A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives

[Penny]

There are many intelligent people here and I thought a place to talk about current events and real life situations might come in handy :)
If not it wont be hard to delete ;)

[Norfolkdave]

There are many intelligent people here and I thought a place to talk about current events and real life situations might come in handy :)
If not it wont be hard to delete ;)

Go for it I,ll give my backing 100%:wa:

[TheSaint69]

Penny, my wife is too dull and too much of a conservative and old fashion, I cant get her to try a new poisition or anal sex even giveing me a blow job is a workout she wont do if I dont push.What can I do about this??She is a wonderfull woman and I love her and when we have sex it's good.But not enough for me.

[Jy]

I think it's a good idea to have this thread too. There's some very intelligent people here, who can offer some great feedback on any issues I might be having, or just to talk about current events.

I'm not sure the saint read the topic on this thread, but oh well.
Hey, saint, you and I have the same problems at home. Talk to me. I can't give you any advice, but I have big shoulders to lean on.:kk

[sparc]

Saint you should try other things... my wife doesn't like anal (tried it once when real drunk), she says it "hurts". However, massage back there always gets a stir.

[TheSaint69]

I tried to talk to my wife today to spice up things a little, and she said o.k. we will try a few new positions but no anal she say's.That's out of the question.I think I made some progress what do you think Jugs?

[TheSaint69]

I'll try that one Sparks!

[SirFox]

I am convinced that many people in the sex area are conservative to begin with. You want to know why?

The same reason that many people are conservative about life.

People are afraid of many things, and partuclarly of new things. Do you know what the percentage of people trying new products that find themselves on the market? 4%! You read FOUR PERCENT? Yes, correct.

So if your wife does not want to try new things, I understand that she is part of the 96%. Therefore what do you do?

Be patient and hold her hand in trust in confidence and tell her how much you love her and how you do not wish to hurt her. She is afraid, remember. Do remember that most of us are children emotionally...and cannot accept easily any change.

What seems evident is not your particular case

God knows how many people live with poor sexual satisfaction: you are obviously a man knowledgeable of love. She may not be. So you will teach her with kindness and love and caring for her.

What do you think of this proposal? It might work.

Good Luck.

[Jy]

Sounds encouraging, Saint. Good for you! Just remember, baby steps. I know from experience. I can be a tab...let's say, enthusiastic, and have heard, "What are you DOING?!" a few too many times for my self esteem. Take it slow. But at least she said yes to trying something new. Try with the lights off first. maybe that will help.
I was thinking about what you said, ffox, about people not willing to try new things. I guess I'm in the 4%. I love trying new products, new restaurants, new styles. Change is part of life. Too bad so many people are resistant to it.


I tried to talk to my wife today to spice up things a little, and she said o.k. we will try a few new positions but no anal she say's.That's out of the question.I think I made some progress what do you think Jugs?

[Bandit256]

I tried to talk to my wife today to spice up things a little, and she said o.k. we will try a few new positions but no anal she say's.That's out of the question.I think I made some progress what do you think Jugs?

I am trying the same thing Saint. It will take time.

[Seeker]

While I like to try new things, once I find something I like, I want to stick with it! If for some reason that thing is replaced with something less than the original ... I get cranky!

[Norfolkdave]

With my situation no change except we are laughing and yes cuddling a bit, jovial cuddling and play ful things, so maybe just maybe she will relent to more activity but then in another 7 years i,ll be retired, oh dear time waits for no one

[bonzzz4292]

I like to have non-sexual conversations too.

I don't always don't know the right things to say and get into trouble or start an argument.

[spare_change]

Talk about real life issues??? OMG!!! What a concept!!!

But, it must be prefaced with a warning!!! Be careful --- be very careful!!

[Jy]

But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?

[Sandy]

very true. as far as new positions i'm sorry but no anal. i'll try alot of things but not that 1. believe it or not itds really not good for your body. besides that theres alot of pain i hear. thanks but no thanks. sex should be all about pleasure for both partners.

[yaser]

I like to have non-sexual conversations too.

I don't always don't know the right things to say and get into trouble or start an argument.Bonz,this is an open forum... there is not right or wrong in real life...in cyber life we must be freer to discuss all of human problems sexual or non sexual.love,flirting and sex is the real area of human beings and almost everything is related to sex, as Freud pointed out.Please tell us your ideas and let's start an discussion..I believe thi,s forum is free debate forum..every body must be free from his or her restraints.Strat an an arguement...

[yaser]

very true. as far as new positions i'm sorry but no anal. i'll try alot of things but not that 1. believe it or not itds really not good for your body. besides that theres alot of pain i hear. thanks but no thanks. sex should be all about pleasure for both partners.It is not healthy, either and not satisfactory...not appropriate for the sexual purposes..Let's obey the nature's rules and nor deviate...

[spare_change]

It is not healthy, either and not satisfactory...not appropriate for the sexual purposes..Let's obey the nature's rules and nor deviate...

Hmmmmm --- how about YOU not deviate, and the rest of us do as we please?

[yaser]

Penny, my wife is too dull and too much of a conservative and old fashion, I cant get her to try a new poisition or anal sex even giveing me a blow job is a workout she wont do if I dont push.What can I do about this??She is a wonderfull woman and I love her and when we have sex it's good.But not enough for me.Saint,sex is a work carried to the extend to someone who permits and we permit.So you must be respectable to her wishes..Anal course is not conforming with the nature...it is created for another purpose... but we human beings violate the rules..I believe
we must not.deviate.if your wife does not want...you must accept it..

[yaser]

Hmmmmm --- how about YOU not deviate, and the rest of us do as we please?If your partner accepts, do whatever you wish...The condition is to accept and be willing to obey the rights of your partner..In case you don't make love with yourself...Then you can be free..to do what you wish..:drink:

[yaser]

But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?
Dear Jugs,dirtiness and sex... do not go together...sex is the cleanest act or behavior we have in this world..I don't like sex to be considered as a dirty thing...It is also considered as dirty thing in my culture...If there is no sex, we would not exist on this earth and talk about it.Please don't use sex and dirtiness together..:kk

[Polo38]

But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?

Statically speaking we spend actually a small amount of time having sex, probably much to the chagrin of many of us, in actuality our thoughts and energy are consumed by what makes us what we are, husbands and wives, mother and fathers, sons and daughters, what keeps us going during the intervals of passages of dreams and desires.

[Sandy]

ok guys i'm going to change the subject here. is anybody here ready for the holidays? i know i'm not. :wa:

[Annie]

Holidays? Are the holidays coming up? HELL NO! I'm not ready!

[SirFox]

Holidays? Are the holidays coming up? HELL NO! I'm not ready!

The Christmas rush is on....with all the different types of choclates, cookies, marmaledes, jams, special foods that arrive in the stores including cranberries from Massachusetts and Canada....

The idea of doing things for people sounds great. This year I will go out and help with the soup kitchens here in the City. What should one do with the real and the fake beggars?
Should one consider at Xmas time that everyone is a real "beggar"...and just give?

The idea of giving posh gifts now has no more meaning for me. I just want to give of myself. So ho-ho-ho...here comes F-Fox....

What are you Folks planning for the Xmas and New Year's?

[Jy]

No, I'm not ready, but have a schedule in place. We're hosting Christmas this year, so I have to be organized. I'm going to start my baking next week, and I've started a bit of shopping.

[Sandy]

don't feel bad neither am i' if i could stay out of here i might get some :lmao work done.

[Wet Beaver]

ewwww christmas.....nope not ready.....not even ready for thanksgiving....all i know is i am working new years eve....

[Wet Beaver]

No, I'm not ready, but have a schedule in place. We're hosting Christmas this year, so I have to be organized. I'm going to start my baking next week, and I've started a bit of shopping.


would you do some bakeing for me??

[Sandy]

hey i'll be your taste tester. :wa:

[stonejack]

way off coures here but the only thing I can think of is how cold it got here so fast . Frozen tush today !

