Are you looking for friendship or an affair?

[Jay_dad01]

i thought so - had to write it down - i don't have to many good ones :)

[Gilliganstranded]

Friendship is ok, right now I've become rather content and am happy with my life. So if something happens it will come as a surprise.

[pointofnoreturn]

yes I am...

[laineycali]

I am honestly looking for a friend, someone to confide in. I would like find someone to listen but I would also like to listen to them. I am not looking for a one sided relationship. There is apart of me that has been very badly hurt and damaged, I would like to be able to heal and go on with my life


i feel ya hun!!...been there...hope u find ur way thru ...enjoying the moment helps ..and places like this...:)

[tyger river]

Well looking at gas prices this morning, and looking at the distance between most of us, it looks like it's gonna have to be friends. I can't AFFORD an affair, LOL

[AL(m)]

Hmm i can be both.......:)

yes I am...

[laineycali]

Well looking at gas prices this morning, and looking at the distance between most of us, it looks like it's gonna have to be friends. I can't AFFORD an affair, LOL

sigh:dd

[LuckyJest]

...of like mind, situation, and desire...

[dicksr4chicks]

how about a friendly affair? just a thought :)
could not have said it better

[scoobertina]

friendship only..

I tried to get close to a few men here at the site but they never stuck.. I was willing to play but they all moved on to something or someone else... kind of makes a girl think there is something wrong with her... but ...

I have a few friends here and I am happy with it.. men and women... and I am enjoyin it more here now even more...

[intpj]

I tried to get close to a few men here at the site but they never stuck.. I was willing to play but they all moved on to something or someone else... kind of makes a girl think there is something wrong with her... but ...


Interesting, makes one wonder, LOL

[scoobertina]

Interesting, makes one wonder, LOL

let me tell you... I do wonder.. all the time.. heck, I think I am pretty good in the cyber sack... lmao....:ok

[intpj]

let me tell you... I do wonder.. all the time.. heck, I think I am pretty good in the cyber sack... lmao....:ok

LOL, most likely they were looking for more than a cyber sack ..

[scoobertina]

LOL, most likely they were looking for more than a cyber sack ..

well... I wasn't looking for that with any of them at first.. I wanted friendships... and now I don't let it go any further... I respect myself too much for that...

[Gilliganstranded]

well... I wasn't looking for that with any of them at first.. I wanted friendships... and now I don't let it go any further... I respect myself too much for that...

So you are operating under the premise not that this is a place strictly for cyberfriends I take it.

[scoobertina]

So you are operating under the premise not that this is a place strictly for cyberfriends I take it.

the friends I make here are friends I hope to have for life... some have been friends before the site and others will be friends for many, many years... and I have met a few people from here and I hope to meet many more.. making this not just for cyberfriends but for real long lasting true friends...

[Gilliganstranded]

the friends I make here are friends I hope to have for life... some have been friends before the site and others will be friends for many, many years... and I have met a few people from here and I hope to meet many more.. making this not just for cyberfriends but for real long lasting true friends...

That sounds really neat. I've found it is often not hard to make cyberfriend but seems hard to keep them. Without taking it into the real world which some prefer not to do I'm not sure if it is possible to have a real friendship. Yet, it seems easier to meet and talk to people on the net than it is in the real world.

[scoobertina]

That sounds really neat. I've found it is often not hard to make cyberfriend but seems hard to keep them. Without taking it into the real world which some prefer not to do I'm not sure if it is possible to have a real friendship. Yet, it seems easier to meet and talk to people on the net than it is in the real world.

I know that not all the friends I have made here will last... but I also know that some are so strong there is no way it can not last.. and it is soooo much easier to talk in the cyber world than it is in real life..

[Gilliganstranded]

I know that not all the friends I have made here will last... but I also know that some are so strong there is no way it can not last.. and it is soooo much easier to talk in the cyber world than it is in real life..

These strong friends, would some of them be those who you've never seen off the net or has it taken both cyber and real world to make real strong friends?

[scoobertina]

These strong friends, would some of them be those who you've never seen off the net or has it taken both cyber and real world to make real strong friends?


some I have never met in person... one in particular is Sensual Woman.. she will be my friend for life... whether we meet or not.. and I have a male friend also from the site who I am sure will be my friend forever... also one I have never met... and there are no plans to ever meet him either...

[Gilliganstranded]

some I have never met in person... one in particular is Sensual Woman.. she will be my friend for life... whether we meet or not.. and I have a male friend also from the site who I am sure will be my friend forever... also one I have never met... and there are no plans to ever meet him either...

