A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives

[MCat]

did the subject change help, I am curious, how do you keep the fire burning

We re-kindled our fire by coming here to this site. Of course sharing this place with your spouse is not possible for everyone. We decided we better start talking or lose all the years we had together. It helped us to be more relaxed in discussing our likes/dislikes with each other...we found out stuff about each other we never knew in the first 29 years of our marriage.

[duanehofner]

We re-kindled our fire by coming here to this site. Of course sharing this place with your spouse is not possible for everyone. We decided we better start talking or lose all the years we had together. It helped us to be more relaxed in discussing our likes/dislikes with each other...we found out stuff about each other we never knew in the first 29 years of our marriage.

That is awsome. Good for you and best of luck.

[toowildtotame]

I vote for having a SEX HOLIDAY-- mmmmmm that lasts all year long!!
Having Sex with a willing and loving partner is an adventure to be explored and ENJOYED by both parties. The limits of that exploration are set by the the explorers.
I need to find an Explorer, I still have some exploration to do*wink*.

[SirFox]

We re-kindled our fire by coming here to this site. Of course sharing this place with your spouse is not possible for everyone. We decided we better start talking or lose all the years we had together. It helped us to be more relaxed in discussing our likes/dislikes with each other...we found out stuff about each other we never knew in the first 29 years of our marriage.

We? I love that "we"....:D

[sparkle889beach]

Talk about real life issues??? OMG!!! What a concept!!!

But, it must be prefaced with a warning!!! Be careful --- be very careful!!

Its a risk, spare is correct:wa: ...the intelligent people might not be trained to give proper advise...
If it is for discussion means, it still needs to be moderated well..it may lead to a misunderstood advise causing someone to hurt him/herself.:kk
Goodluck!

[dave42]

Penny, my wife is too dull and too much of a conservative and old fashion, I cant get her to try a new poisition or anal sex even giveing me a blow job is a workout she wont do if I dont push.What can I do about this??She is a wonderfull woman and I love her and when we have sex it's good.But not enough for me.Now I know why you call yourself the Saint! LoL! Hopefully you can meet some one wild and crazy to fix that! :wa:

[p.a]

Originally Posted by TheSaint69
Penny, my wife is too dull and too much of a conservative and old fashion, I cant get her to try a new poisition or anal sex even giveing me a blow job is a workout she wont do if I dont push.What can I do about this??She is a wonderfull woman and I love her and when we have sex it's good.But not enough for me.



Patients Patients Patients. Some women need to be romanced, wined and dined. Lots of wine maybe? The act of love making for some is more than a good fuck. Start by educateing yourself. Then learn how to teach.

[leo_sexy]

well said

[kaycee727(m)]

since this is a forum about non sex things and marriage I need to ask a simple question. Is it possible to still love your spouse and not like who she has become over the years?

[kaycee727(m)]

part two of that question when is it time to let go of the dream and deal with the reality of who she really is and do I still stay married?

[SirFox]

part two of that question when is it time to let go of the dream and deal with the reality of who she really is and do I still stay married?

KAYCEE: I believe that one can still love a partner, a husband or a wife even after all fails in a marriage. I also believe that when the negative lits becomes too long and much longer than the positive list, one should consider thinking about splitting up. One should remember that a person in such a situation should consider all the practical reasons for remaining and of leaving a partner as well.

[Agent]

Great idea Penny. :)

[KindheartedWoman]

That's great! I didn't know this forum existed.

[glamourgirl]

There are many intelligent people here and I thought a place to talk about current events and real life situations might come in handy :)
If not it wont be hard to delete ;)


good idea! Im in!

[fondew2004]

There are many intelligent people here and I thought a place to talk about current events and real life situations might come in handy :)
If not it wont be hard to delete ;)

Penny: let's go for it!

Anyone want to begin a thread??

Like....Given the current state of Social Security, what age now will arrive at 67 years of age and find the "cookie jar" empty??

Or....If one is old enough to qualify, should one begin to draw SS now, or wait until they are older - say 65, or 66?

[Tempest]

:sry.!

[Shawn]

Example #23423 why a few threads should die ..but at the least should be interesting.

[Tempest]

Example #23423 why a few threads should die ..but at the least should be interesting.


Oh ye of little faith. you are so dry ya know? do you need me to send you some lube?

[Shawn]

Oh ye of little faith. you are so dry ya know? do you need me to send you some lube?

No lube required here.. I will however refrain from airing some M&F history as it is not my place to do so..... my remark was not directed solely at you .... some threads IMHO are best left in the archive thats all.

I do however hope that for you this site can do what you seek, as it has helped me tremendously

[Tempest]

Actually, I laughed at your post. I hope you didn't think I was gunning for you. I wouldn't be nervous about talking to the hubby if I didn't think it was a bad idea on some level.

Thanks for the reply

[GeekMaster]

Actually, I laughed at your post. I hope you didn't think I was gunning for you. I wouldn't be nervous about talking to the hubby if I didn't think it was a bad idea on some level.

Thanks for the reply

Spanky, send me an IM on Yahoo??:dt

[Writerman]

It creates a costly expense for lotion.