I think another good idea to try that you guys (the moderators) should discuss is the use of the chat room. Too often, there are people that have not even made a post yet that are in there chatting (cyber sex) with some of the members. That, I believe, may be a HUGE contributing factor to women feeling that they are being accosted, harassed, etc. When the start to use the site, that is the first they they encounter, thus, they may get the feeling that this is some sort of porn site, which we know it isn't. I think it would be a good idea that a member is blocked from using he chat room until they reach Gold or at least Premium. That way, they get a good idea of what the site is about by being around a while and at that point, they can have interactions with the women here that are productive instead of destructive. Thanks for listening.


I like that point of the chat room, too often I go there just to be PM by a newbie wanting all my info and wanting sex now....I have been rather pleasent expressing you must get 150posts to see pics and so forth, but curbing their entrance to the Lounge would be so much easier! Great point OIC!:55

[Wil]

kudos Spare..god I dig this joint...:55

[spare_change]

god i cant reist.....
if u havent been edited then u havent crossed tha line... disagreein with spare is a sport....hell he really knows jackshit about fukall.....:lmao :lmao :lmao


There is no requirement that you know anything --- only that you be loud and insistent about it (see Al Gore).

[spare_change]

Good idea, Spare, and think that should work well. After all, I have been one of the people who has had threads deleted in the past and was not happy about it, as you know.



I think another good idea to try that you guys (the moderators) should discuss is the use of the chat room. Too often, there are people that have not even made a post yet that are in there chatting (cyber sex) with some of the members. That, I believe, may be a HUGE contributing factor to women feeling that they are being accosted, harassed, etc. When the start to use the site, that is the first they they encounter, thus, they may get the feeling that this is some sort of porn site, which we know it isn't. I think it would be a good idea that a member is blocked from using he chat room until they reach Gold or at least Premium. That way, they get a good idea of what the site is about by being around a while and at that point, they can have interactions with the women here that are productive instead of destructive. Thanks for listening.

It's a great idea .... if it can be done. The chat room is a different piece of software, and I'm not sure there is a way to restrict access. There, most certainly, is no way for the site software to control access. We will investigate, though.

Thanks for the input!

[Sabrina]

I appreciate all the time that the moderators put into this site. That is what keeps it different from the other sites. It is truly a breath of fresh air! Thanks, guys!:knuddel:

[tiger50]

There is no requirement that you know anything --- only that you be loud and insistent about it (see Al Gore).

welll uh ya meet the requirement.....:55

[Lena]

. ......I think it would be a good idea that a member is blocked from using he chat room until they reach Gold or at least Premium. .....
This was tried but it didn't work at the time!

[UltimateNaneki]

This was tried but it didn't work at the time!

But how about another idea....actually I have a few ideas!

1. where the chat room is posted just add an arrow that reads for premium and up. Even if it's not true, it may stop some from trying to get there.
2. call it the PREMIUM + CHAT ROOM
3. oh I like this one. Don't give them access to the panel for the names. This way they can't PM anyone!
4. put a (n) before their names so we all know who the newbies are.

I'm sure I can think of more!!

[mile high]

This was tried but it didn't work at the time!

Could you make the link to the chatroom only accessible through the premium forum? :)

[Lena]

If you don't want anyone PMing you in the chatroom just tell them no PMs please, if they keep on just reply to them in the main chat!

[Lena]

Could you make the link to the chatroom only accessible through the premium forum? :)
Nothing is as simple as that!
Wish it was though!!! :)

[My_Secrets_Kept]

But how about another idea....actually I have a few ideas!

1. where the chat room is posted just add an arrow that reads for premium and up. Even if it's not true, it may stop some from trying to get there.
2. call it the PREMIUM + CHAT ROOM
3. oh I like this one. Don't give them access to the panel for the names. This way they can't PM anyone!
4. put a (n) before their names so we all know who the newbies are.

I'm sure I can think of more!!

I'm glad you brought this up Ulti, because I didn't realize until this past week that the brand new members with very few posts would have access to send me a message via Yahoo IM. Since then I have removed my Yahoo id from my profile for that very reason!

[Lena]

I'm glad you brought this up Ulti, because I didn't realize until this past week that the brand new members with very few posts would have access to send me a message via Yahoo IM. Since then I have removed my Yahoo id from my profile for that very reason!
Good idea! Best to just give it to who you want to have it!