How long have you been in contact with these friends? And a side note, I can't find my buddy list on the site for some reason, you know what could have happened?

[scoobertina]

How long have you been in contact with these friends? And a side note, I can't find my buddy list on the site for some reason, you know what could have happened?

I am not sure... report it on the thread penny posted.. but mine is there... did you look over on the left hand side of your screen at the bottom?

and SW and I have been friends almost since she joined the site... and the man and I have been friends for about 2 months now...

[Gilliganstranded]

I am not sure... report it on the thread penny posted.. but mine is there... did you look over on the left hand side of your screen at the bottom?

and SW and I have been friends almost since she joined the site... and the man and I have been friends for about 2 months now...


Being friends with you for 2 months seems like a give me. I don't think anyone would have to sweet being your friend or even worry about it for 2 years. Your just a peach of a girl and lot's of fun.

[Noflyzone]

I need a friend ... at least to talk with

[Gilliganstranded]

I need a friend ... at least to talk with

That's not hard, everyone is your friend here.

[ted4956]

I'm definitely looking for both. As much as I love my wife, I am looking for something different after all these years, a little excitement and spice.

[likesbuttons]

and all along i thought this was a pay as you go site......

you mean i didn't have to pay the $100 fee?....dang it....

[laineycali]

and all along i thought this was a pay as you go site......

you mean i didn't have to pay the $100 fee?....dang it....


well im sure if u want u can pay for dinner...that will work...:D

[athlon_man]

Initially i was looking for an affair.
No i am still looking for one, but would settle for friend(s). Can't have too many friends.

[computernt41]

you could say I am looking for both Friendship and an affair

[OnceAKing]

This morning I'd settle for some milk

[SirFox]

friendship only..

I tried to get close to a few men here at the site but they never stuck.. I was willing to play but they all moved on to something or someone else... kind of makes a girl think there is something wrong with her... but ...

I have a few friends here and I am happy with it.. men and women... and I am enjoyin it more here now even more...

Hummm... I guess that list does not include me...

[hootergirl]

right now i'm looking for friendship for now I was married for 18 yrs. I just want to take it one step at a time

[OnceAKing]

right now i'm looking for friendship for now I was married for 18 yrs. I just want to take it one step at a time

Welcome Hootergirl. you'll love M & F'ing I just know you will. And, I'm sure you'll find lots of that friendship stuff here too.
Have fun

OAK

[ttk73]

looking for friendship and an affair. We should develop a friendship before we become intimate.

[LuckyJest]

...for an intimate friendship.

[bk_mojo]

...for an intimate friendship.
lol
definitely both... you need the friendship to develop a sense of trust

[Tiglet]

How 'bout friends with benefits?

[bk_mojo]

How 'bout friends with benefits?
sounds good to me ;)

[Good_Lad]

How 'bout friends with benefits?


You in the market, Tig?

[jmsmith12345]

a very friendly affair

[Tiglet]

You in the market, Tig?
Well, one should never say never

[Krystal]

today.....a friend to talk to....good stimulating conversation....maybe a hot steamy affair.
tomorrow....who knows?

[coffee_4_2]

A mutual friend with mutual needs......

[anyotherjoe2]

i agree with Tig, a FWB's would be great, no on to the chat room...lol

[Nice]

Just being curious...is the American Benefit Plan similar to the Canadian Benefit Plan? Cause there is always expedia you know.

i agree with Tig, a FWB's would be great, no on to the chat room...lol

[PEBBLIEPOO]

Just friends for know don't know about later

[Jay_dad01]

what about friends and lovers :)

[ice_mann002]

Friends first, then see where it goes from there.

[Trouble69]

"what say what say what anything can happen"

anyone know that song?

[mark_66]

a friend that is my lover

[justhoping]

Which - the friendship or the affair?


i think both friendship is here or the affair

[mark_66]

ok so the answer is? lol

[navigater]

First and foremost I came here looking for friends. You can never have too many of those. If it leads to more than that then will just take it one day at a time.

[bert_burt2000]

Hi, I am new here. I love the stimulation of meeting people. It is such a contrast from my boring life. Even if there were no affair, it is nice to just meet people.

I might have an affair with the right person, but the logistics are complicated by the fact that my wife would wonder what I am up to if I wasn't around for a long time. But if there are any nice ladies in Indiana, let me know.

Dalebert

[mark_66]

yes

[Gilliganstranded]

Just friends for know don't know about later

My hunch is that your more like to go beyond friends if you are not looking for an affair. And you may find that friends are all you need.

