Can you tell if your partner is faking an orgasm

[Flirting Mom]

I am ashamed to admit I have done it a few times because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Can you guys tell if a woman is faking?

[mrhappy1]

FM,
I think it all depends on how you're tuned into the woman's feeling and her body. May be I'm crazy but I believe your body is the greatest thing you can share with another person. I would want to be inside her mind and imagination and her in mine, so in that case I think I'd know. If you only care about yourself (man) getting an orgasm then it doesn't matter because you'd be happy.

Sorry to be so long winded.

I am ashamed to admit I have done it a few times because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Can you guys tell if a woman is faking?

[roughneck]

Hey Flirting Mom most of the time it is not hard to tell if a woman fakes an orgasm but i understand why they would:(

[texasgirl]

women do and men have no clue, oh oh yes yes oh god right there oooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss, "see", oh baby yes it was good for me you are so wonderful, Who's your daddy? oh baby you are.:rofl1: But sometime you just have to stroke their ego, and sometimes you just get tired of getting pounded. Sorry guys but we all do it from time to time. :kk

[mrhappy1]

:mad: LOL.. you're right I'm sure...... women do and men have no clue, oh oh yes yes oh god right there oooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss, "see", oh baby yes it was good for me you are so wonderful, Who's your daddy? oh baby you are.:rofl1: But sometime you just have to stroke their ego, and sometimes you just get tired of getting pounded. Sorry guys but we all do it from time to time. :kk

[mrhappy1]

:la: However, if you start out with the tongue first Txgirl then you're sure to have that orgasm. Bet there's no worry about faking there????
:mad: LOL.. you're right I'm sure......

[farkan]

well, ive never had the problem of anyone ever faking an orgasm, so i guess...

[farkan]

oh, and texasgirl, any time, any time

[texasgirl]

:la: However, if you start out with the tongue first Txgirl then you're sure to have that orgasm. Bet there's no worry about faking there???? Want to bet, all guys are not as good at that as they think they are. :(

[texasgirl]

oh, and texasgirl, any time, any time:kk

[Flirting Mom]

Sometimes my mind is on other things and I'm just not into it. I would rather fake it though than turn him away.

[bearwalking]

i always try my darndest to please my partner with my tongue until she cant stand it no more then i worry about me.

[bearwalking]

yes my ex did fake it at times as far as i know now my wife doesnt she usually is quivering and super sensitive to my touch afterwards.not to brag but pleased that i affect her this way

[Sunshine]

Sometimes I will fake oral more than regular because he will get going on a particular spot that just dosnt feel good. To fast or to hard and it does nothing for me. I need it slow and soft and at a steady pace.

[69Handy]

yes

[mark2gmtrans]

texasgirl, I know that women sometimes fake it, but why would you? I think that if you are old enough to have sex you should be adult enough to communicate with your partner. You can't expect a man to do what you need him to if you don't tell him "baby slow down and go easy, or I like that keep it up, or even tell him stop that shit, it is never going to make me cum" then if he still does it wrong it is all on him

[Penny]

I wont fake it I will just slap him upside the head and tell him to do it right ;)

[mark2gmtrans]

I know that if I have my penis inside her, or a finger she is not going to be able to fake it without me knowing, a man who is paying attention can feel the contractions of an orgasm, and also the moisture level, also like I said before if you are doing it with someone and you are faking it, then please do not complain about not getting off. I would never fake it, and she should not either

[ross57412]

well FM i know id like to share a few with you :hp:



I am ashamed to admit I have done it a few times because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Can you guys tell if a woman is faking?

[2pleaseu1953]

I'm sure some girls faked it when I was young.......its school of hard knocks until you find a woman that will take the time and educate us. At 51 I still like the classroom...nothing beats a satisified woman! :)

[Penny]

If I'm not enjoying it I will say so. I know some women would just fake it because they are afraid to hurt the guys feelings

[SprayLude]

only way I couldnt tell is MMMMMMMMMM naw I can tell!!

[learman3]

I doubt I'd be able to tell. Not that I have had that many different women to be able to get a good sampling.

[quax999]

I can tell If my girl fakes one. As far as the rest of the world, I don't know. But flirting mom, I'm sure you wouldn't have to fake one with me. And if your talking about the man that walked out on you. He'd have to have feeling before you could actually hurt his feeling any how.

[Leefromnj]

i can usually feel it.

[Cindy]

Haven't you guys ever seen When Harry Met Sally. I promise you couldn't tell. ;)

[gladstones]

I have always tried to make sure the woman is satisfied first before I am. Hopefully she would tell me if I was not pleasing her.

[mark2gmtrans]

it is not the wetness, it is a muscular contraction in the vaginal walls, and in the lower back muscles and the thigh muscle as well as a dilation of the pupils, if you can fake all of that simultaneously then you can fool me, otherwise I will know and call you on it. Cindy why in the world would you fake it unless you just do not want the person you are with to make you cum?Ladies if you are faking orgasms you have got serious problems in the relationship, you should seek professional help, because I guarrantee the man did not faking cumming all over your tits LOL

[Wet Beaver]

mark we all fake once in a while. And we can do all that you wrote. Now thw real question should be.


Was it real or did you shoot off to fast?

[mark2gmtrans]

Wet if you have mastered your own body so well that you can control autonomic responses such as blood pressure and pupil dilation, why do you not just cause yourself to orgasm instead of faking it. I do not want to sound mean, but Wet, if you have spent the hundreds of hours in meditation it takes to gain control over blood pressure,pulse rate, and pupil dilation, take another few and study how to ride the waves of tantric pleasure, I can tell you that a tantric master can experience an orgasm for hours, simply by controlling his or her bodies response. I would say to all who have the ability to understand their own body in this way, that it is a spiritual experience, and if you are ever manipulated to orgasm by a tantric master, you will never forget it. I however would not waste my time with a student who fakes it. When you fake orgasm you are robbing yourself and your partner of pleasure that should be yours, and if you think that all women fake it from time to time you are wrong about that as well, if you love the person you are with you will not fake orgasms. When you fake it you are saying to yourself that the person you are with is not worthy of bringing you to climax, that you do not respect that person enough to give your body, mind and spirit to them in mutual pleasure. Please do not rob yourself of pleasure, instead learn to allow your body to heighten pleasure to give pleasure and receive it to the maximum each time you have sex, it will change your life.

[Wet Beaver]

LOL. you never gave birth to 5 children

[mark2gmtrans]

Please Wet, giving birth is not a license to lie to your partner, I will make this the last time I reply to this thread, if you are faking it that is deception, if you deceive your partner, then do not ever think that you have a right to complain that he does not do you the way you want to be done, nothing says that you have to cum every time you have sex, I know that sometimes a woman gives herself to her man to satisfy him, and maybe she does not feel in the mood, the trick is to learn to be in the mood because he loves you and you love him and learn to accept sexual advances from him not as a drudge duty, but as a chance to get a free E ticket ride on the orgasm express.

