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laineycali
02-15-2008, 03:15 AM
i think thats the delima of most failed marriages... no idea how to do what ur asked to do .. or what the person is asking for....... who knows....

Atrebla Rose
02-15-2008, 09:20 AM
Hello all. Im new to this place but like what i see so far. i will answer the thread question in a moment but would like to give a bit of background which bears heavily on it. when i married, my bride became my world. difficulties along the way showed me that i was not that to her but i have hoped for that to be the case vfor a lot of years now. well, bottom line, it isnt happening. probably never will. no, i know it never will. for a lot of reasons which may or may not be pulled from me eventually. but i cant leave. so all that is left now is that last ember of hope in finding what i mistakenly thought i married. so, to answer the question, i am looking for both friendship and a sex partner, so that, even just now and then, i might get to feel what i thought i would feel every day from my wife. thanks for listening

welcome to the site, relax have fun and I am sure you wil find what your looking for in time! Looking forward to chatting with you!

Huzyerdaddi
02-15-2008, 10:52 AM
I'm looking for friends to take to a fair.

Lacey
02-15-2008, 10:58 AM
I'm looking for friends to take to a fair.





If you're paying.............I'm your friend!!:wa:

private beaches
02-15-2008, 11:00 AM
Hello all. Im new to this place but like what i see so far. i will answer the thread question in a moment but would like to give a bit of background which bears heavily on it. when i married, my bride became my world. difficulties along the way showed me that i was not that to her but i have hoped for that to be the case vfor a lot of years now. well, bottom line, it isnt happening. probably never will. no, i know it never will. for a lot of reasons which may or may not be pulled from me eventually. but i cant leave. so all that is left now is that last ember of hope in finding what i mistakenly thought i married. so, to answer the question, i am looking for both friendship and a sex partner, so that, even just now and then, i might get to feel what i thought i would feel every day from my wife. thanks for listening

Welcome to the site Timber! I think you'll find the members here are very supportive of each other (as I have learned in the short time Ive been here) and have a way of making you feel right at home and that youre not the only one who feels the way you do and/or going through some the same challenges.
Hope you enjoy the site, Its alot of fun too.:)

Huzyerdaddi
02-15-2008, 11:01 AM
Excellent! First we'll ride some suspciously squeeking, rusty roller coasters that look like "transformers" which convert into trucks....then we'll play games where I spend $1,000 to win you a 3 inch tall, $2 teddy bear....then we'll get a corn dog, bite into them, feel something gritty and sandy as we chew....then we'll do my favorite part.....the farm animals! :D



If you're paying.............I'm your friend!!:wa:

thrilla18
02-15-2008, 12:16 PM
I came for friends, but an affair would be exciting & fun as long as it was drama free!

pointofnoreturn
02-15-2008, 08:34 PM
I'm looking for friends to take to a fair.did someone yell fire???????????????:D

Baterman
02-16-2008, 02:01 PM
I am married and intend on staying married but.........................I do want to find a married female for on-line fun...Someone who needs the secret passion, the excitment and someone to share those hot secrets with...I probably just talked too much but..you get the idea...

Sunfiresix
02-16-2008, 02:13 PM
Friends--the ones I have made here are very precious to me.

laineycali
02-16-2008, 04:52 PM
I wanna goooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!1:) :smdance:

fly
02-16-2008, 04:55 PM
I am married and intend on staying married but.........................I do want to find a married female for on-line fun...Someone who needs the secret passion, the excitment and someone to share those hot secrets with...I probably just talked too much but..you get the idea...

Yeah.............we GET the idea...........:whee:

Huzyerdaddi
02-16-2008, 04:57 PM
no silly....i said fayer not faar.



did someone yell fire???????????????:D

ethans_so_bad
02-16-2008, 04:57 PM
LOL! I was just thinkin' I'm not gonna be able to let that thread go much longer...





I am married and intend on staying married but.........................I do want to find a married female for on-line fun...Someone who needs the secret passion, the excitment and someone to share those hot secrets with...I probably just talked too much but..you get the idea...



Yeah.............we GET the idea...........:whee:

Huzyerdaddi
02-16-2008, 04:59 PM
Well, she's plowed the road for ya man....hijack away :55



LOL! I was just thinkin' I'm not gonna be able to let that thread go much longer...





[QUOTE=flybabe]

fly
02-16-2008, 04:59 PM
LOL! I was just thinkin' I'm not gonna be able to let that thread go much longer...





[QUOTE=flybabe]

I'm impressed at your patience already.............:D

fly
02-16-2008, 05:01 PM
Well, she's plowed the road for ya man....hijack away :55



[QUOTE=ethans_so_bad]LOL! I was just thinkin' I'm not gonna be able to let that thread go much longer...

WE AIN'T hijacking this thread...............:nu
On second thought......maybe we will.....just cuz.......
hey baby?
Wanna hijack a thread?

ethans_so_bad
02-16-2008, 05:03 PM
I've been distracted.........



[QUOTE=ethans_so_bad]LOL! I was just thinkin' I'm not gonna be able to let that thread go much longer...









I'm impressed at your patience already.............:D

ethans_so_bad
02-16-2008, 05:05 PM
Didn't they go to the trouble of appointing us a thread to stay in?



[QUOTE=Huzyerdaddi]Well, she's plowed the road for ya man....hijack away :55







WE AIN'T hijacking this thread...............:nu

On second thought......maybe we will.....just cuz.......
hey baby?
Wanna hijack a thread?

fly
02-16-2008, 05:07 PM
I've been distracted.........



[QUOTE=flybabe]

I KNOW.................:D

fly
02-16-2008, 05:07 PM
Didn't they go to the trouble of appointing us a thread to stay in?