[pointofnoreturn]

alwys need more of both....:D

[Gilliganstranded]

alwys need more of both....:D

In that case, a friend in need is a friend in deed (pun intended)

[BadenLink]

never ever get enough of both!

[Gilliganstranded]

Very healthy appetites around here to say the least.

[eddie in NJ]

I am just looking for someone who can make me smile - matters less to me as to why I am smiling...

Ed

[navigater]

alwys need more of both....:D
Couldnt agree more:ok

[ted4956]

always need more of both....:D

And with that attitude you are bound to have as many as you want :lf

[mark_66]

well for a change i might like to try sex and have that relationship then develop into a friendship lol

[OnceAKing]

well for a change i might like to try sex and have that relationship then develop into a friendship lol

There ya go Mark...now you're thinkin with your little head. lol


OAK

[anyotherjoe2]

an affair of friendship....lol theres staying on the wall...isnt that a fwb's.... hu

[Atrebla Rose]

a friend that is my lover

sounds wonderful!

[somemarriedguyinks]

mostly friendship..but I do travel

[1800Silver]

Friends,lovers...hey I'm game for whatever :) Would love to make a connection here

[mark_66]

no one ever has too many friends but one can have too many lovers. familarity in lovers makes for intense passion and a willing ness to explore

[Sweet_Redd]

Right now I'm looking for a friend. Maybe if we can become close enough friends, maybe one day, we can become lovers. If it happens, the guy would have to take his time and make long, sweet, passionate love to me.

[ohreally?]

I am very shy and it is difficult for me to open up to anyone. But I will know within the first 10 seconds what is going to happen.
Not really a choice to make, it is already decided.
Must be pheromones or something.

[mark_66]

well sweet redd the name of the game is to take as long as necessary to amke the connectio and then to expound upon that with slow, intense, heated lovemkaing

[kanis2008]

I've got a great marriage, so main thing i'm looking for is a friend. I LOVE the idea of exchanging sexy e-mail, MSN chat, or even Cam-chatting. (Clothes optional). Not looking for anything face to face.

[mark_66]

yes you do kanis tis why your in here hunting for a cyber partner lol

[Constance]

That is just a loaded question. I would say that I love attention and like to flirt. We all are here for one reason or another because of something we don't get at home. I can't say that I would have an affair, but I have not been faced with anyone who has caught my attention yet.

[kkindd420]

I am in Tennessee. I am married but a little guilty feeling about wanting to find someone besides my wife to stimulate me. I am trying to break the ice with someone that feels the same. Maybe someone to meet with to just massage each other and masturbate together. Hope someone feels the same....

[zobman]

I am looking for someone just like me who needs , very discreet, NSA, hot steamy SEX!

[Sweet_Redd]

well sweet redd the name of the game is to take as long as necessary to amke the connectio and then to expound upon that with slow, intense, heated lovemkaing
I wish someone would tell my hubby that, cuz he is the master of quickies.

[yaser]

That is just a loaded question. I would say that I love attention and like to flirt. We all are here for one reason or another because of something we don't get at home. I can't say that I would have an affair, but I have not been faced with anyone who has caught my attention yet.

Constance once you are here and open to others,sue you will meet..Welcome..

[yaser]

sounds wonderful!

Rose ,let us be friends..I love whites Roses..:sng

[SirFox]

I wish someone would tell my hubby that, cuz he is the master of quickies.

Just a suggestion: You might want to tell him that he is a fast lover. I cannot imagine anyone other than yourself to do that.....unless you are ready to have another woman or another man come into the relationship.

[OnceAKing]

Friendships of course!...Affairs can get nasty, I've heard.

[dicksr4chicks]

Come on let just be friends do you think you could rub this in a friendly sort of way

[Postalworker]

I am up for anything and everything:inlve--:kk--:hitit:--lol--You get the picture

[tropicaldan]

I am new and am here looking for both.

[SirFox]

I just need to get laid NOW.

[Jabbuk]

Can I have both?

[Atrebla Rose]

I just need to get laid NOW.

Not now BUT RIGHT NOW!!!!! :nu laid out is the closest I can come right now...but maybe later,,,,oh right you cant wait...LOL

[Wil]

friendship...this is no place for an affair...but, what is freindship...and affair without sex? What is sex...:sc

[anyotherjoe2]

hmm today,,,friendship, tonight, an affair, tomorrow, well lets see how tonight turns out...

[SirFox]

Not now BUT RIGHT NOW!!!!! :nu laid out is the closest I can come right now...but maybe later,,,,oh right you cant wait...LOL

Let me see how long that would be before.....you came here...16 hours and 30 minutes later, I could tentatively pick you up.....but you would first like to sleep the 8 hour time difference.