[MIGHTY]

I'm glad you brought this up Ulti, because I didn't realize until this past week that the brand new members with very few posts would have access to send me a message via Yahoo IM. Since then I have removed my Yahoo id from my profile for that very reason!

I had a guy who hadn't even posted yet catch me on Yahoo. He seriously thought I was putting on a live cam show for other members! He begged to see me on cam, although I repeatedly insisted that I didn't have one and wasn't putting on any "show". I think he may have had a cam fettish......:sc

[MIGHTY]

It's a great idea .... if it can be done. The chat room is a different piece of software, and I'm not sure there is a way to restrict access. There, most certainly, is no way for the site software to control access. We will investigate, though.

Thanks for the input!

What about different rooms for different levels? You already have different rooms in there anyway, is there a way to revise them to state Premium or Gold to protect the seasoned members? Or to protect the newbies from engaging in cyber with a seasoned chatter?:sc

[sawflyman]

I had a guy who hadn't even posted yet catch me on Yahoo. He seriously thought I was putting on a live cam show for other members! He begged to see me on cam, although I repeatedly insisted that I didn't have one and wasn't putting on any "show". I think he may have had a cam fettish......:sc

so that's what I have a cam fettish........... that clears alot of things up........lol

[Alonelyboy4u]

I like that point of the chat room, too often I go there just to be PM by a newbie wanting all my info and wanting sex now....I have been rather pleasent expressing you must get 150posts to see pics and so forth, but curbing their entrance to the Lounge would be so much easier! Great point OIC!:55
I know we can create private rooms but maybe a Premium lounge might be in order.

[GaMan]

Mighty's cam stalker must have caught a glimpe of her many revealing avators and gotten the wrong idea!:D

From a newbie standpoint, I totally understand the 150 posts minimum. I also understand Naneki's comments about the chat room. However, from my standpoint, that was the only way for me to meet and get to know some of you guys. I am slowly but surely getting comfortable with the threads and posts. But for a new person, it is really hard to understand what is going on. Lets put it this way, if I would have only had the threads to communicate with indivuduals on the site when I first became a member...I probably would have left because I was and still am looking for friends and like conversation.

On the flip side, I have been in the chatroom when those guys show up and are obviously on the prowl and are not interested in simple conversation and getting to know one another. Maybe two rooms would be the answer. One for newbies (like myself) and one for longer term members. However, that in itself may create a newbie chat that turns into a "meat market" more so than just a friendly room. Wish I had some more insight to share.

Just a few observations from a satisfied member.

[Sunfiresix]

I guess that is why I don't chat much if at all, I sometimes feel like I am invading a privet bedroom and feel outta place, I have met most all thru post and I think everyone here is fantastic. Thats why I stay, just for the sheer lunacy and friends.

[Shadows]

Rules being made for privaccy of members and then moderators breaking them.

[mile high]

Rules being made for privaccy of members and then moderators breaking them.
If you're still upset about what appears to be a simple misunderstanding in communication, I'd bring it to the attention of the site administrators in private. I don't think lodging a complaint on a thread, that's not intended for the purpose, is a mature response that will get you very far.



Personally, I'm really impressed with the moderators on this site - they are fair people, care about the members and the site, and are nice to boot. I understand why 'spring cleaning' is necessary from time to time and welcome it. If the site is allowed to drift too far away from its roots, then claiming it back becomes a battle. Plus, new members are attracted to post under the wrong impression and circumstances. Before long, others become influenced and the forum's 'culture' changes. I have seen this happen on forums before and the managers have sat back and done very little. As far as I'm concerned, you can do what you like with anything I've posted...

[tiger50]

If you're still upset about what appears to be a simple misunderstanding in communication, I'd bring it to the attention of the site administrators in private. I don't think lodging a complaint on a thread, that's not intended for the purpose, is a mature response that will get you very far.



Personally, I'm really impressed with the moderators on this site - they are fair people, care about the members and the site, and are nice to boot. I understand why 'spring cleaning' is necessary from time to time and welcome it. If the site is allowed to drift too far away from its roots, then claiming it back becomes a battle. Plus, new members are attracted to post under the wrong impression and circumstances. Before long, others become influenced and the forum's 'culture' changes. I have seen this happen on forums before and the managers have sat back and done very little. As far as I'm concerned, you can do what you like with anything I've posted...

hey mile. thanks for ur support......:55

[Wil]

If you're still upset about what appears to be a simple misunderstanding in communication, I'd bring it to the attention of the site administrators in private. I don't think lodging a complaint on a thread, that's not intended for the purpose, is a mature response that will get you very far.



