Are you looking for friendship or an affair?

[cherokeered]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??

[onceamarine]

Both actually. I am looking for an affair, but she would have to be my friend first. I also think there are plenty friends to be made here, and most of those friends are just not close enough to really have an affair with.

[Pink4You]

First I would want to be friends and see how we connect. If it feels right and we like what we see, hopefully we end up making love. Cause I like it sweet and slow. To cuddle and touch each other. Kiss all the time, hold hands. All the things that have stopped or come to a slow crawl with the relationship I in now.

[scoobertina]

I came here looking for friendship - and I found alot of friends..
It is so easy to fall in love with someone just by talking to them.. you open up, they open up, you finally decide to meet, and then someone gets hurt.. it might be one of the members of the affair, a friend who finds out and gets upset by it, the spouses if they figure it out..

[Sunfiresix]

Since all the lovely women here turned me down for an affair--I settled for the friendship...couldn't ask for a better place for friends..

[Annie]

First I would want to be friends and see how we connect. If it feels right and we like what we see, hopefully we end up making love. Cause I like it sweet and slow. To cuddle and touch each other. Kiss all the time, hold hands. All the things that have stopped or come to a slow crawl with the relationship I in now.Pink, would you please put your date of birth in your profile? It's a requirement of all of our members.

[RedVixen]

I came here for friendship and fun and have stayed because of the friends I've made along the way. Would I have an affair? Quite possibly, if I found the right connection with someone.

So far, made lots of friends but no special someone... *sigh*

[TheTurtle]

I came for friends, but could easily have an affair if I met someone close enough.


Question: Is it an affair if you have a "friend with benefits", and/or if your spouse knows and says OK?

[bryan3636]

Obviously you need to dig a little deeper...he might be posting right in front of your very eyes :wa:




I came here for friendship and fun and have stayed because of the friends I've made along the way. Would I have an affair? Quite possibly, if I found the right connection with someone.

So far, made lots of friends but no special someone... *sigh*

[Andytyme]

Depends on the moment I am being asked.. Right now? Hmmm. Have found a couple of great friends... but I don't know the answer to the other part.... have to wait and see I guess.

[UltimateNaneki]

Since all the lovely women here turned me down for an affair--I settled for the friendship...couldn't ask for a better place for friends..

It would have been nice to be asked..:nu ..I guess I don't count cause I live in Canada! WELL

[UltimateNaneki]

I came here cause I was really lonely and wanted to chat with some people...I have a few real good friends and we are real tight but never face to face met. In 5 days I will meet someone that was here, and yes we are going to have an affair....it may be a long one too!

[Bluzeman]

It would have been nice to be asked..:nu ..I guess I don't count cause I live in Canada! WELL


Canadians can't have affairs? That's a tough country! :D


As for myself, I'm just looking for some electricity, a connection. Guess that's somewhere between a friend and an affair.

[Pink4You]

I came here cause I was really lonely and wanted to chat with some people...I have a few real good friends and we are real tight but never face to face met. In 5 days I will meet someone that was here, and yes we are going to have an affair....it may be a long one too!


Good, may it be a long and pleasurable affair. I am in the same boat. missing something at home and came on here just looking around. Still feeling the place out. May one day soon, I be able to post that I am going to have an affair. keep you posted no doubt.

[Bluzeman]

I came here cause I was really lonely and wanted to chat with some people...I have a few real good friends and we are real tight but never face to face met. In 5 days I will meet someone that was here, and yes we are going to have an affair....it may be a long one too!


Guess Canadians CAN have affairs... Is he local, or is it long-distance?

[teeumup]

Friends stimulate the mind......affairs develop from passion. i'm clueless where this might lead, but what a great place to journey on!!!

[UltimateNaneki]

Guess Canadians CAN have affairs... Is he local, or is it long-distance?

This time I go there, next time he comes here!:55

[p.J]

Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...

[Andytyme]

Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...

Wow. Deep thoughts, but true. Thanks for making me think.

[teeumup]

couldn't have said it better pragJen!! that's the "journey" part!!:) Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...

[scoobertina]

Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...

Very well put Jen.. those friendships can lead to affairs, very easily.....

[teeumup]

so is that a good thing or a bad thing, Tina???

[scoobertina]

so is that a good thing or a bad thing, Tina???

it can be a very very good thing, but it can also be a very bad thing... let me get back to you when I have an affair.....

[teeumup]

LOL.......does that make it eminent???

[Bluzeman]

it can be a very very good thing, but it can also be a very bad thing... let me get back to you when I have an affair.....


Haven't had one myself, but have seen a lot of them play out. And it's usually been both, in that order!

[scoobertina]

LOL.......does that make it eminent???

We shall see! ;)

[longing for passion]

Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...

I would absolutely agree. I feel friends are developed as a result of two people traveling on a similar journey in life, with similar needs, goals, and aspirations and sometimes those journeys meet a final destination. For some, those friendships complete a chapter of your life's book, while others are there to the exciting final conclusion.

I suppose I would say, when it comes to a friendship or those relationships that lead to something unexpectedly more...enjoy the journey...:)

[MCat]

As for myself, I'm just looking for some electricity, a connection. Guess that's somewhere between a friend and an affair.

Electricity is a very good description....a little more than friendship but not quite affair material.....I think we all need that zap, that spark to keep us feeling good about ourselves.

