Are you looking for friendship or an affair?

[john1jones1]

I'm looking for a friend that I can have sex with. I love my wife, but the relationship is strictly platonic after almost 28 years. Yes, I've tried a million and one things to bring more kissing, touching, holding, closeness, romance, sexuality into our relationship. I've tried, and tried.

I want a friend, who is also my lover. I want all the things that go with it. I will never leave my wife, but I need so much more than I have with her. That's the plain truth.

[SirFox]

I'm looking for a friend that I can have sex with. I love my wife, but the relationship is strictly platonic after almost 28 years. Yes, I've tried a million and one things to bring more kissing, touching, holding, closeness, romance, sexuality into our relationship. I've tried, and tried.

I want a friend, who is also my lover. I want all the things that go with it. I will never leave my wife, but I need so much more than I have with her. That's the plain truth.

Just a question if you don't mind? You have been living with a lady for 28 years and nothing has happened in those 28 years? Are you serious?

[gina99]

dON'T DO OFFLINE AFFAIRS BUT FRIENDSHIP AND A NICE ONLINE RELATIONSHIP WOULD BE COOL.

[SirFox]

dON'T DO OFFLINE AFFAIRS BUT FRIENDSHIP AND A NICE ONLINE RELATIONSHIP WOULD BE COOL.

And what would that online relationship have to include for you to be happy?

[airborne soldier]

at this point i dont know what i am looking for.... every time i come home i start to train up to leave again.... can't start anything with that schedule

[mikeyroth]

I'm just looking. You never know what you might find if you look.

[newtothis2day]

Just looking for me, but i am taking a hard look...either direction this goes will be fine with me

[midnightcallerman]

I'd say that I am looking for friends. I'm not looking into hooking up but to find people that I can talk to and have a little fun with.

[SweetDreams362]

Friendship, Affair, or lover…mind boggling choices:whee: ...hell I want it all!!

I think we have to define affair on this one ..to me affair implies a long term relationship and for me i couldn’t think about being in a long term relationship without being friends with them…but if your talking oops my hormones got out of control the other night I don’t think it matters if you think of them as a friend or not….So Friendship for the sake of friendship… There are a lot of good people here that I already consider friends and you can never have enough friends!!

[kay1965]

I am looking for freindship ,I have to figure me out first before a Long term
Relationship.....Then if it happens ,That is great to.....

[john1jones1]

Just a question if you don't mind? You have been living with a lady for 28 years and nothing has happened in those 28 years? Are you serious?
No...... at the beginning of our marriage our relationship was more traditionally romantic/sexual... though the sexuality was very plain, repetitive, and infrequent. Over time, and due to various circumstances, the relationship has changed into an entirely platonic one. Things are very different now. My sexuality has not diminished in the slightest, in fact it's stronger than ever. I need more than what I'm getting at home. Does this answer your question?

[countrygent07]

Affairs, definitely - or at the least, a fling. I know, sounds selfish, but it's something I never did when younger. I figure it's now or never!

[countrygent07]

I'm looking for a friend that I can have sex with. I love my wife, but the relationship is strictly platonic after almost 28 years. Yes, I've tried a million and one things to bring more kissing, touching, holding, closeness, romance, sexuality into our relationship. I've tried, and tried.

I want a friend, who is also my lover. I want all the things that go with it. I will never leave my wife, but I need so much more than I have with her. That's the plain truth.

Well spoken! I've been fortunate to find such a friend. My married situation is the same as your. But when I'm with my friend - ZOWIE!

[airborne soldier]

After reading what I posted last it is hard to get something going, but I would like a friend that I can have an affair with. Someone that I can talk to who is in the same boat as me, married but not wanting to leave yet. Someone I can talk to and have great sex with but no commement. Is that to much to ask for?

[YoungstownArea]

Yes, thats about all I want. I want a good friend that plays nice, full of passion, and love to kiss and touch. An affair would be nice.

[MunkyBrain]

To quote the late Paul Newman, "I've never had a plan in my life." (Cool Hand Luke)

I have no idea of what I'm looking for here, or even if I'm actually looking. I've met a lot of nice people here and had a lot of fun being a smart ass and all that.

I guess I'm more looking for friendship with all you cool peeps, but..who knows?

[pointofnoreturn]

Friendship with affair....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[Newenglandman]

Friendship with affair....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

OR... Mmmmmmmmmm, an affair with friendship!!!! :sex

[Huzyerdaddi]

I'm looking for affair...I love cotton candy and ferris wheels and impossible-to-win games with huge stuffed animals for prizes

[ohsobadd]

I would be happy with a friend, anything after that would be a bonerus. True friends are hard enough to find, muchless one that wants to get naked with ya !

[phoenixguy11033]

Both actually. I am looking for an affair, but she would have to be my friend first.

[phoenixguy11033]

I want a friend, who is also my lover. I want all the things that go with it. I will never leave my wife, but I need so much more than I have with her. That's the plain truth.