Personally, I'm really impressed with the moderators on this site - they are fair people, care about the members and the site, and are nice to boot. I understand why 'spring cleaning' is necessary from time to time and welcome it. If the site is allowed to drift too far away from its roots, then claiming it back becomes a battle. Plus, new members are attracted to post under the wrong impression and circumstances. Before long, others become influenced and the forum's 'culture' changes. I have seen this happen on forums before and the managers have sat back and done very little. As far as I'm concerned, you can do what you like with anything I've posted...

gonna have to agree with mile...the matter could have been handeled privately...I think the mods are doing fine work here...

[Shiane]

Rules being made for privaccy of members and then moderators breaking them.

You have made your displeasure quite well known and it is NOT acceptable to continue complaining about in every other post. This nonsense needs to stop immediately.

If you have not visited the rules section, I suggest you (both) do so. If you have a problem with another member, moderator or not there are proper channels through which your complaint maybe heard. Placing accusations and name calling on the threads will not be tolerated.

12)Any member who has a specific and documented complaint about a Moderator should directly discuss the problem with the Moderator himself. If he/she is not satisfied with the outcome, the member can notify the site administrator (webmaster@marriedandflirtingchat.com), with his/her complaint, while concurrently notifying the particular Moderator.

[tiger50]

gonna have to agree with mile...the matter could have been handeled privately...I think the mods are doing fine work here...

yeh.. thanks mate.... well there were incidences ealier that were handled privately.....i did deliberately leave my edited post there...it was a public statement we are here to moderate and wont tolerate continued personal attacks......just doin our job....:D

[My_Secrets_Kept]

...Personally, I'm really impressed with the moderators on this site - they are fair people, care about the members and the site, and are nice to boot. I understand why 'spring cleaning' is necessary from time to time and welcome it. If the site is allowed to drift too far away from its roots, then claiming it back becomes a battle. Plus, new members are attracted to post under the wrong impression and circumstances. Before long, others become influenced and the forum's 'culture' changes.. I have seen this happen on forums before and the managers have sat back and done very little. As far as I'm concerned, you can do what you like with anything I've posted...

I agree... And I like that the mods are also active members of the site who share and join in on the fun with everyone, imo that really adds to the fun family friendly feeling of the site.

Although I've only been here a couple of months, I quickly came to enjoy the time I spend here and the fact that most everyone watches out for one another and that the mods stay on top of things.

[Annie]

I agree... And I like that the mods are also active members of the site who share and join in on the fun with everyone, imo that really adds to the fun family friendly feeling of the site.

Although I've only been here a couple of months, I quickly came to enjoy the time I spend here and the fact that most everyone watches out for one another and that the mods stay on top of things. Not always.... sometimes being on the bottom has it's advantages. ;)

[tiger50]

I agree... And I like that the mods are also active members of the site who share and join in on the fun with everyone, imo that really adds to the fun family friendly feeling of the site.

Although I've only been here a couple of months, I quickly came to enjoy the time I spend here and the fact that most everyone watches out for one another and that the mods stay on top of things.

well we try gal....its a fine line between bein heavy handed sometimes and treadin gently
i think i speak for most mods here , we dont want confontation.. sometimes we have to , cant avoid it...but it is in the interest of the site and members like you......

[Lena]

Not always.... sometimes being on the bottom has it's advantages. ;)
Stop that Annie!!!
Go and get that ladder if you really need something to do!!! :D

Thank you everyone for all your support of the site and all of us!!!
Such lovely people we have in this neighbourhood!!

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Not always.... sometimes being on the bottom has it's advantages. ;)

yep, the bottom does definitelly have it's advantages... I should have said top/bottom :D

[Lena]

yep, the bottom does definitelly have it's advantages... I should have said top/bottom :D
Ohh now she is not going to know where to go!!!:)

[My_Secrets_Kept]

Ohh now she is not going to know where to go!!!:)

in circles or top first then bottom last or bottom first then top last, oh the choices :D

[GeekMaster]

Stop that Annie!!!
Go and get that ladder if you really need something to do!!! :D

Now Lena, picking on Annie that way is very small of you...










...but then the only way to pick on Annie is small!!

[tiger50]

Ohh now she is not going to know where to go!!!:)
mm will hafta consuly hank.. suspect she ha developede into a ravigin top.....:sc

[Lena]

And now Annie is going to kill me when she comes back!!

