View Full Version : Smoking on the Affair
Huzyerdaddi
10-27-2007, 11:40 AM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
If you're attracted to them why would it matter? Sure its a bad habit...but its part of what makes them who they are. Smoking is not a reason to end an otherwise lovely relationship.
If a bad habit is so important then you should definately play 20 questions before you meet them.
Pull it from his lps and take a deep satisfying pull, let the smoke curl from my open lips... then drop it on the ground and grind it with my stiletto! Haven't smoked in years! :)
Huzyerdaddi
10-27-2007, 11:52 AM
Pull it from his lps and take a deep satisfying pull, let the smoke curl from my open lips... then drop it on the ground and grind it with my stiletto! Haven't smoked in years! :)
Uh oh...wouldn't that be "falling off the wagon" Jen?
Uh oh...wouldn't that be "falling off the wagon" Jen?
Nope... not at all, you asked how we would react, not what we would say! Naturally, I would back-up my response with words! :)
Huzyerdaddi
10-27-2007, 12:12 PM
Nope... not at all, you asked how we would react, not what we would say! Naturally, I would back-up my response with words! :)
Naturally you would. Judging from our little conversations this morning, I don't doubt that for a second. You put a smile on my face.
Looking forward to your next post!
Iwantutowantme
10-27-2007, 01:05 PM
I guess it would be an immediate turnoff from the start. Since I am a nonsmoker and dont like kissing a woman that smokes.............. It would diffuse my approach to a possible relationship, but not stop me from getting to know her. I am not that shallow, but I do have my own ideas of what I want.
Not to take away from the story line but I would find it hard for that question not to come up during the preliminary emails, chats and such. As MCat posted, if it that big an issue you would have asked.
Other than that, I could express my desire that they not smoke when with me and if she still wants to be with me then she is going to not smoke. Unless I am smoking at the time (on again off again) at which time I would ask offer her a cup of the coffee that I brought for her and in short order give her a really good reason to smoke.
Well....being married to a smoker....I say toss a toothbrush,some doublemint gum his way and I'm good to go...:kk
rainbowhigh
10-27-2007, 01:23 PM
I smoked for a very short time when I was in college the first time. lol At the time it didn't bother me. But I think it would now. I've gotten to where I can't stand the smell around me. Some people might not like me when I say this, but I was VERY happy when they passed the law for no smoking at all in resteraunts.
I tend to agree with others, though, in that I would think whether or not someone smokes would have already been discussed prior to meeting. Just my $.02 though.
spare_change
10-27-2007, 01:57 PM
Pull it from his lps and take a deep satisfying pull, let the smoke curl from my open lips... then drop it on the ground and grind it with my stiletto! Haven't smoked in years! :)
Hun -- the image of you in stilettos is DEFINITELY smokin' !!
Hun -- the image of you in stilettos is DEFINITELY smokin' !!
I think now days they're called "Fuck Me Pumps" :D
spare_change
10-27-2007, 02:28 PM
I think now days they're called "Fuck Me Pumps" :D
When I wear them, nobody says that.
BigMike303
10-27-2007, 03:07 PM
I have an allergy to cigarettes so I would have to think up some good stuff to make it not a problem for me PHYSICALLY...lolOtherwise I wouldn't care!
PunkyBob
10-27-2007, 04:08 PM
Yeah, I smoke...but I wasn't planning on kissin' you, Huzyer...no offense, my friend...
PunkyBob
10-27-2007, 04:09 PM
When I wear them, nobody says that.
You probably ain't hangin' out in the right spots, Spare...:D
I think now days they're called "Fuck Me Pumps" :D
Pumps??? (what are pumps?) Fuck me erm pumps ... shiny and red I think, so much so you could see the reflection of the wearers panties or NOT as the case maybe! :)
cherokeered
10-27-2007, 08:31 PM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
It would bother me...and the smell would turn me off.....the date would end, and that would be that....
IMaLady
10-27-2007, 08:35 PM
Smoking is not a big issue with me. I dont smoke but did in the past. It has never bothered me to be around others who do it.
OICurready4me
10-27-2007, 09:08 PM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
For me, no differently than if they weren't smoking a cigarette since I personally don't care if they smoke. If someone is a chain smoker, that would be an issue with me since they would constantly have a cig in their mouth but someone who smokes a little doesn't bother me. I have dated a few women who smoke and other than one, they were cognisant of the fact that I didn't and took steps to try and keep their breath fresh and their bodies smelling nice. When they reek of smoke it is an issue but other than that, I can deal with it.