[Penny]

Everyone comes to my house for xmass :(

[Jy]

Absolutely.
We had our first few flakes of snow drifting around tonight, so I'm starting to get in the mood for Christmas baking.
Hopefully we all post a few of our favourite recipes on the recipes thread so we can try each other's holiday treats.


would you do some bakeing for me??

[Sandy]

cool i love snow. i can't wait for the recipes either. :wa:

[MCat]

Our snow started yesterday....woke up this morning to light flurrys and about an inch in the ground, just beautiful.

[Seeker]

Gotta get new tires for the car, as well as a new water pump. Still dealing with storm damage from the storm a month ago. Trying to get ready for Thanksgiving. Chritsmas, .... haven't even started yet!

[Sandy]

lol you guys be careful with that beautiful but deadly.

[spare_change]

lol you guys be careful with that beautiful but deadly.


My sister used to say that all the time!

[Sandy]

its the truth, theres nothing more deadly than black ice.

[surfnchat]

I'm not even close to ready for the holidays!!! I barely made it past Halloween! :lmao

[SirFox]

its the truth, theres nothing more deadly than black ice.

MYWIFEMARK. I have driven since the age of 17. I have driven in snows that are actually drifts in Canada and in the MidWest US, as well as in the Saudi and Middle East deserts in blinding light.

And with that black ice is the worst. Here in Europe, because you do not see it, it kills.

[Sandy]

i know ffox. i lived in europe for 10 years. :wa:

[spare_change]

holidays???


Is Halloween over already??

[Norfolkdave]

Christmas starts for us having a drink in the "Well" with our friends, Wayne & Jen, possibly Garry & Gill, and a couple from another village if not snowed in,. Christmas day will be spent opening our prezzies, helping in the kitchen getting dinner ready. Watching the kids enjoy themselves from the comfort of our home. Going to the Shrine of our Lady in the afternoon and lighting a candle for safety in the world. Coming back having a shuteye, then the evening a lesuirey stroll round the village before coming back and having tea and watching the TV

[Sandy]

that sounds really nice dave, but we have to get thru thanksgiving first. :wa:

[Norfolkdave]

that sounds really nice dave, but we have to get thru thanksgiving first. :wa:

You have thanks giving first dont you, sorry. Time lapses make a difference:D

[spare_change]

You have thanks giving first dont you, sorry. Time lapses make a difference:D

England doesn't have its own Thanksgiving -- celebrating the day those pesky Pilgrims left?

[Sandy]

no i don't think they do. its ok dave i forgot about time to. :wa:

[jon41]

We dont have thanksgiving in Scotland either cos the the pilgrims are still here. (only joking Dave, some of my best mates are English

[Jy]

England has a kind of harvest day in October, but no Thanksgiving. That holiday is strictly North American, and is a day to honour the feast that the pilgrims and Indians had as a sign of their new - and short-lived- peaceable living arrangements.

Canada celebrates Thanksgiving the second Monday in October. Traditionally it's a quiet holiday, with a big dinner with familyand that's about it. The Amercians celebrate it on the 24th of November, and traditionally it's a three ring circus, and also the official start of the Christmas holidays.

[Wet Beaver]

England has a kind of harvest day in October, but no Thanksgiving. That holiday is strictly North American, and is a day to honour the feast that the pilgrims and Indians had as a sign of their new - and short-lived- peaceable living arrangements.

Canada celebrates Thanksgiving the second Monday in October. Traditionally it's a quiet holiday, with a big dinner with familyand that's about it. The Amercians celebrate it on the 24th of November, and traditionally it's a three ring circus, and also the official start of the Christmas holidays.

they should change the name..from thanksgiving to christmas shopping eve....

[Penny]

My husbands best friend in high school came from Scotland. He was hung like a horse.

I know this from playing strip poker :gs


We dont have thanksgiving in Scotland either cos the the pilgrims are still here. (only joking Dave, some of my best mates are English

[spare_change]

My husbands best friend in high school came from Scotland. He was hung like a horse.

I know this from playing strip poker :gs


Methinks there is a much "larger" story here.

[Polo38]

My husbands best friend in high school came from Scotland. He was hung like a horse.

I know this from playing strip poker :gs

ok....so what happen after strip poker....with the optimal word being poker

[Polo38]

England has a kind of harvest day in October, but no Thanksgiving. That holiday is strictly North American, and is a day to honour the feast that the pilgrims and Indians had as a sign of their new - and short-lived- peaceable living arrangements.

Canada celebrates Thanksgiving the second Monday in October. Traditionally it's a quiet holiday, with a big dinner with familyand that's about it. The Amercians celebrate it on the 24th of November, and traditionally it's a three ring circus, and also the official start of the Christmas holidays.


We Americans are the hedonistic’s of the free world and unfortunately one can not borrow against the future forever...someone has to pay…that is where I fear the sake of our children's future lies.

[spare_change]

We Americans are the hedonistic’s of the free world and unfortunately one can not borrow against the future forever...someone has to pay…that is where I fear the sake of our children's future lies.


Hmmmm --- I don't think I would agree. I have a different view of it -- The advance in American global position isn't because of military might, or financial strength, or surplus of natural resources. Rather, it is because we have developed a national sense of purpose, of growth and exploration. When faced with a problem, we don't throw up our hands, and say "Woe is me!". Rather, we focus all our resources on resolving that problem. Whether it is the race to the moom, or Reagan's commitment to defeating the evil empire, once the die is cast, all hands heave to until the problem is solved. So, any problem we create now (dependence on oil, national debt, social security issues) can be fixed by a national commitment to solving it. We have always been able to, and i see no reason to be less than optimistic today.

The real problem we face now -- temporary, though it may be -- is that we have the leadership of one of our political parties who are more concerned about regaining power than in what is good for the nation. It is inconceivable that our congress should be arguing among themselves - jockeying for political position - when we have troops in the field. One half of the Congress is so intent on demonizing and diminishing the current administration, that they will step on the backs of the elderly and the military in order to get there. It is their myopic, self serving piffle that is the greatest threat to our country today.

[Sandy]

what else is new?

there all like that anymore.

[Jy]

If you listen closely, you can hear the soft strains of God Bless America when you read spare's post.



Sorry, spare, I'm with xenote on this one.

[spare_change]

If you listen closely, you can hear the soft strains of God Bless America when you read spare's post.



Sorry, spare, I'm with xenote on this one.


It's ok to be wrong --- LOL !!!!!!!!!

[spare_change]

If you listen closely, you can hear the soft strains of God Bless America when you read spare's post.



Sorry, spare, I'm with xenote on this one.

Seriously, though --- tell me more. convince me. I am not close minded -- in fact, i enjoy a spirited debate. (I like showing you the errors of your ways -- lol)

[Jy]

Well ,the first part of my post was just a stupid joke to get your goat. And as for the second part, I wasn't referring to the states specifically, but to the general commercialism of Christmas everywhere. I'm not adverse to giving gifts, and I certainly plan on making every Christmas of my son's as memorable as possible, but the exploitation of every holiday out there wears me down. Even Hallowe'en is touted now as the perfect occasion to buy your spouse a new car!! We are a comsumer-focussed society, who buy, use, and dispose of materials so carelessly and without conscience. It gets me down.
Okay, you know how much I love my soapbox, so I'm going to stop there, and put the darn thing away.

[Sandy]

why your right?

i can't stand the way they do things now.

its suppose to be for the kids. but they way they do things now. i'm beginning to hate the holidays.

[Penny]

Same room sex God I miss those days:gs



ok....so what happen after strip poker....with the optimal word being poker

[spare_change]

Well ,the first part of my post was just a stupid joke to get your goat. And as for the second part, I wasn't referring to the states specifically, but to the general commercialism of Christmas everywhere. I'm not adverse to giving gifts, and I certainly plan on making every Christmas of my son's as memorable as possible, but the exploitation of every holiday out there wears me down. Even Hallowe'en is touted now as the perfect occasion to buy your spouse a new car!! We are a comsumer-focussed society, who buy, use, and dispose of materials so carelessly and without conscience. It gets me down.
Okay, you know how much I love my soapbox, so I'm going to stop there, and put the darn thing away.

