Is there room for more than just one?! *not as rude as it sounds*

[madmod]

Let's say that some of us here do end up developing deeper friendships that allow us to share a little bit more ....

Would you engage in such pursuits in a monogamous way, i.e. only with one particular person here?! Or could you extend that to include two or more people?!

I was just curious if there's some degree of faithfulness in the flirting or if it's all okay since we seem to have an 'understanding' .... :sc

[Sneaky]

Let's say that some of us here do end up developing deeper friendships that allow us to share a little bit more ....

Would you engage in such pursuits in a monogamous way, i.e. only with one particular person here?! Or could you extend that to include two or more people?!

I was just curious if there's some degree of faithfulness in the flirting or if it's all okay since we seem to have an 'understanding' .... :sc

Wow. I hear crickrets. Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

I think it depends on each individual situation. :55

[scoobertina]

I flirt with many, this is a flirting website.. I think if a person needs more attention than one person can give them then they will seek out more than one "chat partner", but there are many who only need one.... it is a personal preference and whatever anyone wants to do is up to them, none of my business...

[madmod]

Wow. I hear crickrets. Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

I was thinking that too .... Maybe I asked the wrong thing?! :p

[cherokeered]

Well, interesting you should ask this....lol


Actually, Tiger50 and I have become a couple and while I do flirt....it is only on the threads....and of course, he denies any flirting but everyone knows better....lol

Tiger and I are actually planning a future together...in the near future...sigh...we have been together for over a year now...:kk

[tiger50]

Well, interesting you should ask this....lol


Actually, Tiger50 and I have become a couple and while I do flirt....it is only on the threads....and of course, he denies any flirting but everyone knows better....lol

Tiger and I are actually planning a future together...in the near future...sigh...we have been together for over a year now...:kk

heyyyyy , i dont bluddie flirt woman......:nu

[cherokeered]

heyyyyy , i dont bluddie flirt woman......:nu


Ya bluddie well do.....:nu

[UltimateNaneki]

Ok I understand your question well enough. There are lots of "couples" here, and there are lots of individuals with no partners.
I have a very close friend, he and I have an open relationship. We both have others that we are friends with and neither of us are jealous. There is always room for one more in my circle of friends.

[madmod]

Now that's cool to hear .... just a different perspective on things. I'm not saying any particular approach is right or wrong, but what I like about this place is that everyone does at least have their own opinion for themselves ....

Of course, I guess this means my chances are slim-to-none now, huh, Red?! :(

[cherokeered]

Now that's cool to hear .... just a different perspective on things. I'm not saying any particular approach is right or wrong, but what I like about this place is that everyone does at least have their own opinion for themselves ....

Of course, I guess this means my chances are slim-to-none now, huh, Red?! :(


Well hun...I will flirt with ya.....;) Tiger doesnt mind....:)

[madmod]

Well hun...I will flirt with ya.....;) Tiger doesnt mind....:)

Woo hoo! :knuddel:

[MCat]

I think it would be your choice if you want more than one special flirt relationship and of course the person or persons you are flirting with.
I'm married....my husband is here with me...he knows I flirt and he knows I get carried away now and then. Sometimes he is with me when I get carried away and he benefits too....if ya know what I mean ;)

I love to flirt on the threads with lots of men. There are a few :sc ....just a few..that I flirt with on PM or IM.

Can't help it....I just love men....:kk

Hey Tiger....when ya gonna give me a call :D

[deercrow]

Flirting is just that, this is the site for it, but if something else developes I think that is up to them to make that dession. Personally, I love to flirt, but I also feel a certian loyalty with someone special..if he is on he gets aqll my attention, plus I know just how far to take the flirting......lol

[pointofnoreturn]

I flirt with eveyone here also. And have made good friends with aquite a few. But Tiger....He flirts with everyone...Call me babe..:hug:

[tiger50]

I flirt with eveyone here also. And have made good friends with aquite a few. But Tiger....He flirts with everyone...Call me babe..:hug:

heyyyyyy, i dont flirt........:D

[pointofnoreturn]

you a liar

[pointofnoreturn]

:hug:

[Sweetdreams069]

No harm whatsoever in flirting with as many people as you want. I've always wanted a relationship with someone where we weren't so hung up on who does what with whom. Of course every situation is different. Communication is so important and if you want an exclusive type arrangement I think you should both be comfortable with what the other person is doing. I know I don't want my girl holding back on account of me. I want her to be herself. I want her satisfied and happy with her life. Being honest with yourself and your partner about what you want is important to me.

[pointofnoreturn]

the more the merrier?????

[pointofnoreturn]

You get serious and it hurts...alot.

[Amaretto]

No harm whatsoever in flirting with as many people as you want. I've always wanted a relationship with someone where we weren't so hung up on who does what with whom. Of course every situation is different. Communication is so important and if you want an exclusive type arrangement I think you should both be comfortable with what the other person is doing. I know I don't want my girl holding back on account of me. I want her to be herself. I want her satisfied and happy with her life. Being honest with yourself and your partner about what you want is important to me.

I like your thoughts on the matter, sweetdreams.

