Lena
07-07-2007, 02:38 AM
Hello and welcome everyone!
This is just alittle information to help you understand something of how things work in here!
Until you reach 150 posts, you won't be able to do anything except post and read other members' posts/threads!
At 150 posts, you will become a premium member! This will mean that you can read profiles, see other threads, and see some of the picture gallery/albums!
At 500 posts,you will be a Gold member and you will be able to load your own avatar on (keeping this at PG13), use PMs, Change your Mood, see another forum with more threads and see the whole of the picture gallery!
If your "Mood" word has disappeared and been replaced by "Notifications" then read, deal with, all your Notifications and your "Mood" will reappear for you to be able to change it!
If you would like an avatar before you reach 500 posts, you just need to send it to Penny or myself, Lena! They will be approved and attached to your profile for you! You will be able to contact both of us at
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
If you would like a name change or something added to your username such as (m) for male or (f) for female, just let me know!
Silly nonsense posts or posts of one liners in a succession just to get to 150, 500 or 4000 posts for whatever reasons will not be counted and will be taken away and you will just have to start again from where you left off!
The whole idea of the 150 and 500 posts is for everyone to get to know you and you them! (Especially those who have posted their pictures in the Gallery/albums) So please let us all get to know each other alittle better!
The 4000 is for those who have been with us for awhile and been a continous regular visitor!
The Fun Forum is just that, just for playing games and having fun with a smile, the posts in there won't be counted towards the post count.
To stop the alert e-mails telling you that someone has posted on the same threads you have also been posting on, go to the top of the page, click on 'User CP', then on your left 'Edit Options', scroll down to 'Default Thread Subscription Mode', change from 'Subscribe' to 'Do Not subscribe'. That will take care of any future e-mails, but to stop the present ones which you have subscribed to, again on your left in your UserCP click on 'Subscribe threads' and a list of your subscribed threads will show! On the right select which threads you want to delete, then scroll to the bottom and select to delete them!! You may need to go into each thread you have coming in and click on 'Thread Tools' on top of the page, then 'Unsubscribe to this thread'.
To turn all the avatars off, so that they won't be showing...
Go to your UserCP,
On your left under Settings and Options, click on Edit Options!
Scroll down to Thread Display Options, and uncheck the Show Avatars box!
Rep points/power are the little green squares under your name next to your posts!
They are rewarded by other members to you, if they like your posts! You can also give them to others by clicking on the red heart looking thing in a blue circle with a little green +, under the members name! A box will come up, just approve and ok it! You can write something in the box too if you like, before you ok it!
You can see any comments made to you by going to your UserCP page and scroll down, then you can see where you were given the reputations and the comments if any were made!
Admin and moderators.
Proprietor, Administrator = Penny
Site manager/Administrator = Lena
Super Moderator = Barkiss
Moderators = Cotties, Momma.
Brink, Redcat, Shawn
Chatroom Mods = Atrebla Rose.
Enjoy your time here with us, and we all look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you!
Please NO DUPLICATE MEMBERSHIPS! If they are found they will be stopped!
Please also remember that this is a flirting site mainly for married people, but singles are welcome too! A place where we can come to have alittle bit of fun and make friends, or even rant, but it is not a pick up site, so please treat everyone with respect!
Thank you.
P.S
Please do not add children into any pictures you put in the gallery or albums, when you reach 150 posts, before that you won't be able to see the gallery/albums so not much point putting any in there 'till then.
Also could you make sure they are only of yourself without anyone else in them.
Thank you.
This is just alittle information to help you understand something of how things work in here!
Until you reach 150 posts, you won't be able to do anything except post and read other members' posts/threads!
At 150 posts, you will become a premium member! This will mean that you can read profiles, see other threads, and see some of the picture gallery/albums!
At 500 posts,you will be a Gold member and you will be able to load your own avatar on (keeping this at PG13), use PMs, Change your Mood, see another forum with more threads and see the whole of the picture gallery!
If your "Mood" word has disappeared and been replaced by "Notifications" then read, deal with, all your Notifications and your "Mood" will reappear for you to be able to change it!
If you would like an avatar before you reach 500 posts, you just need to send it to Penny or myself, Lena! They will be approved and attached to your profile for you! You will be able to contact both of us at
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
If you would like a name change or something added to your username such as (m) for male or (f) for female, just let me know!
Silly nonsense posts or posts of one liners in a succession just to get to 150, 500 or 4000 posts for whatever reasons will not be counted and will be taken away and you will just have to start again from where you left off!
The whole idea of the 150 and 500 posts is for everyone to get to know you and you them! (Especially those who have posted their pictures in the Gallery/albums) So please let us all get to know each other alittle better!
The 4000 is for those who have been with us for awhile and been a continous regular visitor!
The Fun Forum is just that, just for playing games and having fun with a smile, the posts in there won't be counted towards the post count.
To stop the alert e-mails telling you that someone has posted on the same threads you have also been posting on, go to the top of the page, click on 'User CP', then on your left 'Edit Options', scroll down to 'Default Thread Subscription Mode', change from 'Subscribe' to 'Do Not subscribe'. That will take care of any future e-mails, but to stop the present ones which you have subscribed to, again on your left in your UserCP click on 'Subscribe threads' and a list of your subscribed threads will show! On the right select which threads you want to delete, then scroll to the bottom and select to delete them!! You may need to go into each thread you have coming in and click on 'Thread Tools' on top of the page, then 'Unsubscribe to this thread'.
To turn all the avatars off, so that they won't be showing...
Go to your UserCP,
On your left under Settings and Options, click on Edit Options!
Scroll down to Thread Display Options, and uncheck the Show Avatars box!
Rep points/power are the little green squares under your name next to your posts!
They are rewarded by other members to you, if they like your posts! You can also give them to others by clicking on the red heart looking thing in a blue circle with a little green +, under the members name! A box will come up, just approve and ok it! You can write something in the box too if you like, before you ok it!
You can see any comments made to you by going to your UserCP page and scroll down, then you can see where you were given the reputations and the comments if any were made!
Admin and moderators.
Proprietor, Administrator = Penny
Site manager/Administrator = Lena
Super Moderator = Barkiss
Moderators = Cotties, Momma.
Brink, Redcat, Shawn
Chatroom Mods = Atrebla Rose.
Enjoy your time here with us, and we all look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you!
Please NO DUPLICATE MEMBERSHIPS! If they are found they will be stopped!
Please also remember that this is a flirting site mainly for married people, but singles are welcome too! A place where we can come to have alittle bit of fun and make friends, or even rant, but it is not a pick up site, so please treat everyone with respect!
Thank you.
P.S
Please do not add children into any pictures you put in the gallery or albums, when you reach 150 posts, before that you won't be able to see the gallery/albums so not much point putting any in there 'till then.
Also could you make sure they are only of yourself without anyone else in them.
Thank you.