Fortunately, I was playing with my goat - so, you didn't get it!!

I couldn't agree more about the commercialization of the holidays, though I did find it interesting that you admit, while you don't like it, you are still going to do it. It all seems to fall under that larger umbrella of disintegration of morals and family. Holidays were intended to celebrate something, whether it be religious or secular -- but we feel so guilty about working all the time, or ignoring our kids, that we use the holiday as an excuse to overindulge them.

As for being a consumer-focused society, as it has always been, so it shall always be. Our commercialism is no different than the commercialism of the Roman Empire, or the Anasazi indians, or the Incans. It isn't whether you change it or not -- it's how you react to it, how you manage it. We may be the first civilization to realize that it, in fact, does need to be managed.

Have faith -- and be of good cheer. There truly is hope on the horizon.

[Polo38]

Same room sex God I miss those days:gs


ok penny...you and he or you and heaterman with him in the room only?

[spare_change]

Same room sex God I miss those days:gs


I just KNOW there is a story here that I want to hear!

[Norfolkdave]

We dont have thanksgiving in Scotland either cos the the pilgrims are still here. (only joking Dave, some of my best mates are English

Thats ok some of my friends( female too) are scottish, upstanding and fine wenches.:wa: Hello Jon41 welcome to a lovely site.

[SirFox]

My husbands best friend in high school came from Scotland. He was hung like a horse.

I know this from playing strip poker :gs

Now Penny...how do you know that your husband's friend was hung like a horse? You were visiting stables or what?

You could see that close up without a microscope or a magnifying glass?
Did you happen to be passing past the soccer jocks locker room and "just saw into their showers"?

Hummm....

[SirFox]

We Americans are the hedonistic’s of the free world and unfortunately one can not borrow against the future forever...someone has to pay…that is where I fear the sake of our children's future lies.

I think that we in America and other places have to stop looking at our navels and be so negative. True America is hedonistic, so is the UK ( sorry, David) and France and all the other developed countries. We are ALL borrowing against our children's future.

Some of the the WORLD problems are as follows: 1) we have difficulty consciously accepting that each country has to do something on a GLOBAL scale and join with others to solve those problems because we are still in a country-minded mode, (i.e., France for France, Italy for Italy, Japan for Japan, etc.), 2) we may recognize that we have certain problems in our societies but it is almost always the others who has to solve the problems first, 3) we mistrust more and more everything and everyone, 4) we live in a Global economy that has Global problems with leaders who are 19th century politicians with 19th century ways.

I stop there...otherwise I will get my own Goat. :wa:

[SirFox]

"I really do not know what I did to God for him to fulfill me of so many joys and so much music! ", wrote Offenbach.

Uncontested creator of the operetta, he was the inventor of the French cancan, and of the “Bouffes Parisiens ” (dinner and theater), exactly 150 years ago.

While watching French Cancan would you like a :drink: ?

[Jy]

Ah, but you assumed when I said I wanted to make Christmas memorable for my son that I was planning on inundating him with gifts, which I haven't ever done or plan to do.
Our Christmases are memorable because of the traditions we've established, such as watching the lighting of the lights in our park, baking, and decorating the house. We help out with community charities each year, and also have a special shopping day to buy for a needy family. We try to teach our son that Christmas is about giving, not about getting.
Of course he gets presents! What parent doesn't look forward to the face of their child as they open a much anticipated gift? But moderation is the key, and remembering the true meaning of Christmas, regardless of your religious beliefs.






Fortunately, I was playing with my goat - so, you didn't get it!!

I couldn't agree more about the commercialization of the holidays, though I did find it interesting that you admit, while you don't like it, you are still going to do it. It all seems to fall under that larger umbrella of disintegration of morals and family. Holidays were intended to celebrate something, whether it be religious or secular -- but we feel so guilty about working all the time, or ignoring our kids, that we use the holiday as an excuse to overindulge them.

As for being a consumer-focused society, as it has always been, so it shall always be. Our commercialism is no different than the commercialism of the Roman Empire, or the Anasazi indians, or the Incans. It isn't whether you change it or not -- it's how you react to it, how you manage it. We may be the first civilization to realize that it, in fact, does need to be managed.

Have faith -- and be of good cheer. There truly is hope on the horizon.

[Sandy]

that is so true jugs. if we don't teach them who will?

:wa:

[Jy]

Wow! Well said fox!




I think that we in America and other places have to stop looking at our navels and be so negative. True America is hedonistic, so is the UK ( sorry, David) and France and all the other developed countries. We are ALL borrowing against our children's future.

Some of the the WORLD problems are as follows: 1) we have difficulty consciously accepting that each country has to do something on a GLOBAL scale and join with others to solve those problems because we are still in a country-minded mode, (i.e., France for France, Italy for Italy, Japan for Japan, etc.), 2) we may recognize that we have certain problems in our societies but it is almost always the others who has to solve the problems first, 3) we mistrust more and more everything and everyone, 4) we live in a Global economy that has Global problems with leaders who are 19th century politicians with 19th century ways.

I stop there...otherwise I will get my own Goat. :wa:

[Norfolkdave]

Here dont you bring mme into your postings as such, Im happy as I am thankyou,

[Norfolkdave]

England has a kind of harvest day in October, but no Thanksgiving. That holiday is strictly North American, and is a day to honour the feast that the pilgrims and Indians had as a sign of their new - and short-lived- peaceable living arrangements.

Canada celebrates Thanksgiving the second Monday in October. Traditionally it's a quiet holiday, with a big dinner with familyand that's about it. The Amercians celebrate it on the 24th of November, and traditionally it's a three ring circus, and also the official start of the Christmas holidays.

Whats that then Jugs, News to me:wa:

[youngbuck]

jugs can you bake me a apple pie?

[MCat]

Ah, but you assumed when I said I wanted to make Christmas memorable for my son that I was planning on inundating him with gifts, which I haven't ever done or plan to do.
Our Christmases are memorable because of the traditions we've established, such as watching the lighting of the lights in our park, baking, and decorating the house. We help out with community charities each year, and also have a special shopping day to buy for a needy family. We try to teach our son that Christmas is about giving, not about getting.
Of course he gets presents! What parent doesn't look forward to the face of their child as they open a much anticipated gift? But moderation is the key, and remembering the true meaning of Christmas, regardless of your religious beliefs.

Exactly what the Holiday Season is really about...I love making the food, seeing the snow and the lights better than anything else.

[jon41]

My husbands best friend in high school came from Scotland. He was hung like a horse.

I know this from playing strip poker :gs
What kind of hores

[Sandy]

details penny, details. :D

[Jy]

It's when the churches ask for donations for the needy, and those who can, give. Perhaps if you were ever to darken the doorway of a church, you'd know, but I bet you're too busy posting naughty messages on Sunday mornings!!;)



Whats that then Jugs, News to me:wa:

[KIRA187]

Hey jugs,

ask spare if he belives in santa and the great pumpkin? I think the way you and your hubby are raising up your son is they way I feel about Christmas. Yes my boys get presents at Christmas. But they also know the true meaning of Christmas is in giving. And it is not just at this wonderful time of year. They do community work throughout the year. Between the two older ones they help at the nursing home, help at the local baseball field with the teams coaching, altar boys at mass and reading during mass. The middle son plays piano at local community events and gives back to his grade school by helping the music teacher with the chorus. We as a family give generously to the food drives each year as well. So you go girl! :)

Ah, but you assumed when I said I wanted to make Christmas memorable for my son that I was planning on inundating him with gifts, which I haven't ever done or plan to do.
Our Christmases are memorable because of the traditions we've established, such as watching the lighting of the lights in our park, baking, and decorating the house. We help out with community charities each year, and also have a special shopping day to buy for a needy family. We try to teach our son that Christmas is about giving, not about getting.
Of course he gets presents! What parent doesn't look forward to the face of their child as they open a much anticipated gift? But moderation is the key, and remembering the true meaning of Christmas, regardless of your religious beliefs.