Huzyerdaddi
10-27-2007, 09:10 PM
courteous smokers are definitely preferred
WandaRing
10-27-2007, 09:31 PM
I dont think it can happen here in BC...cant smoke in most public places any more:lmao
I would go ahead with the meeting maybe they are just smoking because they are nervous, smoking does put me off. I would tell them for sure or they just might guess that I dont like the smell of smoke, when we kiss and I start to gag...:whee: :lmao
cheerymissy_34
10-27-2007, 09:41 PM
i dont smoke but it really wouldnt bother me
AL(m)
10-27-2007, 09:42 PM
I dont smoke.. but dont mind if others need too........
Sneaky
10-27-2007, 10:06 PM
Pull it from his lps and take a deep satisfying pull, let the smoke curl from my open lips... then drop it on the ground and grind it with my stiletto! Haven't smoked in years! :)
Absolutly! Ala Olivia Newton John in Grease. Then whisper while pouting, "Tell me about, Stud."
Absolutly! Ala Olivia Newton John in Grease. Then whisper while pouting, "Tell me about, Stud."
:kk abso-bloody-lutely!
Huzyerdaddi
10-29-2007, 03:23 PM
Minimizing the emphasis on the "smoking" part of the equation and giving due emphasis to the "affair" part....you clearly made the effort to go out and meet this individual. With that came all of the emotions of anticipation and excitement. For some, the smoking revelation is no big deal...others it matters (you must have felt some disappointment).
For you "fixers" out there, do you try resolve to address it by directly, or even subtley, fixing it or are you inclined to begin planning your escape route?
up4fun
10-29-2007, 04:45 PM
I am reformed smoker.....Usally it would make me sick, but for the right woman I could hold it together lol....
BigMike303
10-29-2007, 05:08 PM
I would definately TRY to look past it! She would have to be willing to meet halfway though and either cut back or find ways to do it away from me mostly.....and chew gum after or something....lol Hate kissing an ashtray!....lol
cyclops
10-29-2007, 05:15 PM
Pull it from his lps and take a deep satisfying pull, let the smoke curl from my open lips... then drop it on the ground and grind it with my stiletto! Haven't smoked in years! :)
God Jenny I don't quite know why, but I found that post such a turn on :lf
Penny
10-29-2007, 05:17 PM
I smoke so I would probably take it from them and smoke it :gs
God Jenny I don't quite know why, but I found that post such a turn on :lf
It was the Stiletto's aka F**k Me Pumps that gotcha.....
BigMike303
10-29-2007, 05:23 PM
It was the Stiletto's aka F**k Me Pumps that gotcha.....
That part was definately HOT!
cyclops
10-29-2007, 05:26 PM
It was the Stiletto's aka F**k Me Pumps that gotcha.....
Yes thats it. Thanks MCat :55
BigMike303
10-29-2007, 05:28 PM
Yea,Thanks to you MCat I have something for the masturbation forum now.......lol
cyclops
10-29-2007, 05:29 PM
Yea,Thanks to you MCat I have something for the masturbation forum now.......lol
10 words from MCat and we are all off for a wank LOL :lmao
shit I might have to buy me a pair of those shoes....
10 words from MCat and we are all off for a wank LOL :lmao
Oh stop....you guys are a hoot....:D
cyclops
10-29-2007, 06:53 PM
Absolutly! Ala Olivia Newton John in Grease. Then whisper while pouting, "Tell me about, Stud."
That is an unforgettable image from my childhood.
I don't know how old I was when Greese came out but Olivia Newton John in that outfit had an effect on me that nothing had done before. :lf
Sneaky
10-29-2007, 06:57 PM
That is an unforgettable image from my childhood.
I don't know how old I was when Greese came out but Olivia Newton John in that outfit had an effect on me that nothing had done before. :lf
I saw on a Grease reunion special that she actually had to be sewn into those pants and couldn't sit down all day. Great scene.
BigMike303
10-29-2007, 06:58 PM
She was definately one of my first Masturbation memories the way she looked in that movie! No doubt about it!
pointofnoreturn
10-29-2007, 07:05 PM
She was definately one of my first Masturbation memories the way she looked in that movie! No doubt about it!oh you guys are so young......:sc
BigMike303
10-29-2007, 07:06 PM
Not Really,just didn't have the privacy to do it till later when that movie was on VHS....lol
cyclops
10-29-2007, 07:13 PM
oh you guys are so young......:sc
Ahhhh thanks point :kk
I saw on a Grease reunion special that she actually had to be sewn into those pants and couldn't sit down all day. Great scene.