[Flirting Mom]

:D no faking there

LOL. you never gave birth to 5 children

[illmakeurtoeswiggle]

Well....



Every woman that I've been with has had eruptive orgasms...now I'm not sure but I would have to say that would be hard to fake. :whee:
I understand a woman doing it but, I guess I don't understand the man being so out of it that he wouldn't be able to tell.
That's just my opinion on it!

[eezy_1]

If I'm not enjoying it I will say so. I know some women would just fake it because they are afraid to hurt the guys feelings

That's how it should be. If you're not getting what you want out of it, make sure you do....

[Penny]

and I dont care if I hurt your feelings I mean if I let some guy inbetween my legs he should be able to handle constructive criticsm

[Seeker]

It helps to teach your partner the ways that best work for you! I would be more hurt to know that I wasn't satisfying her needs. Good instruction, and constructive critisism, is always welcome!:hp:

[Zpanther]

hmmmm. Several different opinions here. Well for what it's worth, I think Cindy's right. A lot of women do fake orgasms... probably for a lotta different reasons......AND I would be willing to bet that there a lot of guys that don't pay enough attention to able to tell the difference. My wife and I have had several discussions about this subject. She said that some years ago, during a period when we weren't communicating openly like we do now, she faked it several times. She knows that I get as much or more satisfaction from bringing her to orgasm as I do with my own, and sometimes just feels like having me take her without any consideration for what she wants or needs. Now, on the occasions when she is in that mood, she just tells me that's what she wants and we both enjoy it - but at the time she wasn't sure I'd understand. I also agree with some of what Mark is saying too though. If a guy is experienced and paying attention, he should be able to tell.

Also, I read recently an article by a female Doctor that's a sex researcher that said her research showed that a lot of women have trouble reaching orgasm with vaginal penetration, but can climax with clitorical stimulation. I dunno about that, but I've had some women tell me they are that way. In that same article the Doctor said research showed that over 70% of women can experience multiple orgasms. She said those women that are one and done have much more intense orgasms, so both have their advantages.

Just some things to think about..... in fact maybe I'll start a poll to see what everyone here thinks. :0

[mesohorny]

You can tell by the "Way her liver quivered"

[horny(m)]

wish i could fake it just to get even

[Eomer]

Issues Man Issues!

[JoeyLites]

If she's faking, she's real good at it!

[MCat]

Sometimes I just don't have an orgasm, thats the way it is after giving birth, illness,working full time, being tired & being married a long time. But the warm, loving feeling of being together is enough for me sometimes. Used to be able to have multiple orgasms, but usually just have 1 good one now. I don't fake it...he would rather I tell him what I want.

Z, If you are talking about the Berman Sisters , there are 4 or 5 of them that are all doctors of one sort...I agree with them totally. I would encourage all women to have C sections...less trauma on the lovely female anatomy in my opinion. Wish I could have had them for the births of my children.

[hank69]

Always could tell :sg Because nobody ever faked it. If they don't have one then no fun for me either like marycat says being tired ,working full time and being married a long time all plays a role-the sex spark isn't is often as it used to be when we were younger, it goes in streaks :cry:guess that's life:)Sometimes I just don't have an orgasm, thats the way it is after giving birth, illness,working full time, being tired & being married a long time. But the warm, loving feeling of being together is enough for me sometimes. Used to be able to have multiple orgasms, but usually just have 1 good one now. I don't fake it...he would rather I tell him what I want.

Z, If you are talking about the Berman Sisters , there are 4 or 5 of them that are all doctors of one sort...I agree with them totally. I would encourage all women to have C sections...less trauma on the lovely female anatomy in my opinion. Wish I could have had them for the births of my children.

[KIRA187]

well penny, you certainly have the right attitude. I would prefer to have the woman be honest and tell me if I am not hitting the right spot or how we are doing it is not pleasing and then we adjust. Sex should be enjoyable and enjoyed by all partners engaged. Texasgirl, you are missing out sweets if you think the way to go is faking it.

[bgpoole]

As rarely as we do it, when we do my wife is not shy about letting me know what she wants, so I'm pretty sure she doesn't fake, and there are times when she has been drinking when she can't cum at all, and she has not faked anything on those occasions, I would like to think I could tell if she was, but you never know........

[swabie16]

no i'm usualy to bussy trying to hold back so i can get her off too

[rider69]

I am ashamed to admit I have done it a few times because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Can you guys tell if a woman is faking?

I used to think I knew it all, then I learned a few things...

[Penny]

welcome rider69 :kk

[avitron69]

Sometime, because the physical sign are not there, hard nipples and spasms

[nlightenedrogue]

I'd like to think I can...but it probably depends on the woman. My wife won't fake orgasms with me, or so she says, and I think I could tell with her. But with other women, I'm sure some have faked it just to make feel good for trying so hard!

[CSpringsFlyer]

I've been with women who I knew were faking it, and yet others who later admitted faking it, but at the time I was convinced that they came. Usually you can tell by the feel of her vaginal muscles pulsating on your cock.

[bobby6901]

How would we know? It's her best kept secret. If she's faking I wish she'd educate me... we'd both be hapier and probably get more... don't fake girls, do LIke penny says and slap him up the side of the head, then teach him how to do it right... Dress up like a teacher amd make a fantasy out of it! I for one would appreciate a helpful teacher... always willing to learn! Any teachers out there?

[spare_change]

Can I tell? No --- I don't really believe, short of Mark and his stethescope and speculum, that any guy can really be positive.

To treat it like a betrayal??? Give me a break --- this lady is doing this for you (and your fragile ego). Recognize it for the gift that it is.

[crazyjoe]

I dont know if i could or not. If she was really good and put on a good show i probably couldn't.

[ozwaverider]

How can we ever really know for sure. You know I prefer not to get all hung up that. Just be genuine yourself and naturally consider your ladies wants as well and let ti happen. If she feels she needs to fake it to satisfy me then I appreciate her thoughfulness too.

[spare_change]

Know when she is faking an orgasm?

Only when she can recognize that we are faking that we really care.

[spare_change]

Know when she is faking an orgasm?

Only when she can recognize that we are faking that we really care.


Relax!!!! It was just a joke !

[surfnchat]

I like to lick the nipples afterwards if I'm not sure... If she shakes violently, she wasn't faking. :-)

[jd_tx]

Dont think i could tell, and if she thought enough of me to fake it...then i would leave well enough alone.