[supersilvergun]

I would like to develop a friendship first...I am happily married but I am interested in an online relationship...eventually, who knows what it could lead to...:ok

[fever]

I'm looking for affair...I love cotton candy and ferris wheels and impossible-to-win games with huge stuffed animals for prizes

Dang...and I like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain...

[BretMaverick6345]

In the end isn't it all about the people you meet and the experiences you have?

[whynot4unme]

Dang...and I like pina coladas and getting caught in the rain...

LOL. How about a what we have, a open forum to meet people and see how we all turn out :sng

[MRsarcastic]

friends of course........don't have affairs...one nighters?

[WhiteCloud]

if I willing to have sex with a woman than she is already my friend..
Is there a rule you can not have sexy with your friend?.. even if there is I do not believe that...

maybe we should not try too hard to separate all the meanings of these term so sharp..

[gina99]

Friendship first..............of course.

[MRsarcastic]

if I willing to have sex with a woman than she is already my friend..
Is there a rule you can not have sexy with your friend?.. even if there is I do not believe that...

maybe we should not try too hard to separate all the meanings of these term so sharp..
NO RULE,,,THERE CALLED F--K BUDDIES......WHEN YOU NEED A FRIEND

[tw2008]

Someone I can talk to and trust - then some fun.

[softrosepetal]

Always looking for friends. Friends are there for you no matter what circumstances you are dealing with.

[bryan3636]

I'll take one from column A and then see about column B

[kay1965]

True Freinds, will always be there for you & with you no matter what !

[flagovertx]

friends first....... then who knows

[notonly4her]

friend - love chatting with new people

[Bedrock]

It's all about the relationship. Connection first. I would guess most of the people on here are missing the connection in their marriage, so they are looking elsewhere. That's their right as individuals. If there's a mutual desire to take it to another level, that's their right as well. Just make sure you step carefully and don't wound another carelessly in the process.

[celtichazel]

affair not on the list of things to do, but would welcome it with the right person and connection.

[beinbad69]

Obviously you need to dig a little deeper...he might be posting right in front of your very eyes :wa:

I think maybe just talking just puts our minds at ease about who we are and what we really need

I'm married but no sparks flying ya know so I feel ya

[laidbackdd]

I hope, to find a woman to have a mad passionate, wild sexy affaire with....

[laidbackdd]

I hope, to find a woman to have a mad passionate, wild sexy affaire with....

[laidbackdd]

Oh, BTW ladies, I'm in Chattanooga, TN Please feel free to IM, or drop me a line anytime to see if we hit it off. I hope to hear from you soon. Kay1965 are you near Chattanooga? If your interested...... I'll be here.

Take care,

Daniel

[learman3]

I have found frienship, it's a wonderful feeling for sure. I was unsure what I was going to find here, but I am sure glad I came.

[Alfalfa]

There is no reason you can't have both. Much rather be physical with a woman who is a friend. You can trust your friends.

[cherri]

I need a friend. I'm just not sure what it is I want. Being that I'm married, I'm not even sure I have any right to ask for what I really want.

[92115guy]

I'm just not sure what it is I want.

Lot's of us are in that same boat so you are definitely not alone there. And oh, we always have the right to ask for what it is we want.

james

[cherri]

I'm not sure I have the right to ask for time, attention, affection, and love from someone when I am already married. Ironic, when you are married you should have those basic things, when you don't, it leaves you limited on what you can ask of others, because in turn, there is only so much of yourself you can give them.

[92115guy]

I'm not sure I have the right to ask for time, attention, affection, and love from someone when I am already married. Ironic, when you are married you should have those basic things, when you don't, it leaves you limited on what you can ask of others, because in turn, there is only so much of yourself you can give them.

Those three things are basic needs that we all have. You absolutely have the right to ask for those...frankly those three things are the foundation of what makes this life really worthwhile.

james

[cherri]

Those three things are basic needs that we all have. You absolutely have the right to ask for those...frankly those three things are the foundation of what makes this life really worthwhile.

james

You are right. xoxoxo

[coug511]

Maybe, at first it is just being able to talk to someone with no expectations. Every relationship sort of ends up setting its own boundaries. Here, there are none and you can start over. Like being 16 and in puppy love for the first time

[coug511]

If you are honest, in your own mind, everyone wants something off the charts to happen to them, just once.

[YoungstownArea]

I need a friend. I'm just not sure what it is I want. Being that I'm married, I'm not even sure I have any right to ask for what I really want.

Ask and Ye Shall Receive. I am also married and looking for a connection. Hope you find what you need.

[manda1]

friends with benefits;)

[MomentOfPassion]

It is all about friendship. Anything that happens without that seems pretty empty. Being with someone is far more powerful if that "Moment" comes from something deeper than the superficial.