[bryan3636]

just looking and looking and looking

[SirFox]

just looking and looking and looking

Sometime, somewhere...you will have to touch....otherwsie your neck will get sore....

[Atrebla Rose]

Let me see how long that would be before.....you came here...16 hours and 30 minutes later, I could tentatively pick you up.....but you would first like to sleep the 8 hour time difference.

Sleep??? power naps are all that is required!!! I will get all the sleep I need when I am dead,,,got to play! to much to do first! Next flight leaves when?

[Atrebla Rose]

just looking and looking and looking

Need a good pair of glasses I think....:sc

[SirFox]

Sleep??? power naps are all that is required!!! I will get all the sleep I need when I am dead,,,got to play! to much to do first! Next flight leaves when?

Calgary Right? It left 10 minutes ago! :sry

[Atrebla Rose]

Calgary Right? It left 10 minutes ago! :sry

Story of my life,,,dollar short, day late.....hmmmmmm

[Goodfella]

Hummmmm, this is a hard one. I think the reason I started coming to this site was just for the pure fun of it, an escape for a few minutes I guess. In just a very short time, I can already tell there are some very nice folks here and have been long time posters on the site. I can tell some of your are really friends. I'm certainly not here to look for a hook up or an affair. If, after time, a friendship(s) evolves via this site and it was a mutual agreement to take it to another level, I would consider that (although, I don't look at it as having an affair for reasons I'll keep to myself for now but, I'm sure you'll figure it out after a while of reading my posts). Bottom line, without there being a connection, a friendship first and foremost, then it simply becomes a one night stand and, although a one night stand can be very exciting and sexually erotic, I'm just not into that anymore at this point in my life. Man, I'm being way to serious!!!

[LuckyJest]

just looking and looking and looking

Need a good pair of glasses I think....:sc

Rose Colored... is that what you mean?

[LuckyJest]

...looking for someone... WHERE ARE YOU?

[Lacey]

Where are you?

[sweet]

I have no idea what I'm looking for anymore....I think I've rolled myself into one giant ball of confusion.

[yaser]

I have no idea what I'm looking for anymore....I think I've rolled myself into one giant ball of confusion.
Sweet,hope you will be clearer..

[scoobertina]

I want a friendly affair... or an affair with a friend...

[househub]

there ya go scoob, couldnt say it any better

[shh]

friends...........

[nwohio]

hhhhhhhmmmmmm I guess I would say I would go with the flow don't expect an affair but expect friendship.

[Good_Lad]

I have no idea what I'm looking for anymore....I think I've rolled myself into one giant ball of confusion.


Let's see if we can't unroll you!

[Good_Lad]

friendship...this is no place for an affair...but, what is freindship...and affair without sex? What is sex...:sc


If you have to ask, maybe it's been too long! :D

[rubber2road]

well I suppose one can't really have an affair unless you are friends. Anyone have an affair with an enemy? I received a fortune cookie the other day that said "a friend is a present you give yourself." Could the same be said about an affair?

[pointofnoreturn]

Why yes I am.....looking...

[Goodfella]

Friendship for sure. Now, if that eventually become friendship with side benefits (you know, like a card at christmas)...well, that's all the much better! LOL

[mark_66]

is now too soon?

[rj1002]

Now is never too soon. Any ladies looking in Los Angeles?

[sterlingsilver]

Friendship - absolutely. That makes everything so much better. If more comes out of it, I suppose that can be even sweeter, but you may have other issues to deal with - and that can be tough. If it gets to that point, I guess I would rather be conflicted, or hurt, or torn, but it would be better than feeling nothing at all.

I travel a fair amount, to Chicago, Massachusetts, Columbus, or other places that look interesting. It would be great to have someone to hang out with on a regular basis...it's tough when you don't know a city and are looking for fun spots that aren't filled with college kids....

[TC]

More friends...friends with benefits is even better

[free2flyaway]

friends... and whatever comes next! :)

[spare_change]

friends... and whatever comes next! :)

.... usually me.

[Nomad(m)]

Still not sure yet, but I am getting closer to the answer I think

[Rays]

More friends...friends with benefits is even better

I hope you find what you're looking for. Since your looking I could always use another friend! Love the new avatar by the way!

[jus4fun01]

Someone to chat and flirt with during the day while my wife is at work.

So it would probably be friendship, but close friends. I hate using the word affair, or cheating.

[LuckyJest]

...looking for someone... WHERE ARE YOU?

Where are you?