[Andytyme]

Great thread starter.. I am kinda new here. Not even a month on the site, but I have really taken to it. I love all the fun and flirting with everyone here. I think having fun with EVERYONE is one of the true intentions of this site. If you end up being a little exclusive with one or two, just make sure that all involved know your feelings/thougts about it.

[fly]

I think it's up to the individual or individuals involved.
I know for myself there is only one that I want in THAT way. But I do have a lot of friends here that are fun to flirt or mess with.
Out of respect for him and his feelings I am not as naughty or flirty as I used to be on the threads. Maybe it isn't as much fun for you all......
But then again....he's the one that matters to me....

[RedVixen]

Let's say that some of us here do end up developing deeper friendships that allow us to share a little bit more ....

Would you engage in such pursuits in a monogamous way, i.e. only with one particular person here?! Or could you extend that to include two or more people?!

I was just curious if there's some degree of faithfulness in the flirting or if it's all okay since we seem to have an 'understanding' .... :sc

I think most people flirt with many on the site. If someone is 'attached' to another on this thread, most times they will let you know what the boundaries are for them. Try and have some fun madmod and don't worry about who's with who:)

[ethans_so_bad]

Now it's hard to tell whether THIS was my sweet one - or the other. So remind me to reward you for them both............:kk

I think it's up to the individual or individuals involved.

I know for myself there is only one that I want in THAT way. But I do have a lot of friends here that are fun to flirt or mess with.
Out of respect for him and his feelings I am not as naughty or flirty as I used to be on the threads. Maybe it isn't as much fun for you all......
But then again....he's the one that matters to me....

[fly]

Now it's hard to tell whether THIS was my sweet one - or the other. So remind me to reward you for them both............:kk

Dang.........
I'm turning into a sissy.........
I"ll have to remedy that.......Now drop yer drawers!!!!

[ethans_so_bad]

oh youre WAY too late with that command............





Dang.........

I'm turning into a sissy.........
I"ll have to remedy that.......Now drop yer drawers!!!!

[fly]

oh youre WAY too late with that command............
:whee: Mergatory!!!!!
Who turned up the heat????

[ethans_so_bad]

LOL! now get over here up on my desk and swing those legs like you're still innocent...........





:whee: Mergatory!!!!!

Who turned up the heat????

[paris]

You get serious and it hurts...alot.
Soooo true! Take it from someone who just got hurt...keep it light and fun...no more than that.

[madmod]

I think most people flirt with many on the site. If someone is 'attached' to another on this thread, most times they will let you know what the boundaries are for them. Try and have some fun madmod and don't worry about who's with who:)

Thanks, Red .... the more I relax here, the more I like it. And I've also had a lot of fun so far .... Giddyup! :55

[p.J]

I have seen people change their online partners as frequently as their drawers! Naturally, their are some who do hitch-up and a relationship ensues. But you will become instinctive Madmod, though of course sometimes its blatantly obvious! Anyway, you look like you are doing damn fine from where I'm sitting... :)

[madmod]

But you will become instinctive Madmod, though of course sometimes its blatantly obvious! Anyway, you look like you are doing damn fine from where I'm sitting... :)

Well, thankyou, Jenny .... this place certainly is a wonderland! :55

[hank69]

YA what they said.....Flirt-ters.....Flirt away.....

[Sensual Woman]

;) I think flirting with many people is harmless and fun - but if I were to actually hook up with someone, I'd just want it to be one person.

[scoobertina]

No harm whatsoever in flirting with as many people as you want. I've always wanted a relationship with someone where we weren't so hung up on who does what with whom. Of course every situation is different. Communication is so important and if you want an exclusive type arrangement I think you should both be comfortable with what the other person is doing. I know I don't want my girl holding back on account of me. I want her to be herself. I want her satisfied and happy with her life. Being honest with yourself and your partner about what you want is important to me.

I am with Sweet here... and talk to each other, be open and honest with each other...

[cmt21lem]

i support the circle of friends

[Sensual Woman]

You get serious and it hurts...alot.

Amen to that. I've been hurt enough already.

[WandaRing]

Let's say that some of us here do end up developing deeper friendships that allow us to share a little bit more ....

Would you engage in such pursuits in a monogamous way, i.e. only with one particular person here?! Or could you extend that to include two or more people?!

I was just curious if there's some degree of faithfulness in the flirting or if it's all okay since we seem to have an 'understanding' .... :sc

I think flirting is just a pleasurable and entertaining moment, all done in fun and is not meant to be a relationship (gee have you been in the chat-room lately, I am sure they are discussing the weather)…if I had a guy ask me not to flirt with anyone else…unless i am in a real relatioship with him, I would say good-bye to him.:wa:

[Sensual Woman]

I think for flirting there is no need to be monogomous - but if it starts going further, I would think there should be some degree of monogomy

[duanehofner]

I currently have 4 woman I chat with about very different things, each include a different kind and level of flirting, but I care for each of their feelings equally.

