what if you found someone here.....

[cherokeered]

I was thinking of the Pina Colada song.....and was wondering...


what if you met someone online or through a dating site or a blind date...agreed to meet...and found out the other person was your significant other...or someone you both knew....


How would you handle that?

[scoobertina]

One of my favorite songs!


If it was my hubby, I would see a whole new side of him... but I know it wouldn't be...

If it was someone else I knew, provided it wasn't someone I was related to, I would be very happy.. because then that means that there is someone in my life who could be more than I ever expected..

[onceamarine]

I think I would love to find out it was my wife. That would mean we were both looking for more out eachother, and we may know how to bring that out of one another. If it was someone I knew, then I would crap my pants and beg her not to tell my wife.

[Pink4You]

I don't know, it could be nice if we could both laugh about it and learn from it. Maybe we could get on the site together. On the other hands, it could cause major problems and end what we have. The trust might be damaged depends on what was said as far as where we were going that evening. The idea is nice and the thought, but in all reality it wouldn't be good.

[Sunfiresix]

I would love for it to be my wife--that would mean she was in better shape and we could be back in business.

[TheTurtle]

After I recovered from my heart attack at finding out it was her, I think we would have a BLAST! It would mean such a major change in perspective...:lf :)

[RedVixen]

I was thinking of the Pina Colada song.....and was wondering...


what if you met someone online or through a dating site or a blind date...agreed to meet...and found out the other person was your significant other...


How would you handle that?


The chances of that happening are slim to nil, even if we did stumble online with each other, I know for a fact it would never get past 'oh you're online too'.....

[flamengo130]

The chances of that happening are slim to nil, even if we did stumble online with each other, I know for a fact it would never get past 'oh you're online too'.....

Have to agree to that, Red. Seems sometimes our lives are in exact opposites, while being parallel. (and that makes no sense at all)

[My_Secrets_Kept]

If someone I knew stumbled upon me on this site...

It wouldn't be my husband, unless of course someone that we both knew found me here and clued him in! (that would make for a very bad confrontation)

If it turned out that I was chatting with someone that we both knew, well it would all depend on exactly who the person was. It could be exciting, embarassing or could leave me scrambling! I could think of a couple of them that I wouldn't mind chatting with ;)

[madmod]

If it turned out that I was chatting with someone that we both knew, well it would all depend on exactly who the person was. It could be exciting, embarassing or could leave me scrambling! I could think of a couple of them that I wouldn't mind chatting with ;)

I was thinking about this too, and the idea could be quite thrilling (or potentially embarassing) .... I can think of a couple of friends I wouldn't mind running into on here (one in particular) .... ;)

[Sneaky]

I can't see it happening. But if it would it would be a pleasant suprise.


But I just can't see it.........

[snowflake]

Plead insanity with a touch of amnesia.........Just kidding.. I think that would definately be a wake up call for us, so I guess I would take the bull by the horns and deal with it.... :whee: Might be a good time to discuss the stranger fantasy with him, and see if he could act as a stranger...haha...

I was thinking of the Pina Colada song.....and was wondering...


what if you met someone online or through a dating site or a blind date...agreed to meet...and found out the other person was your significant other...or someone you both knew....


How would you handle that?

[deercrow]

Have to agree to that, Red. Seems sometimes our lives are in exact opposites, while being parallel. (and that makes no sense at all)
But they say oppitsits atrack but to find one who is almost like you is devine.....

[UltimateNaneki]

That would be a surprize that would excite me...but I would never go back to him. Those feelings are closed and that night would show him we are done!

[deercrow]

Have to agree to that, Red. Seems sometimes our lives are in exact opposites, while being parallel. (and that makes no sense at all)
I agree and some of makes fools of ourselves thinking there is...how ironic is that..one believes while the other don't..but being honest with that person and being up front would be the way to go, not sweeping it under the rug

[mrdiscreet]

The someone we both knew could be really exciting, but with lots of proceed with caution! I've definitely had some fantasies about a couple of my wife's friends

[Madison-Mike]

The someone we both knew could be really exciting, but with lots of proceed with caution! I've definitely had some fantasies about a couple of my wife's friends

I agree, but my fantasies aren't limited to her friends. I believe that after getting to know that someone on this site, the typical concerns of being discovered would be vanquished and a potentially rewarding (and convenient) experience could easily ensue.