[QUOTE=flybabe]

Since WHEN do I do what I'm told?????????

ethans_so_bad
02-16-2008, 05:15 PM
Since I'm the one that tells you too?:D



[QUOTE=ethans_so_bad]Didn't they go to the trouble of appointing us a thread to stay in?







Since WHEN do I do what I'm told?????????

cherokeered
02-16-2008, 05:36 PM
Hi-jackers huh???.....hmmmmmmm....:nu

fastnfurious
02-16-2008, 06:55 PM
This site is absolutely fabulous...not sure why I didn't find it until now. I'm looking for friends first I suppose. I'd like to find people with similar situations, needs, and issues I can talk to. If an affair develops I am open to it.

Timberwolf
02-18-2008, 12:07 PM
thanks laineycali, that is why i am here i guess, to chat with real people who start out with something other than "wanna see my...". Because this is serious for some of us. So, anyone who can help, I appreciate your feedback. And kaycee, your post hits a very deep and resonant chord here. seems we are both in a give-give relationship, with us doing both gives. after a while, it is a little like dying.

jstchttng0606
02-18-2008, 12:22 PM
I'd have to say first and foremost I am looking for friends. But, who knows where it will lead to. So I guess I'd have to say I am looking for both.

1hotrod
02-18-2008, 12:44 PM
I'm looking for friends I can chat or flirt with. I spend half my life in hotels alone with my laptop. Just looking for someone or one's to have fun with and make the time go by faster.

1hotrod
02-18-2008, 12:46 PM
Hey look I'm half way to premium!!!:D

MagicalBeing
02-18-2008, 01:08 PM
I am not 100% sure.. , but i think both...
life can be so complicated... please help me out...

OutofTownMan
02-18-2008, 02:06 PM
I am not sure either. I don't really want to cheat but my 2nd head can take over :whee: .

cherokeered
02-18-2008, 02:52 PM
I didn't come here looking for anything....except maybe to see what was out there.....what it was like.....and damn if i didn't get hit with a boomerang.....:D :kk

MexicanPirate
02-18-2008, 03:28 PM
I think a friendship (flirty) with someone of the opposite sex could sometimes lead to an affair. I guess you build up to it.....They go hand in hand. My concern would be attachments, but I guess if you play your cards right it should be ok. I'm here for whatever happens. One always leads to the other anyways.

Timberwolf
02-18-2008, 03:40 PM
welcome to the site, relax have fun and I am sure you wil find what your looking for in time! Looking forward to chatting with you!

Thank you for the welcome, Rose. Whether I find it or not, I cant go on this way, hoping she will magically change one day. Life goes on, I suppose. Likewise I look forward to chatting with you. Take care.

Timberwolf
02-18-2008, 03:44 PM
Welcome to the site Timber! I think you'll find the members here are very supportive of each other (as I have learned in the short time Ive been here) and have a way of making you feel right at home and that youre not the only one who feels the way you do and/or going through some the same challenges.
Hope you enjoy the site, Its alot of fun too.:)

Thanks for the welcome. I am already finding a level of support here that makes me want to stay. Sometimes it is not enough for an ear to listen but, also to UNDERSTAND by experience. Thank you once again Beaches.

stevelooking
02-18-2008, 04:17 PM
:lf i came here to check out this site and wouldn't you know it, i found a real woman who i can meet in person and not just on the internet. i am very excited. she is very nice.

Mamacita
02-19-2008, 06:35 PM
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Friends to start. People who can relate and people I can talk to who know and understand where I'm at! I'm just tired of being lonely...

COWGIRL69
02-19-2008, 06:37 PM
i am looking for non judgemental people to talk to

Big O
02-19-2008, 06:38 PM
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Friends to start. People who can relate and people I can talk to who know and understand where I'm at! I'm just tired of being lonely...

Welcome Mamacita. Hopefuly you will find a lot of friends here and you won't be lonely anymore.....

Big O :wa:

MCat
02-19-2008, 07:05 PM
i am looking for non judgemental people to talk to

You may want to hang with people your own age if you don't want to be judged. A lot of us here are old enough to be your parent.....I will naturally try to give you advice and tell you to stop whining, can't help it.

Personally I feel you don't belong on a site like this...you pretty much have nothing in common with most of us. We have lived longer...been married longer...had more life experience...and you are not interested in learning anything from us.

The few times I have seen you in the chatroom you do nothing but complain about your husband/boyfriend, whatever he is. Wait till you're married 25 years or more, then you might have something to complain about.

And Mods.....if you think I need to be scolded....have at it....

chopper
02-19-2008, 07:14 PM
Hallelujah!!!

househub
02-19-2008, 07:14 PM
i dont know you cowgirl, i hope you can find some friends

private beaches
02-19-2008, 07:27 PM
Friendship first, for me to develop a sense of trust in the person.

Nice
02-20-2008, 12:06 AM
friendship

Huzyerdaddi
02-20-2008, 12:12 AM
A fair. In fact I came from a fair...and they left town without me. I'm the guy who assmbles the rides.

Nice
02-20-2008, 12:14 AM
better than being one of the rides



A fair. In fact I came from a fair...and they left town without me. I'm the guy who assmbles the rides.

Huzyerdaddi
02-20-2008, 12:14 AM
Speak for yourself....i'd love to be a ride at a fair.



better than being one of the rides

Nice
02-20-2008, 12:16 AM
with that av...at least there won't be any line ups



Speak for yourself....i'd love to be a ride at a fair.