[Penny]

Smart Man:)



Dont think i could tell, and if she thought enough of me to fake it...then i would leave well enough alone.

[Cotties]

I don't give a shit if a women fakes it or not. I'm having a ball and she can be washing the dishes for all care.

I have seen girls fake it and it makes me treat them like nasty whores who have sex for money... what a turn off...faking shit so I will cum..

I have faked it once or twice..sometimes I can't cum when pissed...guys don't get caught or you will have hell to pay ....look out.....

[in_thelounge]

will definately know, my wifes nipples go really tender after she comes so she dont like em touched.

[Ehnonymous]

I can tell when my partner cums, but I also know that sometimes she can't. Lots of men have a performance hangup (and some women buy into it) that the woman has to cum in order to be satisfied or for them to be a good lover. As has already been written, there are times women can't. Bringing my partner to orgasm and climax is great, but if she's really sensitive or has something else going on, my masculinity is not going to be crushed. Now then, when my partner cums, besides the quivering and glow we men call sweat, her clit is totally hard, engorged and really sensitive. Its a dead give-away... Honesty and communication is the best path to a great O - pay attention to her needs and she'll return the favor...

[Sandy]

thankfully i've never had that problem.

[KIRA187]

I can tell when my partner cums, but I also know that sometimes she can't. Lots of men have a performance hangup (and some women buy into it) that the woman has to cum in order to be satisfied or for them to be a good lover. As has already been written, there are times women can't. Bringing my partner to orgasm and climax is great, but if she's really sensitive or has something else going on, my masculinity is not going to be crushed. Now then, when my partner cums, besides the quivering and glow we men call sweat, her clit is totally hard, engorged and really sensitive. Its a dead give-away... Honesty and communication is the best path to a great O - pay attention to her needs and she'll return the favor...


big e.... I too can tell when my partner cums. And I agree with your statement to a point. Yes honesty and communication is best. You are talking about not only being secure in your masculinity but also being sensitive to her at that moment. But I have just one question.

So you and your partner are in the throughs of heated passion or maybe it is just animal sex and you my good man are hard hard as a rock and ready to explode into her. At the moment she whipsers to you that she is haveing a problem with having an orgasm...... Does winky stay hard and shoot its load anyway or deflate faster than a ballon with a pin prick? Thats the delima my good man!

[CaneCarver]

She would not be my partner if I did not care about all her needs.
I pay attention to my womens life. Needs, desires, stresses and concerns. I know when she needs time alone and time with her friends. She gets all the attention she needs and I get the rewards of being an honest lover.

[Penny]

Does winky stay hard and shoot its load anyway or deflate faster than a ballon with a pin prick? Thats the delima my good man

LMAO :D

[SirFox]

In all respect to you Penny... I do believe based on experience that besides men who have trouble really knowing when their partners are having an orgams or have had an orgasm....women also have trouble with this CLIMACTIC problem.

First about men knowing about their partners orgams. Difficult to know for some women, others not. Skin colour changes as does breathing. Don't bae yourself on her screams, Men...that usually makes it more interesting but does not necessarily mean that she has been over the top.

You have to be curious and in tune with your partner to "KNOW". And MEN have to accept that there is a vaginal orgasm as well as a clitoral orgasm. The two are NOT the same. There are women who can only CUM from a clitorian point of view: these women are often afraid to let go vaginally for various reasons.

Second about women knowing about their partners orgasms. Ladies, you hear your man starting to get hot and bothered as he penetrates you. You may see him start to sweat from the strain. And you may hear him hoot and holler. Does that mean that he has orgasmed?

No it does not. How many women have I met who asked me after I had CUM whether I had cum? At the beginning I was flabbergasted. Being a gentlemen, at the beginning, yes, of course...

The CURIOSITY got the better of me and I started to ask questions. I found that several women did not REALLY KNOW when their mates had come! Why?

It goes back to the first part here. I believe that there are women who don't want and consciosuly REFUSE a vaginal orgasm. I believe that there are women who do not feel as much as others. And I believe that with all this talk of VAGINAL ORGASMS, there are those WOMEN who want so much to have one that they block themselves from having that MARVELOUS pinnacle of youth.

Just as we MEN are differently hung and built, WOMEN are also different in their bodies.

In conclusion to this long lecture, LEARN to LISTEN to YOUR BODY.



Sounds strange, but I have seen it over the years. I suspect

[Sandy]

i've never had to faxe one so i geuss i'm lucky. and i know bonzzz never has. :rofl1:

[Shiane]

women do and men have no clue, oh oh yes yes oh god right there oooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss, "see", oh baby yes it was good for me you are so wonderful, Who's your daddy? oh baby you are.:rofl1: But sometime you just have to stroke their ego, and sometimes you just get tired of getting pounded. Sorry guys but we all do it from time to time. :kk

Maybe Tex is right, it just depends on how well you fake it.
Theres always the option to be honest. Nothing wrong with telling them darlin i'm just not in the mood to get off, I just want you to enjoy it this time. Women can enjoy sex with having the big O on occasion. Sometimes it's the man who just can't seem to climax and gives in to exhaustion. It's all give and take.
:kk

[Penny]

I have no problem bring out the vibrator if I need it to finnish nad he likes to watch :gs

[Shiane]

I have no problem bring out the vibrator if I need it to finnish nad he likes to watch :gs

High 5 Penny, we women have a solution for almost everything!;)

[tulsasurgeon]

Shiane,,,,where is your husband?

[Shiane]

Shiane,,,,where is your husband?

Exactly where I put him, in the freezer. LOL just kidddding. :D

[sweetgapeach]

Originally Posted by texasgirl
women do and men have no clue, oh oh yes yes oh god right there oooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss, "see", oh baby yes it was good for me you are so wonderful, Who's your daddy? oh baby you are. But sometime you just have to stroke their ego, and sometimes you just get tired of getting pounded. Sorry guys but we all do it from time to time.


I agree I have done it a million times!!

[MCat]

I have never faked it.....if I don't have one I don't have one

[SirFox]

Originally Posted by texasgirl
women do and men have no clue, oh oh yes yes oh god right there oooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss, "see", oh baby yes it was good for me you are so wonderful, Who's your daddy? oh baby you are. But sometime you just have to stroke their ego, and sometimes you just get tired of getting pounded. Sorry guys but we all do it from time to time.


I agree I have done it a million times!!


..that is needed methinks between two people who truly love one another. That honesty however is contingent on good communication between the two. Honesty in physical love is a necessity as it is for life, it seems to me.