[crlscone]

both

[upstr84u]

welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
guess what
only friendship and close pals
that is it
my disclaimer is out there for all to read
but i will take a hand job if you are passing by
:) what a hand job does not actually count does it

[sassynsweet]

welllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
guess what
only friendship and close pals
that is it
my disclaimer is out there for all to read
but i will take a hand job if you are passing by
:) what a hand job does not actually count does it

so ... If we read between the lines, you're looking for a job? Manicurist, or perhaps a translator to sign language? *innocent look*

[upstr84u]

so ... If we read between the lines, you're looking for a job? Manicurist, or perhaps a translator to sign language? *innocent look*

as long as it is no slap shot from the point

[sassynsweet]

I didn't think either of those jobs involved slapping!

[upstr84u]

you would -- i know you would
just to hear me scream - and to point at me when i was rolling on the floor
see i am nice and inocent - and never deserved that type of abuse
but i liked the grin you gave me - ohhhhhhhhh baby

[YoungstownArea]

Both, I want it all

[SirFox]

Both, I want it all

There is a saying that if you reach for the stars, you may get halfway there.

[rj1002]

I've gone back and forth on this question so many times I've lost track. There are times I think just a friend, someone to talk to. There are times, I think an affair. But I don't really think I'd ever be interested in something that was just a physical affair. There would have to be a strong emotional connection as well. I think the word that I often think of is "lover". Does that make any sense?

[Krystal]

I've gone back and forth on this question so many times I've lost track. There are times I think just a friend, someone to talk to. There are times, I think an affair. But I don't really think I'd ever be interested in something that was just a physical affair. There would have to be a strong emotional connection as well. I think the word that I often think of is "lover". Does that make any sense?

Makes total sense to me. I want one of those too!

[BadenLink]

friends with benefits;)

I flip flop on this one as well, but right now I can always use some more friends! Manda, would you be my friend? :-)

[ricky7160]

An affair. Or a friend who wants to have an affair.

[littlelatinlady]

I'm not ruling anything out. In fact, I plan to do somthing not me sometime soon. Yeah, don't know what that is, but I'll know it when I feel it. Should be soon though.

[Bandit]

I've gone back and forth on this question so many times I've lost track. There are times I think just a friend, someone to talk to. There are times, I think an affair. But I don't really think I'd ever be interested in something that was just a physical affair. There would have to be a strong emotional connection as well. I think the word that I often think of is "lover". Does that make any sense?

Well said. Sometimes Hot Sex is on my mind, but more often lately I desire a Friend to talk with.

[forfun1969]

It is all about friendship. Anything that happens without that seems pretty empty. Being with someone is far more powerful if that "Moment" comes from something deeper than the superficial.

I agree with this one. :55

[scoobertina]

I am thinking about having an affair and then turning it into a friendship?

[MagicalBeing]

that is a great way to see it... I like it...

I am thinking about having an affair and then turning it into a friendship?

[forfun1969]

I am thinking about having an affair and then turning it into a friendship?

Bah, that all bass ackwards. Lemme know if it works :sg

[bluejay24]

I also am stuck in in the same old thing. I guess they call it the 7 year itch. But I have heard that if you have an affair it shows what you really have and what you are missing.

[coug511]

Nothing special, just draw dropping, leg quivering, spine tingling gotta have it now sex.

[tw2008]

Friend or friend with benefits - both are good.

[still smilin]

I also am stuck in in the same old thing. I guess they call it the 7 year itch. But I have heard that if you have an affair it shows what you really have and what you are missing.

I had an affair with someone for six years. In my case, it made up for what was missing in my marriage and actually made my marriage more bearable. For me, it was a good thing.

[bluejay24]

I had an affair with someone for six years. In my case, it made up for what was missing in my marriage and actually made my marriage more bearable. For me, it was a good thing.

that's what i have been thinking for the past year.

[manda1]

I don't want an affair
and I've just decided...no more friends

[Sylar]

I don't want an affair
and I've just decided...no more friends

I get the affair thing...but...no more friends? Can a person really have too many friends? :D

[manda1]

I get the affair thing...but...no more friends? Can a person really have too many friends? :D

I was mad when I posted this! And then this great guy came along and put a smile on my face:) so bring on more friends!!!

[still smilin]

that's what i have been thinking for the past year.

It's not for everyone, but it worked for me. All depends upon your personality, I guess....and your ability to keep a secret forever.

[coug511]

Am thinking a friendly affair

[Tech7]

Looking for both. If a friendship turns to an affair then two birds with one stone.

[Mr.B5546]

Let's just say I'm testing the water checking out my own limits, not sure what I want all I know is that something isn't quite right and I seem to be fantasizing alot lately. Maybe just bored with the same old , or maybe just need to find out that the same old is just what I want! Does that make sense?? Oh yea seems like a great place to say that I'm accepting applications ......... you know just to help with the decision making and of course the fantasies!!

[YetanotherScotsman]

an affair with a friendly person.....