[Jy]

Sounds like you are raising some wonderful boys, cuda. Good for you!! They should be thankful today that they have such a devoted dad as you! :kk

[Waltert]

Holidays? Are the holidays coming up? HELL NO! I'm not ready!

Ready or not Here they come, and before you know it they will be gone.

[Norfolkdave]

It's when the churches ask for donations for the needy, and those who can, give. Perhaps if you were ever to darken the doorway of a church, you'd know, but I bet you're too busy posting naughty messages on Sunday mornings!!;)

Actually my dear I went to church today, I answered it in another thread, but I,ll tell you. It was in a church in our market town of Fakenham here in Norfolk, this church had 180 different christmas trees adorned with lights and articles all designed by the local schools and all for good causes, I went in there with £25 and came out with nothing, so you see Jugs there is an old softee in mem part of me no one knows but do now. As I never had children doesnt mean I dont love them, I do, and at this time of the year what ever I have in my wallet I give to the needy, to the schools and to the local children, and I always go to midnight mass, and that means more to me than anyone will ever ever know.

[Waltert]

My husbands best friend in high school came from Scotland. He was hung like a horse.

I know this from playing strip poker :gs

So you been out in the barn checking out the horses again! ;)

So who won the game of Strip Poker :lf
and why do you consider them the winner!

[sweetgapeach]

Very good point Jugs.I didn't have alot growing up ,never knew if we were going to get to eat that day or not.My mom did her best with 5 kids ,being a single mom. But in turn throught the years I have over compensated with my children.Which I have learned is not a good thing to do !! I have a 5 year old and older kids ,but now I am watching want I spend and what I teach them about those who have nothing.And what little we do have we share.
There is one thing to know: Know matter how bad you have it,there is always someone worse off then you!!
Holiday's and especially Christmas ,is about Giving and Love. And I think some ppl forget that .And when I saying Giving ,not just talking money. I think giving your time and friendship is the best gift!!


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Originally Posted by Jugs
Ah, but you assumed when I said I wanted to make Christmas memorable for my son that I was planning on inundating him with gifts, which I haven't ever done or plan to do.
Our Christmases are memorable because of the traditions we've established, such as watching the lighting of the lights in our park, baking, and decorating the house. We help out with community charities each year, and also have a special shopping day to buy for a needy family. We try to teach our son that Christmas is about giving, not about getting.
Of course he gets presents! What parent doesn't look forward to the face of their child as they open a much anticipated gift? But moderation is the key, and remembering the true meaning of Christmas, regardless of your religious beliefs.

[Waltert]

And those that have it worse than you are not necessarily the ones that have less financially than you.

None of us are perfect, especially as parents. We all can look back and wonder what if I had done this instead. But we can not change that, we need to do the best we can and move on. The most important thing is to be there as much as we can.




Very good point Jugs.I didn't have alot growing up ,never knew if we were going to get to eat that day or not.My mom did her best with 5 kids ,being a single mom. But in turn throught the years I have over compensated with my children.Which I have learned is not a good thing to do !! I have a 5 year old and older kids ,but now I am watching want I spend and what I teach them about those who have nothing.And what little we do have we share.
There is one thing to know: Know matter how bad you have it,there is always someone worse off then you!!
Holiday's and especially Christmas ,is about Giving and Love. And I think some ppl forget that .And when I saying Giving ,not just talking money. I think giving your time and friendship is the best gift!!


Quote:
Originally Posted by Jugs
Ah, but you assumed when I said I wanted to make Christmas memorable for my son that I was planning on inundating him with gifts, which I haven't ever done or plan to do.
Our Christmases are memorable because of the traditions we've established, such as watching the lighting of the lights in our park, baking, and decorating the house. We help out with community charities each year, and also have a special shopping day to buy for a needy family. We try to teach our son that Christmas is about giving, not about getting.
Of course he gets presents! What parent doesn't look forward to the face of their child as they open a much anticipated gift? But moderation is the key, and remembering the true meaning of Christmas, regardless of your religious beliefs.

[sweetgapeach]

So,True Walret!!!

[kissiemybuttie]

what is the best thing about Christmas???? I have 2 things to look forward to...1 of course is hubby....but i think the thing that I am going to most enjoy...is having the WHOLE family at my home this year...to have all 4 generations together under one roof is going to be great....but i think the grandbabies are the most special part of the whole season!!!!

wishing you all a very merry christams and a very happy new year!!!!

[Dyed]

To All,
I am the culprit which Penny was referring to in her epistle. I am sorry for not controlling my emotions. I apologize to the ladies of concern (they know who they are), to the site, and to Penny. I over stepped common courtesy to those ladies and I am sorry for having done so. Cheerio

[Jy]

Thank you Dyed for such a sincere apology. Maybe you misunderstood the atmosphere of the site at first. But I certainly understand how your emotions got out of control, because all of us women here are really hot!!!
Everyone deserves a second chance, especially after expressing genuine remorse. Let's just start fresh now.:wa:

[SirFox]

what is the best thing about Christmas???? I have 2 things to look forward to...1 of course is hubby....but i think the thing that I am going to most enjoy...is having the WHOLE family at my home this year...to have all 4 generations together under one roof is going to be great....but i think the grandbabies are the most special part of the whole season!!!!

wishing you all a very merry christams and a very happy new year!!!!

The materialistic part of Christmas, it seems, is lessening somewhat all over the World as I watch both sides of the Atlantic. There are those parents, however, who still feel that by inundating their children with expensive and useless toys, they will make their siblings happy with those expensive gifts.

My kids who live away from me receive tons of gifts from the mother and my former parents in law because we are divorced. It is crazy as these kids already spoiled rotten have no idea what it is to help others during the night of Christmas and the holiday season. I have to admit that these children do not even care to help at soup kitchen or go and gather foodstuffs for adequate distribution on that great and loving Day.

I am ashamned to admit that. That is a truth hard to fathom especially these days with the many people going hungry worse off than we are.

[Lena]

To All,
I am the culprit which Penny was referring to in her epistle. I am sorry for not controlling my emotions. I apologize to the ladies of concern (they know who they are), to the site, and to Penny. I over stepped common courtesy to those ladies and I am sorry for having done so. Cheerio

Dyed, Lets just start again!!
Now you have apoplogized, i am sure everything will be ok!!
Come on and post again!!:gs

[Barkiss]

To All,
I am the culprit which Penny was referring to in her epistle. I am sorry for not controlling my emotions. I apologize to the ladies of concern (they know who they are), to the site, and to Penny. I over stepped common courtesy to those ladies and I am sorry for having done so. Cheerio

I'm still not forgiving you for hitting on me...;)

[Lena]

I'm still not forgiving you for hitting on me...;)

Now Barkiss, give him another chance!!!
I am sure he didn't mean it!!!
Let me kiss it better!!!!

[firefly]

I'm still not forgiving you for hitting on me...;)

Aaahhh Barky you know you liked it! :D

[Lena]

More then likely friefly!!!

[Barkiss]

Aaahhh Barky you know you liked it! :D

sssshhhhhh!!

[Lena]

sssshhhhhh!!

Too late Barkiss!!!
Its all out in the open!!!!

[firefly]

sssshhhhhh!!

Oooppppssss....was that suppose to be secret? I told you I was bad at those!

[Barkiss]

Oooppppssss....was that suppose to be secret? I told you I was bad at those!

that's not good in a discreet relationship...;)

[Sandy]

lol tell the truth bar, you know that trip to the hottub made your day.lmao:lmao

[firefly]

that's not good in a discreet relationship...;)

But I'm trying! Really! It's just sometimes my fingers get ahead of my brain! :gs

[Barkiss]

lol tell the truth bar, you know that trip to the hottub made your day.lmao:lmao

I was :drink:

[Jy]

Aw, c'mon barksy, give Dyed a break! You're irresistible! Or maybe it was a sympathy f***!




I'm still not forgiving you for hitting on me...;)

[Norfolkdave]

Whats in the open, Am I missing something here, or is it my thick Norfolk Brain

[Dyed]

Agreed, tried it and painful for both

[Norfolkdave]

I wish they would put the true meanings in Dictionarys, where I thought I was right, and all guns blazing, wrong how bloody wrong again I was. All I seem to be doing is saying sorry all the time and its getting on my nerves, cant seem to do a thing right these days.