[jeffpilot]

If it was someone I knew, then I would crap my pants and beg her not to tell my wife.LOL!!! :lmao

Said like a TRUE husband. I'm right there with you brother...

[duanehofner]

I'd have the last reason I needed for filing the divorce papers

[OICurready4me]

I know it is impossible for it to be my wife. She can't even turn a computer on. As far as someone we both knew, she only has one friend, and believe it or not, I honestly think that if her friend wanted to fuck me, she would allow it, for some odd reason. I met her for the first time when we were camping a few weeks ago and her friend kept asking her over the next week what I thought of her, for whatever reason. As far as other people we both know, they would all be friends of mine due to her lack of friends so it would be hush hush I'm sure.

[cherokeered]

I would be surprised....but then, not sure I would care

[Wil]

oddly, I don't think I want to find someone from...could ruin the whole thing for me...

[p.a]

I was thinking of the Pina Colada song.....and was wondering...


what if you met someone online or through a dating site or a blind date...agreed to meet...and found out the other person was your significant other...or someone you both knew....


How would you handle that?


I personally would be exhilarated. Reason being: My wife and I use to be swingers until Menopause visited her 6 years ago. I know it affects everyone different and I'm afraid it impacted her negatively. So for 6 long years there has been no nuuky. My wife showing up for a blind date would at least turn me on to the possibility that maybe the fire hasn't gone out completely even though it may have between she and I. I would be happy for her.

[boomer3]

I think I would run. LOL

[TheTurtle]

I personally would be exhilarated. Reason being: My wife and I use to be swingers until Menopause visited her 6 years ago. I know it affects everyone different and I'm afraid it impacted her negatively. So for 6 long years there has been no nuuky. My wife showing up for a blind date would at least turn me on to the possibility that maybe the fire hasn't gone out completely even though it may have between she and I. I would be happy for her.


I always thought it was "nooky"...

[PlayfulMale69]

if it were my wife, I would be happier than a pig in slop!!! We are good friends and agree with most everything but we are sure on a different libido clock *sigh*

I would like to make love several times a day and she would like to make love serveral tiems a year.

[IMaLady]

I would freak out.

[TheTurtle]

As I said earlier: if it was my wife, I would be very surprised. If it was someone I knew, I would be very excited.

[p.a]

I always thought it was "nooky"...

Your correct: thank you for the correction.:thankyou:

[p.a]

if it were my wife, I would be happier than a pig in slop!!! We are good friends and agree with most everything but we are sure on a different libido clock *sigh*

I would like to make love several times a day and she would like to make love serveral tiems a year.
LMAO At least your getting it a few times a year. Try not getting any in 6 years LOL:sex

[Bama River Man]

Either way it would call for some deep discussion.

[Postman]

I would............Hmmmmmmm? I don't know..........Guess we will cross that bridge when we get to it.

[danny115]

Someone we both knew?...depends who it is. Her? I WISH she would do something to try and meet someone else.

[unctarheel_32]

I really dont know how I would react

[Papa Chubby]

If it was my wife, I would be VERY shocked.

If it was a friend, I guess I would ask, what should we do? And hope it would be more then talk, if it was a couple of gal friends I know.

[lilolekimba67(f)]

I dont see it happening

[Pebbles]

I don't see it happening here..for me! Didn't really expect anything..but having some fun and flirting.

[a_hungm_houston]

hello snowflake what part of tx I am in houston

[son38ny]

We would lie to each other. Would claim we knew the screen name and was just seeing if the other one would respond

[tnl82]

If it was wife, I would be shocked but think it would open a new world.

[pointofnoreturn]

I would be shocked if it was my hubby.....He is so not this type of flirter....If it was someone I knew????It would depend on who it was.....

[SunnyD]

Too many variables and I am kind of thorough person so between the photo exchange and numerous conversations I am sure I would have recognized the person. I don't even talk to anything, but females from my state so no worry there.

[scoobertina]

Chances are slim that my husband and I would fall into that.. so if it turned out to be someone I knew I think I would be happy about it... it could turn out to benefit our friendship... but I don't see it happening... sorry..