[Psynge]

Well I'd love either. I would love an affair full of passion and desire. But I'd also like to develop some friendships. I hope that someday I can call some of you my friends. (And if I'm lucky maybe one of those could be a lover too)

[texsgal]

friends

[michigan_lady]

This thread gives me a lot of food for thought. Thank you!

[Charmed]

How about just a chat???

[cherokeered]

just a friend or two...maybe a debate partner....sigh...since Spare left.....not many will play with me...:sc

[tiger50]

just a friend or two...maybe a debate partner....sigh...since Spare left.....not many will play with me...:sc

mm i'll play wif ya.... :lf

[Xanadu7]

I gotta go with friendship on this one. Besides, don't affairs lead to strife? Can anyone have too little strife in their life?

[SirFox]

just a friend or two...maybe a debate partner....sigh...since Spare left.....not many will play with me...:sc

CHEERIO: We never debate anymore....

[WaspGuy]

Definitely friends, debaters are more than welcome, and if someone happens to have all the right mystery and more.....

[SaltyLime]

just a friend or two...maybe a debate partner....sigh...since Spare left.....not many will play with me...:sc

Spare left? For good?

[tom3000252001]

A friendly affair sounds good. May not necessarily lead to sex!!

[txcountryboy38]

I would have to say that I NEED both.

[kay1965]

Oh, BTW ladies, I'm in Chattanooga, TN Please feel free to IM, or drop me a line anytime to see if we hit it off. I hope to hear from you soon. Kay1965 are you near Chattanooga? If your interested...... I'll be here.

Take care,

Daniel



awww laidbackdd , i'm your freind hon ,but yes close to chattanooga

[1sxymama]

friends a chat now and again a bit of fun a laugh nothing more

[MomentOfPassion]

I am thinking about having an affair and then turning it into a friendship?


ahhh, the test drive approach! :sex4:

[Barbender]

I am looking to make a good connection. Hopefully one based on similar interests and life experience. Where it goes after that is anyones guess. I dont have any major expectations besides that.

[was4fun2003]

I cam here because I love to flirt and turn people on as well as get turned on. Not looking for an affair, but friends with benefits is a great concepts. If it never happens that is fine as well

[Fwd40s]

Yes :)

[SweetDreams362]

Yes :)


Well said my friend!!

by the way love your new signature!!

[Humpty Dumpty]

I guess I'm not averse to either. I suppose I'll know it when I see how it develops.

[Nice]

I am sure I answered this one at some point but perhaps it is time to do it again.

I did not come here to have an affair. I came here as I was lonely, bored, and have way too much energy for my husband to handle or cope with. I needed an outlet...an escape...and found so much more than that. I found that guy in my eye...and I'm proud to be that girl in his. Cheers to many more fun filled shopping trips!:sng

[Krystal]

I am sure I answered this one at some point but perhaps it is time to do it again.

I did not come here to have an affair. I came here as I was lonely, bored, and have way too much energy for my husband to handle or cope with. I needed an outlet...an escape...and found so much more than that. I found that guy in my eye...and I'm proud to be that girl in his. Cheers to many more fun filled shopping trips!:sng


Um....we're already friends....wanna have an affair?? ;)

[Rocket Man]

Not really cetain, but I will let you know when I find out.

[YetanotherScotsman]

a hot, torrid, steamy, passionate affair for me please.....

[crow_worc]

Friendship and fun....joking around.

[jerry 1948]

hopefully both

[pointofnoreturn]

I am just looking. ALways looking...

[LJ328]

I was just looking for a fun fling, but it developed into much more.
He has become a best friend....
We both didnt want to change our situations at home, but sometimes you cant help the way things happen.

[yaser]

I was just looking for a fun fling, but it developed into much more.
He has become a best friend....
We both didnt want to change our situations at home, but sometimes you cant help the way things happen.

That is a news..LJ..

[LJ328]

That is a news..LJ..


meaning?

[yaser]

meaning?

Happy for you but I lost you..You don't flirt with me.

[LJ328]

Happy for you but I lost you..You don't flirt with me.


Lost me? I didnt know you ever had me???
Did I miss a beat hear?? :sc

[yaser]

Lost me? I didnt know you ever had me???
Did I miss a beat hear?? :sc

Who will answer all of those quesitons?You are like the inquisition judge...But ı would like to have you..

[LJ328]

Who will answer all of those quesitons?You are like the inquisition judge...But ı would like to have you..


Well you'd have to fight off my MS love cause he's got me

[yaser]

Well you'd have to fight off my MS love cause he's got me

:nu

[LJ328]

:nu


be careful.....he works out, runs, boxes..etc...and he won't let me go

[yaser]

be careful.....he works out, runs, boxes..etc...and he won't let me go

:sng

[Inapinch]

I just wanna rock someones world and we will let it take care of itself

[liamm]

Both seem possible if respect is there

[fever]

Don't know what I was looking for, but I'm grateful for what I've found!

