View Full Version : Long Distance Cyber relationship
likesbuttons
08-11-2007, 06:22 AM
Ok, so as most of us here would agree we are here for something......
I found the site one nite because I enjoy chatting with married women a lot. Now to my situation: I've been cybering and chatting with a woman in MI for quite a few years now, about 6 or so and we have great conversations in many ways. Yes use your imagination. The thing is, that I still don't have a picture of her and we have not met in person. We talk about meeting every time we chat, but my situation at home makes it extremely difficult to travel without lieing through my teeth to do so, so I haven't done it. She on the other hand, was divorced last year and is more flexible. How do I convince her to visit?
Any thoughts, especially from you highly supportive married women here?
Thanks a bunch.
Sweetdreams069
08-11-2007, 07:51 AM
Ok, so as most of us here would agree we are here for something......
I found the site one nite because I enjoy chatting with married women a lot. Now to my situation: I've been cybering and chatting with a woman in MI for quite a few years now, about 6 or so and we have great conversations in many ways. Yes use your imagination. The thing is, that I still don't have a picture of her and we have not met in person. We talk about meeting every time we chat, but my situation at home makes it extremely difficult to travel without lieing through my teeth to do so, so I haven't done it. She on the other hand, was divorced last year and is more flexible. How do I convince her to visit?
Any thoughts, especially from you highly supportive married women here?
Thanks a bunch.
Well I have to be honest with you. First of all, if you've been talking to someone for six years now and you still don't even have a picture of them, something doesn't sound right to me. Don't know the situation or how close you are with her but there's something just not right about that. Sorry, but I wouldn't get my hopes up if I were you.
UltimateNaneki
08-11-2007, 09:04 AM
I would think that she would want to see you the moment the divorce was final. She would have asked already to visite you. It sounds like she don't want to see you and has another REAL man close to her. Check that out!
RedVixen
08-11-2007, 09:57 AM
Something just doesn't seem right. You've been chatting for 6 years and don't know what each other looks like? You've never met either? I have a feeling this lady is stringing you along and doesn't want anything other than a cyber relationship with you. Sorry hun. People who are truly friends with each other - don't do this.
oldandnaked
08-11-2007, 10:17 AM
OK, I realize I'm not a supportive married woman but from a man's point of view: 6 years and not even a photo? We may not be in Denmark but something is definitly rotten here. Have you sent her a pic? Have you spoken on the phone or via voice chat? Are you sure she's a woman?
alex187
08-11-2007, 05:21 PM
its a ood idea
OICurready4me
08-12-2007, 09:29 AM
Ok, so as most of us here would agree we are here for something......
I found the site one nite because I enjoy chatting with married women a lot. Now to my situation: I've been cybering and chatting with a woman in MI for quite a few years now, about 6 or so and we have great conversations in many ways. Yes use your imagination. The thing is, that I still don't have a picture of her and we have not met in person. We talk about meeting every time we chat, but my situation at home makes it extremely difficult to travel without lieing through my teeth to do so, so I haven't done it. She on the other hand, was divorced last year and is more flexible. How do I convince her to visit?
Any thoughts, especially from you highly supportive married women here?
Thanks a bunch.
I'm not a supportive woman but I'll give you my two cents. Something is very fishy here. Before you put in any more time, you should trade pics, so its a two way street, first. At least you will have an idea of who she (or he, for that matter) is.
bryan3636
08-12-2007, 04:32 PM
Hmmmm...I'm sure the topic must have come up from time to time over the 6 years of what each other looks like and/or to see a photo. Which begs the question if you've actually spoken on the phone at all? After that length of time you'd think you'd know everything about each other. I hope you like surprises because you may have a doozie of one in store.
Micwar
08-12-2007, 04:40 PM
I had a friend who was along this line, when they finally met it was....a chick with a dick....
Ok, so as most of us here would agree we are here for something......
I found the site one nite because I enjoy chatting with married women a lot. Now to my situation: I've been cybering and chatting with a woman in MI for quite a few years now, about 6 or so and we have great conversations in many ways. Yes use your imagination. The thing is, that I still don't have a picture of her and we have not met in person. We talk about meeting every time we chat, but my situation at home makes it extremely difficult to travel without lieing through my teeth to do so, so I haven't done it. She on the other hand, was divorced last year and is more flexible. How do I convince her to visit?
Any thoughts, especially from you highly supportive married women here?
Thanks a bunch.
If it was meant to be you shouldn't have to "convince" her.
It sounds to me like this is just not something she is interested in.
Maybe she doesn't want to be the "other" woman in real life...........
those are hard shoes to walk in.
Maybe she loves you so much that she can't stand the thought of sharing you.