Huzyerdaddi
02-20-2008, 12:20 AM
Hey....there's more than meets the eye.



with that av...at least there won't be any line ups

IsThisIt@50?
02-20-2008, 12:51 AM
Looking for friends first, have found several, but most of all have discovered alot of people in similar situations like mine. When u are feeling as alone as I have, that is very reassuring to know u aren't nuts. Many of those I have met feel lonesome. Don't really want to cheat but I am very lonesome and needy. Ideally will resolve my issues at home before I do cross the line and cheat. Love to flirt and talk, in the meantime

Nice
02-20-2008, 12:53 AM
I have no doubt.
Hey....there's more than meets the eye.

kaycee727(m)
02-20-2008, 12:59 AM
I am looking for all that is missing . I hope you all will remind me exactly what that is. Because I have spent too much time without it

MexicanPirate
02-20-2008, 02:02 PM
I'm not sure what I'm looking for. Friends to start. People who can relate and people I can talk to who know and understand where I'm at! I'm just tired of being lonely...

Hello Mamacita. Well I'm here for the same and whatever it leads to.....friendship or??? I agree friends to start and I think we can all relate in one way or another. We all support each other. If you feel lonely send me a message. Good luck!:55

bigrred30
02-20-2008, 02:56 PM
hmmmm......right now i would say friendship, but i think i would want to eventually take it to an affair.

TIGUY
02-20-2008, 04:19 PM
Friendship....then I won't feel like I was stiffed...

1hotrod
02-20-2008, 04:33 PM
I'm just looking for some friends to have some flirting fun with.

stevelooking
02-20-2008, 04:44 PM
well i was just here having fun and this woman shows up, so now it looks like an affair will be happening, never thought i would do this, but i am very sexcited about her.

inquisitive
02-20-2008, 06:31 PM
when I first joined, I thought I was looking for an affair, but I think it dawned on me, all I really want is friends.

justme1968
02-21-2008, 07:17 AM
Friendship that could turn into more!

Biker49
02-21-2008, 08:06 AM
get together...have fun.....then go from there.....

VeryBlueEyes
02-21-2008, 09:36 AM
I'm not looking for an affair, unless you consider cyber sex an affair.

fourisit
02-21-2008, 11:02 AM
Looking for friendship. Not sure if I could ever have an affair but there are definitly people here who tempt me.

househub
02-21-2008, 11:05 AM
frindship for sure, and flirting on the side

stucknmarriage74(f)
02-21-2008, 11:10 AM
i know what i want and who i want it with oh yessss, never bargained for a feeling like this but im loving it

stevelooking
02-21-2008, 11:23 AM
well i am finding out here that it is fun to make new friends, but were those friendships are heading is going to be alot of fun, even on line. i am so excited.

stevelooking
02-21-2008, 03:24 PM
I came here looking for friendship - and I found alot of friends..
It is so easy to fall in love with someone just by talking to them.. you open up, they open up, you finally decide to meet, and then someone gets hurt.. it might be one of the members of the affair, a friend who finds out and gets upset by it, the spouses if they figure it out..


scoob has changed my thoughts on this.:knuddel:

MCat
02-21-2008, 08:23 PM
I needed some fiesty, flirty friends to help me be who I wanna be...

Bear
02-21-2008, 08:44 PM
The key is under the mat.

WandaRing
02-21-2008, 08:47 PM
friendship first---it's the trust thing

liguy4fun
02-22-2008, 10:23 AM
Looking for friendship. Not sure if I could ever have an affair but there are definitly people here who tempt me.

i agree

stevelooking
02-22-2008, 10:40 AM
I needed some fiesty, flirty friends to help me be who I wanna be...

who you wanna be cat:knuddel:

stevelooking
02-22-2008, 10:56 AM
I am looking for all that is missing . I hope you all will remind me exactly what that is. Because I have spent too much time without it

Can we have a clue?

Nice
02-22-2008, 11:03 AM
this is a difficult one to answer

1hotrod
02-22-2008, 11:12 AM
I just want to flirt with some new friends...and let nature take its course ;)

Biker49
02-22-2008, 05:44 PM
friends...if affair happens....then im ready for that too ....{ Wink }

crystal
02-22-2008, 05:58 PM
:kk I love my husband,but things are so predictable everyday same old thing. So I 'm looking for friends but we will not close any doors.

Rays
02-22-2008, 06:02 PM
:kk I love my husband,but things are so predictable everyday same old thing. So I 'm looking for friends but we will not close any doors.

Plenty of friends to be had here. Hopefully you will find lots of people in the same situation as you. Me included.

crystal
02-22-2008, 06:07 PM
I'm just excited to have some open peolpe to chat with.

Rays
02-22-2008, 06:24 PM
I'm just excited to have some open peolpe to chat with.

We are very open, most of us are honest, and most of us don't judge. I think you'll fit right in here.

crystal
02-22-2008, 06:33 PM
Thanks for the welcome. Between kids, marriage, and life sometimes you forget you deserve things too.

Zarret
02-22-2008, 06:50 PM
Thanks for the welcome. Between kids, marriage, and life sometimes you forget you deserve things too.

When you put so much of yourself into kids and the needs of others in you life it easy to forget about yourself. Sometimes you have to step back and remember who you were before the marriage and the kids and reintroduce yourself to YOU.

Biker49
02-22-2008, 07:21 PM
hey...my email ***removed personal contact info***

private beaches
02-22-2008, 08:45 PM
Thanks for the welcome. Between kids, marriage, and life sometimes you forget you deserve things too.

Welcome crystal to the website!
We have a good time and I know you'll enjoy yourself!:wa:

Dir
02-22-2008, 09:10 PM
I dont know anymore ...even if I am looking for something :D:D..i just like here there are a lot of nice people :na:na

James1981
02-23-2008, 12:01 AM
definitely looking for both, friendship first though, whats the point otherwise?