...looking for her of course... ;)

[Lacey]

...looking for her of course... ;)



Well, where is she?

[Rays]

Well, where is she?

I just checked under my desk and she is not there.

[jmsmith12345]

I am looking for whatever comes my way, but I can be easily persuaded

[Lacey]

I just checked under my desk and she is not there.




She proably couldn't find it again!:yks

[LuckyJest]

Well, where is she?

All around me...in my dreams and visions...smiling and understanding...

If you know her Lacey, will you clue us in...I could use your help... :))):

[Lacey]

All around me...in my dreams and visions...smiling and understanding...

If you know her Lacey, will you clue us in...I could use your help... :))):



Trying to help.......I don't know......I wish I did..........lucky girl!

[LuckyJest]

I just checked under my desk and she is not there.

She proably couldn't find it again!:yks

You two just gave me my first belly laugh of the day...

[Rays]

She proably couldn't find it again!:yks

LMAO

[Rays]

All around me...in my dreams and visions...smiling and understanding...

If you know her Lacey, will you clue us in...I could use your help... :))):

Hope you find what you're looking for!

[Seraphtermath]

looking for people to shoot the shit with. Making new friends. Flirting. Having fun. Acting crazy. And Whatever happens, happens. You never know do ya?

[softrosepetal]

Looking for whatever comes my way but mostly friends to talk to.

[farmer69]

friendships and talk about lifes problems

[Constance]

friendships and talk about lifes problems

Oh farmer, I will talk to you anytime. You will always have good friends here. People here really care. If I am ever on, you talk to me anytime. :hug:

[Postman]

I guess I want Constance-41

[farmer69]

Oh farmer, I will talk to you anytime. You will always have good friends here. People here really care. If I am ever on, you talk to me anytime. :hug:

thank you and I will have to come and chat about things with you when we are on together

[tomcat3920]

hi i am irish love to chat with weman and make frinds

[Krystal]

Today, I'm looking for a little bit of both

[Postman]

Ok.........So I should pick you up about what time?
Today, I'm looking for a little bit of both

[Krystal]

Ok.........So I should pick you up about what time?

Well, seeing as how you live in Mr. Rogers Neighborhood, I'll meet you at Mr. McFeeley's house. :ok

[marriedwomanchaser]

Today, I'm looking for a little bit of both

Where can we meet

[tx_ladychaser]

Someone fun and sexy to chat and flirt with online, or someone local to meet with. whether it becomes sexual or is just someone to confide in, share things with, and have a good time, I'd be happy either way.

[funtimes999999]

Someone fun and sexy to chat and flirt with online, or someone local to meet with. whether it becomes sexual or is just someone to confide in, share things with, and have a good time, I'd be happy either way.

I'd have to agree with ladychaser, although, being in Alberta, Canada, I don't think there are too many locals on this site.

[yaser]

Depends upon who comes...

[kernelangus]

Answering the original question, affair, most definitely.Unfortunately, I'm one of those idiots that associates sex with intimacy. Hit-n-runs aren't very conducive to that... Although if the chemistry is right, who knows?Part of an affair is a comfort level - not just on a personal level but also a physical one. Being able to play without protection would be a big plus IMO, not to mention the knowledge of what pleases the other partner...

[mark_66]

to answer the original queston - both, one rarely exists without the other

[MarriedMatt]

To make friends and flirt but who knows what else that could lead into.

[infinite11566]

friends, affairs, anything and everything. lets just have fun.

[Constance]

What were my choices again? :satan:

[infinite11566]

for you, anything you want.

[Constance]

for you, anything you want.

Thank you, listen, I am going to whisper it in you ear, just what I want! :sc

[Sweetdreams069]

I'll take whatever comes next :sc

[Constance]

I'll take whatever comes next :sc

Oh thats the best part. Come here you! :sc

[pointofnoreturn]

Yes I am.....looking...

[infinite11566]

constance, you can whisper in my ear anytime.

[Sweetdreams069]

Oh thats the best part. Come here you! :sc

OH , I don't think I could resist you if you put it like that. :sng

[Constance]

constance, you can whisper in my ear anytime.

Are you sure you want to here? It's really bad. :satan:

[Soffie]

I am looking for friendship first for without that what good is the rest of it? At my age I have lived enough to know what I am looking for and I want to be friends first and if love is meant to be it will come later.

[Sweetdreams069]

How about a woman with a lot of money.....hehe, just kidding :D

[fredster123]

Freindship but you never know

[Soffie]

How about a woman with a lot of money.....hehe, just kidding :D

lol! Well that leaves me out! You are having sweetdreams now aren't you, hon?