I'm often poured into mine ... has the same effect! :D
Huzyerdaddi
10-29-2007, 07:26 PM
I'm often poured into mine ... has the same effect! :D
Jen...in another thread you comment on a familiarity. Not sure I understand what you're saying.
Jen...in another thread you comment on a familiarity. Not sure I understand what you're saying.
What has that got to do with Olivia Newton John's Trollies???
Huzyerdaddi
10-29-2007, 07:34 PM
What has that got to do with Olivia Newton John's Trollies???
umm, well, nothing really.
cyclops
10-29-2007, 07:52 PM
What has that got to do with Olivia Newton John's Trollies???
:lmao
BigMike303
10-30-2007, 01:44 AM
Now I want to see Jenny dressed in that outfit from Grease!....lol
BigMike303
10-30-2007, 02:18 AM
shit I might have to buy me a pair of those shoes....
If you do,I will have to see those pictures!
chiboy_67
10-30-2007, 02:21 AM
Now I want to see Jenny dressed in that outfit from Grease!....lol
seconded!
BigMike303
10-30-2007, 02:26 AM
and yet,I still can't see smoking after sex unless it's from friction........lol
Huzyerdaddi
10-30-2007, 09:45 AM
I can't help myself when it comes to smoking, especially when the mystery and intrigue of an affair is involved. I've been told many times I smoke in bed.
:D
ClassyBabe
10-31-2007, 04:33 PM
Smokers Need Not Apply
Lacey
10-31-2007, 04:35 PM
I can't help myself when it comes to smoking, especially when the mystery and intrigue of an affair is involved. I've been told many times I smoke in bed.
:D
LOL .......good one!
spare_change
10-31-2007, 04:53 PM
I can't help myself when it comes to smoking, especially when the mystery and intrigue of an affair is involved. I've been told many times I smoke in bed.
:D
Actually, I think the exact phrase used was "you go down in flames".
Shiane
10-31-2007, 05:36 PM
If smoking is such a big turn off then your first question should be, do you smoke?
If their answer is yes then you will save yourself a whole lot of time not getting to know them by having to ask unimportant things like.... if they shave their coochie, how big their dick is, if they like to give head, if they spit or swallow, if they are married, if they are divorced, seperated or single, what they do for a living, if they wear stillettos (lol loved your response Jen.) Ya know, all the small talk.;)
Lacey
10-31-2007, 05:39 PM
If smoking is such a big turn off then your first question should be, do you smoke?
If their answer is yes then you will save yourself a whole lot of time not getting to know them by having to ask unimportant things like.... if they shave their coochie, how big their dick is, if they like to give head, if they spit or swallow, if they are married, if they are divorced, seperated or single, what they do for a living, if they wear stillettos (lol loved your response Jen.) Ya know, all the small talk.;)
LOL......................I just choked...................so true!:lmao
Shiane
10-31-2007, 05:42 PM
LOL......................I just choked...................so true!:lmao
:D ;)
BigMike303
10-31-2007, 07:09 PM
The only Smoking going on in the bedroom should be from Friction anyway though IMO!...lol
duanehofner
11-01-2007, 07:14 AM
"you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment"
Your words, so what's your question again?
BigMike303
11-01-2007, 08:05 AM
huh?
Huzyerdaddi
11-01-2007, 04:13 PM
?
BigMike303
11-01-2007, 09:37 PM
:whee:
Huzyerdaddi
11-02-2007, 12:20 PM
nothing like a single statement to kill a thread.
kbee1981
11-02-2007, 04:09 PM
Turn the corner and hope that he didn't notice me already
Huzyerdaddi
11-02-2007, 04:23 PM
Turn the corner and hope that he didn't notice me already
Caught ya!
BigMike303
11-02-2007, 07:03 PM
Wow,this thread went WAY off topic quick!...lol
Huzyerdaddi
11-02-2007, 07:05 PM
Wow,this thread went WAY off topic quick!...lol
most do... i think there are really on a few topics spread among hundreds of threads
BigMike303
11-02-2007, 07:09 PM
It would seem...that's ok though!.... It's hard to track which ones you are trying to keep up with as it is here...lol
madmod
11-09-2007, 06:27 AM
I don't think it would be a problem at all .... If I'm already at the stage of a 'meet-up' then something so forbidden and so orally-based would definitely be a turn-on to me. She might not taste quite the same, but maybe that's the point - my hunger could be satisfied with a new acquired taste. Especially if she's wearing a pair of those pumps that everyone keeps describing .... Oh, hoochie mama! ;)
toowildtotame
11-09-2007, 06:00 PM
as someone who smoked ALLOT up until 12 years ago, I didn't put much into caring if one smoked or not-- I have found that when your sense of smell and taste come back to you that you do care if someone you want to be intimate with SMOKES!!
