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UltimateNaneki

09-30-2007, 10:12 AM

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

Well I think anything can work if you want it too. Military wives have done it forever....
You just have to want something to bad that you are determined so make it work, that's all. The ones that claim it does not work, just don't have the patience to see it thru.

cherokeered

09-30-2007, 10:41 AM

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

Well, cant much longer in distance than me and Tiger50...so yeh, we been doing it....it's hard, but worth it....cause we love each other....:kk

Cotties

09-30-2007, 11:03 AM

depends what you want out of the relationshipDo you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

Annie

09-30-2007, 12:19 PM

depends what you want out of the relationship Yeah really! If you're counting on hugs and kisses everyday, you can forget about it! Somehow Tiger and Cher have made it work... but they're a very special couple.

Pink4You

09-30-2007, 12:41 PM

I think it depends on several factors. Are they married, do they have children, do they fly home and see each other on the weekends. I think it can work but are you wanting to know if one or both will look for attention elsewhere? Maybe, too many factors to consider in this question I think. Good Morning, everyone.

Kissie

09-30-2007, 12:43 PM

Good question...I think they can work if you want them to...you just have to work a bit harder to make them work...out of the last 36 months I have lived in a long distance relationship and it has worked....and will be apart another 12 months....

p.a

09-30-2007, 12:56 PM

Anything can work if your both willing. I prefer to touch on a regular basis.:knuddel:

cheerymissy_34

09-30-2007, 01:03 PM

i think a couple can make a long distance relationship work if your willing to put in the time and effort...i think it has to be someone u really love and not just a fleeting relationship...

yaser

09-30-2007, 01:51 PM

I must touch and smell.

roadie4us

09-30-2007, 01:56 PM

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

Yes, it does open the door for a lot of problems most relationships dont have but yes it can and does work.

MCat

09-30-2007, 02:18 PM

depends what you want out of the relationship

I just send Cotties titty pictures now & then and he's happy....he tells me they look good and I'm happy...

The perfect long distance relationship....;)

just kidding by the way....

Kissie

09-30-2007, 02:28 PM

I must touch and smell.

And what happens if you cant???? Does that mean the relationship is over?????

toowildtotame

09-30-2007, 08:06 PM

Long distance on a short term basis only would work-- Long term I think I would need to fulfill that desire that one thinks about 24/7-- Soooooo a long term lond distance relationship would be something that would go into my "HARD " to do things*wink*

OICurready4me

09-30-2007, 08:19 PM

i think a couple can make a long distance relationship work if your willing to put in the time and effort...i think it has to be someone u really love and not just a fleeting relationship...

I agree wholeheartedly

longtall4u

10-01-2007, 11:57 PM

I just send Cotties titty pictures now & then and he's happy....he tells me they look good and I'm happy...

The perfect long distance relationship....;)

How can I get on your mailing list????? :dd

hoss

10-02-2007, 10:52 PM

long distance realtionships ....yep they work ...ive had a few and they are ongoing ...love is love ....like the old saying ...distance makes the heart grow fonder ....

UltimateNaneki

10-02-2007, 11:05 PM

long distance realtionships ....yep they work ...ive had a few and they are ongoing ...love is love ....like the old saying ...distance makes the heart grow fonder ....

For once hoss, your saying something smart :lmao . My lover and I have been going strong since April, we have met together once and are planing # 2 and # 3. We chat off and on everyweek and the feelings are just as strong as the first! I can see this relationship go on for a very long time! :lf

hoss

10-02-2007, 11:07 PM

For once hoss, your saying something smart :lmao . My lover and I have been going strong since April, we have met together once and are planing # 2 and # 3. We chat off and on everyweek and the feelings are just as strong as the first! I can see this relationship go on for a very long time! :lf

I'm happy for u...you deserve a good man in your life ..:kk

surfnchat

10-02-2007, 11:21 PM

I'm happy for u...you deserve a good man in your life ..:kk

I agree 100%!!! I also say the same thing to Momma... :D

Postman

10-02-2007, 11:24 PM

It can work but it takes a lot of understanding & trust.