[Lena]

Aw, c'mon barksy, give Dyed a break! You're irresistible! Or maybe it was a sympathy f***!

Hey i didn't think of that!!!!!!

[Barkiss]

Aw, c'mon barksy, give Dyed a break! You're irresistible! Or maybe it was a sympathy f***!

Was I just complimented or insulted???? ;)

[Lena]

Was I just complimented or insulted???? ;)

You certainly weren't insulted Barksy!!!:gs

[Norfolkdave]

You certainly weren't insulted Barksy!!!:gs

LOL:lmao

[Barkiss]

Agreed, tried it and painful for both

Come on...I wasn't that bad!!! ;)

[justask_me_2]

Come on...I wasn't that bad!!! ;)

lmao:lmao

[Jy]

Definitely meant as a compliment honey. :kk



Was I just complimented or insulted???? ;)

[Sandy]

lmao......:lmao

[Jy]

Let it go, Dave. You have to admit, you were on some Medieval kick that day though! What the heck was that about?!
Webster's Dictionary defines wench as a strumpet, which is defined as a harlot, which is defined as a prostitute. So I guess everyone has a different perspective.
Anyway, let's move on. Lot's more trouble to stir up around here!



I wish they would put the true meanings in Dictionarys, where I thought I was right, and all guns blazing, wrong how bloody wrong again I was. All I seem to be doing is saying sorry all the time and its getting on my nerves, cant seem to do a thing right these days.

[pastryman]

what did i miss?

[Barkiss]

Leave it to me to change a "A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives " into something about sex...Time for punishment...;)

[firefly]

Leave it to me to change a "A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives " into something about sex...Time for punishment...;)

Well....we could spank you, but as you pointed out punishment is suppose to discourage not encourage....so this punishment might take some thought! :)

[Barkiss]

Well....we could spank you, but as you pointed out punishment is suppose to discourage not encourage....so this punishment might take some thought! :)

You are making it hard to be good...;)

[firefly]

You are making it hard to be good...;)

It's all about self disicipline Barky.....;)

[Barkiss]

It's all about self disicipline Barky.....;)

I have no will power...I'm overcome with badness!!

[Lena]

Leave it to me to change a "A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives " into something about sex...Time for punishment...;)

Not really that hard for you to do !!:)

[SirFox]

Leave it to me to change a "A Forum To Talk About Things That Effect Our Non Sex Lives " into something about sex...Time for punishment...;)

I AGREE that your digression is not suitable to this thread. I suggest that PAIN should be applied. You chose the pain to be inflicted and the one to inflict it....tell us what you have decided BARKISS....

[Norfolkdave]

Let it go, Dave. You have to admit, you were on some Medieval kick that day though! What the heck was that about?!
Webster's Dictionary defines wench as a strumpet, which is defined as a harlot, which is defined as a prostitute. So I guess everyone has a different perspective.
Anyway, let's move on. Lot's more trouble to stir up around here!

For you my dear it is gone.................................Im stirring, whose got the big wooden spoon other than me....LOL:lmao

[SirFox]

I AGREE that your digression is not suitable to this thread. I suggest that PAIN should be applied. You chose the pain to be inflicted and the one to inflict it....tell us what you have decided BARKISS....

Waiting for your answer, Sir. :hitit:

[KIRA187]

I say give Barks 40 lashes with a wet noodle!

I AGREE that your digression is not suitable to this thread. I suggest that PAIN should be applied. You chose the pain to be inflicted and the one to inflict it....tell us what you have decided BARKISS....

[Barkiss]

I say give Barks 40 lashes with a wet noodle!

hmm...40 lashes with a wet noodle...are you flirting with me? ;)

[Lena]

Would the noodle be eaten after???

[spare_change]

Would the noodle be eaten after???


Depends whose noodle you use, I guess

[Lena]

Whose do you suggest????

[Norfolkdave]

Would the noodle be eaten after???

Would you....LOL:lmao

[KIRA187]

Why Barksey... I never thought of you swinging that way... HMMMMM but if that is your preference there is nothing wrong with that. I am sure we can find someone on this site to accomodate you with the noodle.:whee:



hmm...40 lashes with a wet noodle...are you flirting with me? ;)

[KIRA187]

Lena, you wouldnt want to eat that noodle after it has been used. I am sure we could come up with something else to satisfy your taste buds. ;)



Would the noodle be eaten after???

[Norfolkdave]

Tied! Looped! spun! or straight barkiss...LOL

[Jy]

How about Barksy on a bed of noodles? Pasta of the day! My favourite!:lf

[Sandy]

cool sounds good to me jugs , lol

[Jy]

It's all you can eat MWM! Dig in! Yummy!

[Sandy]

cool. i'm on my way. lol:lmao

[Barkiss]

Why Barksey... I never thought of you swinging that way... HMMMMM but if that is your preference there is nothing wrong with that. I am sure we can find someone on this site to accomodate you with the noodle.:whee:








Naw...you were my one and only try...I'm over it now ;)

[Barkiss]

How about Barksy on a bed of noodles? Pasta of the day! My favourite!:lf

Well Jugs..you do turn me into noodles..;)

[Jy]

hmmm....let's see how I do at turning you into a sex-starved animal who wants nothing more than to make mad passionate love to me until I beg you to stop!!

[Barkiss]

hmmm....let's see how I do at turning you into a sex-starved animal who wants nothing more than to make mad passionate love to me until I beg you to stop!!

You just have to smile...:)

[Norfolkdave]

Well Jugs..you do turn me into noodles..;)

Orfices with those noodles they get in anywhere:lmao

[Lena]

Lena, you wouldnt want to eat that noodle after it has been used. I am sure we could come up with something else to satisfy your taste buds. ;)

I am waiting for you to find something!!!

[Lena]

How about Barksy on a bed of noodles? Pasta of the day! My favourite!:lf

Yes we did have Barkiss on a bed of noodles before for dinner didn't we???
And it did go down very well!!!:) mmmmmmmm

[spare_change]

Yes we did have Barkiss on a bed of noodles before for dinner didn't we???
And it did go down very well!!!:) mmmmmmmm

I heard -- just heard, mind you --- that Barkiss ALWAYS goes down well !!!

[Lena]

I heard -- just heard, mind you --- that Barkiss ALWAYS goes down well !!!

mmmmmmm Now do i tell you the truth or just keep it to myself!!
I better ask Barksy!!!!!!:)

[Barkiss]

I heard -- just heard, mind you --- that Barkiss ALWAYS goes down well !!!

It takes 4208 licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll pop...;)

[Lena]

You counted, Barkiss!!!??

[Barkiss]

You counted, Barkiss!!!??

Hasn't everyone?

[Lena]

Hasn't everyone?

I don't know Barks!!!!
Is it a guy's thing???

[Norfolkdave]

I heard -- just heard, mind you --- that Barkiss ALWAYS goes down well !!!

So thats what happens in those mountains then, its not the wolf howling but poor old Barkiss:lmao

[Norfolkdave]

I don't know Barks!!!!
Is it a guy's thing???

They count everything:lmao

[KIRA187]

I am waiting for you to find something!!!

Will This Do Lee? ;) :kk

Asparagus - Firm, long tender stalks to evoke erotic images in your mind.

Carrots - This root vegetable with its phallic shape is truly erotic.

Early Middle Eastern royalty regarded the carrot to be a significant aid in seduction and enjoyed it often. Grown deep in the earth this vegetable inspires his deepest, most private fantasies. Either raw or cooked, this vegetable can ignite his passion to incomparable excess!


Caviar – The egg shaped food has earned itself a reputation as a stimulate of sexual desire.


Oysters - This may be the best known of aphrodisiacs.

Some see a resemblance to a woman's most private parts and are drawn to savor the tasty creature. Others delight in the texture of the ever sexually changing mollusk, which has spent its life alternating between female and male.