Sylar
02-23-2008, 12:03 AM
Always looking for a few good friends....:D...as for an affair..my heart belongs completely to another. ;)

darlingcherry
02-23-2008, 10:34 AM
I'm just looking for someone to talk to..

after that.. you never know.

TheTurtle
02-23-2008, 02:32 PM
I started out looking for an affair or an FB; but now I am just looking for someone I can gain as a close friend. Aint too much opportunity out here...

WandaRing
02-24-2008, 02:44 AM
I started out looking for an affair or an FB; but now I am just looking for someone I can gain as a close friend. Aint too much opportunity out here...
being here helps to at least make you take a second look :D I hope you find her turtle

sexbrex
02-24-2008, 08:37 AM
an affair :sex

TheTurtle
02-24-2008, 09:39 AM
being here helps to at least make you take a second look :D I hope you find her turtle

Oh, I don't know. I was just looking at this avatar of a woman in a sexy white lingerie outfit... I looked at her several times! :D I would love to get to know her as a friend... she seems really sweet. ;)

Zarret
02-24-2008, 01:00 PM
definitely looking for both, friendship first though, whats the point otherwise?

You, my dear are soooo right. :)

dcowboy09
02-24-2008, 01:15 PM
found alot of friends and hopefully find one to be both at some point

3ch17ro
02-24-2008, 01:41 PM
i think one can not have too many friends, i don't think i am at the point of an affair, flirting is very fun though

Llee
02-25-2008, 07:28 PM
Well I'm new here and I'm definately looking for friends though I admit the way my marriage has been it would be easy for me to fall into a affair with the right woman thats not necessarily what I'm here for, I like to flirt and have a good time and from what I've read it seems like that kind of place. And I do believe you can be friends with the opposite sex with out falling into a affair I have several women that are really good friends and have been for years, sure we joke around but have never had a affair with any of them!!

private beaches
02-25-2008, 07:37 PM
:wa: Welcome Llee! I hope you enjoy the fun, laughter, insight and wisdom this site's members have to offer each other. Keep posting so we get to know ya.

Zarret
02-25-2008, 07:38 PM
Well I'm new here and I'm definately looking for friends though I admit the way my marriage has been it would be easy for me to fall into a affair with the right woman thats not necessarily what I'm here for, I like to flirt and have a good time and from what I've read it seems like that kind of place. And I do believe you can be friends with the opposite sex with out falling into a affair I have several women that are really good friends and have been for years, sure we joke around but have never had a affair with any of them!!

Welcome!! You're right, this is a good place :wa:

Llee
02-25-2008, 07:55 PM
:wa: Welcome Llee! I hope you enjoy the fun, laughter, insight and wisdom this site's members have to offer each other. Keep posting so we get to know ya.

Thank you, I'll definately start posting more now that I have settled in, I see I need to learn a little about setting myself up here, like defaulting my fonts and for some reason it will not let me uncheck no avatar, is there a area to gett\ assistance?

Llee
02-25-2008, 07:57 PM
Welcome!! You're right, this is a good place :wa:

Thank you I'll definately be around more in the next couple of days

FLfire4u(m)
02-25-2008, 08:28 PM
I am first looking for a friend. Or friends. I certainly would not rule out something happening after that. Gotta find some one around me though first, GF where you at. Come here girl.

justhoping
02-25-2008, 11:04 PM
since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??





the vision of the goddess
i believe the sun has shined onthe right palce to crate such a soul
goodness:)

Sylar
02-25-2008, 11:05 PM
the vision of the goddess
i believe the sun has shined onthe right palce to crate such a soul
goodness:)

What an interesting first post! Welcome to the site, Goddess hunter...and don't worry, there are many, MANY wonderful ladies on this site...Good luck in your quest!

MCat
02-25-2008, 11:06 PM
Welcome just....please put your birthyear in your profile....

justhoping
02-25-2008, 11:08 PM
I came here looking for friendship - and I found alot of friends..
It is so easy to fall in love with someone just by talking to them.. you open up, they open up, you finally decide to meet, and then someone gets hurt.. it might be one of the members of the affair, a friend who finds out and gets upset by it, the spouses if they figure it out..

the ability to chat without the day to day drama
finding out the pleasant side of a person
the hopeful part of their visions and dreams

have you been hurt on here ?

WandaRing
02-25-2008, 11:09 PM
Oh, I don't know. I was just looking at this avatar of a woman in a sexy white lingerie outfit... I looked at her several times! :D I would love to get to know her as a friend... she seems really sweet. ;)
If I should bump into her, I'll pass it on to her... ;) :D :lmao

justhoping
02-25-2008, 11:11 PM
Welcome just....please put your birthyear in your profile....

56

and thinking the picture is grand shame there wasn t a mirro onthe other side as well

goodness

MCat
02-25-2008, 11:17 PM
56

and thinking the picture is grand shame there wasn t a mirro onthe other side as well

goodness

Thanks...lol....

You have to put the 1956 in your profile...I can' do it for you.

justhoping
02-25-2008, 11:26 PM
Thanks...lol....

You have to put the 1956 in your profile...I can' do it for you.

please do it for me

go ahead and guide me

i will appreciate the help

kaycee727(m)
02-26-2008, 03:56 AM
I am looking for the most beautiful ass here. bare them so us gentlemen slobs can judge.....hairy asses diqualified

justme1968
02-26-2008, 04:06 AM
Friendship and flirting alway come first , Then where ever it goes we will see

justhoping
02-26-2008, 09:11 AM
Pink, would you please put your date of birth in your profile? It's a requirement of all of our members.

pink are you still out heere and messaging ?

scoobertina
02-26-2008, 10:02 AM
well, friendships are better.. I want those.. affairs don't last... now a friend with benefits... I am thinking would be nice...