[yaser]

Don't know what I was looking for, but I'm grateful for what I've found!

That means you have found it..:sng

[michigan_lady]

Don't know what I was looking for, but I'm grateful for what I've found!


That was an awesome answer, Fever! May I borrow it :)

[Male16365]

What I am looking for does not exist! I want a lady who is attractive, sincere, willing to be happy, willing to be pleased as well as please, Loves to laugh, enjoys to have fun, Could never have enough sex. She must be able to dress and act like a complete lady in public to which in private there would be no inhibitions. Always acts out her thoughts without worry. And then lastly smile alot.

Sorry, Got dumped by the same woman today for the fourth time! I am feeling like the biggest sucker alive right now! Still love her way too much too!

[dcowboy09]

found friends some of which are close but one is very special.....

[siv7]

It all depends on the day what I want..

[Me]

What I am looking for does not exist! I want a lady who is attractive, sincere, willing to be happy, willing to be pleased as well as please, Loves to laugh, enjoys to have fun, Could never have enough sex. She must be able to dress and act like a complete lady in public to which in private there would be no inhibitions. Always acts out her thoughts without worry. And then lastly smile alot.

Sorry, Got dumped by the same woman today for the fourth time! I am feeling like the biggest sucker alive right now! Still love her way too much too!

Dude!! This does exist! Don't settle for less!

[Constance]

What I am looking for does not exist! I want a lady who is attractive, sincere, willing to be happy, willing to be pleased as well as please, Loves to laugh, enjoys to have fun, Could never have enough sex. She must be able to dress and act like a complete lady in public to which in private there would be no inhibitions. Always acts out her thoughts without worry. And then lastly smile alot.

Sorry, Got dumped by the same woman today for the fourth time! I am feeling like the biggest sucker alive right now! Still love her way too much too!


Sweetie, I am so sorry. You keep looking and she will find you. She is our there, you can not give up on your own happiness. Just have fun and enjoy yourself and you will find yourself with new friends and that special lady you are looking for.

[cherokeered]

not looking for anything...in my experience you tend to find things when not looking for them.....

[Xanadu7]

If I knew what I was looking for, I wouldn't be looking, now would I?

[Constance]

If I knew what I was looking for, I wouldn't be looking, now would I?


Are you looking Xan? What is it that you want? Tell me, I am curious?

[Xanadu7]

I'm looking for myself. This site is like a mirror that reflects back and reveals things we can't see from our own prespective.

- Xan the Philosopher

[Constance]

I'm looking for myself. This site is like a mirror that reflects back and reveals things we can't see from our own prespective.

- Xan the Philosopher

That was very good. You are wise, and fun to play with.

[Charmed]

I'm not looking for anything. I just wanna chat and post..... :)

[Charmed]

What I am looking for does not exist! I want a lady who is attractive, sincere, willing to be happy, willing to be pleased as well as please, Loves to laugh, enjoys to have fun, Could never have enough sex. She must be able to dress and act like a complete lady in public to which in private there would be no inhibitions. Always acts out her thoughts without worry. And then lastly smile alot.

Sorry, Got dumped by the same woman today for the fourth time! I am feeling like the biggest sucker alive right now! Still love her way too much too!

4th time? Wow, you must love her..... I hope she comes back to you very soon... :)

[pointofnoreturn]

What ever happiness I can find...

[eagle100]

What ever happiness I can find...
I hope you find your happiness and all your dreams become reality for you!

[Lady_Karen]

a little of both ... depends on the mood I am in at the time !!!

[Fwd40s]

Yes :)

[redcat]

What I am looking for does not exist! I want a lady who is attractive, sincere, willing to be happy, willing to be pleased as well as please, Loves to laugh, enjoys to have fun, Could never have enough sex. She must be able to dress and act like a complete lady in public to which in private there would be no inhibitions. Always acts out her thoughts without worry. And then lastly smile alot.

Sorry, Got dumped by the same woman today for the fourth time! I am feeling like the biggest sucker alive right now! Still love her way too much too!


Aww, Male...that sucks!! Know you're hurting right now, but don't give up on your happiness. The lady you seek is out there...... :hug: :hug:

[redcat]

found friends some of which are close but one is very special.....


Good for you!!! :smdance:

[redcat]

I've given up...

[scoobertina]

What I am looking for does not exist! I want a lady who is attractive, sincere, willing to be happy, willing to be pleased as well as please, Loves to laugh, enjoys to have fun, Could never have enough sex. She must be able to dress and act like a complete lady in public to which in private there would be no inhibitions. Always acts out her thoughts without worry. And then lastly smile alot.

Sorry, Got dumped by the same woman today for the fourth time! I am feeling like the biggest sucker alive right now! Still love her way too much too!


I am so there with you... I have to say I found what I was looking for.. I found all that above in one man... but I wasn't the one for him...