Truffles -An air of mystery has always surrounded the truffle.
The fragrant muskiness of the truffle and its rarity keeps it on top of any list of aphrodisiacs.

Chocolate - Chocolate has long been purported to have such a intense ability to increase the sexual appetite.

Champagne - viewed as "the drink of love."
There is a saying that whiskey makes a girl stop arguing, beer soothes her, gin disarms her, rum cajoles her and champagne arouses her. :lf :)

[Lena]

Yes Kira!!!!
That will do nicely!!!
Thank you!!
Hope you will join me with some of them!!

[Jy]

Gosh Kira, just reading your descriptions was enough to get my pulse running! Whew! Talk to me honey!

[Lena]

YOu want some Jazzy??

[Jy]

Yes! Let's start with champagne and chocolate!

[Lena]

oooohhh yes!!! yummmy chocolates!!!
Here i'll open this bottle!!
Watch out Jazzy, ooops there it goes!!! Jazzy Mind your head!!!!

[Jy]

Holy cork! Thanks for the warning!
..uh would you like a champagne flute Lena? Or are going to keep drinking out of the bottle? Naughty girl!
Here, try this chocolate, it had raspberries inside! Yummy!

[Lena]

Suppose i better behave and have a champagne flute, because we can't keep fighting over this bottle!!!! Don't put that glass on you head Jazzy!!!
mmmmmmm these chocolates are lovely!!!!
Hey, you got chocolate all round your mouth!! Have i??

[woody9340]

I bought all the ladies I work with some Toblerone chocolates for Christmas. I figured I couldn't go wrong with chocolate.

[Lena]

Where is mine, Woody????

[Jy]

Yes, you've got chocolate everywhere! We'd better find someone to lick it off.

[tulsasurgeon]

chocolate is good

[Polo38]

it depends on the brand of chocolate.....lindor

[Jy]

Maybe we should get Kira to do the honours since he's the one who gave it to us in the first place.




Yes, you've got chocolate everywhere! We'd better find someone to lick it off.

[Lena]

Yes, you've got chocolate everywhere! We'd better find someone to lick it off.

Ok KIRA!!!! Where are you???
Could you please do me a favour and and lick all this chocolates off my face please?? And anywhere else there might be some!!!:)

[KIRA187]

Yes Kira!!!!
That will do nicely!!!
Thank you!!
Hope you will join me with some of them!!

SOME ?!? This is a nine step process. Once we start we have to see it to fruition! ;) :kk

[KIRA187]

Gosh Kira, just reading your descriptions was enough to get my pulse running! Whew! Talk to me honey!

Jazz, you better lye down before you get light headed. And that is a great idea for after the nine steps.... adding honey. Although it could get a little sticky. Are you volunteering for cleanup duty?:lf

[KIRA187]

I cant leave you two alone for a second can I. :D You two ladies sure seemed to be have a good time with my chocolates and champagne! :)Enjoy! I think you both had some champagne before you even uncorked the bottle I left. :drink: But never you fear, I have plenty of chocolates and champagne for another party. This time maybe I will be around to enjoy it with you two.:lf :drink: :knuddel: And by the looks of the room, you two have chocloate all over eachother.
Licking? Lee your wish is my command, it would be an honor to lick you. And Jazz... I didnt forget about you darlin. You too need a good ole fashion lickin! :lf

Ok KIRA!!!! Where are you???
Could you please do me a favour and and lick all this chocolates off my face please?? And anywhere else there might be some!!!



Maybe we should get Kira to do the honours since he's the one who gave it to us in the first place.

Yes, you've got chocolate everywhere! We'd better find someone to lick it off.

Suppose i better behave and have a champagne flute, because we can't keep fighting over this bottle!!!! Don't put that glass on you head Jazzy!!!
mmmmmmm these chocolates are lovely!!!!

Hey, you got chocolate all round your mouth!! Have i??


oooohhh yes!!! yummmy chocolates!!!
Here i'll open this bottle!!

Watch out Jazzy, ooops there it goes!!! Jazzy Mind your head!!!!


Yes! Let's start with champagne and chocolate!


YOu want some Jazzy??

[Jy]

You have a lot of work ahead of you Kira! Are you ready? Are you up for it? We've made quite a mess! Any more of that champagne? We seem to be swimming in it, and we'll need some more to drink!
...hey, this champagne and chocolate seems to be having the desired effect Kira! I'm feeling very warm and tingly!

[KIRA187]

You have a lot of work ahead of you Kira! Are you ready? Are you up for it? We've made quite a mess! Any more of that champagne? We seem to be swimming in it, and we'll need some more to drink!
...hey, this champagne and chocolate seems to be having the desired effect Kira! I'm feeling very warm and tingly!

Jazz, never let it be said that Kira shirks work! But in this case it is most definitely pleasure indeed ;) and I am always up for it darlin. The bathtub is still filled with champagne, so keep swimming. Lee has already dunked her head once so you have some catching up to do sweetie! :kk My plan is working as hoped.

Except are you sure the wam and tingly feeling you have doesnt mean you had to go to the bathroom and couldnt make it? :whee: :)

[Lena]

Yes didn't think about the bathroom!!! Could have been!!!
Jazzy!!! You feeling better since you went to the bathroom??
Was it because you needed the bathroom!??!! YOu did rush into there!!!!

[Lena]

I cant leave you two alone for a second can I. :D You two ladies sure seemed to be have a good time with my chocolates and champagne! :)Enjoy! I think you both had some champagne before you even uncorked the bottle I left. :drink: But never you fear, I have plenty of chocolates and champagne for another party. This time maybe I will be around to enjoy it with you two.:lf :drink: :knuddel: And by the looks of the room, you two have chocloate all over eachother.
Licking? Lee your wish is my command, it would be an honor to lick you. And Jazz... I didnt forget about you darlin. You too need a good ole fashion lickin! :lf



















oooohhhhhh another party Kira!!! Yes would be nice if you joined us since you bought the champagne and chocolates!!!!
Sorry about the mess in this room!!! But maybe we can have fun cleaning it up together!!!:)
mmmmmm you know just how to clean me!!!!

OHH Jazzy didn't know you liked to have us both covered in chocolates!!!

[Sunfiresix]

Are we ever ready for the Holidays, the merchants are ready in July I am almost ready by Dec 24th at 6P.M. But we all survive and enjoy them and dread the next.

[Lena]

Hello Surefire!!!
I am never ready for the holidays!!! I would be so lucky if i am ready by 6pm on the 24th!!!!
Better start gettimg but backside moving!!!!

[Sunfiresix]

Hi Lena!
I am sure you will get it in gear in time to pull an amazing coup off. By the way be it your real or made up name I really like it, That was my Moms name. I think it is nice.

[Lena]

Yes i hope so Sunfire!!
I normally do!!! So fingers crossed!!!
Glad you like the name!!! Thanks!!

[Jy]

Hello Sunfiresix, I don't believe we've met! Welcome to the site!:wa:

[Polo38]

In some cultures some men will take an assessment of their lives and will devoid themselves of all their worldly possessions and they embark on to the world with just the clothes on their back in search of meaning of life and enlightenment. In our culture we have a similar occurrences but it usually happens to men in their 40’s, and they to embark on to the world however, with a new sports car, a new wife, and usually his worldly possessions are taken away by a court order, we call it a midlife crisis. Well it’s time for me to depart, but not on a physical level, I’m not leaving my wife or kids, but more on a metaphysical level, although, I’m sure that my wife won’t mind a sporty model Xenote (perhaps Xelyte) it’s time that I get back on train of self-discovery, and focus on my writing.

The Internet has been a wondrous tool and as an extension of that, M&F has been a wonderful site, though still in it’s infancy, it has the potential for huge impact on redefining the roles as individuals in marriages and relationships, that we can be a couple with special bonds, yet retain our individuality and unique that drew our mates to us in the first place. It has been a rewarding experience to get to know many one, in some small way we have all become extended family members to one another, always concern how each of us are doing in our daily lives. I will miss all of you but carry you in my heart. The beauty of our animosity is our ability to open freely and allow ourselves the privilege of telling each other what is in our hearts, and our minds. Some of what we harbored from our own spouse. But because we are free to be open with one another, it’s impetrative that we maintain three essential qualities and traits, integrity, honesty and trust, and humbly I would suggest that integrity being the most important trait. Without that the other two are meaningless. Otherwise we are nothing more then charlatans of dialogue, dispensing meaningless words in the vacuum of space. Well, the conductor is calling my train, I hope that our journeys cross path again in some wait station in future, somewhere in time.