In physical love good communication is necessary to be able to tell your wife or your husband that you did not make it to the big "O". The problem is a mixture of pride, ego, and still a macho image of a man on the one hand, and a mixture of embarassement for women (for example, not able to please her man), not understand how he works, and why her body doesn't react to his touches (like other women do)

Communication, learning, comprehension...it's a difficult world out there...
when it could be sooooo simple. It makes you want to :drink:

[izzy]

I really can't imagine a single reason for anybody to ever fake an orgasm.

Really!

If it happens, I'm stumped for a reason to explain - I thought it was just a topic for jokes.

[Waltert]

Of course I could tell if she faked it!
Or else she is good at it!

[Sandy]

i thank god, i've never had to fake one, and i hope i never do:wa:

[SirFox]

Of course I could tell if she faked it!
Or else she is good at it!

Walter T: Let me tell you she's good at FAKING AN ORGASM for various reasons. Have you looked at the statistics of women faking orgasms when they are with their partners?

We are simply lousy lovers and have no idea how to give what we have and receive what we want from our females. :cry:

[SirFox]

I really can't imagine a single reason for anybody to ever fake an orgasm.

Really!

If it happens, I'm stumped for a reason to explain - I thought it was just a topic for jokes.

Dear IZZY. She fakes an orgasm to make you feel like a happy MALE. Orgasms are so easy to provoke....and yummy to see....wish that women did not feel the need to FAKE their orgasms.

[Waltert]

Well if she wants to settle for a fake on, instead of letting me know what she really wants and needs, it is her lose. But, I do not think she is. :lf



Walter T: Let me tell you she's good at FAKING AN ORGASM for various reasons. Have you looked at the statistics of women faking orgasms when they are with their partners?

We are simply lousy lovers and have no idea how to give what we have and receive what we want from our females. :cry:

[SirFox]

It's my opinion....I would check with her and make sure that you feel that she has given yopu a satisfacory answer before you find out to the contrary. L

Let me tell you it's a blow in your face...according to some of my friends..who have had that experience of being married for 10 years and having the wife say that she was NEVER satisfied.

[spare_change]

i thank god, i've never had to fake one, and i hope i never do:wa:

I must tell you this makes you unique, in my limited experience. Are you saying that you ALWAYS have an orgasm, or that those times when you don't, it's okay, and you don't try to pretend?


Hmmmm -- I think we can resolve this with an opinion poll.

[justask_me_2]

It's my opinion....I would check with her and make sure that you feel that she has given yopu a satisfacory answer before you find out to the contrary. L

Let me tell you it's a blow in your face...according to some of my friends..who have had that experience of being married for 10 years and having the wife say that she was NEVER satisfied.

I agree. I found out after 5 years that not only is she not satisfied, she just plain doesn't like sex and only did it for my benefit. I've tried to find ways to satisfy her, hoping that she would like it if she could just have one orgasm. She finally told me, she has had orgasms and it just doesn't appeal to her. The last time we had sex, I could tell she was faking, mostly because I know her better now, and it wasn't what I had in mind. I wish for the old days of my ignorancee.

[yaser]

Exactly where I put him, in the freezer. LOL just kidddding. :DI know you are kidding.But let me ask you again do you want to use him later, not now...I iamagined to be put in a freezer, then my hair stood on end..

[yaser]

She never fakes, I do

[spare_change]

Perhaps, Bacon said it best.

"Delusion - thy name is male."

[Sandy]

spare i guess i'm lucky, i never had to fake one. :wa:

[SirFox]

spare i guess i'm lucky, i never had to fake one. :wa:

Are you serious MYWIFEMARK? You ahev never faked an orgasm with a man before, or even one tiny once when you did not feel up to it?
Seriously and honestly....

[nyadad]

[I]I think it depends.some women are probably better at faking it than others.I was really surprised to find out that my wife has faked it before. I really didn't mind,though,she just didn't want to hurt my feelings.

[Sandy]

i swear i have never faxed one:wa:

[justask_me_2]

i swear i have never faxed one:wa:

I'd like to receive a fax like THAT. :D

[nyadad]

:) I think now days,I would even enjoy the Faxed one. Maybe even the faxed fake one.

[spare_change]

:) I think now days,I would even enjoy the Faxed one. Maybe even the faxed fake one.


It's pretty sad when even the faxed one is faked !!!:lmao


Maybe if you played with the fax machine's input jack a little more!

[Jy]

When a woman fakes an orgasm, sometimes it's about their partner, but most often I think it's about her. Men and women alike need to get to know their own bodies and find it's personal rythmn. Once you are comfortable in your own skin, you can open and receptive to your partner.

Of course, there's also a great deal of pressure on women to not only climax, but to be able to do so in record time and several times in one evening! I know from talking to my friends that many women would rather fake one, or even a headache, rather than try to live up to the latest porn movie.

[nyadad]

I think that I used to put way too much pressure on my wife.After realizing that,I backed way off. There is something else wrong somewhere, though.:(

[Norfolkdave]

Oh yes, the cork be loose...LOl

[Sandy]

lol sorry i meant faked one. bad typo. :D

[Waltert]

Well we have been married 26 yrs and if she has not been honest with me yet, I am sure she will not start now.



It's my opinion....I would check with her and make sure that you feel that she has given yopu a satisfacory answer before you find out to the contrary. L

Let me tell you it's a blow in your face...according to some of my friends..who have had that experience of being married for 10 years and having the wife say that she was NEVER satisfied.

[SirFox]

Well we have been married 26 yrs and if she has not been honest with me yet, I am sure she will not start now.

WALTER T. If I may add a comment about ladies, sex, love making and lots more...You are in subject matter that is highly delicate, so much so, that if for some unhappy reason your wife has not been telling you the truth, she may have to admit to somethings that YOU do not want to hear.

I have known many couples who were NOT forthright about their feelings about sex FOR YEARS, usually women but sometimes men as well. This may seem strange in this liberated time.

Are things so liberated as they seem? I do not think so.

I am not teaching you anything you don't know. Just remember that the love of sex that you have, may not be reciprocal. Also do remember that REGARDLESS of the generation, there are people who are unable to talk about those intimate questions because they consider their intimacies to be so private that it is their secret closets.

The whole PLANET would be better off IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE if only we could learn to communicate, and to talk honestly about what almost everyone does in the World, namely sex..

[SDS351]

WALTER T. If I may add a comment about ladies, sex, love making and lots more...You are in subject matter that is highly delicate, so much so, that if for some unhappy reason your wife has not been telling you the truth, she may have to admit to somethings that YOU do not want to hear.

I have known many couples who were NOT forthright about their feelings about sex FOR YEARS, usually women but sometimes men as well. This may seem strange in this liberated time.

Are things so liberated as they seem? I do not think so.