I know how hard it is to move on from someone you found who is the one... and I wish you luck in finding someone else... or maybe you need to do like I do... just flirt, not get serious about anyone, and just try to live your life...

[scoobertina]

I've given up...

yeah me too... but I am not going to stay down... I am going to go on.. go forth.. be merry... what else can I do?

[redcat]

yeah me too... but I am not going to stay down... I am going to go on.. go forth.. be merry... what else can I do?


Exactly, scoob...not much else to do....keep a smile and go on, huh?

[scoobertina]

Exactly, scoob...not much else to do....keep a smile and go on, huh?

You got it red!!! Keep the pain hidden... keep a smile on... and maybe.. just maybe no one will see me...

[hotnjfirefighter]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??





Good question..whats your answer?

[Male16365]

Well I have been told she is not coming back. Guess I was not meant to be with her. So today I decided to being looking again.

I even used a pick up line today, wish it would have work though!

I bummed a lady in the butt with my cart shopping and told her " I am so sorry you have to let me kiss that and make it feel much better"

Although she laughed she still walked away, BUMMER!

[fever]

That was an awesome answer, Fever! May I borrow it :)

All yours, sweetie!!!

[michigan_lady]

All yours, sweetie!!!

Thanks fever!!

[Heart]

Well I have been told she is not coming back. Guess I was not meant to be with her. So today I decided to being looking again.

I even used a pick up line today, wish it would have work though!

I bummed a lady in the butt with my cart shopping and told her " I am so sorry you have to let me kiss that and make it feel much better"

Although she laughed she still walked away, BUMMER!



OMG....LOL i think i would have stayed and chatted some

[Heart]

i want an affair with a friend


is that sooo freaking hard to find?!

[Male16365]

OMG....LOL i think i would have stayed and chatted some

Well if we both didn't start laughing that might of happened

[YetanotherScotsman]

[quote=heartbroken_lonely_wife;1276163]i want an affair with a friend

me too.....

[geko9191]

Friendship first then passionate affair.
Flirty, sexy chat hmmm maybe more we'll see.

I have so much passion but nowhere to go with it. Anybody need any passion?

[cutenmarriedguy]

Friendship first and foremost, the rest is just a nice addition

[siv7]

Friendship first then passionate affair.
Flirty, sexy chat hmmm maybe more we'll see.

I have so much passion but nowhere to go with it. Anybody need any passion?


Everybody needs passion..Don't they? I know I do.

[Xanadu7]

I'm looking for people to share with. Everything!

[was4fun2003]

I am with you Xan, you will connect with different people on different levels and some might just be chat and flirt and some might go to the next level. It is so exciting, because you never know where it will go when you first meet/chat.

[Heart]

Very true 4fun....however it can be sooooo frustrating on all levels!!!!!! but that is why we keep coming back for more.....

[was4fun2003]

You never know who is going to knock on your door or who you will knock boots with next :sng

[manda1]

I want a friend that gives me butterflies in my tummy....sigh

[was4fun2003]

And make you tingly in all special places

[manda1]

tingly is good;)

[was4fun2003]

I am good at making tingly, can you tingle back?

[pointofnoreturn]

Well I was looking for the ladies room....But I will take a friend or lover.....

[MSU]

Well I was looking for the ladies room....But I will take a friend or lover.....

:rofl1::rofl1::rofl1:

Point, wonder if they offer those in layaway for the holidays?

[drkcloud]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??




I am looking forward to making some woman smile and feel are warm and fuzzy.

[notonly4her]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??






Chat/Flirting

[Agent]

Friendship.

[blueboy243]

i am looking for an discreet affair.

[yaser]

Everybody needs passion..Don't they? I know I do.

Can you endure the pain?

[1sxymama]

friends but wont rule out other things

[dino2]

Since my wife has become either ,I would say both!! I know...sad.

[yaser]

Found many nice friends here..More than that sometimes..Love them..

[texsgal]

friendship for now

[surfnchat]

Just looking to meet some friendly ladies for safe, harmless, flirting fun ;)

[PoolHallJunkie]

I came here for friends, I am still fairly new here as I had a time of absence so I haven't made any friends just yet but I am sure that will change once I post more and get to know some people. As for the affair, I don't know, there's a part of me that says yes, I would love to have one if the right person came along, but, I really don't know if I could go through with it, again, only time will tell.

[scoobertina]

I am looking for a friend who will talk to me.. make me horny.. walk me through an orgasm... then will cuddle with me... hold me.. make me laugh... maybe get me hot again.. someone to touch my gently.. stroke my body with his fingers.. his lips.. caress me.. someone who doesn't mind me paying alot of attention to him.. touching.. kissing..