[trausersnake]

The broken pieces that define my heart would find a way to break even more, very painfully. She would not want to make love to me, but look for another? Devastating blow that i would not recover from.

[cherokeered]

Too many variables and I am kind of thorough person so between the photo exchange and numerous conversations I am sure I would have recognized the person. I don't even talk to anything, but females from my state so no worry there.


you make me worried....you assume that the pics you would get would be of that person....until u meet in person or live on a cam...I would never assume anything.....including the gender

of course someone very dangerous would be able to hire someone for the cam session

[Krystal]

It wouldn't be my husband...he forgot how to flirt years ago....if he even ever knew in the first place.

If it was someone else unrelated to me....then I might just have a new friend, lol.

[marriedwomanchaser]

I would be surprised....but then, not sure I would care\

Certainly hit the nail square on the head there, hell I would be happy, maybe she would run off with him

[Ally]

I'd say "oh crap!"

[OnceAKing]

If it was someone I knew I'd say "well, we're here let's make the best of it and enjoy the moment."

and, if it was my SO, I'd just lay it on the line and confess...something like, "Ah Ha,,,I knew you was screwing around on me, I set a trap for ya and I caught ya!"

[navigater]

The reaction on my face would be priceless and I would be speachless...Then it may open up a whole other world for us.

[Frenchie_lady]

The broken pieces that define my heart would find a way to break even more, very painfully. She would not want to make love to me, but look for another? Devastating blow that i would not recover from.

I would feel hurt and angry for the same reason. Well, its that he doesn't want to, more like he will not initiate at all and wait for me. A situation i just can't deal with anymore.

So if it was him, i would probably put an end to our marriage.

If it was someone we both knew it would be weird. I'm not sure how men respond to that. Would you guys tell your friend his wife is out there looking for someone else? Sincerely, i don't know. When you consider evern his family understands all the harship our marriage is and they support me in whatever decision i might end up taking...

I think that eitherway, it would be a big deception. Send me an old bf or fuckfriend though, and it might be the time of my life!

[Lacey]

I was thinking of the Pina Colada song.....and was wondering...


what if you met someone online or through a dating site or a blind date...agreed to meet...and found out the other person was your significant other...or someone you both knew....


How would you handle that?




Knowing me..........I'd start laughing......What can you do.......you're both busted!

[softrosepetal]

Well I know it wouldn't be my husband..........I don't have alot of friends so it would be shocking...

[muviebuff]

If it was someone we both knew it would be weird. I'm not sure how men respond to that. Would you guys tell your friend his wife is out there looking for someone else?



I would probably watch closely and try to decide if it was harmless or if she was really looking for something to happen. And if it sounded like she was looking for more than a little playtime on the computer, I would tell my friend. But then again, that might be because of my somewhat recent past.


Now as far as finding my ex on this site, I wouldn't be surprised at all, a little grossed out, but not suprised.

[AL(m)]

Would shock me.... and would see another side of her that I have lost touch with......... as for a friend..well would just talk about it... and have someone new that I can share things with.....:)

[Knottyhubby469]

like so many of you, I would be shocked out of my mind......cause she at least shows no sex drive for the last few years. If it was her, well she couldn't be anymore madder at me and visa versa. We would have a good talk. If it was a friend, well I would just play it cool, and if she was willing then yehaw I'm back in the saddle again.

[extrem125]

No chance on earth it could be my wife. Now if it was a friend, I think things would end up progressing very quickly.

[gspotlover]

My wife would never be on a site like this... She's not that interested in sex.

[fondew2004]

I was thinking of the Pina Colada song.....and was wondering...


what if you met someone online or through a dating site or a blind date...agreed to meet...and found out the other person was your significant other...or someone you both knew....


How would you handle that?

I think that would absolutely be a kick!
Think about it.....if it was your significant other, it would mean that both of you were a) dissatisfied, or b) looking for adventure.
Make something of it....sounds like fun to me!

[leggy4]

My husband would never go to a place where things were upfront!!!! He would go to a place where he could pretend he wasn't married probably..... Has tried before

[Easy]

would not mind if i found somebody inhere to have a good time with