I am not teaching you anything you don't know. Just remember that the love of sex that you have, may not be reciprocal. Also do remember that REGARDLESS of the generation, there are people who are unable to talk about those intimate questions because they consider their intimacies to be so private that it is their secret closets.

The whole PLANET would be better off IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE if only we could learn to communicate, and to talk honestly about what almost everyone does in the World, namely sex..
You got it!!!!

[remman308]

i can tell, if theres no squirming and everything is n't soaked then we didn't do it right

[Sunder61]

It happens. It can happen both ways. For a guy you have to flex your cock while she is cumming or she will get wise. It really has to be in an effort to please your partner. Makes it ok I think.

[pinkpussyliz]

women do and men have no clue, oh oh yes yes oh god right there oooooohhhhhhhhh yessssssssssss, "see", oh baby yes it was good for me you are so wonderful, Who's your daddy? oh baby you are.:rofl1: But sometime you just have to stroke their ego, and sometimes you just get tired of getting pounded. Sorry guys but we all do it from time to time. :kk

Absolutely spot-on. There are times when it just does not happen for us, and wouldn't even if we layed there till it did.

My hubby has on occasions failed to shoot his load, even though he's remained stiff. That's not a problem for me and I play it down so he doesn't start thinking he's becoming impotent. I tell him to save it and give me a double dose next time.

An attentive guy will feel guilty if he's having enjoyment and we're not, so on occasions we do pander to his feelings, but with the best intentions.

[Aubree]

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[Zifnab]

Of course I can tell! If she sounds like she is enjoying it....she is faking it!!

[Polo38]

for me there is that moment that i truly know when she is enjoying the moment and both her mouth and body is speaking me at the same time...I guess that makes me bilingual

[Jy]

Any guy who claims to know when a women is faking, knows nothing.

[Rainmaker]

Any guy who claims to know when a women is faking, knows nothing.

sooo true!!!

[spare_change]

Of course, there's also a great deal of pressure on women to not only climax, but to be able to do so in record time and several times in one evening! I know from talking to my friends that many women would rather fake one, or even a headache, rather than try to live up to the latest porn movie.

Ladies -- is this true?

[Rainmaker]

Ladies -- is this true?

yes it is true.. it takes time for some women to get there..and lots of times my hub doesnt want to take the time.. so i satisfy him and make him think i did and then end up taking care of myself without him knowing...this is not often.. but during the week when he is tired and does not feel like foreplay....that doesnt mean it doesnt feel good.. we just speed it up;) .. cause he feels he has failed if i dont cumm...stroking his ego has worked fine for yrs,,,

[yaser]

Any guy who claims to know when a women is faking, knows nothing.It is not that difficult,Jazzy for some partners.When she starts to breath frequently and calls my name at the same frequency and begins to move like a snake under me,I understand that she has started to go to climax and breathing becomes extremely frequent and it stops with a big blowwww and begins again from zero to normal ferquency that means she has been resolved.:sex :knuddel: :blowjob: :dd :lf

[SirFox]

Its true for me -- I have faked and enjoyed every minute of it. It also reaped the rewards of further stimulating a man who was already doing a very fine job.

There is something WRONG about a lady faking an orgasm, methinks. To begin with a lady SHOULD NOT HAVE TO FEEL that she needs to orgasm EVERY TIME but the mere thought that my lady would do it sends shivers up my spine because:
1. Something about confidence and respect is thwarted,
2. Seems that I would not be man enough to accept that my lady cannot /
will not accept an orgasm this time around,
3. Shows that I know little concerning the feminine mind and her body,
4. May show a cop out on the woman's side: instead of saying that she can't
come and to stop it, she fakes it,
5. The joy of respect and mutual grinding of one against the other is broken
just as if the magic spell was broken.

Just as al ady does not need to orgasm each time, have found out that I do not always orgasm. After 90 minutes of fondling and actual penetration, one sometimes likes to stop (for example, it's getting red all around because it's dry!)

Sorry folks.. it is not yet 08.30 and you see what comes out of a brain that hasn't had its first expresso yet this morning.

[SirFox]

Originally Posted by Jazzy
Of course, there's also a great deal of pressure on women to not only climax, but to be able to do so in record time and several times in one evening! I know from talking to my friends that many women would rather fake one, or even a headache, rather than try to live up to the latest porn movie.

JAZZY: Do you mean that most women's competition are porn flicks? That is an extremely sad comment if that's true!

[spare_change]

Perhaps, Bacon said it best.

"Delusion - thy name is male."


Guys -- accept it for what it is -- a gift, a recognition that it is infinitely more important to you than it is to her.


We got 40 women saying they fake them -- and still you question it?

[Norfolkdave]

Ahh is that whats been happening for these 8 years and I thought she was celibate:lmao

[Sandy]

i'm lucky i guess, i've never had to fake one, i wouldn't even know how to.

[Jy]

Ah, Yasar, what makes you think that a woman doesn't know how to do that even when she doesn't mean it?

Have none of you seen the infamous orgasm scene in "When Harry Met Sally"? I could quite easily start to breathe frequently, writhe, squeeze my vaginal walls, call out your name repeatedly, and convince you that I'm climaxing.

It is not that difficult,Jazzy for some partners.When she starts to breath frequently and calls my name at the same frequency and begins to move like a snake under me,I understand that she has started to go to climax and breathing becomes extremely frequent and it stops with a big blowwww and begins again from zero to normal ferquency that means she has been resolved.:sex :knuddel: :blowjob: :dd :lf

[Jy]

Just for the record, I stopped faking years ago. I used to fake if I thought I was taking too long to climax and that my partner may be getting tired or losing interest. Since then I've learned that most just take longer than men, and that some men just don't know what the heck they're doing and they should never be led to believe they do!!
I'm too old to go through the motions of pretending I'm cumming if a man can't take the time to help me cum.


Ladies -- is this true?

[tiger50]

Just for the record, I stopped faking years ago. I used to fake if I thought I was taking too long to climax and that my partner may be getting tired or losing interest. Since then I've learned that most just take longer than men, and that some men just don't know what the heck they're doing and they should never be led to believe they do!!
I'm too old to go through the motions of pretending I'm cumming if a man can't take the time to help me cum.

yep fair enuff.... women can take much longer.... lol has resulted in many sore tongues but we hang in an get there.... or try a different tack... :D :whee:

[Sunfiresix]

I may not be able to tell, but from past experience with all my partners go thru durring sex they are either enjoying it and orgasming or they are flirting with a heartattack.

[SirFox]

Ah, Yasar, what makes you think that a woman doesn't know how to do that even when she doesn't mean it?

Have none of you seen the infamous orgasm scene in "When Harry Met Sally"? I could quite easily start to breathe frequently, writhe, squeeze my vaginal walls, call out your name repeatedly, and convince you that I'm climaxing.