Maybe it would be too painful for her to actually meet you and then have you leave her to go home to your wife.
Maybe...............
Course........Maybe not too!
Why don't you just ASK her what's going on?
peaches
08-12-2007, 05:27 PM
Actually meeting could be a scary thing, if you both aren't ready for it. But sounds like you two have been chatting for a very long time, just ask....what could the worse thing she says..no...trust me it hurts a little, but you also know where you stand...goodf luck...
scoobertina
08-12-2007, 05:33 PM
I am not sure why you haven't shared pictures... that in itself seems to be pretty scary... but if you really want to meet.. ask.. you had better be prepared for anything though...
likesbuttons
08-14-2007, 07:00 PM
I appreciate all the input, and thanks it was great to hear what a lot of you women think. I do know a lot about her, I have sent her many pics of me, and yes she has said, it could be too hard for her to meet me and not be able to stay and that I'd be going home to my wife instead of with her. I still am leary about the pic thing, I'm not that oblivious that something is whackey, hence the thread. Maybe you're all making me realize that I should move on, because I have asked her to come out to see me since the divorce and she hasn't. It's been good, but in the end, probably not really what I could use......
Thanks......
scoobertina
08-14-2007, 07:02 PM
I appreciate all the input, and thanks it was great to hear what a lot of you women think. I do know a lot about her, I have sent her many pics of me, and yes she has said, it could be too hard for her to meet me and not be able to stay and that I'd be going home to my wife instead of with her. I still am leary about the pic thing, I'm not that oblivious that something is whackey, hence the thread. Maybe you're all making me realize that I should move on, because I have asked her to come out to see me since the divorce and she hasn't. It's been good, but in the end, probably not really what I could use......
Thanks......
Hon, I think you are making the right move... move on...
likesbuttons
08-14-2007, 07:02 PM
I think Flybabe probably has it the closest to what the situation is.........
You are FLY baby! hehe
wall-flower
08-15-2007, 04:16 PM
I had a friend who was along this line, when they finally met it was....a chick with a dick....
LMAO damn hate when that happens:lmao
onceamarine
08-15-2007, 05:27 PM
I had a friend who was along this line, when they finally met it was....a chick with a dick....
At least it would look like a woman in a picture, or possibly look like a woman. I could at least see how it could be possible. This gal won't even send a pic at all. I don't know. I would probably move on, or at least tread carefully.
Big O
08-15-2007, 05:53 PM
maybe she's Hillary Clinton.......
I think Flybabe probably has it the closest to what the situation is.........
You are FLY baby! hehe
;)
;)
mmmm! and on that note long time no see, hows it going? :)
mmmm! and on that note long time no see, hows it going? :)
Hi Ya Jen............
I have been WAY too busy playing at the beach to be online!!!!
YEAH for summer!!!!
How've you been? Keeping all these men in line?
Andytyme
08-15-2007, 06:06 PM
maybe she's Hillary Clinton.......
No, that would be a dick posing as a chick.
Hi Ya Jen............
I have been WAY too busy playing at the beach to be online!!!!
YEAH for summer!!!!
How've you been? Keeping all these men in line?
You know me Flybabe!
I have been away for the last 3-4 weeks so many new faces! I have been out of touch for too long! :)
surfnchat
08-16-2007, 01:10 AM
I'll take a different stace here... I don't see a problem with the person not wanting to share their pic even after 6 years. If the relationship has been good for 6 years, why is a pic important now? We all know we build things up in our minds that make things appear better than reality. Maybe this woman feels that you would be dissappointed if you see her real pic or meet in person and wouldn't want to face the possibility of rejection. Tell her you don't need a pic or need to meet and that you find her attractive without even seeing her. That pic/meeting you want just might appear, but it shouldn't matter if it does or doesn't. If you have something good, don't toss it out until you know that the relationship is over.
likesbuttons
08-18-2007, 03:18 AM
You know me Flybabe!
I have been away for the last 3-4 weeks so many new faces! I have been out of touch for too long! :)
I think i need some beach therepy and you and fly should join me.....you know, you could wave the big palm leafs over me to keep me cool.......doh....i know, i'm going to hear it for that one.....
OICurready4me
08-20-2007, 08:49 AM
I think she may be a gay man in reality
oldsoul3426
08-20-2007, 04:57 PM
Ok, so as most of us here would agree we are here for something......
I found the site one nite because I enjoy chatting with married women a lot. Now to my situation: I've been cybering and chatting with a woman in MI for quite a few years now, about 6 or so and we have great conversations in many ways. Yes use your imagination. The thing is, that I still don't have a picture of her and we have not met in person. We talk about meeting every time we chat, but my situation at home makes it extremely difficult to travel without lieing through my teeth to do so, so I haven't done it. She on the other hand, was divorced last year and is more flexible. How do I convince her to visit?