I wish you all joy and happiness, especially happiness. This is Xenote signing off.

[spare_change]

Xenote ---

Tell me it ain't so! I have enjoyed your discourses on humanity, and inhumanity, as well. I wish you best, my friend. I won't wish you happiness, because the value is in the journey, not in the destination. I only wish you godspeed, smooth roads, and an enjoyable companion for the trip.

[Penny]

You'll be back, We have that effect on people;) You better be back:nu

[Trev]

mmmmmm you know just how to clean me!!!!

OHH Jazzy didn't know you liked to have us both covered in chocolates!!!
wheres the pictures since you wouldn't allow anyone else

[Lena]

wheres the pictures since you wouldn't allow anyone else

Well Trev, you didn't ask for any!!!!
Didn't know you wanted any!!!
Maybe they could be avaliable at a price!!!:)

[Barkiss]

deleted...was rude

[tulsasurgeon]

Loved chatted with you the other day in the chat room Lena,,,Ready to do that again?


Well Trev, you didn't ask for any!!!!
Didn't know you wanted any!!!
Maybe they could be avaliable at a price!!!:)

[Lena]

deleted...was rude

Was it that bad Barkiss???

[sweetgapeach]

[QUOTE=Trev]wheres the pictures since you wouldn't allow anyone else[/QUOT


You really like pictures , huh, Trev !! :D

[Lena]

Yes he does Peach!!!

[sweetgapeach]

It's always about the pictures with him!!:lmao

[Lena]

I have been told that men like the visual things instead of the imagination, so pics are quite visual, i suppose!!!!

[Barkiss]

Was it that bad Barkiss???

Yeah...sometimes I actually do have a conscience ;)

[Lena]

Yeah...sometimes I actually do have a conscience ;)

aawwww Barkiss, you are so thoughtful!!!

[Barkiss]

aawwww Barkiss, you are so thoughtful!!!

You wouldn't have thought so if you had read what I wrote..;)

[Lena]

You wouldn't have thought so if you had read what I wrote..;)

Now thats made me curious!!!

[skybird]

No anal sex for me neither, I'm afraid. BUt hey, life has differant varieties and what nots. ;)

I think. :(

[spare_change]

Hello Surefire!!!
I am never ready for the holidays!!! I would be so lucky if i am ready by 6pm on the 24th!!!!
Better start gettimg but backside moving!!!!

I take the metaphysical approach to Christmas shopping. I am convinced that if I walk into the store at 6 pm on Christmas eve, and some item is sitting in the middle of the aisle and is on sale, it is ordained by the gods that I should buy it, AND it will be the perfect gift!

[KIRA187]

oooohhhhhh another party Kira!!! Yes would be nice if you joined us since you bought the champagne and chocolates!!!!
Sorry about the mess in this room!!! But maybe we can have fun cleaning it up together!!!:)
mmmmmm you know just how to clean me!!!!

OHH Jazzy didn't know you liked to have us both covered in chocolates!!!

There will be other parties I am sure. And you will be on the preferred list of invitees! If you are offering to help, who am I to stand in the way. I never knew cleaning could be so much fun. ;)

Jazz wants us both covered in chocolates? that would be doable!!:lf
To have the three of us covered in chocolates! Scrumpdilleisious! :lf

peanuts, nougat, rich and creamy, and covered in chocolate. HMMM;)

[MCat]

The Internet has been a wondrous tool and as an extension of that, M&F has been a wonderful site, though still in it’s infancy, it has the potential for huge impact on redefining the roles as individuals in marriages and relationships, that we can be a couple with special bonds, yet retain our individuality and unique that drew our mates to us in the first place. It has been a rewarding experience to get to know many one, in some small way we have all become extended family members to one another, always concern how each of us are doing in our daily lives. I will miss all of you but carry you in my heart. The beauty of our animosity is our ability to open freely and allow ourselves the privilege of telling each other what is in our hearts, and our minds. Some of what we harbored from our own spouse. But because we are free to be open with one another, it’s impetrative that we maintain three essential qualities and traits, integrity, honesty and trust, and humbly I would suggest that integrity being the most important trait. Without that the other two are meaningless. Otherwise we are nothing more then charlatans of dialogue, dispensing meaningless words in the vacuum of space. Well, the conductor is calling my train, I hope that our journeys cross path again in some wait station in future, somewhere in time.

I wish you all joy and happiness, especially happiness. This is Xenote signing off.

Aww damn....and I so enjoy reading your posts. Think I will save this last one so I can read these wise words now and then. We will miss you.:knuddel:

[Norfolkdave]

Oh No, no, Xenote, no I have come to love you as a brother I have never had, Please stay dont go, now Im saddned even more, WHY why leave us my friend WHY.

[SirFox]

Aww damn....and I so enjoy reading your posts. Think I will save this last one so I can read these wise words now and then. We will miss you.:knuddel:

XENOTE: You will probably not see this posting. If you do, I would be interested in knowing why you have decided to sign off. Your reasons are of course, personal, nevertheless, I would have been personally interested.
Good Bye and Take Good Care of yourself and Yours.
FFOX.

[Lena]

I take the metaphysical approach to Christmas shopping. I am convinced that if I walk into the store at 6 pm on Christmas eve, and some item is sitting in the middle of the aisle and is on sale, it is ordained by the gods that I should buy it, AND it will be the perfect gift!

That is what is going to happen to me this year!!
I can just see it!!!
All that rushing around!!!:(

[Lena]

There will be other parties I am sure. And you will be on the preferred list of invitees! If you are offering to help, who am I to stand in the way. I never knew cleaning could be so much fun. ;)

Jazz wants us both covered in chocolates? that would be doable!!:lf
To have the three of us covered in chocolates! Scrumpdilleisious! :lf

peanuts, nougat, rich and creamy, and covered in chocolate. HMMM;)


Sure i would love to help out!!!:)
chocolates chocolates everywhere!!!!
yummmmm

[Jy]

That's because we're always hanging out here instead of shopping and baking and writing cards!! Oh my!

[Lena]

How true that is Jazzy!!!
And don't forget about sitting here eating chocolates too!!

[SirFox]

Anyone interested in a black choclate mousse? I make a decent one with tiny bits of orange, some Grand Marnier, and many more things.

[KIRA187]

Anyone interested in a black choclate mousse? I make a decent one with tiny bits of orange, some Grand Marnier, and many more things.

its the many more things that I would be skeptical about fox1!:D

[Norfolkdave]

Yes ffox what are the other things! whisky, brandy, Tia a maria, vodka etc etc etc

[Sandy]

aww xenote i really wish you wouldn't go, we'll miss you. :cry:

[Norfolkdave]

aww xenote i really wish you wouldn't go, we'll miss you. :cry:

Whats he going for sandy! I cant understand his wanting to go, this is a lovely site, almost family, and we all know one another, his departure is so sad.

[Lena]

He may need to concentrate on other things!!!
And, as well, as obviously has his own reasons!!!

[Trev]

[QUOTE=Trev]wheres the pictures since you wouldn't allow anyone else[/QUOT


You really like pictures , huh, Trev !! :D
Like the pics if I can't be there:D

[Lena]

How many pics do you want Trev???

[Trev]

How many pics do you want Trev???
as many as you are willing to take and give to me

[Lena]

as many as you are willing to take and give to me

Well, we will have to see then!!:)

[Wet Beaver]

In some cultures some men will take an assessment of their lives and will devoid themselves of all their worldly possessions and they embark on to the world with just the clothes on their back in search of meaning of life and enlightenment. In our culture we have a similar occurrences but it usually happens to men in their 40’s, and they to embark on to the world however, with a new sports car, a new wife, and usually his worldly possessions are taken away by a court order, we call it a midlife crisis. Well it’s time for me to depart, but not on a physical level, I’m not leaving my wife or kids, but more on a metaphysical level, although, I’m sure that my wife won’t mind a sporty model Xenote (perhaps Xelyte) it’s time that I get back on train of self-discovery, and focus on my writing.