JAZZY: I would love to SEE you do that with me in a restaurant! Will you be better than Sally?

I truly love that scene.

[Polo38]

Any guy who claims to know when a women is faking, knows nothing.


I rather know nothing then to assume to know everything...we don't live in a world of absolutes

[yaser]

Ah, Yasar, what makes you think that a woman doesn't know how to do that even when she doesn't mean it?

Have none of you seen the infamous orgasm scene in "When Harry Met Sally"? I could quite easily start to breathe frequently, writhe, squeeze my vaginal walls, call out your name repeatedly, and convince you that I'm climaxing.Ok,Jazzy,getting to climax and breathing frequently in reality and in fake can be discriminating when I focus on you and on your eyes especially-because your irises become wider and wider and you incline to kiss more deeply , breath intensively, I may not understand that you are coming...

[upstr84u]

to easy to see threw her little fake
the rolling of her eyes
and the smirk
and the sarcastic comment -- ohh baby you are the greatest
and your the man -- ahhhh - ohhhhhhhhh
and then tells me it is time to paint the ceiling soon
see i know it is just a fake

[SirFox]

Any guy who claims to know when a women is faking, knows nothing.

JAZZY: That is stark. That seems to indicate that you as a lady always know as well when another woman will cum and how she will cum.

Interesting...I did not realise that little lepredcauns existed.... :D :whee:

[Penny]

I second that :gs



Any guy who claims to know when a women is faking, knows nothing.

[lovemakenman]

The last time I had sex with her she was faking because the tv was more important and it was not a sex flick. it was the news! so yea she has been for the last 15 yrs as I can see.

[Polo38]

Maybe it comes down to semantics, but here is what I have a problem with this particular thread, from what I have read, there seems to be a social acceptance to legitimize the apparent okaying of “faking” an orgasm before your spouse or otherwise. I find it disturbing that for the most part that there is a sense of honor in faking what should otherwise be a very beautiful and loving act, to appease the man or his manhood. While in the same breath some have found it offensive that some men would lie to their wives about a new hairdo that may have gone awry. And extensively my argument would suggest that faking an orgasm is nothing more then a lie, and to that end is not your lying about their sexual ability, or lack there of, to make them feel better about themselves, same thing in a sense as a man lying to his wife about her new hairdo to make her feel better? Gentleman, am I the only one who sees a double standard here? Are our ego’s so fragile that a honest response from our lover would crush us?

I would rather hear the truth, and I have in the past then to live with a lie. At least with the truth I can do something about it, but what do you do with a lie? And if you ladies want us to be truthful to you regarding your hairdo, outfit or otherwise then we should ask the same in return. Thank you all of you for opening my eyes.

[Aubree]

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[Polo38]

aubree, point well taken, and in light of the orginal thread that would be correct.

[yaser]

Maybe it comes down to semantics, but here is what I have a problem with this particular thread, from what I have read, there seems to be a social acceptance to legitimize the apparent okaying of “faking” an orgasm before your spouse or otherwise. I find it disturbing that for the most part that there is a sense of honor in faking what should otherwise be a very beautiful and loving act, to appease the man or his manhood. While in the same breath some have found it offensive that some men would lie to their wives about a new hairdo that may have gone awry. And extensively my argument would suggest that faking an orgasm is nothing more then a lie, and to that end is not your lying about their sexual ability, or lack there of, to make them feel better about themselves, same thing in a sense as a man lying to his wife about her new hairdo to make her feel better? Gentleman, am I the only one who sees a double standard here? Are our ego’s so fragile that a honest response from our lover would crush us?

I would rather hear the truth, and I have in the past then to live with a lie. At least with the truth I can do something about it, but what do you do with a lie? And if you ladies want us to be truthful to you regarding your hairdo, outfit or otherwise then we should ask the same in return. Thank you all of you for opening my eyes.Xenote, I am talking about my experiences when making love with a lady who I found an opportunity to observe many times.I have not met any lady who fakes me.Or they faked and I missed becacue I focused on my needs only not hers.I am claiming that I am telling the truth.

[Aubree]

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[NCSouthernHospitality]

Just for the record, I stopped faking years ago. I used to fake if I thought I was taking too long to climax and that my partner may be getting tired or losing interest. Since then I've learned that most just take longer than men, and that some men just don't know what the heck they're doing and they should never be led to believe they do!!
I'm too old to go through the motions of pretending I'm cumming if a man can't take the time to help me cum.

Good post!

[lovemakenman]

Faking is faking I dont see it as being a lie, She may feel thta her man does need a poke and she is just not into it. I am not thoughs other people who can get it all the time or have a spouse who cares about having one. So I dont see the point or should I say I am missing the point becuase I dont ever get that kind of respones from the one I said I do to for better and Worse. If she just doesnt want it or enjoy sex enough to orgasim it is not my fault or responesiblity. I have done all I can to do to make her as happy as I can. So I will take the faking all I can when I may get some ass, if not I will be using my hand. and as far as the haircut thing I have told my wife I like long hair but she could cut it what ever way she wanted and I would just have to deal with it, not my hair its her. I dont have to like it she does.

I thank you all for you commint on here

[SirFox]

Faking is faking and I do believe that the word means NOT being truthful. EXCELLENT POST, XENOTE. Another literary genius in the works with a good mind....a gentleman and a scholar....

[spare_change]

Maybe it comes down to semantics, but here is what I have a problem with this particular thread ... then we should ask the same in return. Thank you all of you for opening my eyes.

Ahh, my friend -- I find it difficult to equate hair issues to faking orgasms. While both are matters between couples, they hardly carry the same import or the same intent.

I would venture that there has been no attempt to "be a social acceptance to legitimize the apparent okaying of 'faking' an orgasm". I assume what you meant was that there is an attempt to make faking an orgasm socially acceptable.

Frankly, there was -- about 100 years ago! Pretty much a done deal, I suspect. Until that point, the norm was the belief that women didn't even have orgasms, which I suspect they didn't, given their husband's approach to sex. When men were suddenly made aware that the lady might just, possibly, conceivably, potentially, enjoy sex, too -- his approach changed. It doesn't take MENSA candidate to figure out that if she LIKES it, there is a pretty good chance she is going to want to do it more often! And, when she gets it, he gets it!

So, men, in their typical self-serving fashion, slowly realized that if she gets off, he gets off -- more often! All of a sudden, there was a real, tangible benefit to satisfying her, to spending the extra time. It became more than a goal -- it became a crusade! Thousands of books have been written to help guys "git r done!" This is one (though, clearly, not the primary one) of the reasons for the popularity of pornography. Guys think of it as a "training manual" -- never know when you just might pick up the magic tip that enables him to satisfy women EVERY time (after all, the guy in the movie satisfies her every time)!! Surely, you remember the "venus butterfly", and all the commotion it raised. Men are always seeking a clue (primarily because, most of the time, we don't have one). After all, if we can satisfy them EVERY time, we will be awash in pussy!