[madmod]

I'm not quite at the point of posting specifically in this forum, but I'd have to say I'm kinda looking for both .... I definitely want to make friends (and plenty of them), but if I click with someone in a similar position to me then I'm open to explore a little bit more. Maybe not a full physical meet-up, but maybe something that can help us both along with our individual situations .... I think something like that could be great, and deep, and just what the doctor ordered. ;)

[Micwar]

I came looking for boobies:dl found out you had to have 150 points/post so I started toward my goal. I have found that I enjoy the folks here and even feel I have made some friends. What else lays ahead on this quest, I do not know, but I will embrace it fully.....:wa:

[OICurready4me]

I was hoping to chat with some people throughout the country, get different viewpoints on home issues and make some friends. As the friendships developed, one has turned into something that is absolutely unequivocably fantastic. An affair is coming very close to happening and it is something that we both need very badly in our lives. Nothing I had ever planned on but just built, like a new house, brick by brick, so the foundation is strong and we are happy to continue the construction each day.
So, if you have an open mind and an open heart, the sky is the limit.

[Pink4You]

Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...

I think those are the best kind of affairs. The song, secret lovers comes to mind.

[Bluzeman]

Electricity is a very good description....a little more than friendship but not quite affair material.....I think we all need that zap, that spark to keep us feeling good about ourselves.


Exactly! I don't need or even want an affair, but I do want to feel that spark again. There's nothing like that feeling that someone thinks you've got something really special to offer, and that you feel the same way about them. THAT'S what I'm looking for.

[teeumup]

Wow......love how you think LFP. Passion, journey, unexpected endings.....that's why targeting a destination brings things to an end. That's not what it's all about, eh??!!;) I would absolutely agree. I feel friends are developed as a result of two people traveling on a similar journey in life, with similar needs, goals, and aspirations and sometimes those journeys meet a final destination. For some, those friendships complete a chapter of your life's book, while others are there to the exciting final conclusion.

I suppose I would say, when it comes to a friendship or those relationships that lead to something unexpectedly more...enjoy the journey...:)

[Sneaky]

I came looking for boobies:dl

Oh the poetry. Brings a tear to my eye.........

[kawagrn]

I came looking for friends. Maybe a little playing and fooling around through emails, but don't know if I could actually go through with an affair.

[snowflake]

I came for friendship and interaction with others.. I never considered an affair till I found this site, it definately makes me see marriage in a whole new light and realize there are others such as I, that are flat lonely with the person they believed were their soul-mate. I love my hubby, but it's nice to have non-judgemental friends here. I may be married, but I tell yall' more about myself than I do him....


:)

[scoobertina]

I never anticipated meeting people here who I would connect with so well... like Snowflake says, I tell you all a whole lot more than my hubby... I feel like I have found a family and some very, very good friends.. and let me tell you, not being judged is amazing...

[Amaretto]

I feel like I have found a family and some very, very good friends.. and let me tell you, not being judged is amazing...

Isn't that the truth Scoob? It is so much easier to be honest with myself, when I can say things, ask questions, respond, etc, without fear of being judged.

[madmod]

I would absolutely agree. I feel friends are developed as a result of two people traveling on a similar journey in life, with similar needs, goals, and aspirations and sometimes those journeys meet a final destination. For some, those friendships complete a chapter of your life's book, while others are there to the exciting final conclusion.

I suppose I would say, when it comes to a friendship or those relationships that lead to something unexpectedly more...enjoy the journey...:)

This is the more articulate version of what I meant to say .... :55

[teeumup]

No judgement required....just the facts!!! And that's what makes this a journey worth chatting about!!:) Isn't that the truth Scoob? It is so much easier to be honest with myself, when I can say things, ask questions, respond, etc, without fear of being judged.

[mrdiscreet]

But isn't part of the freedom that we are anonymous; I find it much easier to speak candidly here because we are screened, and don't really face each other in our real lives.

Not that I think that makes this any less special of a place

[Pebbles]

Exactly! I don't need or even want an affair, but I do want to feel that spark again. There's nothing like that feeling that someone thinks you've got something really special to offer, and that you feel the same way about them. THAT'S what I'm looking for.

Yes...I was looking for the same thing. Wanted to feel that certain spark,that was lacking in my relationship with my partner. But now that has ended..I am here for other reasons.

[mrdiscreet]

Pebbles, not sure which way to read that?

[Pebbles]

Pebbles, not sure which way to read that?


When I first came here...I was married and just looking for that certain spark..that was lacking in my marriage. But now that I am getting a divorce...all my feelings have changed. Whatever happens...happens! Friendship or relationship..both are good.

[kawagrn]

When I first came here...I was married and just looking for that certain spark..that was lacking in my marriage. But now that I am getting a divorce...all my feelings have changed. Whatever happens...happens! Friendship or relationship..both are good.

Sorry to hear you are getting a divorce. If you ever want a young man (27) for a friend let me know. :kk Love your avatar btw.

[whosdaflirt]

I came here for friendship and fun and have stayed because of the friends I've made along the way. Would I have an affair? Quite possibly, if I found the right connection with someone.

So far, made lots of friends but no special someone... *sigh*

Why the sigh Red? With your combination of strong supportive friendship, georgeous looks and graceful charm, a special someone is most certain if you want him. And know that he will be a lucky man indeed! :kk

[Mountainman27]

I came here just to check out the site, you people have been so friendly and helpful that ive been back everyday.Shy slowly worrking out of my shell. I made a special friend yesterday she knows who she is thank you. Thanks to every one for the support and advice!

[RedVixen]

Why the sigh Red? With your combination of strong supportive friendship, georgeous looks and graceful charm, a special someone is most certain if you want him. And know that he will be a lucky man indeed! :kk

The sigh - because my dear, it is easier said than done.

[PunkyBob]

Came here out of frustration, looking for...who knows? Got lucky, though; made some wonderful friends, friends who don't judge, who support, who are fun, interesting and allowed me to feel good about certain things again.