[southARsmiler]

I am looking for a friend who will talk to me.. make me horny.. walk me through an orgasm... then will cuddle with me... hold me.. make me laugh... maybe get me hot again.. someone to touch my gently.. stroke my body with his fingers.. his lips.. caress me.. someone who doesn't mind me paying alot of attention to him.. touching.. kissing..


couldnt have said it better myself

[noodlegurl]

Well come here then, and lets take care of that. lol



couldnt have said it better myself

[scoobertina]

Well come here then, and lets take care of that. lol

LOL.. sure noods.. let me get him all worked up for you and swoop in for the kill! LMAO...

[Xanadu7]

The real question is:

Where do you draw the line between a fun sexy friendship, and an affair?

Actually, I don't even want to know the answer!

[SirFox]

I am looking for a friend who will talk to me.. make me horny.. walk me through an orgasm... then will cuddle with me... hold me.. make me laugh... maybe get me hot again.. someone to touch my gently.. stroke my body with his fingers.. his lips.. caress me.. someone who doesn't mind me paying alot of attention to him.. touching.. kissing..



Not bad... as a research request....however I do believe that you have much to say, and therefore as I am concerned, would prefer to talk with YOU rather to talk to you.

[scoobertina]

Not bad... as a research request....however I do believe that you have much to say, and therefore as I am concerned, would prefer to talk with YOU rather to talk to you.

well thank you foxy!!! I would like for you to talk with me as well!!
ummm can we do the other stuff too?

[SirFox]

well thank you foxy!!! I would like for you to talk with me as well!!
ummm can we do the other stuff too?

You know what tehy say? If the price is right, you might get your prize. They also say that sometimes good talk leads to many-a-things..or was that jiggs?:yks

[marriedlooking]

Scoob you nailed it, I have so much to give, and no one to give it to,
Touching, kissing, holding, loving

[cutenmarriedguy]

Wow Scoob your post gave me chills, so right girl!

[surfnchat]

I am looking for a friend who will talk to me.. make me horny.. walk me through an orgasm... then will cuddle with me... hold me.. make me laugh... maybe get me hot again.. someone to touch my gently.. stroke my body with his fingers.. his lips.. caress me.. someone who doesn't mind me paying alot of attention to him.. touching.. kissing..



OOOH! OOOH! Pick Me! Pick Me! :wa:

[dixiechiknga]

Hmmmm am I greedy if I need both?

[SirFox]

Hmmmm am I greedy if I need both?

There are some people who would say you have character. Others would say that you know what you want...

[fever]

Don't quite know what I was looking for...but I've found what I need.

[SirFox]

Don't quite know what I was looking for...but I've found what I need.

You were travelling the lonely road not knowing what yo uwere looking for. And that person, that situation, whatever came to you and NOW you know that it is good for you??

[scoobertina]

Don't quite know what I was looking for...but I've found what I need.

I have to say I found what I need too.. I found what I want... I found the man who could be "the one".. unfortunately.. I was not "the one" for him...

so I keep searching.. or not searching... but always comparing others to him.. they don't match up..

this place brought to me the joy, the laughter, the love that I needed.. I wasn't looking for it.. it found me.. out of the blue he popped onto my screen and my life hasn't been the same since..

I won't ever get a chance to meet this man in person.. but while it lasted.. I was the happiest I had ever been...

so I say.. enjoy it while you have it.. hold on to it if you can.. cherish the memories when it is gone...

[Agent]

Looking for some female friends with who I can talk and flirt with who won't want to change the world but can be special friends online. Ones that will like me of me. Or in other words my cake and eat too I guess.

[dino2]

I am looking for a friend who will talk to me.. make me horny.. walk me through an orgasm... then will cuddle with me... hold me.. make me laugh... maybe get me hot again.. someone to touch my gently.. stroke my body with his fingers.. his lips.. caress me.. someone who doesn't mind me paying alot of attention to him.. touching.. kissing..

oooo ooooo pick me ,pick me !!

[Male16365]

LOL I feel greedy posting this, but hey it is what I want right at this moment.................

A lady to stop by and suck me silly then do the dam dishes on the way out the door!

Hee Hee, it is still funny!

[scoobertina]

ummm if I do your dishes and suck you silly, then I better get something in return mister...:nu

I expect the best blowjob you ever gave... or you better have some good toys around the house...

[superman37]

ummm if I do your dishes and suck you silly, then I better get something in return mister...:nu

I expect the best blowjob you ever gave... or you better have some good toys around the house...


You would settle for toys after pleasing the guy twice?

[pointofnoreturn]

I am looking for a friendly affair....

[(guest)]

I'm looking for friends who can take me being a smart ass sometimes...:)

[biker-69s]

I'm looking for friends who can take me being a smart ass sometimes...:)

I'm looking for smart ass girl, the rest is just a bonus!

[surfnchat]

I am looking for a friendly affair....

The friendly ones are the best! :kk

[UltimateNaneki]

The friendly ones are the best! :kk

:sngHello friend :sng

[Xanadu7]

I'm not even looking. How about a "fair" friendship?