[duanehofner]

I think for flirting there is no need to be monogomous - but if it starts going further, I would think there should be some degree of monogomy
I do have to agree with that. I would be less of a flirt with others if one became more of a relationship. Good point Miss

[Sensual Woman]

I do have to agree with that. I would be less of a flirt with others if one became more of a relationship. Good point Miss

Thanks, hon:kk

[boomer3]

I think flirting is just a pleasurable and entertaining moment, all done in fun and is not meant to be a relationship (gee have you been in the chat-room lately, I am sure they are discussing the weather)…if I had a guy ask me not to flirt with anyone else…unless i am in a real relatioship with him, I would say good-bye to him.:wa:

Hey we talk sports in there too annie. LOL Good point though, didn't think we came here to get tied down in the cyber world, that's what real life is for. :D

[p.a]

It sounds good and maybe even start out as just flirting. But sometimes hearts do grow fonder. There are risks.

[MIGHTY]

I think there is always room for more than one friendship. I know that I have spoken to a few members on IM and have shared more about myself than I expected to. I can also say that I have developed a serious relationship here and it does not affect my relationships with others. The only time he would jump in on a conversation is if he thought I couldn't handle the brazen approach of another. He has only made one post in regards to an inappropriate comment in my direction. Otherwise he allows me to be who I am......Mighty........

[baby face]

There is room for many friendships!!!! Thats what makes this site soooo fun! I guess putting it in a nice way for a woman u can kind of be a slut and not really be considered one........its all fun! If someone wanted me to quit talking to others I would have to say good bye........If I only wanted to chat with one I wouldn't come to this site.....I have my hubby at home for that!!!!!

[scott2006]

definitely more, there are great people on this site, good friends and horny fckers ;-)) you know who you are ;-)

[scott2006]

There is room for many friendships!!!! Thats what makes this site soooo fun! I guess putting it in a nice way for a woman u can kind of be a slut and not really be considered one........its all fun! If someone wanted me to quit talking to others I would have to say good bye........If I only wanted to chat with one I wouldn't come to this site.....I have my hubby at home for that!!!!!


yup, the more friends the better, and the more slutty friends, wooohooooo :-))) :wk:

[Big O]

I have been here from almost the beginning. I have seen many changes watching the site grow and mature. I have watched our family of friends grow as well. What I have noticed of the past couple of years is that there are a lot more "couples" here than ever. I stumbled in here not knowing what I would find or even what it was I was looking for. What happened was I met a lot of nice people that loved to flirt with each other. I think as time went on flirting turned into "hooking up" by certain couples. Now it is commonplace. I come here to say hi to my friends, read posts, and flirt with the ladies. That's not to say that I havn't become close to anyone here, but for God's sake, this is a flirting site. If someone sent me a pm telling me not to flirt with a certain individual I would tell him to go F%$k off, unless that lady also told me not to. So to answer the original question, yes, there is and always will be room for more than one.

[scoobertina]

I have been here from almost the beginning. I have seen many changes watching the site grow and mature. I have watched our family of friends grow as well. What I have noticed of the past couple of years is that there are a lot more "couples" here than ever. I stumbled in here not knowing what I would find or even what it was I was looking for. What happened was I met a lot of nice people that loved to flirt with each other. I think as time went on flirting turned into "hooking up" by certain couples. Now it is commonplace. I come here to say hi to my friends, read posts, and flirt with the ladies. That's not to say that I havn't become close to anyone here, but for God's sake, this is a flirting site. If someone sent me a pm telling me not to flirt with a certain individual I would tell him to go F%$k off, unless that lady also told me not to. So to answer the original question, yes, there is and always will be room for more than one.


it is easy to get involved with more than one person.. I have many friends I talk to.. and for now it will remain that way... I don't want my heart to get too involved... it hurts already when one of my friends gets upset with me... I would hate for a man to tell me that he wanted only me then decided that maybe he needs to work harder on his marriage.. thus leaving me alone... not going to let that happen to me..

[p.J]

.. its not just down to the persons involved in an online affair, its also important for others to be instinctive enough to know when two people are mutually very much an item... I for one do not like stepping on peoples toes and happily back off if I think its a serious liaison! :)

[Sensual Woman]

.. its not just down to the persons involved in an online affair, its also important for others to be instinctive enough to know when two people are mutually very much an item... I for one do not like stepping on peoples toes and happily back off if I think its a serious liaison! :)

I agree with you.

[Domus]

I just keep thinking "squeeze, squeeze, squeeze." ...you'll get more room...:)

[Bama River Man]

I believe part of what Harry told Sally, men and women can sometimes be friends.

[Sneaky]

.. its not just down to the persons involved in an online affair, its also important for others to be instinctive enough to know when two people are mutually very much an item... I for one do not like stepping on peoples toes and happily back off if I think its a serious liaison! :)
I always did the same. In life and here. Not everyone does.

[wolfman]

I think for flirting there is no need to be monogomous - but if it starts going further, I would think there should be some degree of monogomy
I agree

[pointofnoreturn]

I think so many men.......I am hungry........

[a_hungm_houston]

I have had a lover before one of 5 yrs, we made an agreement not to fool around to keep it clean