[My_Secrets_Kept]

And now Annie is going to kill me when she comes back!!

shhh I won't tell, hurry up and hide the evidence... lol

[tiger50]

shhh I won't tell, hurry up and hide the evidence... lol

evidence???? OMG....:sc

[Lena]

Thanks for the help Secret!!!
Think the cat is keeping her distracted!!! :D

[MIGHTY]

Hey, there are too many of you mods out there now! I may have to start behaving now.......:wa:

[Lena]

Hey, there are too many of you mods out there now! I may have to start behaving now.......:wa:
Yep otherwise Tiger has the punishment list!!!
Hi there!!! :wa:

[snowflake]

:wa: I believe this site is a well run machine..... My goal here is to find friendship, laughter, and a overall release of everyday frustrations, and the mods make that very easy.... I appreciate your time and effort. I look forward to you revamping the site, Good Luck!!!!

[tiger50]

Yep otherwise Tiger has the punishment list!!!
Hi there!!! :wa:

yey and am in a rampant mood...:D

[MIGHTY]

yey and am in a rampant mood...:D

I thought Cher was the only one deserving of "that" kind of punishment?;)

[Shadows]

Not worth the effort
Tony

[spare_change]

Finally any mail sent to our email box of any kind we will send it to:-

abuse@the ISP responsible.com.


I'm guessing somebody cares --- I just can't figure out who the hell it would be.

[MIGHTY]

Finally any mail sent to our email box of any kind we will send it to:-

abuse@the ISP responsible.com.

Shadows, from one friend to another, please let this be the end of this. We are all here to "escape" from something. Do you not realize that in your rants you are discouraging others from their "escape" as well?

[Annie]

Hey, there are too many of you mods out there now! I may have to start behaving now.......:wa::lmao



.... she says that like she honestly believes that she can!

[spare_change]

The State of the site?

I think it's in Confusion, just east of Disarray, and a few miles from Utter Chaos.

[hoss]

Not worth the effort
Tony

Tony ??....same old dribble ...the problem about posing as someone else is you have to be smart enough to pull it off ...

which unfortuantley you aint ....

but have a lovely day and enjoy your gardening ...apparently the help u have gotten didnt work ...

one piece of advice ,....life is to short to do what u keep doing ...but it does make for some fun in the mod room ....

[OICurready4me]

I thought Cher was the only one deserving of "that" kind of punishment?;)
I think you could use some punishment yourself... After all, you've been a bad kitty.

[paris]

Friends -

M&FC has always been a little different than most chat sites. It was originally designed to be a place where adults could come, could express their opinions without fear of ridicule, could fool around, sometimes act a little silly.

But, what we aren’t is almost as important as what we are. We don’t want M&FC to be a meat market, a place where women are afraid of being accosted by rude perverts, where people are put on display, where the only purpose is to get laid (an admirable cause, though, I must admit). We truly want M&FC to be a home away from home – the place, if you will, where your friends hang out, where you can come, sit a while, be accepted for who you are, tell a lie or two, and go on your way content with knowing that there are people out there who care about you. We don’t want M&FC to just be another cyber body shop - a pick up place, if you will. While we certainly don't discourage personal interactions between the members, we truly do not want that to be the main focus of the site. We want the site to be more than that - we want it to be a sanctuary, a home, a place where our members can come, feel free to express themselves, and know that they will not be subjected to attack or ridicule.

This goal of providing a home for our members has led us in many directions - discussions of love, of lust, of medicine, sports, politics, and even religion. We carefully monitor threads, not only for individual posts, but also for their contribution to the overall site. In the recent past, we have noted a trend away from shared conversation, open dialog, and free thinking, and a wandering toward the “meat market” mentality.

This unique approach is unusual for most new members – they tend to think we are just another one of the cyber body shops. Thus, the site tends to wander in that direction, and needs to be pulled back occasionally.

This is part of the normal cycle of the site – just as our “spring cleaning” to help guide the site back toward its original goals. Over the next few weeks, you will see some threads disappear from the site, as we try to realign our subject matter to refocus the site on its primary goals. The process for determining removal will be a consensus of opinion by the assigned moderators about the value of the contribution of that particular thread to the site goals. In addition, we will be combining threads of like subject matter. We will also be moving threads around – from forum to forum – in order to better align the subjects.