The Internet has been a wondrous tool and as an extension of that, M&F has been a wonderful site, though still in it’s infancy, it has the potential for huge impact on redefining the roles as individuals in marriages and relationships, that we can be a couple with special bonds, yet retain our individuality and unique that drew our mates to us in the first place. It has been a rewarding experience to get to know many one, in some small way we have all become extended family members to one another, always concern how each of us are doing in our daily lives. I will miss all of you but carry you in my heart. The beauty of our animosity is our ability to open freely and allow ourselves the privilege of telling each other what is in our hearts, and our minds. Some of what we harbored from our own spouse. But because we are free to be open with one another, it’s impetrative that we maintain three essential qualities and traits, integrity, honesty and trust, and humbly I would suggest that integrity being the most important trait. Without that the other two are meaningless. Otherwise we are nothing more then charlatans of dialogue, dispensing meaningless words in the vacuum of space. Well, the conductor is calling my train, I hope that our journeys cross path again in some wait station in future, somewhere in time.

I wish you all joy and happiness, especially happiness. This is Xenote signing off.

i'll miss ya much Xe.....take good care of your self....:cry:

[Sunfiresix]

Good luck Xenote--didn't get to meet you but have read some of your posts--Take care and know we will all miss you. Again Good Luck.

[surfnchat]

He may need to concentrate on other things!!!
And, as well, as obviously has his own reasons!!!

Might be a court order... That was mentioned somewhere in the message. :D

[Norfolkdave]

How many pics do you want Trev???

Then I,ll have a bakers doz..LOL:lmao

[SirFox]

its the many more things that I would be skeptical about fox1!:D

That's a personal secret KIRA......just like the good chef that I am not.
We could include vanilla there and sugar........all cooked in a double-boiler...
Now to get the egg whites hard and firm...one has to use an egg beater....
(and I won't tell you with what I beat the eggs with.....)...as THAT is a one of my personal touches..

[Lena]

Then I,ll have a bakers doz..LOL:lmao

And what are you going to do with them????

[Lena]

That's a personal secret KIRA......just like the good chef that I am not.
We could include vanilla there and sugar........all cooked in a double-boiler...
Now to get the egg whites hard and firm...one has to use an egg beater....
(and I won't tell you with what I beat the eggs with.....)...as THAT is a one of my personal touches..

Its ok Kira!!
I fancy abit of spying!!
So i'll go and spy for you!!!:)

[KIRA187]

Its ok Kira!!
I fancy abit of spying!!
So i'll go and spy for you!!!:)


Hmmm. That sounds so intriuging. A female spy. Do you go under the covers.. I mean do you go undercover? ;)

[Norfolkdave]

Hmmm. That sounds so intriuging. A female spy. Do you go under the covers.. I mean do you go undercover? ;)

No she means be a fly on the wall...LOL:lmao

[Sandy]

ummm, i think undercover would be better, don't you agree lena ?

:D

[SirFox]

Its ok Kira!!
I fancy abit of spying!!
So i'll go and spy for you!!!:)

Now, now.. Imagine a spy in one's own house.... I think the best way to handle this situation is to make believe that I don't know when she comes....

:D

I wonder what techniques you will use, Lena...Is it the old olive and martini trick which sends my words and actions to KIRA here or what? Or do you use a poisoned umbrella tip, put me to sleep and get the secret out of me?

[MCat]

But there are lots of threads to talk dirty, discuss our sex lives, and everything else. It is nice to talk about other things too. May be less intimidating for the newbies as well.

Besides, where else should MC post her parenting advice to me?

Gosh was I giving advice way back in November of 2005 ???

[Lena]

Gosh was I giving advice way back in November of 2005 ???
Ohh my goodness MCat!!!
where did you find this!!???

[MCat]

Ohh my goodness MCat!!!
where did you find this!!???

I was snooping in the archives....heard there was some good stuff in there ;)

[Lena]

......
I wonder what techniques you will use, Lena...Is it the old olive and martini trick which sends my words and actions to KIRA here or what? Or do you use a poisoned umbrella tip, put me to sleep and get the secret out of me?
Well a couple of years later and you still haven't found out, I must have hypnotized you!!!:D

[Lena]

I was snooping in the archives....heard there was some good stuff in there ;)
I am so glad you did do some snooping!!!
This is great to read how we were!!!:)

[MCat]

Exactly what the Holiday Season is really about...I love making the food, seeing the snow and the lights better than anything else.

Look at this one....I was a sap way back in 2005 and I'm still a sap....:D

[Lena]

Look at this one....I was a sap way back in 2005 and I'm still a sap....:D
awwwww you were in the holiday season!!
That was good!! Glad someone got something done!!!:)

[Annie]

I miss Kira.

[Lena]

I miss Kira.
So do I!
But he is doing alot better at home now!
That is the main thing!
Was just reading back!!!

[MCat]

Originally Posted by Xenote
The Internet has been a wondrous tool and as an extension of that, M&F has been a wonderful site, though still in it’s infancy, it has the potential for huge impact on redefining the roles as individuals in marriages and relationships, that we can be a couple with special bonds, yet retain our individuality and unique that drew our mates to us in the first place. It has been a rewarding experience to get to know many one, in some small way we have all become extended family members to one another, always concern how each of us are doing in our daily lives. I will miss all of you but carry you in my heart. The beauty of our animosity is our ability to open freely and allow ourselves the privilege of telling each other what is in our hearts, and our minds. Some of what we harbored from our own spouse. But because we are free to be open with one another, it’s impetrative that we maintain three essential qualities and traits, integrity, honesty and trust, and humbly I would suggest that integrity being the most important trait. Without that the other two are meaningless. Otherwise we are nothing more then charlatans of dialogue, dispensing meaningless words in the vacuum of space. Well, the conductor is calling my train, I hope that our journeys cross path again in some wait station in future, somewhere in time.

I wish you all joy and happiness, especially happiness. This is Xenote signing off.


Aww damn....and I so enjoy reading your posts. Think I will save this last one so I can read these wise words now and then. We will miss you.:knuddel:


I miss Xenote.....:(

[Annie]

Dunno... it kind of brings me back... back like to the days when I actually... naw... I never... flirted.

[MCat]

Dunno... it kind of brings me back... back like to the days when I actually... naw... I never... flirted.

Awwshityabloodywankinrookisser....you're starting to sound like Tiger....you never flirted..... Ya Right....:D

[Lena]

Dunno... it kind of brings me back... back like to the days when I actually... naw... I never... flirted.
We know the truth Annie!!
Remember how long we have known each other!!:whee:
You can't hide!!!:D

[Lena]

Awwshityabloodywankinrookisser....you're starting to sound like Tiger....you never flirted..... Ya Right....:D
I knew she reminded me of someone!!!

By the way MCat!!!
Love that avatar!! You do know you will get all the guys hitting on you looking so scrumptious!!!!:D

[MCat]

I knew she reminded me of someone!!!

By the way MCat!!!
Love that avatar!! You do know you will get all the guys hitting on you looking so scrumptious!!!!:D

Glad ya like Mildred....I was getting chilly....needed some clothes on for a change.

[Lena]

Glad ya like Mildred....I was getting chilly....needed some clothes on for a change.
And you have such a womderful selection of clothes too!!

[MCat]

And you have such a womderful selection of clothes too!!

I actually think that one is leftover from my last pregnancy....:D
Had one red sundress that fit at the end of the 9 months....
I felt like a big tomato.

[mrdiscreet]

MCat, Goddess of the avatar!

[cmt21lem]

did the subject change help, I am curious, how do you keep the fire burning

[p.a]

Cubs won, Bears lost. My highs and lows for the day
I'm a transplant from Chicago South Burbs