[UltimateNaneki]

I have looked and found great friendships here...its great to have friends.
I wish the same to everyone!!

[Xanadu7]

Whatever

[scoobertina]

not looking for anything.. just trying to smile and have fun

[Sensual Woman]

I am looking for a sugar daddy so I can get out of debt and get divorced

[surfnchat]

:sngHello friend :sng

Mmmmmm... Hello to you too! :knuddel:

[Male16365]

ummm if I do your dishes and suck you silly, then I better get something in return mister...:nu

I expect the best blowjob you ever gave... or you better have some good toys around the house...

LOL, Scoober! If you suck me silly and do my dishes I would most definately leave you smilling and very satisfied. Can't say it would be a blowjob but definately would included alot of licking! besides I am always willing to patch the wall again too!

[pointofnoreturn]

I am looking for someone who wants to have an affair and a lot of friendship to go with.

[Eagleton]

I am looking for someone who wants to have an affair and a lot of friendship to go with.


I am at the pointofnoreturn and want to have an affair to remember and remain friends:ok

[sportchef]

right now I am looking for a little Joy

[JoyS]

I am a little Joy! and I am here!

[sportchef]

where are you ....

[JoyS]

you should know! Where do you usually find a little Joy in your life?

[whtwmnlvr]

Im looking for a friendly affair!!!

[Kinkawon]

I am looking for a sugar daddy so I can get out of debt and get divorced

And I'm looking for a sugarmomma. Though in a pinch does it really matter if I can get out of debt and get away from the old ball and chain?

[SirFox]

right now I am looking for a little Joy

There are various types of JoyS.....
I can give you "Joy to the World" if you want....:yks

[dartgirl]

Someone to make me remember what it feels like to truly be alive

[tigger1954]

looking for friendship...but if it should lead to an affair so much the better

[leighm]

Just looking for friends.

[cherokeered]

not really looking for anything...but if a friend is found I'll take it....already found my soulmate here....

[tw2008]

I would prefer both - but would be OK with at least one of those two.

[notalone]

I am looking for something that I currently don't have and that is someone or more than someone to share thoughts with. I would like to have good conversation I am a good listener (I have to be but I will go into that later). If the friend and conversations lead to something more then so be it... hope I can find it somewhere on this site.

[skippy34]

Just looking now, but who knows what will happen....

[JoyS]

There are various types of JoyS.....
I can give you "Joy to the World" if you want....:yks

LMAO

[yaser]

not really looking for anything...but if a friend is found I'll take it....already found my soulmate here....

When will you be with him?

[yaser]

I have wonderful friends here...

[SirFox]

Someone to make me remember what it feels like to truly be alive

Well hello there DART...How are things Long time no hear and no see..WHat have you been up to? Did you take care of things? :sng

[redcat]

I am looking for something that I currently don't have and that is someone or more than someone to share thoughts with. I would like to have good conversation I am a good listener (I have to be but I will go into that later). If the friend and conversations lead to something more then so be it... hope I can find it somewhere on this site.

Hi not...I'm sure you'll find people here who are good at listening and also appreciate a good listener. Keep posting and let us all get to know one another, etc....I hope you find what you are looking for.

[redcat]

I've met some great people here and have made some good friends. If something more develops......

[SirFox]

I've met some great people here and have made some good friends. If something more develops......


If something develops...definitely...RED...then?

[OnceAKing]

I wasn't looking for anything and yet I found it all in her!

[pointofnoreturn]

I am always looking for is behind door number three....mmmmmmmmm

[MCat]

I too wasn't looking for more than a nice flirt...but found so much more.

Now if I could just get him to lift me up, wrap my legs around his waist and slam me against the wall...lol....

Oh I forgot...that only happens in the movies....

LOL...damn....maybe in my next life...

[pointofnoreturn]

I too wasn't looking for more than a nice flirt...but found so much more.

Now if I could just get him to lift me up, wrap my legs around his waist and slam me against the wall...lol....

Oh I forgot...that only happens in the movies....

LOL...damn....maybe in my next life...!!!! Not only movies, but in the affairs with lots of lust....:ok And a strong guy to go with..:sc For me...:yks

[manda1]

I want to build friendships and I want someone who can make my toes curl....

[stevelooking]

yes and yes

[countrygent07]

I'm looking for an affair.

[learman3]

Not sure I was looking for much at all...what I found was friendship....and happy I did.

[lonely1now]

I would be open to both, friendship first. If it developed into something more, that would be all the better.

[dino2]

I would be open to both, friendship first. If it developed into something more, that would be all the better.oooo oooo pick me ,pick me !!

[Badbill]

Not sure what I was looking for, a flirt, a friend, an affair, a lover. Now I have found sooooooooo much more than I ever expected, something I never knew or had a hope of finding.

[scoobertina]

I am looking for friends... the more the merrier.... not looking at this site for anything more....