Any thoughts, especially from you highly supportive married women here?
Thanks a bunch.
Sorry to be so blunt. She is stringing you along. I don't think there is anything you can do. If she wanted to be more with you she would at least send a picture and make an effort to meet.
Ok, so as most of us here would agree we are here for something......
I found the site one nite because I enjoy chatting with married women a lot. Now to my situation: I've been cybering and chatting with a woman in MI for quite a few years now, about 6 or so and we have great conversations in many ways. Yes use your imagination. The thing is, that I still don't have a picture of her and we have not met in person. We talk about meeting every time we chat, but my situation at home makes it extremely difficult to travel without lieing through my teeth to do so, so I haven't done it. She on the other hand, was divorced last year and is more flexible. How do I convince her to visit?
Any thoughts, especially from you highly supportive married women here?
Thanks a bunch.
True story. Years ago when this chat thing was very new I was in a group called Over 40 or Wiser. There were 2 people who met there, courted for a few years and decided to finally meet. It did not turn out so well because like your situation, the guy had never seen her until they actually met. He did not like what he saw and the drama that came out of it pretty much tore the group apart from people taking sides.
Another true story: Met a person on yahoo once who IMed me and asked if I had an open mind. That person turned out to be a black male gay midget. I'm not kidding. Be safe than sorry.
likesbuttons
10-13-2007, 05:06 AM
a male gay midget....wow worse luck then mine for sure...
cmt21lem
10-14-2007, 08:57 AM
i struggle with this
UltimateNaneki
10-14-2007, 09:09 AM
i struggle with this
Why do you struggle?? have fun darling!:kk
One Song Hero
10-14-2007, 09:15 AM
Another true story: Met a person on yahoo once who IMed me and asked if I had an open mind. That person turned out to be a black male gay midget. I'm not kidding. Be safe than sorry.
Hey, we black male gay midgets have feelings too! Oops, I think I just blew my cover... :o
[btw, black male gay midgets, both of them, do have feelings, as we all do... I know you all know this, I'm justing stating it for the record, having made the joke above]
UltimateNaneki
10-25-2007, 02:46 AM
I like long distance cyber sex partners...we have fun then we chat...almost, I repeat almost better then one on one sex!
OICurready4me
10-25-2007, 04:23 AM
Hey, we black male gay midgets have feelings too! Oops, I think I just blew my cover... :o
[btw, black male gay midgets, both of them, do have feelings, as we all do... I know you all know this, I'm justing stating it for the record, having made the joke above]
:lmao :lmao :lmao
Now that is one helluva open mind! black male gay midget....he probably was a transexual with one testicle and was hung like a hamster!
weavingdesire
10-25-2007, 05:48 AM
I like long distance cyber sex partners...we have fun then we chat...almost, I repeat almost better then one on one sex!
I knew I wanted to get to know you better ... :knuddel::sex
One Song Hero
10-25-2007, 06:32 AM
Say, I just had a thought... if several phone sex participants (maybe a phone sextet???) have sex together during a conference call, is that considered a virtual orgy? And I wonder... has anyone here ever connected with two or more people over the phone simultaneously, for phone sex?
Say, I just had a thought... if several phone sex participants (maybe a phone sextet???) have sex together during a conference call, is that considered a virtual orgy? And I wonder... has anyone here ever connected with two or more people over the phone simultaneously, for phone sex?
Damn.....:dd
One Song Hero
10-25-2007, 06:36 AM
Damn.....:dd
Wow... I was looking for dirt, someone to dish... but dirty clean fun, dished up ala MmmCat... that's even better!!! :lf
Wow... I was looking for dirt, someone to dish... but dirty clean fun, dished up ala MmmCat... that's even better!!! :lf
A Party Line.....wooo hooo
One Song Hero
10-25-2007, 06:40 AM
A Party Line.....wooo hooo
Excellent! Yes! All I need is that number... and I'm in!!!! ;)
Excellent! Yes! All I need is that number... and I'm in!!!! ;)
1-900-FORAGOODTIMECALL
One Song Hero
10-25-2007, 06:48 AM
1-900-FORAGOODTIMECALL
Oh, that's Jenny's new number!!!
[wait, wait, I'm referring to that Tommy Tutone song, not any Jenny onsite...]
Oh, that's Jenny's new number!!!
[wait, wait, I'm referring to that Tommy Tutone song, not any Jenny onsite...]
Hey ya never know...that just might be Jen's number....she seems like a good time girl....:D
One Song Hero
10-25-2007, 06:53 AM
Hey ya never know...that just might be Jen's number....she seems like a good time girl....:D
LOL.. probably a very good time girl... ;) [uh oh...]