OutofTownMan
02-26-2008, 10:04 AM
we need to get to know eachother so that when I am somewhere between here and there we can take advantage of the benefits. :)

TheTurtle
02-26-2008, 10:47 AM
If I should bump into her, I'll pass it on to her... ;) :D :lmao

I wouldn't mind "bumping into her", myself, sweetie! :lf Care to dance? I have a pole for you, or I can even pole-ka! :D

Rays
02-26-2008, 11:05 AM
well, friendships are better.. I want those.. affairs don't last... now a friend with benefits... I am thinking would be nice...

Scooby, you know that we are friends. Now when does this benefits part start?

justme1968
02-26-2008, 05:39 PM
Originally Posted by scoobertina
well, friendships are better.. I want those.. affairs don't last... now a friend with benefits... I am thinking would be nice...


Im with you! Those Friends are great, but a friend with benefits would be nice!

WandaRing
02-26-2008, 05:42 PM
I wouldn't mind "bumping into her", myself, sweetie! :lf Care to dance? I have a pole for you, or I can even pole-ka! :D
Lmao...:o

stucknmarriage74(f)
02-26-2008, 06:46 PM
thought i was looking for friendship but now feeling like i need something more.....

scottd
02-26-2008, 07:01 PM
yea im thinking something more would be nice

private beaches
02-26-2008, 07:15 PM
:whee: I dont know what the heck I need anymore!

Llee
02-26-2008, 07:49 PM
:whee: I dont know what the heck I need anymore!

Questions is do you know what you want , you can always get what you need but it's a little harder to get what you want!!

Dir
02-26-2008, 08:19 PM
I wish i know what i am looking for :sc

r_e_b_e_l_i_c_i_o_u_s
02-26-2008, 08:28 PM
I'ts always nice to have friends... isin't it?

scottd
02-26-2008, 08:33 PM
and ones so close....I'ts always nice to have friends... isin't it?

r_e_b_e_l_i_c_i_o_u_s
02-26-2008, 08:59 PM
close?

flake68
02-26-2008, 09:09 PM
I wish i know what i am looking for :sc

Yeah, me too....................

justhoping
02-26-2008, 10:07 PM
well, friendships are better.. I want those.. affairs don't last... now a friend with benefits... I am thinking would be nice...

affairs ..well the short ones are like a drive thru.... but those that really do just offer diversion without the day to day drame can be intense and exceptionally releasing .... but the friendship has to exist for it to be what it should be

justhoping
02-26-2008, 10:10 PM
Welcome just....please put your birthyear in your profile....

for you i do have to go back and do that
you know how newbies are still learning
oh well i ll get back to it

i thought it was optional intially
but it did at least peak your interest
enough to ask

justhoping
02-26-2008, 10:18 PM
since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??




attractive ...witty ... quick
but sincere to a point ...but without drama

well presented visually and verbally

but FUN

and what are you looking for ??

TIGUY
02-26-2008, 11:52 PM
thought i was looking for friendship but now feeling like i need something more.....

Those feelings will usually put a smile on your face too....

IsThisIt@50?
02-27-2008, 01:40 AM
Definitely think Friends with Benefits best option!!

trucker200719
02-27-2008, 04:01 AM
i say a friend and if an affair happens great if not thats ok too then cause i still have made a friend or in this case friends

Sensual Woman
02-27-2008, 08:34 AM
Started out just looking to feel better about myself and try to get back the self-confidence I lost, then friendship, then started thinking about something more, and unexpectedly fell in love. But have made some valuable friends as well.

FLfire4u(m)
02-27-2008, 11:38 AM
I wish i know what i am looking for :sc

BUT......I thought you were looking for ME?:lmao

upstr84u
02-27-2008, 11:40 AM
not looking for an affair ever
only friends - sorry but hey its the truth

pointofnoreturn
02-27-2008, 05:49 PM
Friendships first....affairs to remember.....

yaser
02-27-2008, 05:51 PM
Friendships first....affairs to remember.....
Let us make it affair first and friendship to remember,Point.

upstr84u
02-27-2008, 05:52 PM
isn't she so dam sexy with her words

Biker49
02-27-2008, 06:06 PM
freinds...then?????....wink....

pointofnoreturn
02-27-2008, 06:06 PM
Let us make it affair first and friendship to remember,Point.Yaser we are already friends........:kk

Dir
02-27-2008, 08:18 PM
BUT......I thought you were looking for ME?:lmao Hummm thinking now guess.....maybe your right :D

duanehofner
02-28-2008, 05:23 AM
Started out just looking to feel better about myself and try to get back the self-confidence I lost, then friendship, then started thinking about something more, and unexpectedly fell in love. But have made some valuable friends as well.



You became my friend first and that is what I cherish most and what makes you so easy for me to love.

Sensual Woman
02-28-2008, 08:49 AM
You became my friend first and that is what I cherish most and what makes you so easy for me to love.

I love you too sweetheart

Postman
02-28-2008, 09:09 AM
I hope I'm looking for both.

Mamacita
02-29-2008, 07:29 PM
Friends to share with, maybe more

pointofnoreturn
03-01-2008, 08:53 PM
yes

kay1965
03-01-2008, 09:54 PM
I came here looking for friendship and have found that and then some .

dcowboy09
03-01-2008, 10:28 PM
I came here looking for friendship and have found that and then some .

some?;)

IsThisIt@50?
03-02-2008, 01:32 AM
friendship primarily but has opened my eyes to new options

Kevin7284
03-02-2008, 01:33 AM
friendship primarily but has opened my eyes to new options
what are you open to now?

wadeisin
03-02-2008, 01:48 AM
I am here for anything that happens in what way it does happen. If an affair happens cool, if I meet some cool people and add to my circle of friends, I am happy too. I will say that I kiss pretty well.