[kawagrn]

The sigh - because my dear, it is easier said than done.

Red, I'm special :whee:

[RedVixen]

Red, I'm special :whee:

I know hun:kk

[kawagrn]

I know hun:kk

You are special too and I'm sure you are a very beautiful woman. :knuddel: :hug:

[My_Secrets_Kept]

being conflicted and looking for a place to be able to let go is what brought me here... those I've come to know are what keep me here... having an online afair isn't what I came looking for, wouldn't that just add to the conflict/frustration?

[Shiane]

I came here with no expectations. What I have found is some very wonderful friends and for that I will be forever grateful.:kk

[kawagrn]

One of the things I have found here that I really like is that I can so how I feel without being judged and treated like a pervert. Even when I make stupid comments or ones that come out wrong I am not looked down on.

[AL(m)]

Came here because the name of the site caught my attention one day I was looking for something different...... try not to expect anything... that way not disappointed . but I do enjoy the site.. and just love all the lovely ladies here too.. nice to see they have minds of their own and not afraid to voice their likes and dis-likes.. very refreshing........ and one can never have too many friends can they?? and if a lover comes out of it even more of a bonus..... :wa:

[Amaretto]

I came here because I'd learned that real life flirting was quite an aphrodisiac for me. I figured I could get frequent doses of flirting at a site like this. I had no idea what I was in for-----such great friendships, so many things I've learned, and one particular person who I expect will be my best friend for life. :kk

[Guymisseswife]

friendships would be my answer

[teeumup]

Amaretto.....has to be water since we're Midwesterners!! But there's still nothing like going out west to shuss in some powder!!!:lf

[PlayfulMale69]

I looked for people who were in the same situation as me and perhaps were horny and wanted to fool around. What I have found is some very good friends and some fun as well, but the friendship is what I was not prepared for.

Thanks Penny!

[tallasian74]

I am here mostly because I wanted to chat honestly and openly with folks who are in similar situations to me...

[Amaretto]

Amaretto.....has to be water since we're Midwesterners!! But there's still nothing like going out west to shuss in some powder!!!:lf

Hi Tee! How'd that answer get over here in this thread? Oh well. Even though I'm a midwesterner, I don't water ski (unfortunately a traumatic experience in my youth left me with a pretty big fear of water). But yes, shushing in Rocky Mountain powder is pretty awesome. Only problem is, as I've gotten older, the cold has become very difficult to deal with. I've skiied Colorado in April, some people were in bikinis and swim trunks----it was great! Just a little slushy at the base of the mts.

[teeumup]

April skiing is a blast. Yes, plenty of scantily dressed shushers with lots of liquid energy......no, not the healthy stuff!! Sorry about the trama in the water...it's also great therapy!!:) Hi Tee! How'd that answer get over here in this thread? Oh well. Even though I'm a midwesterner, I don't water ski (unfortunately a traumatic experience in my youth left me with a pretty big fear of water). But yes, shushing in Rocky Mountain powder is pretty awesome. Only problem is, as I've gotten older, the cold has become very difficult to deal with. I've skiied Colorado in April, some people were in bikinis and swim trunks----it was great! Just a little slushy at the base of the mts.

[Sabrina]

I have found what I was looking for!!:)

[teeumup]

Can you give us a clue???:)I have found what I was looking for!!:)

[ethans_so_bad]

I'm only here looking for El Chupacabra. Anybody seen it?

[Amaretto]

Can you give us a clue???:)

Inquiring minds want to know!!

(so do nosey minds! and I can be guilty of that!)

But congrats on finding whatever it/he is. Sabrina!

[thickitalian]

My thoughts are similar to yours Pebbles...friendship or relationship are both good but I also feel that if you are divorced or legally separated, a relationship can never work with a married person because that married person cannot give you the time you may be needing and it can only be a sexual fling when their time allows. I am quite content making friends and if there is something more to come of it...it will naturally come to both of us.

Hope you're doing well Pebbles....:55


When I first came here...I was married and just looking for that certain spark..that was lacking in my marriage. But now that I am getting a divorce...all my feelings have changed. Whatever happens...happens! Friendship or relationship..both are good.

[deercrow]

My thoughts are similar to yours Pebbles...friendship or relationship are both good but I also feel that if you are divorced or legally separated, a relationship can never work with a married person because that married person cannot give you the time you may be needing and it can only be a sexual fling when their time allows. I am quite content making friends and if there is something more to come of it...it will naturally come to both of us.

Hope you're doing well Pebbles....:55
I happen to agree, I read all the posts and see alot of flirting but most of all I see friendships forming and a few relationships....and both are good and healthy

[Andytyme]

I have found what I was looking for!!:)
Really? You didn't say what that was? Wanna share?

[Sneaky]

Really? You didn't say what that was? Wanna share?

If you have been paying attention you may have noticed. I think I know.

[ldon]

I told you I'de send my plane. :)



I came here for friendship and fun and have stayed because of the friends I've made along the way. Would I have an affair? Quite possibly, if I found the right connection with someone.

So far, made lots of friends but no special someone... *sigh*

[ldon]

She would have to be my friend before we could have a relationship. But, yes I would have a relationship. Ideally a fcuk buddy.

[pointofnoreturn]

She would have to be my friend before we could have a relationship. But, yes I would have a relationship. Ideally a fcuk buddy.you are stilllooking for thaat Buddy??????Cum see me..:wa:

[Sweetdreams069]

If you have been paying attention you may have noticed. I think I know.