Postman
10-25-2007, 09:50 AM
Oh my god Mcat that aviator is so cool the blood rushed right to my head as soon as I saw it.
massage mike
10-25-2007, 10:13 AM
i tried cyber a few times,I can't get over what some women can do.They make me feel so inexperienced,but thats cool,its a real turn on
Oh my god Mcat that aviator is so cool the blood rushed right to my head as soon as I saw it.
Which one? :D
pointofnoreturn
10-29-2007, 05:21 PM
1-900-FORAGOODTIMECALLhey why did you give him my number. That was a secret...Oh well...:D
Vicious305
10-29-2007, 05:24 PM
1-900-FORAGOODTIMECALL
::: dialing number::::
CJSinIL
10-29-2007, 05:25 PM
MMmm long distance cyber. Sweet.
pointofnoreturn
10-29-2007, 05:26 PM
MMmm long distance cyber. Sweet.hiya sweetie long time no sex...I mean see...How is my chicago boy?????
CJSinIL
10-29-2007, 05:27 PM
Fan-Freaking-Tastic. How are you doing today?
::: dialing number::::
Oh little boy....for you the number would be....
1800TEACHMEPLZ.....;)
CJSinIL
10-29-2007, 05:30 PM
1800pimpalicious
Vicious305
10-29-2007, 05:35 PM
Oh little boy....for you the number would be....
1800TEACHMEPLZ.....;)
oh so you got jokes, lol i see how it is, dont worry, i'm thinkin up a comeback for you, in the mean time :sex lol
Hey ya never know...that just might be Jen's number....she seems like a good time girl....:D
Hey! I missed this one cheeky! :D Actually its...
1800POSHTOTTY
Hey! I missed this one cheeky! :D Actually its...
1800POSHTOTTY
LOL....you're a very good sport Jen.....how ya been? :knuddel:
pointofnoreturn
10-29-2007, 06:08 PM
Oh little boy....for you the number would be....
1800TEACHMEPLZ.....;)Hey I already taught him...and he is a great...STudent
:kk
Vicious305
10-29-2007, 06:10 PM
Hey I already taught him...and he is a great...STudent
:kk
and you are a great teacher! :kk
Hey I already taught him...and he is a great...STudent
:kk
Then he'll be all warmed up for an experienced woman now won't he.....;)
just kidding point...i know you are the goddess of flirting....:knuddel:
GeekMaster
10-29-2007, 06:12 PM
Then he'll be all warmed up for an experienced woman now won't he.....;)
just kidding point...i know you are the goddess of flirting....:knuddel:
Where do I sign up???:lf
Vicious305
10-29-2007, 06:12 PM
Then he'll be all warmed up for an experienced woman now won't he.....;)
just kidding point...i know you are the goddess of flirting....:knuddel:
ooooooo point she tried you!
lol just kidding ladies, no need to fight over me, I'm only a baby remember lol
CJSinIL
10-29-2007, 06:25 PM
Experienced Women. Yum
ksue7274
10-31-2007, 08:21 AM
Back to the original question. I would not meet until I saw a pic. If not a man then maybe she is afraid of what you will think of the way she looks.
wolfman
11-09-2007, 10:40 AM
Back to the original question. I would not meet until I saw a pic. If not a man then maybe she is afraid of what you will think of the way she looks.
I guess if we're really honest, friendship hoping it will develpoe into an affair.
wolfman
11-09-2007, 09:07 PM
Back to the original question. I would not meet until I saw a pic. If not a man then maybe she is afraid of what you will think of the way she looks.
Cybering is still great
wolfman
11-09-2007, 09:08 PM
Back to the original question. I would not meet until I saw a pic. If not a man then maybe she is afraid of what you will think of the way she looks.
But phone sex is better. That is when you cant have the real thing in person
otispatton
11-09-2007, 09:31 PM
phone sex/cybering is almost better in some situations due to the no risk aspect...much less of a rush i know...but never the less fun
wolfman
11-09-2007, 11:26 PM
phone sex/cybering is almost better in some situations due to the no risk aspect...much less of a rush i know...but never the less fun
Well said
dave42
11-10-2007, 02:42 AM
maybe she's Hillary Clinton.......or worse yet, It's bill!!:D
Gussy422
11-11-2007, 05:10 PM
I had a friend who was along this line, when they finally met it was....a chick with a dick....
Oh my God. Saw a video on youtube like that. Hysterical
Gussy422
11-11-2007, 05:11 PM
or worse yet, It's bill!!:D
Now I want you to listen to me. I did NOT have sexual relations with that woman, Hillary, ooops, I mean Ms. Lewinski. Oh hell, Hillary either. Can't look at her sober. Where was I??? .......
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