Zarret
03-02-2008, 08:20 AM
I am here for anything that happens in what way it does happen. If an affair happens cool, if I meet some cool people and add to my circle of friends, I am happy too. I will say that I kiss pretty well.

Welcome Wadeisin! I hope you find whatever makes you happy and I'm sure you'll like it here. You'll find a group of really nice people. But next time you say "I kiss pretty well" change it to I'm a great kisser and say it with confidence :wa:

private beaches
03-02-2008, 08:22 AM
I am here for anything that happens in what way it does happen. If an affair happens cool, if I meet some cool people and add to my circle of friends, I am happy too. I will say that I kiss pretty well.

Good morning Wadeisin! Welcome to M & F! As a newbie, I can attest to the wonderful people here, the fun and the support you'll find. :wa:

VeryBlueEyes
03-02-2008, 08:23 AM
actually, friendship is a bonus. looking for gratification.

FLfire4u(m)
03-02-2008, 02:21 PM
I am here for anything that happens in what way it does happen. If an affair happens cool, if I meet some cool people and add to my circle of friends, I am happy too. I will say that I kiss pretty well.

Welcome hope you find what your looking for. At the very least you will find some terrific people here to chat and have some fun with. Enjoyed chattin with ya last night.

MrCoy
03-07-2008, 04:49 AM
Wow I got to page 22 before I skipped to the end ... good thing too because it's WAY past my bed time.

I started posting here because I need to vent, but making friends is definitely a positive venture. I stated elsewhere that I've always longed for a deep connection with a woman, so that may always be in the back of my mind (hopefully not.)

I also wouldn't mind mending a few broken hearts and comforting a few lonely souls while I'm here. Yahoo me if nobody else is listening ;)

Lethe
03-07-2008, 07:02 AM
since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??





Friends from all over. And some flirty female friends......LOL

Timberwolf
03-07-2008, 10:57 PM
today im looking for a little acceptance and understanding. what a crap day!

breeced1129
03-08-2008, 02:04 AM
I am mainly looking for friendship, but if something else happens then we'll see.;)

SunnyD
03-08-2008, 03:11 AM
Friends and so far the ones I have met here are great!

salvatore_50
03-08-2008, 08:04 AM
I would love to find a married woman in sk Canada for some hot fun and friendship.

medic
03-08-2008, 08:16 AM
Friends of course.Have meet some great one here. Thank you all for the friendship.and to the select one, u know who u are, wow lost for words. You are a special person and I can only say Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

mower
03-08-2008, 08:31 AM
thought i was looking for friendship but now feeling like i need something more.....
can't agree more

yaser
03-08-2008, 09:16 AM
Yaser we are already friends........:kk
Let us make it affair then. :lf

bri_guy_mich
03-08-2008, 04:00 PM
I'm looking for friends, but I wouldn't object to more if it came along.

scoobertina
03-08-2008, 10:45 PM
I am just here for friendships.. I am getting out of a relationship and don't need to jump right into another... tried it.. he got scared... I must have been too much for him... LOL>....

sexytiger
03-08-2008, 10:50 PM
I am just here for friendships.. I am getting out of a relationship and don't need to jump right into another... tried it.. he got scared... I must have been too much for him... LOL>....


Never to much for me there Scoob... I am a big strong Tiger that loves a good friendship.. :kk

justme1968
03-09-2008, 09:34 AM
Give me a friend and then we will have sex. I believe its called friends with benefits . :sex

PlayfulMale69
03-11-2008, 01:48 AM
Give me a friend and then we will have sex. I believe its called friends with benefits . :sex

I like those kinds of benefits and better yet those kinds of friends!!! :kk

burrows
03-11-2008, 01:51 AM
i just want to make friend and learn how to get around on thid web site

OICurready4me
03-11-2008, 01:55 AM
I'm looking for some grey poupon....anybody got some?

PlayfulMale69
03-11-2008, 02:22 AM
i just want to make friend and learn how to get around on thid web site

Hi Burrows, welcome to the site. This place is great to meet new friends and welcome newcomers. Read, post, flirt, enjoy!

PlayfulMale69
03-11-2008, 02:23 AM
I'm looking for some grey poupon....anybody got some?

OIC, that commercial has always cracked me up! Hope you are doing well!

OICurready4me
03-11-2008, 02:25 AM
OIC, that commercial has always cracked me up! Hope you are doing well!

I'm doing much better, thanks...the flu's just about gone and soon the bronchitis should also be a thing of the past

PlayfulMale69
03-11-2008, 02:30 AM
I'm doing much better, thanks...the flu's just about gone and soon the bronchitis should also be a thing of the past

Sounds great! I have been out of pocket here as well. Work thinks that I need to live there!!

mikelo
03-11-2008, 03:38 AM
I this thing works for me
id like to meet a woman who understan a man who feels lonely
sometimes and that share the same feelings and needs
by the way im from LA

PlayfulMale69
03-11-2008, 03:46 AM
I this thing works for me
id like to meet a woman who understan a man who feels lonely
sometimes and that share the same feelings and needs
by the way im from LA

Welcome Mike, there are a lot of great women on this site. Post, read, flirt, and enjoy!

clevelandguy
03-11-2008, 11:02 PM
I would like both -- an affair with a married chick who was fun to hang out with and not psycho. She should be at least somewhat educated, nonsmoker, casual drinker, and laid back.

mikelo
03-12-2008, 03:03 AM
im up watever happens, affair, firenship
its a matter of not feeling so lonely
feeling the warmth of a woman

MNguyE
03-12-2008, 03:07 AM
Looking for good conversation first then......?