;)

[Sneaky]

;)

Yup. :55

[pointofnoreturn]

both

[AL(m)]

I'm looking for a Fcuk Bubby one that becomes a friend.. and a wonderful lover......is that asking for too much??? :)

[ldon]

What the hell, a pseudo fcuk will do right now. Thanks. I'll bring pseudo condoms and a bottle of pseudo wine. :sex



you are stilllooking for thaat Buddy??????Cum see me..:wa:

[pointofnoreturn]

What the hell, a pseudo fcuk will do right now. Thanks. I'll bring pseudo condoms and a bottle of pseudo wine. :sexWine condoms...what more could a girl want???

[ldon]

I know, huh.



Wine condoms...what more could a girl want???

[sawflyman]

friendship that involves nudity would be great..........

[fly]

friendship that involves nudity would be great..........

(WHY am I picturing a room full of naked men watching the football game now??? Can we say "EWWWW.........."?)

[OICurready4me]

(WHY am I picturing a room full of naked men watching the football game now??? Can we say "EWWWW.........."?)


Not only that, but we are sitting on YOUR couch and your serving us beer and pretzels! (now isn't THAT a visual!)

[sawflyman]

lol
I was referring to female nudity..............LMAO

[ethans_so_bad]

Yeah! Come to think of it, I need another Corona baby......and step it up a bit.



Not only that, but we are sitting on YOUR couch and your serving us beer and pretzels! (now isn't THAT a visual!)

[fly]

lol
I was referring to female nudity..............LMAO


WHEW!!!!

[fly]

Yeah! Come to think of it, I need another Corona baby......and step it up a bit.

ughh..........put your drawers on and fetch it yourself!!!! I'll be in the other room reading my book.........:D

[ethans_so_bad]

i should have expected that outta you



ughh..........put your drawers on and fetch it yourself!!!! I'll be in the other room reading my book.........:D

[c50t]

I first logged on here, I suspect like most of you, out of a level of frustration in my current relationship. My marriage is tough. Most are. I am committed to staying in it, no matter what kind of hell it takes me through.
Short answer: I'm looking for friendships, an outlet to vent, a place to flirt and exercize my romantic muscles (don't go there)
I'm not anticipating, or looking to move this in any other direction.

[ethans_so_bad]

Well I'm looking for a good doctor who can make me a a realistic looking fake testicle. I lost one in a bizzare run in with el Chupacabra

[deercrow]

I'm looking for a Fcuk Bubby one that becomes a friend.. and a wonderful lover......is that asking for too much??? :)
i don't think so...lol

[TravelingMan]

conversation can be a stimulant. Chatting online and flirting all the while can be a major turn on.

I'm not on here looking for an affair but I could see where I could get caught up in the moment and be tempted.

[scoobertina]

I came here looking for friendship, I found much more than I had hoped for.. but along with that comes jealousy from other people... I value the friendships that I have made.. and I hurt when others judge me from what they see on the site...

[whosdaflirt]

Like many, I stumbled my way in here not quite sure of what I might find. I quickly came to treasure the friendships that developed. Some have become far more than I could have ever imagined, but all of them mean a great deal to me for what they add to my life. I can honestly say that friendships are at the core of what I value about the people here, and I am looking forward to them growing even stronger in the future.

[One Song Hero]

I came here looking for my keys, but instead I found
my remote, so life is pretty good.

[Dmy]

I did find very good friends here and those I would like to keep in touch with as long as a can. As for an affair? Lets just say things have opened up farther than I ever imagined they would! And its a very good to imagine it too! :lf Very very tempting hot sexy ladies here! And damn it....all way too far away! :spbx:

[longing for passion]

One can never have too many friends...so, definitely yes to the friends part. As for the latter...I would have to say, they would have to first capture my heart. Anyhoo, time will tell, now won't it?

[Sabrina]

Can you give us a clue???:)

why you of course, tee....didn't you know??:D

[Sabrina]

Yup. :55

oh sneaky....such a clever girl....:D

[Sabrina]

Inquiring minds want to know!!

(so do nosey minds! and I can be guilty of that!)

But congrats on finding whatever it/he is. Sabrina!

sure Amaretto....you spill your beans and then I will spill mine....;)

[Sabrina]

Really? You didn't say what that was? Wanna share?

I'll share anything with you, Andy!!!!!:kk :kk

[pointofnoreturn]

sure Amaretto....you spill your beans and then I will spill mine....;)I think youshould both spill your beans, and give me some to make hummus..mmmmmmmmmmmm:55

[teeumup]

I'm sorry I've missed the gist of this chatter......love the conclusions:lf!!!!

[fly]

Well I'm looking for a good doctor who can make me a a realistic looking fake testicle. I lost one in a bizzare run in with el Chupacabra


Nice try...........that aint gonna scare me from going on my trip.......:D

[MCat]

I want it all.....

[oldsoul3426]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??




not really sure. Both in a sense

[hank69]

........Then.....

[MCat]

........Then.....

Then ... you should have an online affair with me...;)

[scoobertina]

looking for friends with perks... no seriously, friends... if I happen to find a lover here so be it...

[madmod]

looking for friends with perks... no seriously, friends... if I happen to find a lover here so be it...

How about looking for friends for drinks .... ?! :lf

[scoobertina]

How about looking for friends for drinks .... ?! :lf

that would be wonderful... I need a friend for drinks....

[c50t]

that would be wonderful... I need a friend for drinks....
Come on over. I'll buy.:wa:

[pointofnoreturn]

both

[aviatorspirit69]

both

I think it is in need of both yes....

[scoobertina]

Come on over. I'll buy.:wa:

It is about time you offered... here is the addy... come on over...

[c50t]

Fire up the hot tub. What should I bring?