[Constance]

OH , I don't think I could resist you if you put it like that. :sng


Well I did put it like that didn't I. :sc

[BrianSoCal]

I'm looking for a little of both I suppose. I'm not looking for an affair that's completely physical, it's so much better with someone you can be friends with also.

[Jules1]

I'm looking for companionship...someone to talk to and share secrets with. Hubby is overseas and not available for conversation in the evenings...thats when I get lonely.

[scoobertina]

I can't lie

I looking for a lover who won't drive me crazy..

If he happens to be a friend so much better...

[Marathon45]

Have met some nice people but not someone willing to meet

[Soffie]

I am looking for friendship first for without that what good is the rest of it? At my age I have lived enough to know what I am looking for and I want to be friends first and if love is meant to be it will come later.
I am quoting myself because I want to clearify something I said earlier.
I joined this site last month hoping to find someone to talk to with mutual interests (not just sex) so that I would not feel so lonely. If all you have is sex then, in the end, you have nothing. You have to have common ground and interests (hobbies, etc.). I also belong to a bird forum to converse with other people who have parrots. If there are any gentlemen out there with that common interest I would love to chat with you. I know some of you might think I am a prude (I am not) but there are times when you need to talk about/do something besides sex.
I hope you all have a great weekend and I do enjoy talking with everyone.:spbx:

[mikedc1030]

Hey all from North Carolina, haven't been in here in awhile and thought I would see if I could make some new friends

[mark_66]

Soffie is a parrot a kind of dog? lol if so i am your man lol

[Zarret]

Friendship or an affair. Well I hope I'm friends with the person I'm having the affair with......:)

[mark_66]

i agree with Zarret - lets all be friends so we can all have affairs together lol

[Zarret]

i agree with Zarret - lets all be friends so we can all have affairs together lol

Does you agreeing with me make us friends :lmao

[Soffie]

Soffie is a parrot a kind of dog? lol if so i am your man lol

Well, if you are referring to a bird-dog then maybe!:rofl1:

[scoobertina]

oh hell, I have decided I am not looking for friends or for an affair.. nope I am just looking for a good time.... sooooooo for a good time call...

[softrosepetal]

oh hell, I have decided I am not looking for friends or for an affair.. nope I am just looking for a good time.... sooooooo for a good time call...

You are definetly a woman after my own heart! lol

[likesbuttons]

oh hell, I have decided I am not looking for friends or for an affair.. nope I am just looking for a good time.... sooooooo for a good time call...


scoob, is that 1 800 babe?....lol...:sex

[yaser]

Friendship or an affair. Well I hope I'm friends with the person I'm having the affair with......:)

:sng

[gadzooks]

Came for an affair - any takers? :D

[kay1965]

deffinately friendship and someone to talk to , no serious relationships been there and hurts to bad so friendship always

[mark_66]

lol ok then Soffie its a match made in heaven lol

[WhiteKnight]

for good time call 1-800-you-eat-1-I-eat-one-2

[tnl82]

ahhhhhhhh yes

[Sweetdreams069]

deffinately friendship and someone to talk to , no serious relationships been there and hurts to bad so friendship always

I think that's a smart way to look at it. Once you've been there a few times kind of makes a lot of sense not to get too serious, but stay honest with the other person.

[wtd4200]

I'm just looking for a lot of fun

[trucker200719]

oh hell, I have decided I am not looking for friends or for an affair.. nope I am just looking for a good time.... sooooooo for a good time call...



well tina i have been calling and calling but i keep getting ur voice mail so wtf?.......lol

[Zarret]

Came for an affair - any takers? :D

Welcome to the site Gad....hope you find what you're looking for :wa:

[wtd4200]

Friendship would be the first thing.

[Constance]

oh hell, I have decided I am not looking for friends or for an affair.. nope I am just looking for a good time.... sooooooo for a good time call...


Scoob, I think you said it for us all. Sounds pretty good right now. But I don't want you to think that I am easy though. :lf

[Soffie]

lol ok then Soffie its a match made in heaven lol
You mean me and my bird-dog? Ah, Mark you say the sweetest things!:hug:

[oenoloire]

Looking for a good time, that's about it whatever package it comes in is ok, encounter or friendship...either one is fine by me.

[likesbuttons]

um a friend with benefits....but a friend...really....not just benefits...

[catch2001]

Probably looking for a bit of fun, but also to talk to others about issues of marriage and stuff.

[Orca08]

i am looking for lots and lots of fun on phone and cam. but also i enjoy getting to know people and chatting and making friends and kidding around. please, don't ever take me serious. not into the emotional part though. afraid i might slip up at home.
does that make sense?