MNguyE
03-12-2008, 03:08 AM
Would love to meet a married woman in a similar situation as myself

UltimateNaneki
03-12-2008, 03:13 AM
Sorry a separated soon tobe divorced one here :)

mikelo
03-12-2008, 03:30 AM
The nicest thing is finding somebody in a similar situation in order not to push and not to be pushed

kay1965
03-12-2008, 03:42 AM
I came to m/f for friendship but I hope to have found more than friends , Time will tell I guess. But if friends is all that we can be well I can settle for that also.

mikelo
03-12-2008, 03:51 AM
it is all a matter of location and affinity

if we are close enough we could get to know
each other and maybe have more than just a frienship

UltimateNaneki
03-12-2008, 04:19 AM
I came here to chat with people...If I wanted to have more, I would have to go to a site that did not have married people. The last thing I want to go is split up a family, I did that to my marriage, its not fun or fair for the other person!
So friends, special friends and amazing friends are what I am looking for...Would you like to be one?? :)

mikelo
03-12-2008, 04:43 AM
im really trying to find somebody who can give me company

im not trying to harm anybody

Timberwolf
03-12-2008, 03:07 PM
intimate friendships with women who have maybe been through the same as I and can understand the baggage and pain that never really goes away... and understand that we walk a fine line between closeness and brick walls.

Zarret
03-12-2008, 09:00 PM
intimate friendships with women who have maybe been through the same as I and can understand the baggage and pain that never really goes away... and understand that we walk a fine line between closeness and brick walls.

There is a fine line between closeness and brick walls. When I look at my husband I still see all the things that upset me and left me lonely for all these years. We are close but not as husband and wife. I did put a wall between us a very long time ago. We don't go anywhere or do anything together. We co-exist. Sad sometimes....

Welcome BTW :)

alone2nyte
03-12-2008, 09:04 PM
Newbie here. I am looking to be excited and tempted. How far I actually go is still uncertain.

SunnyD
03-12-2008, 09:05 PM
Newbie here. I am looking to be excited and tempted. How far I actually go is still uncertain.

Welcome to the site!

PunkyBob
03-12-2008, 09:07 PM
Friendship now...first came here lookin' fer action...not disappointed, though...wouldn't trade it for nothin'...lots of very cool folks here...

...and sometimes they show me their boobies...

Zarret
03-12-2008, 09:12 PM
Newbie here. I am looking to be excited and tempted. How far I actually go is still uncertain.

Welcome alone :wa: Whatever you're looking for I'm sure you'll find it here. Or it will find you :)

tiger50
03-12-2008, 09:14 PM
Newbie here. I am looking to be excited and tempted. How far I actually go is still uncertain.

gday mate and welcome....:wa:

Zarret
03-12-2008, 09:21 PM
Tiger....stop flirting remember you don't do that :lmao

cherokeered
03-12-2008, 09:23 PM
Newbie here. I am looking to be excited and tempted. How far I actually go is still uncertain.

Welcome to the site....:wa:

tiger50
03-12-2008, 09:28 PM
Tiger....stop flirting remember you don't do that :lmao

shit no, i wud neva do such a thing...:D

alone2nyte
03-12-2008, 09:59 PM
Thanks Sunny, and by replying, forever...you'll always be my first :-)

Thanks

Sweetdreams069
03-12-2008, 10:01 PM
How about someone who wants what I want, whenever I figure out what that is.

Sylar
03-12-2008, 10:01 PM
I'm looking for a few good friends! :D

alone2nyte
03-12-2008, 10:02 PM
Thanks for the kind words and warm welcome.

CuriousOne
03-12-2008, 10:02 PM
intimate friendships with new ideas to try in my marriage.

alone2nyte
03-12-2008, 10:03 PM
so while you're my third post I'm your 17,777th...I think. LOL

I got me some catchin up to do. Thanks.

Sylar
03-12-2008, 10:03 PM
intimate friendships with new ideas to try in my marriage.

What an interesting definition! Kinda leaves a little ambiguity in there...lol

alone2nyte
03-12-2008, 10:03 PM
welcome curious one. New here myself. Good thoughts.

alone2nyte
03-12-2008, 10:05 PM
There's always an excitement with new...thanks for being a part of that.

MrCoy
03-12-2008, 10:23 PM
intimate friendships with new ideas to try in my marriage.

Sounds like a challenge ;)

Sparklineyez
03-12-2008, 10:58 PM
Friendship and hopefully that special connection first of all...

Thumpintwin
03-13-2008, 12:08 AM
I have no real expectations. I'm here to meet special people in a pressure free place and so far I've some very great people.....and a special one too.

sexytiger
03-13-2008, 12:14 AM
I am looking for friendship. I have made a few all ready. And have been wanderful.. thank-you all.

pagirl
03-13-2008, 12:15 AM
I am looking for friendship. I have made a few all ready. And have been wanderful.. thank-you all.

You make it easy you sexytiger you :kk

sexytiger
03-13-2008, 12:48 AM
thank-you PAgirl.. you are a great women.. a Sexy lady... love that butterfly.. and a great friend...

UltimateNaneki
03-13-2008, 12:59 AM
Well I'm looking for both...and well I have. And you are all great friends .:) thanks

yaser
03-13-2008, 01:35 AM
Affair with her...on the firm friendship.