[scoobertina]

Fire up the hot tub. What should I bring?
the hot tub is running as we speak.. I have wine and you need to bring nothing but your fine self... suit optional...;)

[c50t]

Oh, you don't know how much I'd love to sip some wine and get in hot water with you. I'm a hillbilly. I always have my suit with me.

[scoobertina]

Oh, you don't know how much I'd love to sip some wine and get in hot water with you. I'm a hillbilly. I always have my suit with me.

have suit will travel huh? if you are a hill billy then I have some moonshine I haven't cracked yet...shall we...

[c50t]

Hmm, it's been awhile since I've had moonshine, or been cracked. I think we shall. Looks like a great moon tonight.

[scoobertina]

Hmm, it's been awhile since I've had moonshine, or been cracked. I think we shall. Looks like a great moon tonight.

get over here then... I have been dying to try this stuff... hubby won't touch it... and I promise the neighbors won't know (or remember) a thing...

[madmod]

that would be wonderful... I need a friend for drinks....

And I sure do need a drink .... I'm parched .... :lf

[c50t]

get over here then... I have been dying to try this stuff... hubby won't touch it... and I promise the neighbors won't know (or remember) a thing...

Neighbors? I ain't sharing with neighbors. And I'll try anything, whether hubby has touched it or not.

[scoobertina]

Neighbors? I ain't sharing with neighbors. And I'll try anything, whether hubby has touched it or not.

the neighbors... well they can't remember anything from the past couple of hours...

[wall-flower]

Original sign up was just to meet friends. Find people with similar circumstances. I agree with what these two said.



Originally Posted by MCat
Electricity is a very good description....a little more than friendship but not quite affair material.....I think we all need that zap, that spark to keep us feeling good about ourselves.

Exactly! I don't need or even want an affair, but I do want to feel that spark again. There's nothing like that feeling that someone thinks you've got something really special to offer, and that you feel the same way about them. THAT'S what I'm looking for.

[c50t]

the neighbors... well they can't remember anything from the past couple of hours...

You gotta love good neighbors. I'll bet we could have them wondering what those wild animal sounds were.

[whosdaflirt]

:kk Friendships always come first for me. I need to enjoy exploring each others lives, getting to know each other for the unique people we are. If it leads to something beyond that, it will happen in it's own due course and time. Either way, I get to make new friends along the way, and that is so worthwhile!

[TheTurtle]

:kk Friendships always come first for me. I need to enjoy exploring each others lives, getting to know each other for the unique people we are. If it leads to something beyond that, it will happen in it's own due course and time. Either way, I get to make new friends along the way, and that is so worthwhile!

I'm with you there, whos. I would love a fuck buddy, and might enjoy an affair; but it is the "buddy" part and the fun part that is what attracts me the most. Someone I can be lighthearted with, and focussed on enjoying each other's company.

[hank69]

Then ... you should have an online affair with me...;)


Ya...sure..shit.. yabetcha...

[hotguy89]

both

wow...love the avitar...mmmm...anyone looking? yes i am!!affair is fun if undiscovered...:D

[cheerymissy_34]

i think to have an affair u have to be friends first...unless your talking about just having a one night stand

[scoobertina]

Why can't I have both... an affair and a friend?

[hotguy89]

i think to have an affair u have to be friends first...unless your talking about just having a one night stand

Fair point...very true...i could not find someone attractive i could not have a laugh and fun...one nights stands only with alcohol:whee:

[hotguy89]

Why can't I have both... an affair and a friend?

thats possible and very lucky...but then is ur partner not a friend too?:( :sc

[cheerymissy_34]

Fair point...very true...i could not find someone attractive i could not have a laugh and fun...one nights stands only with alcohol:whee:

well i sure wish i could blame my one night stand to alcohol....mine was just stupidity..lol

[madmod]

Why can't I have both... an affair and a friend?

You can .... ;)

[sawflyman]

always looking for friends................

[scoobertina]

You can .... ;)

Are you offering? If so I will take you up on that... if not... nice meeting ya... LOL:wa:

[hotguy89]

well i sure wish i could blame my one night stand to alcohol....mine was just stupidity..lol

welll...i cant talk much either...never had one!!:D just recently realized that i marrieda stranger, as does she, both lost a friend ...

[hotguy89]

Why can't I have both... an affair and a friend?

of course..but need to take it easy...get to know each other...slowly...sweet dates...moonshine...walks at the beach...towel...hand holding..stargazing...x:kk

[scoobertina]

of course..but need to take it easy...get to know each other...slowly...sweet dates...moonshine...walks at the beach...towel...hand holding..stargazing...x:kk


Hmmm I like a man who wants to know me first... and did you say moonshine, I have some of that...

[hotguy89]

Hmmm I like a man who wants to know me first... and did you say moonshine, I have some of that...
yes please...need to find out what excites a woman...cant be fun without...love to please awoman...raise the heartrate...a slow massage..start at the shouldres...mmm:wa:

[madmod]

Are you offering? If so I will take you up on that... if not... nice meeting ya... LOL:wa:

Of course I am! You have a standing offer on that - and by standing I mean .... ah .... ahem .... :D

[scoobertina]

yes please...need to find out what excites a woman...cant be fun without...love to please awoman...raise the heartrate...a slow massage..start at the shouldres...mmm:wa:


and this woman likes to be pleased... a massage is good, add a couple of light kisses, licks, or breaths to my neck and I am yours...

[scoobertina]

Of course I am! You have a standing offer on that - and by standing I mean .... ah .... ahem .... :D

Oh hon, you are first on my list of standing offers... and I can't wait to visit your pole...umm for you to visit me at the pole...