Most of the ladies made it perfectly clear that they didn't much care what their husband thought of their new hairdo -- they didn't do it for him, they did it for themselves. The faked orgasm, on the other hand, should be considered a gift -- she is giving you permission to stop chasing the holy grail. She is telling you it's ok. She is telling you that, no matter what you do, it just ain't happening tonight.

Lastly, your assumption that faking an orgasm is done only to protect the fragile male ego has a ring of truth to it -- but that is because of the misconception of the ladies, not the frailty of the man. Men want to do it right -- whatever the hell that means --- and they would glady take direction, guidance, hints, clues, pointers, whatever. But, it must be presented in the terms of "together, we will make it better" rather than "dumb ass -- you couldn't find it if had a flashing light on it". Some (most?) women haven't figured out how to help their partner without criticizing him. That's one of the reasons "older women make better lovers". They have learned that it isn't always perfect, and that's ok, and how to help their partners to be better lovers.

I also thought your comment about wanting to know -- like you're good, and you know it, and you can't imagine that she wouldn't be satisfied, so, if by some chance of cosmic fate and improper alignment of the planets, just tell me it didn't work, and I will reach into my magic bag of tricks, and fix the problem. If such is the case --- can I borrow your bag of tricks for a weekend?

Damn -- I hate long posts -- why can't I find 10 words to say the same thing? Instead, I meander thru the English language, picking and choosing words, trying to cobble together something intelligent. My apologies.

[Annie]

Dang Spare! I'm out of rep! Another outstanding post! Thanks for taking the time.

[Feelgoode]

well said Spare :55



Ahh, my friend -- I find it difficult to equate hair issues to faking orgasms. While both are matters between couples, they hardly carry the same import or the same intent.

I would venture that there has been no attempt to "be a social acceptance to legitimize the apparent okaying of 'faking' an orgasm". I assume what you meant was that there is an attempt to make faking an orgasm socially acceptable.

Frankly, there was -- about 100 years ago! Pretty much a done deal, I suspect. Until that point, the norm was the belief that women didn't even have orgasms, which I suspect they didn't, given their husband's approach to sex. When men were suddenly made aware that the lady might just, possibly, conceivably, potentially, enjoy sex, too -- his approach changed. It doesn't take MENSA candidate to figure out that if she LIKES it, there is a pretty good chance she is going to want to do it more often! And, when she gets it, he gets it!

So, men, in their typical self-serving fashion, slowly realized that if she gets off, he gets off -- more often! All of a sudden, there was a real, tangible benefit to satisfying her, to spending the extra time. It became more than a goal -- it became a crusade! Thousands of books have been written to help guys "git r done!" This is one (though, clearly, not the primary one) of the reasons for the popularity of pornography. Guys think of it as a "training manual" -- never know when you just might pick up the magic tip that enables him to satisfy women EVERY time (after all, the guy in the movie satisfies her every time)!! Surely, you remember the "venus butterfly", and all the commotion it raised. Men are always seeking a clue (primarily because, most of the time, we don't have one). After all, if we can satisfy them EVERY time, we will be awash in pussy!

Most of the ladies made it perfectly clear that they didn't much care what their husband thought of their new hairdo -- they didn't do it for him, they did it for themselves. The faked orgasm, on the other hand, should be considered a gift -- she is giving you permission to stop chasing the holy grail. She is telling you it's ok. She is telling you that, no matter what you do, it just ain't happening tonight.

Lastly, your assumption that faking an orgasm is done only to protect the fragile male ego has a ring of truth to it -- but that is because of the misconception of the ladies, not the frailty of the man. Men want to do it right -- whatever the hell that means --- and they would glady take direction, guidance, hints, clues, pointers, whatever. But, it must be presented in the terms of "together, we will make it better" rather than "dumb ass -- you couldn't find it if had a flashing light on it". Some (most?) women haven't figured out how to help their partner without criticizing him. That's one of the reasons "older women make better lovers". They have learned that it isn't always perfect, and that's ok, and how to help their partners to be better lovers.

I also thought your comment about wanting to know -- like you're good, and you know it, and you can't imagine that she wouldn't be satisfied, so, if by some chance of cosmic fate and improper alignment of the planets, just tell me it didn't work, and I will reach into my magic bag of tricks, and fix the problem. If such is the case --- can I borrow your bag of tricks for a weekend?

Damn -- I hate long posts -- why can't I find 10 words to say the same thing? Instead, I meander thru the English language, picking and choosing words, trying to cobble together something intelligent. My apologies.

[Jy]

I was merely responding to your claim at "bilingualism". Seemed a tad presumptuous.I rather know nothing then to assume to know everything...we don't live in a world of absolutes

[Jy]

I never claimed to know when another woman is cumming, but women do talk about these things Fox, and I can say in all honesty that every single woman I have ever discussed it with has faked at one point or another. JAZZY: That is stark. That seems to indicate that you as a lady always know as well when another woman will cum and how she will cum.

Interesting...I did not realise that little lepredcauns existed.... :D :whee:

[Cotties]

Ahh, my friend -- I find it difficult to equate hair issues to faking orgasms.

Damn -- I hate long posts -- why can't I find 10 words to say the same thing? Instead, I meander thru the English language, picking and choosing words, trying to cobble together something intelligent. My apologies.

Because people would think you are a beer or wine drinking Aussie who needs to be squeezed to get the good shit out of.

[SirFox]

I never claimed to know when another woman is cumming, but women do talk about these things Fox, and I can say in all honesty that every single woman I have ever discussed it with has faked at one point or another.

It's funny this FAKING business, JAZZY. Indeed SOME women do talk about "those things" such as orgasms, trials and tribulations of being a woman and those relations with men.

I would love to add that in my experience, I have met women who are still living in the Middle Ages (or it is in the caveman era) who DID NOT KNOW what ONE orgasm was, and THAT at the ripe old age of 45!

[G...G]

I think it would kinda be hard for a guy to fake one!!!!

[yaser]

[QUOTE=georgiacountrygirl]I think it would kinda be hard for a guy to fake one!!!![/QUOTE. No need to fake..

[cherokeered]

have never faked...dont understand the reason for it....:)

Dont believe anyone has ever faked with me....the proof is in the pudding as they say..lol

[yaser]

have never faked...dont understand the reason for it....:)

Dont believe anyone has ever faked with me....the proof is in the pudding as they say..lolHonesty is the best poicy..I understand that when you lose your control,Cherokee..and sudenly you stop ferquent breathings..and be calm as a sea clams down after a heavy storm..