[extrem125]

The problem with a friend with benies is the mental attraction could become to much. One of the two may become to attached to the other and ruin everything. The idea is good, but how many people have long term friends with benies and everything is still going good?

[trucker200719]

deffinately friendship and someone to talk to , no serious relationships been there and hurts to bad so friendship always

kay u said it the way i feel about it. i think friendships r more important then an affair would ever be...again thankyou

[SirFox]

i am looking for lots and lots of fun on phone and cam. but also i enjoy getting to know people and chatting and making friends and kidding around. please, don't ever take me serious. not into the emotional part though. afraid i might slip up at home.
does that make sense?

You have NO idea how much sense that makes...

[gadzooks]

Welcome to the site Gad....hope you find what you're looking for :wa:

Thanks Zarret - look forward to chatting with you.hg

[tigger1954]

Interested in a discrete 1-on-1 sexual relationship (I am married). Not in to drinking, drugs and am a nonsmoker. I enjoy long kisses and letting my lips and tongue travel your body. Let me taste you. I believe in equality in the bedroom. I can tell you what I like, just as you can tell me what you like. I am told I have penetrating blue eyes and look younger than I am. I am 50 (I consider that middle aged) and have a sense of humor. In other words, I would like an affair...but friendship would be nice too!

[NickJ99]

I always thought the proverbial "friend with benefits" category is interesting and fulfilling. I would be up for that if the chemistry is good and her and I have an understanding of circumstances. I think a big part of considering an affair/liason/hookup is feeling that you are appreciated and wanted. Sometimes the daily stuff of life causes us to narrow our perspective on who we are with. Not that we aren't commited to someone, but might need or want someone who wakes us up and makes us aware in many ways again. It's refreshing and stimulating to have a special "friend" to share intimacies of every kind.
Not that I've done any of this yet . . . wink-wink!

Myself. . . actually I'm looking for a concubine!

[SirFox]

I always thought the proverbial "friend with benefits" category is interesting and fulfilling. I would be up for that if the chemistry is good and her and I have an understanding of circumstances. I think a big part of considering an affair/liason/hookup is feeling that you are appreciated and wanted. Sometimes the daily stuff of life causes us to narrow our perspective on who we are with. Not that we aren't commited to someone, but might need or want someone who wakes us up and makes us aware in many ways again. It's refreshing and stimulating to have a special "friend" to share intimacies of every kind.
Not that I've done any of this yet . . . wink-wink!

Myself. . . actually I'm looking for a concubine!


And I am looking for a harem. :yks

[tyger river]

I don't know what I'm looking for, I'm just looking!!

[SirFox]

I don't know what I'm looking for, I'm just looking!!

There is absolutely nothing wrong "with looking"..just make sure that when the government is around, you are discrete, otherwise it could get you into some hot water.

[mike76239]

I think we all are looking for an affair ,other wise this is not the site for just friendships

[gspotlover]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??





I'm looking for someone to make me feel like a man again. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years, and she has no sexual appetite anymore. It's hard for me to deal with because I feel less of a man. It's tough not being wanted. :nopity

[MrHyde]

Not sure yet. Just kinda checking it all out...of course their may be someone that could make me have to decide.

[pointofnoreturn]

Yes I am looking...always looking....

[funinsocal]

I am always looking for some fun!

[oenoloire]

Yes I am looking...always looking....
What are you looking for? Anything I can help you find?

[funinsocal]

for some fun in the so cali sun! a nice looking lady to have fun with...!

[gspotlover]

:vs:Ok, Ok, you got me. I just want someone to "play with". I'm old, balding, fat, and have a tiny penis. Any takers?!!

[Sensual Woman]

I think we all are looking for an affair ,other wise this is not the site for just friendships

I disagree. There are some wonderful people here and I have made some wonderful friends here.

[Frenchie_lady]

Its mostly about friendship to me... mostly i said.

[tnl82]

Its mostly about friendship to me... mostly i said.


I agree. mostly :)

[trucker200719]

Its mostly about friendship to me... mostly i said.


the friendships r the most important thing.... and if an affair happens then thats a bonus....:sex

[Tiglet]

the friendships r the most important thing.... and if an affair happens then thats a bonus....:sex
Not necessarily!

[LuckyJest]

Not necessarily!


Was that a shy or playful comment Tig...? :sc

Your answer is intrigueing either way...

[gadzooks]

Yes I am looking...always looking....

I may have something here you've been looking for ...