[madmod]

Oh hon, you are first on my list of standing offers... and I can't wait to visit your pole...umm for you to visit me at the pole...

We're not poles apart, you and I .... Glad to hear I'm in pole position for your standing offers too - makes me horny, uh .... glad - I mean glad! :D

[hotguy89]

and this woman likes to be pleased... a massage is good, add a couple of light kisses, licks, or breaths to my neck and I am yours...
consider it done...blowing along ur earlobes...neckline...bit of a nibble...hmmmnice shoulders...:55

[scoobertina]

consider it done...blowing along ur earlobes...neckline...bit of a nibble...hmmmnice shoulders...:55


oh hon, you are doing this well... keep it up and you will quickly become one of my favorites...

[hotguy89]

oh hon, you are doing this well... keep it up and you will quickly become one of my favorites...
using my teeth a bit more...gliding my hands through ur hair...ever so slowly...my tongue...hmmm...circling..:wa:

[scoobertina]

using my teeth a bit more...gliding my hands through ur hair...ever so slowly...my tongue...hmmm...circling..:wa:

hmmm hmm.... damn hon....

[madmod]

hmmm hmm.... damn hon....

I'm getting affected just reading scoob's replies .... :whee:

[scoobertina]

I'm getting affected just reading scoob's replies .... :whee:

Hon you will benefit from my responses.... if you hang in there long enough

[madmod]

Hon you will benefit from my responses.... if you hang in there long enough


I am a man of infinite .... patience .... ;)

[scoobertina]

I am a man of infinite .... patience .... ;)

and I do like that about you babe.... oh yes I do..

[hotguy89]

hmmm hmm.... damn hon....

flicking now...yes...finding the one with my finger nails..slowly touching...hmm..need to lie down soon...:D :kk

[scoobertina]

flicking now...yes...finding the one with my finger nails..slowly touching...hmm..need to lie down soon...:D :kk


oh yes? need me to take over?... lay down... let me lay my lips on yours, trailing down your cheek, to your neck... to gently bite, suck and lick you there.....

[madmod]

and I do like that about you babe.... oh yes I do..

And I soooooo love to be appreciated .... :knuddel:

[hotguy89]

oh yes? need me to take over?... lay down... let me lay my lips on yours, trailing down your cheek, to your neck... to gently bite, suck and lick you there.....

wow....gettin g warm in here...my mouth is certainly busy on ur assessts...dont know how rude u can be on here :sc
i am certainly having a good movement...sucking them in...:dd

[scoobertina]

And I soooooo love to be appreciated .... :knuddel:

yes, I believe you proved that to me once before...;)

[madmod]

I feel strangely voyeuristic here .... and yet I don't seem to mind .... :D

[madmod]

yes, I believe you proved that to me once before...;)

And I have all the time in the world for proving it again .... and again .... and again .... :lf

[hotguy89]

wow....gettin g warm in here...my mouth is certainly busy on ur assessts...dont know how rude u can be on here :sc
i am certainly having a good movement...sucking them in...:dd

u smell so sweet...your skin is sooo hot...massaging the buds ever soooo slowly...this way...that way...hmm...my nails tracing ur stomach..:knuddel:

[hotguy89]

u smell so sweet...your skin is sooo hot...massaging the buds ever soooo slowly...this way...that way...hmm...my nails tracing ur stomach..:knuddel:

sorry got to go....hope to meet again...:wa:

[madmod]

I guess this is where my patience pays off .... Hmmm?! ;)

[duanehofner]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??




Both

[madmod]

I guess this is where my patience pays off .... Hmmm?! ;)

No - I think my patience just gets a good workout tonight .... :p

[Sneaky]

No - I think my patience just gets a good workout tonight .... :p

LOL. You waited there patiently for a little while.

:55

[madmod]

LOL. You waited there patiently for a little while.

:55

I think I did quite well. :55

Now, have you come to relieve me .... ?! ;) :D

[Sneaky]

I think I did quite well. :55

Now, have you come to relieve me .... ?! ;) :D

Wait, how do you figure that? I didn't read the fine print or see that anywhere........:confused:

Oh, you mean by sitting here waiting patiently? Ok. I'll do that.

[madmod]

Wait, how do you figure that? I didn't read the fine print or see that anywhere........:confused:

Oh, you mean by sitting here waiting patiently? Ok. I'll do that.

Not .... helping .... :spbx:

[yaser]

Affair

[PlayfulMale69]

I'm here for friendship and it is always exciting to see where that would develop.

[MCat]

Why can't I have both... an affair and a friend?

So Tina....if we want both....can we have both....:sc hmmmm....

can't remember what I wanted to say...where I was going with my thought.:(

[paris]

So Tina....if we want both....can we have both....:sc hmmmm....

can't remember what I wanted to say...where I was going with my thought.:(

Sound like me, Mcat! What do they call that? I can't remember...

[duanehofner]

Hard to think I'd be having an affair with someone I was not a friend with????
OMG I think I just described my marriage! lol

[teeumup]

First of all....cheers everyone!;) Hope the evening is bringing about a "change" in thinking!! And Mcat...as for the thought of having both....that's a big 10/4!! It's the anxiety of both that made you lose your thought:whee:!!!

[scoobertina]

So Tina....if we want both....can we have both....:sc hmmmm....

can't remember what I wanted to say...where I was going with my thought.:(

MCat, are you trying to confuse me? where were you going with your thought? Tell me and let's settle this... I want both and I want it rolled into one perfect package... can that happen?

[Han Solo]

MCat, are you trying to confuse me? where were you going with your thought? Tell me and let's settle this... I want both and I want it rolled into one perfect package... can that happen?
Wa-LA......