One of the things we will be trying to do is to provide better security for our site members. Accordingly, personal threads (those threads focusing on, or managed by, a single member) will all be moved behind the Gold Club door. This will ensure that guests (unregistered visitors) and newly registered members will not be privy to the more intimate information about our members.

We understand that some may be upset by the removal of their thread, or a thread that they enjoyed, but in order to revitalize the site, these actions are necessary. You may, of course, protest the removal of any thread. We will establish a single thread (“What the Hell Did You Do with My Thread?” – in the Gold Club forum) on which you may make your displeasure known, and the moderators will review that constantly. If your case is strong enough, the thread will be reactivated. HOWEVER - that is the only place that you may make your protest known publicly. Comments in other threads will be summarily deleted. If you wish to protest, but do not wish to make your concerns public, then, of course, you may send a PM directly to any moderator, who will raise your concerns to the moderator panel.

We realize this will cause a certain amount of upheaval, but we believe that these actions will make M&FC a better site for ALL its members.

Thank you.

Wonderful idea! Thanks to all the mods for their hardwork. You all are really appreciated even though it isn't always said!

I do have a suggestion...new threads can only be started once you've reached premium. It seems alot of threads get started by new members when they are just trying to say hi and introduce themselves.

[tiger50]

Wonderful idea! Thanks to all the mods for their hardwork. You all are really appreciated even though it isn't always said!

I do have a suggestion...new threads can only be started once you've reached premium. It seems alot of threads get started by new members when they are just trying to say hi and introduce themselves.

gday paris... yeh well we have been discussing that very issue.....seems its not so simple, wud requre a fair site restructure to do it.....:D

[hoss]

Wonderful idea! Thanks to all the mods for their hardwork. You all are really appreciated even though it isn't always said!

I do have a suggestion...new threads can only be started once you've reached premium. It seems alot of threads get started by new members when they are just trying to say hi and introduce themselves.

...i think we should encourage all members to start a thread ,but before u do ,look to see where it should be and if there is a similar thread already started ...and threads should be for all members to activally enjoy ...personalized threads shouldnt be condsidered as it may make other members feel left out ...
i think most members get tired of nonsense threads that dont do anything to involve discussion between members ....

As long as newbies introduce themselves in the introduction thread there is really no harm being done ,and the mods will move the threads to the correct location if placed wrong ...

this site will only grow with the active participation of members ...always keeping in mind that this is a family ,a home ,a respute,a sanctuary ....its not a pick up joint or a dating service ....

[missgrace]

Awww have some of the profiles in the member lists been deleted? I had a friend here.. and the profile is no longer listed.. do you get erased for inactivity? waaaaa

[Cotties]

Not that I'm aware of....Have another lookAwww have some of the profiles in the member lists been deleted? I had a friend here.. and the profile is no longer listed.. do you get erased for inactivity? waaaaa

[Lena]

No we don't delete profiles for being inactive, only if we are asked to by the member!!

[Micwar]

Joined awhile back but have only start using the site. I'll say you guys do a great job on this site, which more people did as a good a job as y'all. Keep up the good work in your thankless task.

[UltimateNaneki]

Joined awhile back but have only start using the site. I'll say you guys do a great job on this site, which more people did as a good a job as y'all. Keep up the good work in your thankless task.

Micwar58, this is a great place to escape from the woos of day to day life...come and have fun, with me...:kk

[Lena]

Joined awhile back but have only start using the site. I'll say you guys do a great job on this site, which more people did as a good a job as y'all. Keep up the good work in your thankless task.
Thanks Micwar!
That is very encouraging!

[Micwar]

Micwar58, this is a great place to escape from the woos of day to day life...come and have fun, with me...:kk

Oh the fun we'll have...better make sure your boots are on tight...

[UltimateNaneki]

Oh the fun we'll have...better make sure your boots are on tight...


Wow boots....nude with boots on. Now that is a concept!:sc

[Cotties]

damn...I think I like this guy:55 Joined awhile back but have only start using the site. I'll say you guys do a great job on this site, which more people did as a good a job as y'all. Keep up the good work in your thankless task.

[Micwar]

Wow boots....nude with boots on. Now that is a concept!:sc

Wait till you see the marks the spurs leave.....

[UltimateNaneki]

Oh baby.....bring it on!

[cherokeered]

I thought Cher was the only one deserving of "that" kind of punishment?;)


I am...you guys are on another list....and ewwwww....it's soooooo not fun....;)