Their clothes smell horrible and their breath would gag a maggot--- so no smokers need apply-- and no breath mint or mouth wash smokers either-- :whee:
Bama River Man
11-16-2007, 01:44 PM
No sweat here. I'll be lighting up too.
fondew2004
06-29-2009, 06:55 PM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
I suppose puking on their shoes would be out of the question???
And...depending how far I drove to meet them, I could ask for my gas money back.
And kick myself all the way back wondering why I never asked if they smoked or not.
Damn.....just damn!
fever
06-29-2009, 07:19 PM
Way to dig deep, fond in the thread pool!
Despite being an ex-smoker, and despite those VERY RARE occasions when I'm DYING for a cigarette after sex, I can't tolerate it. I wish it were different b/c I strive not to discriminate against the choices others make in their lives, but as a cancer survivor it raises all kinds of issues for me. And as a result, while it may not be the very first question I ask, it's up there...certainly it would be addressed before I met anyone!
OnceAKing
06-29-2009, 08:41 PM
scuse me maam, did you say dressed or undressed?
Curiousoneonly
06-29-2009, 09:30 PM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
I would carry on with the meeting and kick myself for not asking the question prior to this meeting "do you smoke?"
I am sure that prior to my meeting anyone that very important question would be asked, "do you smoke?" Along with a few other questions.
Xanadu7
06-29-2009, 10:47 PM
Well, to be serious for once ....
I'm just coming off cigarettes, so I'm acquainted with the whole lifestyle. I think it would be pretty irresponsible on MY part if I didn't let someone know I smoked at that stage of the relationship. I suppose it's POSSIBLE that it could be something that was "forgotten to mention," but I would question how many other things are gonna come up that evening. Like her lesbian girlfriend showing up for the 3-some!
Brandon301
06-29-2009, 11:29 PM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
I would look away and walk past them, pretending I wasn't who they were looking for. I would post this song for them on the dedication line later:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5NDuj-MyVyA
Xanadu7
06-29-2009, 11:45 PM
I'd buy some microwave popcorn for the hotel room, and pop in this video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIN8MmMloZE
NeilC
06-30-2009, 02:43 AM
hmmm kind of a tough question. I have been in this situation, amost anyway. She asked after we had exchanged "hellos" if I minded if she smoked. With all of the nervous tension that is involved with meeting someone you met online the first time smoking was a long way down the list of deal breakers. Looking back I am sure she was probably even more nervous than I was so anything to calm her nerves was likely a good thing. I had quit smoking about 2 years prior to us meeting, even after 2 years I still had cravings and that night was about 10 times worse than a normal day. She explained she was "cutting down" and trying to quit which I knew about before we met so maybe thats why it wasnt such a big deal. Funny enough it was her constant use of four letter words to discribe everything from the coffee we were drinking to the weather that turned me off to the point by the end of the evening I knew this would be the last time I would go out with her. ...Kinda rambling on here... anyway I guess in summary I think we all have limits / turn offs and her language was far worse than the smoking. Maybe for others it would have been the reverse
NeilC
06-30-2009, 02:46 AM
Well, to be serious for once ....
I'm just coming off cigarettes, so I'm acquainted with the whole lifestyle. I think it would be pretty irresponsible on MY part if I didn't let someone know I smoked at that stage of the relationship. I suppose it's POSSIBLE that it could be something that was "forgotten to mention," but I would question how many other things are gonna come up that evening. Like her lesbian girlfriend showing up for the 3-some!
I could forgive the smoking if her lesbian girfriend showed up for a 3-some as long as she remembered to bring the camera.
NeilC
06-30-2009, 02:58 AM
One last little tidbit... sharon stone in basic instinct when shes in the interogation room wearing the famous short white dress with no underwear. How can any red blooded man resist that even if she does light up after being told not to........
Sinster
06-30-2009, 05:28 AM
Wouldn't bother me in the slightest, thats what breath mints were invented for, sheesh.... I hate lots of things that leave a bad taste in a female mouth but damn if its going to stop me, morning breath has its own charmless effect but pop a mint or breath spray and its all good.
Guys and gals if you got a hot one in the sack looking rather enticing your not going to stop there, be nice and say would you mind freshening up as I am a non smoker, if he or she gets offended then kick the bugger out of bed for being inconsiderate, not for being a smoker...
countrygent07
06-30-2009, 07:54 AM
For me, it would be end game. Oh, I'd be gracious and polite, but that would be are one and only contact. Sorry smokers, if I've offended you. It's just that I find smoking almost as attractive as nose picking.
gdgrlgnbd
06-30-2009, 11:58 AM
Do we look for perfection in a lover? It is easy to find I guess because we only see certain sides of them. We don't live with them and have to see them day in and out. In all situations.