[teeumup]

Scooby....as long as it stays a friend and lover, you're achieve perfection.......if it gets any deeper:knuddel: than that......run for cover!!MCat, are you trying to confuse me? where were you going with your thought? Tell me and let's settle this... I want both and I want it rolled into one perfect package... can that happen?

[scoobertina]

Wa-LA......

Awww Han, I didn't know you wanted the role....

[scoobertina]

Scooby....as long as it stays a friend and lover, you're achieve perfection.......if it gets any deeper:knuddel: than that......run for cover!!

You are so right... I can't fall in love... I won't let it happen.. I ahh I ummm soooo tee... you sexy stud you.... nnnnnnooooo I must focus....:whee:

[teeumup]

You are so right... I can't fall in love... I won't let it happen.. I ahh I ummm soooo tee... you sexy stud you.... nnnnnnooooo I must focus....:whee:
Why fall in love.....you've already done that!!! Just enjoy the moment.....and bag the "falling" part!!!! There's so much more exploring to do, eh!!:kk

[madmod]

So Tina....if we want both....can we have both....:sc hmmmm...

Yes .... yes, you can - both of you .... ;)

[hotguy89]

Yes .... yes, you can - both of you .... ;)
yep u can...just be patient or......join the cue...! :wa:

[WandaRing]

In here for now, I am only looking for great friendships. I have met four guys on another site that want to start up a long term relationship and I am considering it but I really need to get them down to two somehow, four men are just too hard to handle...

The weird and funny things that have me shaking my head are, if you told me six months ago that I would even consider having an affair, I’d laugh in your face. I mean, I am so shy, I blush when someone tells a dirty joke, I’m not great looking or what you would call hot, I’m just me.
All four guys do make me feel safe, cared for and like maybe I'm not that bad looking after all...this is where you :lmao or :sc

My greastest fears are breaking up a marrage, liking someone a little too much, STD'S or having a baby on my own at 41 yrs of age.

Go figure...I cant....

[hotguy89]

In here for now, I am only looking for great friendships. I have met four guys on another site that want to start up a long term relationship and I am considering it but I really need to get them down to two somehow, four men are just too hard to handle...

The weird and funny things that have me shaking my head are, if you told me six months ago that I would even consider having an affair, I’d laugh in your face. I mean, I am so shy, I blush when someone tells a dirty joke, I’m not great looking or what you would call hot, I’m just me.
All four guys do make me feel safe, cared for and like maybe I'm not that bad looking after all...this is where you :lmao or :sc

My greastest fears are breaking up a marrage, liking someone a little too much, STD'S or having a baby on my own at 41 yrs of age.

Go figure...I cant....

I reckon 2 are too much...unless 1 for the week and 1 for the weekend..i am great believer in tryin g...i dont kn ow if the shoe will fit unless u walk in it...:D :knuddel:

[WandaRing]

I reckon 2 are too much...unless 1 for the week and 1 for the weekend..i am great believer in tryin g...i dont kn ow if the shoe will fit unless u walk in it...:D :knuddel:

I wont be able to see either a lot...one has a job that he can't get away from as much as he would like and the other lives far away...although niether is getting the attention they want at home, they still get some...i dont...and they have both agreed to it....;)

[hotguy89]

I wont be able to see either a lot...one has a job that he can't get away from as much as he would like and the other lives far away...although niether is getting the attention they want at home, they still get some...i dont...and they have both agreed to it....;)
just be discreet and try it...u dont want to break something up before u know whatfor:wa:

[WandaRing]

just be discreet and try it...u dont want to break something up before u know whatfor:wa:


yes true but also want to be safe...test the waters...

[hotguy89]

yes true but also want to be safe...test the waters...


Is it ever safe?? nope....! sorry...either be brave or safe...u cant really ask for a doctors certificate..:D

[MCat]

Is it ever safe?? nope....! sorry...either be brave or safe...
u cant really ask for a doctors certificate..:D

Actually, yes you could...:55

[hotguy89]

Actually, yes you could...:55

wow...love ur avatar..needed to lie down....sooooooo hot!!!
could u really? good old america!:55

[mer]

wow...love ur avatar..needed to lie down....sooooooo hot!!!
could u really? good old america!:55

keep an updated one in my car at all times!!;)

[hotguy89]

keep an updated one in my car at all times!!;)
wow...i am pretty safe then...one partner only...well...if u dont count cyber ...;):dd :blowjob: :D

[WandaRing]

Is it ever safe?? nope....! sorry...either be brave or safe...u cant really ask for a doctors certificate..:D

i mean safe as being careful of when and where you chat, cleaning up the history on the computer...just not being stupid:D

[paris]

~I'm looking for my friend...:( Can't find him tonight...

[duanehofner]

~I'm looking for my friend...:( Can't find him tonight...

What'd he look like, maybe he passed by here!

[Operator Bob]

keep an updated one in my car at all times!!;)

Meredith....are you talking about having an updated avatar or hand-cuffs in your car??

[duanehofner]

since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??




Honestly Red, I feel so beat down right now, I doubt I could handle an affair!

[cherokeered]

Honestly Red, I feel so beat down right now, I doubt I could handle an affair!


Awww...sorry to hear that hun....:kk

[Dmy]

wasnt my intentions when I can here.......but dang tempting ladies! :D

[cheerymissy_34]

friendship would be nice but if that leads to an affair all the much better

[duanehofner]

Thanks Red

[madmod]

friendship would be nice but if that leads to an affair all the much better

Howdy, friend! :wa:

[cheerymissy_34]

Howdy, friend! :wa:

mad u wanna be my friend????:D

[madmod]

mad u wanna be my friend????:D

I put my hand up, didn't I .... ?! :wa:

But maybe this is more convincing .... ?! :kk :knuddel: :lf

[snowflake]

Well I am sure there are a few of us that would take a "beat down" from you.... ;)

Take care of yourself...