duanehofner

10-02-2007, 11:27 PM

Sure it can, several people here have them already

hoss

10-02-2007, 11:27 PM

I agree 100%!!! I also say the same thing to Momma... :D

Burn ........:lmao

duanehofner

10-03-2007, 08:25 PM

A long distance relationship would be nice. I'll take 1/2 dozen please. Lol

1hotmommy

11-14-2007, 11:59 AM

I think it depends on your own personal situation. Some people can make it work, some can't. My husband and I were apart for about 3 months while we were dating, and even though it was hard at times, we were able to do it.

One Song Hero

11-14-2007, 12:02 PM

1hotmommy

11-14-2007, 12:04 PM

hmm, I don't know One, guess there's only one way to find out lol

scoobertina

11-14-2007, 12:08 PM

razorsedge

11-14-2007, 12:08 PM

Long distance relations do work as long as both involved know there there will be long periods of separation and are willing to handle that. My wife and I were hours apart for two years while I was away at college. Many phone calls and letters were made and sent during that time. We made it through those years, continued dating afterwards, got married, had beautiful children and are still going strong!

One Song Hero

11-14-2007, 12:08 PM

hmm, I don't know One, guess there's only one way to find out lol
That's the spirit, 1hot. By the way, welcome to the site, and welcome to my arms... mmmmm.... yes, yes! mmm.... :knuddel: (I like dating!)

1hotmommy

11-14-2007, 12:34 PM

Thanks for the, umm, warm welcome One

wolfman

11-14-2007, 12:40 PM

I must touch and smell.
Touch and smell what????:lmao

wolfman

11-14-2007, 12:41 PM

Yes, a long distance relationship can work.. you have to be able to communicate though... be able to talk things out and of course it helps if you are great friends too and you can be open and honest with each other...
I agree because it is very possible to get hooked on someone even long distance. You can make that connection if even by phone. If it's ther, it's there regardless

wolfman

11-14-2007, 12:42 PM

And what happens if you cant???? Does that mean the relationship is over?????
I can see the touch part but the smell part kind of scares me:lmao

ksue7274

11-14-2007, 04:33 PM

Only if both are willing to work hard at it. Eventually though, you have to make a decision. There has to be that constant physical relationship.

wolfman

11-14-2007, 07:31 PM

Only if both are willing to work hard at it. Eventually though, you have to make a decision. There has to be that constant physical relationship.
You're right. It just might take time to work out who moves where and that. But it's still well worth it for that real thing.

kjguy43

11-14-2007, 08:10 PM

Yes, Trust, Communication and understanding!

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

Bama River Man

11-16-2007, 01:10 PM

Absence makes the heart grow fonder only if it is not too long!

unctarheel_32

11-18-2007, 09:38 AM

I think that it could work

lilolekimba67(f)

11-18-2007, 09:56 AM

I dont know if it could

jmuma62

11-18-2007, 09:57 AM

I dont know if it could

whant to give it a try?

RedVixen

11-18-2007, 10:16 AM

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

A relationship be it long distance or not will work as long as you both are commited to one another.

Outta

11-18-2007, 10:27 AM

Certainly it can. But it's a tremendous challenge.

a_hungm_houston

11-20-2007, 10:01 AM

it works if you want it too, get a web cam, I did that, lots of emails chat that makes the meeting so much more

guitarman26

11-20-2007, 09:03 PM

i think it could

a_hungm_houston

11-21-2007, 10:58 AM

patience patience patience and lots of understanding
plus do not get crazy when there is no call!!

something_more

11-23-2007, 05:10 PM

it can work but it takes alot of work and strong people if its going to be a serious relationship

oneqt

11-23-2007, 05:28 PM

long distance relationship? Ya thats tough. There is so much to a relationship, the small thing you do for eachother to keep the "mmmmmm ya" alive, body language, expresions, smell, touch.....I guess if all that has been espablished and is good and strong then the relationship has a chance.