[NativeBreed]

have never faked...dont understand the reason for it....:)

Dont believe anyone has ever faked with me....the proof is in the pudding as they say..lol


Hahahahaha!!! How can anyone fake it when it's with they with you??? Freakin' Impossible!!

[Sandy]

i've never faxed one, and i know mark hasn't :D

[SirFox]

Everything is possible NATIVEBREED...I have found that taking things for granted is not a good thing. A lady's orgasm depends upon you and her.

Did you know that women have supposedly ten types of oragams as opposed to men's 7? I'm still counting my types on the other hand....

One way to know if a lady has acheived an orgasm is certain but you have to be adventurous...and you gotta KNOW something about her body.

[G...G]

You're a smart man fox!!!! :55



Everything is possible NATIVEBREED...I have found that taking things for granted is not a good thing. A lady's orgasm depends upon you and her.

Did you know that women have supposedly ten types of oragams as opposed to men's 7? I'm still counting my types on the other hand....

One way to know if a lady has acheived an orgasm is certain but you have to be adventurous...and you gotta KNOW something about her body.

[Traxster]

have never faked...dont understand the reason for it....:)

Dont believe anyone has ever faked with me....the proof is in the pudding as they say..lol

Oh little miss hot stuff!!!!:whee:

[cherokeered]

you flirting with me? And who you calling hot stuff....

Cherokee...checking out the flag....and wondering if its gonna be waving soon...lol





Oh little miss hot stuff!!!!:whee:

[Traxster]

you flirting with me? And who you calling hot stuff....

Cherokee...checking out the flag....and wondering if its gonna be waving soon...lol

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm could be.....:whee: hey now i'm watching for wind!!!

Trax thinking Cher is peeking again!!:D

[cherokeered]

I am not peeking...well maybe just a little..lol

Cherokee...smiling at the hottie...:D



hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm could be.....:whee: hey now i'm watching for wind!!!

Trax thinking Cher is peeking again!!:D

[SirFox]

You're a smart man fox!!!! :55

Nah not really smart...just have a little experience that's all.

[G...G]

ummmmmmmmmm not all men know if you are faking or not!!!

Of course, I'd never fake!!!


Nah not really smart...just have a little experience that's all.

[SirFox]

ummmmmmmmmm not all men know if you are faking or not!!!

Of course, I'd never fake!!!

Yes you are correct....what a sad state of affairs the World is in...Men and Women are just beginning to know a little bit about their own bodies... Am amazed that there exis many 30 yr old ladies, even 40 year have never had orgasms in their lives before...at least from the "hands" of a man..

I met a 55 year old lady who never knew what masturbation was and had never experienced an orgasm in her life, much less knew how to acheive a personal orgasm. I understand that is rather common.

[G...G]

If she hasn't..it's her own fault!!!! You gotta know what you want and let him know also!!;)



Yes you are correct....what a sad state of affairs the World is in...Men and Women are just beginning to know a little bit about their own bodies... Am amazed that some 30 -even 40 year old ladies have never had orgasms in their lives before...at least from the "hands" of a man..

[wingedone123]

Most men will do everything they can to make a woman cum and if he doesn't he should be aware so he can fix whatever the problem is:di even if that is what it takes.

[SirFox]

Most men will do everything they can to make a woman cum and if he doesn't he should be aware so he can fix whatever the problem is:di even if that is what it takes.

That sounds really good WINGEDONE, however, it does not depend always ON THE MAN's talent or experience....

We men believe that because a woman does not orgasm, it is OUR fault.

IT IS OUR FAULT FOR not trying to make our ladies happy.
However because each lady is different, we have to learn about her body from observing her. In conjunction WITH HER, we need to meet her....until she explodes in exctasy...

[wingedone123]

good answer:sc

[SirFox]

good answer:sc

A lot depends upon what happens in the cerebral manner with ladies.
Fantasy has a great role to play in a ladies' orgasm.

How about a MUTUAL cerebral orgams? Ever had one?

I can't wait for the next one...if my heart doesn't give out first..

[wingedone123]

must not have if i don't know what one is

[G...G]

You missing out honey!!!!



must not have if i don't know what one is

[wingedone123]

is a carebral orgasm like when you scatch inside your ear realy fast and get all tingly...........just kidding. i really have never heard of that:sc

[SirFox]

is a carebral orgasm like when you scatch inside your ear realy fast and get all tingly...........just kidding. i really have never heard of that:sc

It's an orgasm that builds in your loins.. you think you are going to cum, you don't and "you keep at it" You may cum a little bit..at first ..

Suddenly you feel those sensations building in your body.
Your brain gets a hold of you
Your WHOLE body shakes

It is a MALE ORGASM power 4 and then you may cum again..
Takes about 30 minutes to come down...

Powerful stuff..

[wingedone123]

yeah, i just don't call it that i just say it is an orgasm without cumming

[bator60]

I am ashamed to admit I have done it a few times because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Can you guys tell if a woman is faking?Yes Flirting Mom, it can be tell if a man is a good listener to woman's body:55

[yaser]

ummmmmmmmmm not all men know if you are faking or not!!!

Of course, I'd never fake!!!What is the percentage of who know and who don't,Girl ?

[G...G]

I will have to call my ob/gyn and see if he knows :D



What is the percentage of who know and who don't,Girl ?

[jmc3367]

That is the best post on the thread. Guys are not mind readers and every women is a little and some a lot different.


If she hasn't..it's her own fault!!!! You gotta know what you want and let him know also!!;)

[jmc3367]

I have never had a women fake. now there have certainly been times when they didn't climax and I knew, it but they didn't fake. also there are just some things you can't fake.

[SirFox]

Yes Flirting Mom, it can be tell if a man is a good listener to woman's body:55

Hello BATOR60. I am glad that you are on the site and Welcome you to it. You are the second of continental Europeans..glad that I am not alone out here anymore. Come in and enjoy.

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The subject came up on another thread, so thought I would revive this previous discussion.

Can you guys tell if a woman is faking?

Ladies, have you faked, and have you been found out?

[Cotties]

thats a hard call...making sounds is not faking anything..some women like to hear themselves and most men like to hear them..now if they are making corny sounds than that can get irratating and we call it faking

but if she claims she came and she didn't or if she's behaving like she's building up to an orgasm and isn't than it becomes faking..

I hope it makes sense...because trying to understanding women doesn't make sense to me

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Bumped

[Cotties]

I don't mind if women fake orgasms..........I've been known to fake entire relationships

[MCat]

I wouldn't know how to fake one.....Either I have one or I don't....why fake it?