Honestly Red, I feel so beat down right now, I doubt I could handle an affair!

[duanehofner]

Well I am sure there are a few of us that would take a "beat down" from you.... ;)

Take care of yourself...

Thanks, Snow

[PlayfulMale69]

I'm here for frienship. The closer we get as friends the more likely I will be thinking about affair. But the original thought and motiviation is for friendship.

[TheTurtle]

I still want to know if it really counts as an affair if your spouse knows about it and/or is OK with it happening... :p

[ErosErotic]

I am not looking for an affair. I guess what I'm looking for is some kind of intimacy. I would love to chat with a woman who knows herself, body and mind; a woman who desires passion as much as I do; a woman who has few inhibitions. I would love to be able to express fantasies and desires and hear some in return. I love to flirt too even if I know it will lead to nothing. Flirting can be so erotic just by itself.

[papabear48]

looking to make some real good friends

[Casperthefriendlyghost]

I am also looking for both. Hopefully somebody lives near Boston or I'll settle for some penpals.

[musicman1181]

i am looking for some cool people to beat the bush with and add perspectives to my life...no affairs.

[p.a]

I'm here to try and live again. I'm here for a lover and friend. I'm here looking for life.

[musicmer]

I really dont need to answer this question. You who matter know why I am here. Those who dont, Dont need to know

[p.a]

To be honest, what I'm looking for would be called an affair being that neither of us can afford to tell our spouses.

[spare_change]

I already got all kinds of friends.

[pointofnoreturn]

yes

[onceamarine]

today I am looking for an affair!

[Pink4You]

a friend would be nice.

[longtall4u]

I'm looking for a friend and if something develops more than that. . . . we'll see!

[spare_change]

Am I looking for a friendship or an affair?



Yes.

[megan363]

I'm looking for a friend and if something develops more than that. . . . we'll see!

Ditto ;)

[yaser]

Why not?I never say no to an affair.Especially if it comes itself in a natural way.

[Jezabella]

Why not?I never say no to an affair.Especially if it comes itself in a natural way.

natural -- you mean without preservatives? :D

[yaser]

natural -- you mean without preservatives? :D
If you have HIV certificate, why not?I have got one, Jezabella.I can show it to you if say ''yes''.

[Big O]

I have met many friends here. Since no female members live close by an affair is probably not going to happen.

[WandaRing]

I still want to know if it really counts as an affair if your spouse knows about it and/or is OK with it happening... :p

its sounding like your not okay with it...go with your own feelings...no one can live your joys or your sorrows....no matter what happens you have to live with the end results...can you look at that man in the mirror, do you like him?

best of luck i hope you find your answer...

[spare_change]

I have met many friends here. Since no female members live close by an affair is probably not going to happen.



Obviously, you need to put our M&F bumper sticker on your truck -- get those local women to join up !!

[Big O]

Obviously, you need to put our M&F bumper sticker on your truck -- get those local women to join up !!

Hmmm.... Didn't know we had them Spare. Do we have an on line store that Idon't know about??

[boomer3]

Looking for an affair myself but believe that it begins with friendship.

[peaches]

Looking for an affair myself but believe that it begins with friendship.
now that sounds like a challenge..lol:whee:

[p.J]

You know I keep coming back to this one... am I looking for an affair? Nope! my life is complicated enough as it is... however, friendships I embrace with open arms! Though, from my experiences in the past, some of these friends have become my lovers, so I remain open-minded... :)



She says swinging her legs while sitting on the fence!

[MCat]

You know I keep coming back to this one... am I looking for an affair? Nope! my life is complicated enough as it is... however, friendships I embrace with open arms! Though, from my experiences in the past, some of these friends have become my lovers, so I remain open-minded... :)



She says swinging her legs while sitting on the fence!

Jen you are precious....:knuddel:

[bryan3636]

....sitting on the fence. Isn't that painful?



You know I keep coming back to this one... am I looking for an affair? Nope! my life is complicated enough as it is... however, friendships I embrace with open arms! Though, from my experiences in the past, some of these friends have become my lovers, so I remain open-minded... :)



She says swinging her legs while sitting on the fence!

[p.J]

....sitting on the fence. Isn't that painful?


Aye, well as I dance around in the buff a fence is not ideal... but hey I'll sit on it if its necessary!:55

[TheTurtle]

Would love some long term friendships; but would enjoy an affair, as well.

[inmy4x]

I am not here for any thing special but if the right girl came around could lead to an affair

[Missy38]

I myself and only looking for someone to flirt with from time to time and friendship.....I am very much in love with my BF....

[69luvrboy]

I am new here. Looking for affair, but realize chances are slim due to my location and my age. Friends would be a bonus.

[mustachrides]

a friend, and it benifits come even better

[mustachrides]

someone who wants to really get to know me, how i tick, and what i like to do,

[cherokeered]

I am new here. Looking for affair, but realize chances are slim due to my location and my age. Friends would be a bonus.

well, this site excels in friendship hun....:wa:

[cherokeered]

I like to flirt but would rather make friends.....:)

[Kansaspk]

cherokeered,

help me out, I'm new. Do i just post here or is there a chat room you all go to?

[cherokeered]

cherokeered,

help me out, I'm new. Do i just post here or is there a chat room you all go to?


On the threads hun...it's post and response....the chatroom is hit or miss although I believe some people lurk in there....:D

[Kansaspk]

yea, I think I might have met a few of those lurking types!!