SeaPhoenix(f)
03-13-2008, 03:25 AM
I don't have any expectations, but if a few good friendships come my way I believe my life will be better for them.

yaser
03-13-2008, 04:43 AM
I don't have any expectations, but if a few good friendships come my way I believe my life will be better for them.
What have tou got in your pocket,SeaPhoenix?

pointofnoreturn
03-14-2008, 06:04 PM
Came here for friendship. Found a lot more.....

househub
03-14-2008, 06:16 PM
friendship for sure, and the future is unknowable

kaycee727(m)
03-15-2008, 02:21 AM
Hey friendship is great but an online lover would be just as great

burrows
03-15-2008, 02:59 AM
i just want to chat with people to kill the free time i have on my hands from time to time

mower
03-15-2008, 08:16 AM
actually came here to meet others that might be going through the same type of issues that i am having, to meet new friends as I don't do very well with public, have made a lot of new friends and have found out that I am not the only person in the world that is having to start all over again

Zarret
03-15-2008, 11:05 AM
actually came here to meet others that might be going through the same type of issues that i am having, to meet new friends as I don't do very well with public, have made a lot of new friends and have found out that I am not the only person in the world that is having to start all over again

I'm with you on this babe. I wanted to meet people with similar situations (didn't realize there were so many) and make friends. I didn't consider anything beyond that or that it would be as much fun as it is. I'll let it go where ever it goes.

pagirl
03-15-2008, 11:31 AM
I wasn't looking for either but what I have found is a LOT of LOVE!
:hug:

:hug:

:hug:

:hug:

flake68
03-15-2008, 12:06 PM
One never knows what one may find......

Friendship...but who knows.......

Newenglandman
03-15-2008, 09:53 PM
Friendship is the most important thing..... So friends first...... anything else is gravy!!! :lf

Mer-man
03-15-2008, 10:26 PM
I came here to chat with people...If I wanted to have more, I would have to go to a site that did not have married people. The last thing I want to go is split up a family, I did that to my marriage, its not fun or fair for the other person!
So friends, special friends and amazing friends are what I am looking for...Would you like to be one?? :)

I'd like to be. Sorry we haven't had much chance to chat recently but look forward to another soon.

stucknmarriage74(f)
03-15-2008, 10:35 PM
I want my cake and eat it oo

Crawfish
03-16-2008, 05:15 AM
I don't have any cake but I do have a hotdog for ya!

yaser
03-16-2008, 05:47 AM
I wasn't looking for either but what I have found is a LOT of LOVE!
:hug:

:hug:

:hug:

:hug:
Or you may not have been aware of what you needed.Sometimes we find something and be aware of that was we needed.
I may tell you Pagirl that I have found a gold mine ore.Everyday I have more gold...CAN YOU BELIEVE IT..?

Mer-man
03-16-2008, 01:34 PM
I want my cake and eat it oo

What's the point of having cake if you're just going to let it go stale? Now that would be a waste. Get that cake and eat it:knuddel:

1hotrod
03-16-2008, 03:04 PM
Just some friends to help me make it through another day!

Zarret
03-16-2008, 08:06 PM
Just some friends to help me make it through another day!

You are in the right place hon :knuddel:

1hotrod
03-16-2008, 08:40 PM
You are in the right place hon :knuddel:

I know I am Thanks

TIGUY
03-16-2008, 09:06 PM
Can't do affairs.....

Augustus
03-16-2008, 09:19 PM
I can......

Affairs are just friendships with sex added to the mix......

Augustus

manofiron
03-17-2008, 12:24 AM
looking for nothing particular. Friends or affair but I'm not picky which. Just some good people to know.

SirFox
03-17-2008, 11:02 AM
You are in the right place hon :knuddel:

And so are you ZARRET...in the right place.:knuddel:

Zarret
03-17-2008, 01:12 PM
And so are you ZARRET...in the right place.:knuddel:

I think where ever you are SirFox is the right place.:kk

SirFox
03-17-2008, 01:18 PM
I think where ever you are SirFox is the right place.:kk

Do you believe that it takes two to make music together?:wa:

Zarret
03-17-2008, 01:23 PM
Do you believe that it takes two to make music together?:wa:

I believe that you can make music alone but it sounds sweeter together :knuddel:

SirFox
03-17-2008, 02:20 PM
I believe that you can make music alone but it sounds sweeter together :knuddel:

Absolutely and more interesting as well. :lf

MrCoy
03-17-2008, 02:25 PM
Right now I'm waiting for a beautiful, perfect woman to suddenly notice that I am all she ever wants.

...

... any moment now...

sweet
03-17-2008, 02:31 PM
I'm not really looking for anything, really.
I just like to have someone to talk to, confide in, and laugh with.

SirFox
03-17-2008, 02:37 PM
I'm not really looking for anything, really.
I just like to have someone to talk to, confide in, and laugh with.

In spite of that SWEET, your avatar makes me think of other things when "talking" with you.
I know what you mean. It's like after making love what do we talk about..

MrCoy
03-17-2008, 02:44 PM
I'm not really looking for anything, really.
I just like to have someone to talk to, confide in, and laugh with.


There she is ... Miss America!

Talk, confide, and laugh away :wa:;):D

Bear
03-17-2008, 06:50 PM
You can leave your hat on....:q

pointofnoreturn
03-17-2008, 07:34 PM
yes to both

Sneaky
03-17-2008, 08:18 PM
I wasn't looking for either. But was suprised. ;)

MrCoy
03-17-2008, 08:27 PM
I wasn't looking for either. But was suprised. ;)

Do kiss and tell!

Sneaky
03-17-2008, 08:37 PM
Do kiss and tell!

Oh, my stuff is pretty much all out there for all to see!:D

I mean....er.....not THAT stuff.........um.......nevermind. :o

WandaRing
03-17-2008, 08:43 PM
I thought I was here for friendship but well..who knows? ;)