MIGHTY

11-23-2007, 10:09 PM

You must be willing to deal with the heartache of the separation. If you are not strong, it can eat you up from the inside. It is never easy, but the rewards can be exhillerating. Good things come to those who wait. Patience is key. Never say never. The foundation is the base of the strength. If you want it bad enough, you will make it work, regardless of how difficult it may be.

wolfman

11-23-2007, 11:20 PM

A relationship be it long distance or not will work as long as you both are commited to one another.
Very true

wolfman

11-23-2007, 11:21 PM

wolfman

11-23-2007, 11:23 PM

True love and devotion will win over distance every time. If it's real.

OICurready4me

11-24-2007, 10:04 AM

It most definitely can work but it is not easy in the least. At times you feel so helpless when all you have is a phone, email or chatting to try and cheer her up. It can tear you up inside to not be able to hold her at that moment but you both have to be strong and look at the big picture, use your patience (which you really need to have or you will go crazy). The longing can get very intense but keep yourself thinking positive and remembering the time you share together (if you have met) by looking at pictures, listening to "your songs", things like that to keep yourself from getting too down when you miss her.

simplygrace

11-27-2007, 05:59 PM

never thought much about it

MagicalBeing

11-29-2007, 03:32 AM

It can work if you work on it.. and dont just send email.. :) .. find ways to make it exciting all the time...

Momma

11-29-2007, 03:38 AM

I think it can work, but it really depends on the people involved....first off, do you trust the other person enough to spend periods of time apart? I can't really say "how" it would work, just that it would be hard and you would really have to work at it

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:

MagicalBeing

11-29-2007, 03:40 AM

sometimes it is hard to see how you can resolve problems.. you dont really see the reaction of the other person when you said or write things... body language is really important.. so you need to work hard to find a way to get the same feedback

Boredmarriedlover

11-29-2007, 09:34 AM

If anyone knows how I can have a long distance relationship with my wife, please contact me IMMEDIATELY.

Torin

11-29-2007, 09:58 AM

I think it can work, bit I think that it is very, very hard... and honestly may not be worth the effort. A lot would depend on the other person and the commitment involved.

Sylar

12-01-2007, 12:34 AM

I agree...it can work if you both want it bad enough...but distractions and temptations are bound to nip at your heels.

WandaRing

12-01-2007, 02:18 AM

If anyone knows how I can have a long distance relationship with my wife, please contact me IMMEDIATELY.

find a job where you have to travel on a regular basis...or move into the basement....:whee:

dirtysexybooker

12-01-2007, 04:12 AM

..it all depends what you expect and what your intentions are.....mind over matter is what I like to say........oh and you are your own worst enemy.....

WaGuy

12-13-2007, 02:49 AM

I disagree.. over time it'll erode if you don't get to stay in contact so much. All it takes is a touch or feel :P

toosarcastic

12-28-2007, 05:09 PM

depends on the kind of relationship you are looking for and how long you expect the relationship to last. So yes for a very committed relationship and the time apart is short or well difined. Or for something casual.....good luck!

simplygrace

12-29-2007, 01:45 PM

If you are commited i guess it can work. hubby and i did, he was in Nevada reno and i was CA. we spoke 2 times every day had phone sex and fell in love before we even met. When we did meet it was love at first sight, cause we fell in love with each other already. More the person than looks, but i think he's handsome anyways. And he thought i was beautiful.:knuddel:

fondew2004

07-02-2009, 09:36 AM

Do you think a long distance relationship can work? If yes, how?:wa:
You'd have to define "relationship"..... Fully married?? A couple?? On-line Couple? On-line flirts.

IMHO, I think it's an inverse relationship....the weaker the bond, the more chance there is that it will "work". The stronger the bond, the higher the chance of failure.