But, back to the question. I know it is hypothetical, but I don't think a person who is respectable is going to choose this way of letting that little secret out. I am sure they are aware it could cause some issues. Just as a drunk probably would not show up wasted(maybe). But, I realize it is an important issue. I think if the person is willing to not smoke in front of you or at least be respectable about it, let it go. If they are good to you in every other aspect, then I think it is a small price to pay.
We all have to make those decisions for ourselves, but no one is perfect. Just depends on what imperfections you can deal with.
Sandyboots
07-01-2009, 09:22 AM
Pumps??? (what are pumps?) Fuck me erm pumps ... shiny and red I think, so much so you could see the reflection of the wearers panties or NOT as the case maybe! :)
I may need a smoke after reading you two...used to smoke, but quit. Smelled too much like the bar I was going to before I left!
redcat
07-01-2009, 09:39 AM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
I'd be asking when they started smoking...'cause you can be sure I would have asked before now if they smoked.
gr8doods
07-01-2009, 10:01 AM
That is information I would know ahead of time. Not a fan of smoking, so if the person smoked I would not be meeting them. If they "withheld" that while chatting, it would be a very short greeting and I would be leaving very quickly.
gdgrlgnbd
07-03-2009, 03:56 PM
I know I have responded in this thread already, but I had one more comment.
If you took the time to get to know someone, trusted them enuf to meet and even possibly have sex. Would you really just turn and leave, no explanation? I mean that is pretty harsh. Would they not deserve to know how you felt about it, should they not be given a chance to explain why it had not come up before or whatever? I dunno, seems like they were not all that important to you in the first place.
I know I have responded in this thread already, but I had one more comment.
If you took the time to get to know someone, trusted them enuf to meet and even possibly have sex. Would you really just turn and leave, no explanation? I mean that is pretty harsh. Would they not deserve to know how you felt about it, should they not be given a chance to explain why it had not come up before or whatever? I dunno, seems like they were not all that important to you in the first place.
very well stated
daisyduck
07-03-2009, 04:35 PM
i smoke after an affair
i smoke after an affair
Take a drag on me
Danso
07-11-2009, 09:06 PM
Can't stand smoke and would check that detail out LONG before meeting someone.
3pmac
07-11-2009, 09:58 PM
I would have covered this topic in very early conversations.
Boxxo
07-29-2009, 04:26 PM
I dont think it can happen here in BC...cant smoke in most public places any more:lmao
I would go ahead with the meeting maybe they are just smoking because they are nervous, smoking does put me off. I would tell them for sure or they just might guess that I dont like the smell of smoke, when we kiss and I start to gag...:whee: :lmao
Yeah it probably wouldn't be a plain smoke....odds are some of that good ole BC BUD..wink wink....now that is a different story
smilingHard
07-29-2009, 10:39 PM
I pull out my joint and offer to smoke that with her
dcliamm
07-29-2009, 11:24 PM
great movie
smilingHard
07-30-2009, 04:43 AM
great movie
you mean this movie? :)
http://www.valentineonfilm.com/reviews/images/Boondock-Saints.jpg
Ken3750
07-30-2009, 08:19 PM
I Would say hello and give a nice soft hello kiss, then light up myself
PA Loverboy
08-08-2009, 07:47 AM
You're clicking and scrolling around in a place called "married and looking" so there is something somewhere inside of you, no matter how small, that accepts the idea that you just might have an affair. Accept that and play this movie forward.
You met your match online and did all the necessary chat and email dancing before you finally came to the point where you were ready to meet. And, oh my, how exciting those few days between the time you agree to meet and actually meet are. You feel so coy and you have little butterflies in your belly. You dream up all kinds of ideas of what it's going to be like, but you remind yourself to be careful not to elevate expectations which will lead to disappointment....then you meet.
As you're walking up to the person whom you're meeting for the first time, they're standing in the designated "secret spot" wearing the designated "secret code clothes" and.....huh? what? ....they light up a cigarette.
You react how?
I would say, " You'll be smoking AFTER sex too, LOL" (Kinda like that old joke, Q-"Do you smoke after sex?" A- "I don't know, let me pull down the covers & look"):sex
Seriously, I don't smoke, but it doesn't bother me. I'd offer her a breath mint I guess.
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