[MrHyde]

I just want a little excitment......I need to learn how to pace myself in here....but I definitely want excitment...what that means as far as friendship or affair...I don't know.

[Checkmate]

think i'm just looking for people of like mind, if something starts to happen, then i'll cross that bridge when i come to it... but i don't think i would be here if i weren't already predispositioned to going down that road.

[Itshardon-theroad]

I came here for friendship and found it. I didn't expect to fall in love with anyone here, but did. That led to some wonderful things and some terrible ones as well, including something I am going to have a hard time forgiving myself for. All I have to say is be careful what you wish for. If you are wishing and hoping for an affair, be prepared to accept everything that comes with it.

[Fwd40s]

Definitely friendship and other fun is a maybe.

[MeanGuy]

i'd say im looking for friends who'd add some fun for my life,i can reward them with kisses and free body massage if they're really good ;P but yeah.. friends are hard to find these days

[Intensive]

I am looking for friendship, sex with my wife is great (even after 19 years), but the rest is maybe not so great. It would be really awesome to have friendships with other woman so I may see what I am possibly missing out on.

[scoobertina]

I am looking for friendship, sex with my wife is great (even after 19 years), but the rest is maybe not so great. It would be really awesome to have friendships with other woman so I may see what I am possibly missing out on.


Good luck intensive and welcome to the site. I think you might make a few lady friends here...

[gdg]

I am looking for friendship, sex with my wife is great (even after 19 years), but the rest is maybe not so great. It would be really awesome to have friendships with other woman so I may see what I am possibly missing out on.

This is a wonderful place to make friends, good luck.

[softrosepetal]

I am looking for friendship, sex with my wife is great (even after 19 years), but the rest is maybe not so great. It would be really awesome to have friendships with other woman so I may see what I am possibly missing out on.
Welcome to the site Intensive. Hope you find what you are looking for

[catmom]

don't know why I'm here....hoping to find out - but I do love my husband and when we have sex it's great....but after 27 years - i don't know....just something's missing

[rock_star2008]

I'm definitely looking for friendship. My wife and I are great together.

[pointofnoreturn]

yes and yes

[navigater]

don't know why I'm here....hoping to find out - but I do love my husband and when we have sex it's great....but after 27 years - i don't know....just something's missing
Welcome to the site and enjoy your stay here..

[clifton54]

I'm looking for companionship and friendship. If more comes of that who knows. Really just need someone that "seems" interested in me since the wife doesn't seem to be lately.

[yaser]

Any..

[hikyuu]

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[krtronics]

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[kifaru]

Just looking for friends :)
People with open minds :)

[bfstep]

I am of course looking for friends, but definitely hoping to find someone who will talk to me and show me a little affection, been missing in my marriage, so I guess I am hoping for an affair. Is this wrong? Am I in the wrong place?

BF

[PokerAfterDark]

I'm a "living in the moment" sorta guy (for those of you that watch the Dog Whisperer, I guess that means I'm a dog), so I don't think I came here with any specific thing in mind. I was just shocked and happy to find an outlet for people like some/all of us.

[Checkmate]

I'm a "living in the moment" sorta guy (for those of you that watch the Dog Whisperer, I guess that means I'm a dog), so I don't think I came here with any specific thing in mind. I was just shocked and happy to find an outlet for people like some/all of us.

oh man, you opened yourself up!

the dog comment is... sigh... hope you are prepared for the backlash.

[PokerAfterDark]

Hmm - must have missed something. Not sure what's backlash worthy. It's one of Cesar Millan's mantras that "dogs live in the moment." That's not derogatory in any way. It is, in fact, also a very "Eastern" way of looking at the world - just ask any Zen Buddhist. =) It just so happens that, from a philosophical standpoint, it works for me! =D

[Alfalfa]

Can't say I am "Looking". If I meet the right person who shares a similar outlook, I'd be open to more.

[OntheDownLow]

I am looking for a spark there is a passion and intensity that is missing in my marriage right now. I would like to meet someone that shares my frustration and work through it together. I'm not looking to run away with someone, or break up someones marriage, it would just be nice to have someone to get through some of the grind together.

[LuckyJest]

...looking to find out...

[clifton54]

i'm just here to make friends....anything else is a bonus

[Icarus]

...

[hmanfun@yahoo.com]

I don't know why I'm here. Maybe it's a stupid idea. Let's chat and maybe you can tell me what I want.

[farmer69]

friendship and someone to talk with when cant talk to wife about things

[rockwallguy76]

I'm here looking for friends and fun. I wouldn't be oppossed to more if I found the right woman. Someone close though. Have to be in the Dallas area.