Sex, Sex, and more sex....

[OhYou812]

Why are people shy to ask what they want in the bedroom? I know somethings are taboo, but if you with someone, I think it should be easy to ask what you want....

[Penny]

Do you ask? Do you get what you ask for? :gs

[OhYou812]

Of course I do, but yet nada. I never get what I ask for. I think if two people can ask for what they want, then it makes a better situation in the bedroom.

[Trev]

Of course I do, but yet nada. I never get what I ask for. I think if two people can ask for what they want, then it makes a better situation in the bedroom.
Can you tell that too my wife?

[Sandy]

lol i don't have any problems telling bonzzz what i want. when i can talk that is lmao:blowjob: :knuddel: :kk :lmao

[bonzzz4292]

that is right there isn't much talking but it sure does get warm :D

[Norfolkdave]

LOL I,ve asked and still waiting......:lmao

[Norfolkdave]

that is right there isn't much talking but it sure does get warm :D

What gets warm bonzzzzzz:lmao

[Norfolkdave]

Do you ask? Do you get what you ask for? :gs

and you gave me what I wanted....LOL:lmao

[Sandy]

we get very very hat dave. :D

[qwertymert]

Do you ask? Do you get what you ask for? :gs

Yes/Yes

:sp:

[Norfolkdave]

we get very very hat dave. :D

Oh Hat ot hot:lmao

[sex_kitten_4u]

Why are people shy to ask what they want in the bedroom? I know somethings are taboo, but if you with someone, I think it should be easy to ask what you want....

never have to ask we both like to experiment together:lf

[tiger50]

mm my lady never refuses me, but then she gets whatever she wants, she asks, she gets, and she does ask.... (breathless sometimes)

[Norfolkdave]

Once the cork is released, if the earth moves one day for you guys and girls, you know why, LOL

[Sunfiresix]

It always seemed like there was no asking --we ususally I makde her feel sexy and comfy and all else fell into place--sometimes getting more than I expectted.

[dave42]

If I meet some one new I try to kind of figure out what they like. But you can only find out so much. I tried a science project with a lover once. I figured what the hell, Let's just see what happens, She was older than me by a few years and had definitely been around the block, and not in a bad way! I was pleasingly suprised she turned out to be extremely kinky and fun. The sparks either really fly or they don't

[Frenchie]

It's cool to ask but it doesn't always work... sometimes a little extra push help! or just take your clothes off and say your ready. if that doesn't work.... I rather not say!:D

[nuke69]

My trouble has always been not being able to keep my mouth shut. I scared many a man by demanding hands around my throat or similar behavior in the bedroom. To their credit, they would try, I would see them get nervous, and then of course because I was young and insatiable usually dumped them.
The love of my life right now will give me sex at any sign I give him, but alas, he is old fashioned and 'respects me too much' to do anything serioiusly kinky. I'm grateful he's a stud in bed in every other respect.
As for dating or long term relationships with people who have basic intimacy issues- I've never been that patient. I'd walk. Plenty of lids for every pot:)
eve

[Frenchie]

Nice! lol

I like the lid part! One girl once was asking me to smack her, then slap her, then slam her into the wall, at one point I was like man I'll end up kicking the crap out of this girl!!!

But she was a racer man! woa! never a dull momnet there! good on the guy that can keep up with her where ever she is!

[nuke69]

I once dated a guy who I swear would choke me close to unconcious, suck on my neck, even punch my back :nu and of course slap, and never leave a mark. sigh- shoulda married him, but he was such a freak like me i wondered if i could ever satisfy him.

[Frenchie]

Crazy! that would scare me but I can see where it could potentially be pretty interesting!

O.K. someone start slapping me around! it's for educational purpouses so it's cool!

let her rip!

Oh and aaa mmm maybe pinch my nipple I like that too! lol :)

[cherokeered]

Crazy! that would scare me but I can see where it could potentially be pretty interesting!

O.K. someone start slapping me around! it's for educational purpouses so it's cool!

let her rip!

Oh and aaa mmm maybe pinch my nipple I like that too! lol :)


Oooh...a kinky french guy...lol

You want a titty twister hun?


Cherokee...:wa:

[Frenchie]

anything but an indian sunburn!!!

If you ask nice I might let you twist me up! ;)

[nuke69]

you never know if you're really into something or not until you are introduced to it in the proper way.
i do wish my husband liked getting his nipples pinched though. i have total lack of impulse control (like those old jewish ladies that pinch your cheeks too hard) and sometimes he gets PISSED:mad:

[vijay62king]

i like to know any tamil indian gals here

[MCat]

I once dated a guy who I swear would choke me close to unconcious, suck on my neck, even punch my back :nu and of course slap, and never leave a mark. sigh- shoulda married him, but he was such a freak like me i wondered if i could ever satisfy him.

I'd be a little afraid they might go too far...accidently. :sc Be careful.

[OICurready4me]

My sex life is like an episode of jeopardy. The answer is "maybe later", the question is... Can I possibly, in this lifetime, this month, this year, have some oral sex?

After 30 minutes of that, I'm too exhausted to have sex anyway!

[CJSinIL]

The question. What is it that i would like to have. Answer: Sex, sex, and more sex.

[dave42]

Oooh...a kinky french guy...lol

You want a titty twister hun?


Cherokee...:wa: Hell yeah he does,.. And I want one too. It took me forever to figure this out. (Why so long?!?!... I don't know) My girl tried biting and teasing my nipples one tiime and I about went through the roof. Now I am hooked. I have found it is one of my more if not most sensitive parts of me.:)

[Jy]

Oh! I know that category!! Except the answer is always "not a hope in hell", isn't it?

..or is that just my spouse?

My sex life is like an episode of jeopardy. The answer is "maybe later", the question is... Can I possibly, in this lifetime, this month, this year, have some oral sex?

After 30 minutes of that, I'm too exhausted to have sex anyway!

[dave42]

you never know if you're really into something or not until you are introduced to it in the proper way.
i do wish my husband liked getting his nipples pinched though. i have total lack of impulse control (like those old jewish ladies that pinch your cheeks too hard) and sometimes he gets PISSED:mad:You have to start slowly a little licking and touching then you can work your way up to it. When I am having sex with a woman and she tweaks my nipples it's a guaranteed one way ticket to a really great orgasam.:sex

[dave42]

anything but an indian sunburn!!!

If you ask nice I might let you twist me up! ;)Got me to thinking of girls from India. Such a huge turn on. I think it is the jet black hair and complexion that drives me wild.:lf

[OICurready4me]

Oh! I know that category!! Except the answer is always "not a hope in hell", isn't it?

..or is that just my spouse?


Sounds like we need to fix up our spouses and then break that damn mold that they were made out of.

[dave42]

Oh! I know that category!! Except the answer is always "not a hope in hell", isn't it?

..or is that just my spouse?Hey baby, I checked out your pic, and the correct answer is Oh hell yeah! right now! Your'e like natures super viagra to me. I am just as confused about some guys as you are. Maybe more so.:55

[Jy]

Yes, we could make the introductions then hand them a deck of cards or a board game or something. God knows they wouldn't dream of playing strip poker...Sounds like we need to fix up our spouses and then break that damn mold that they were made out of.

[OICurready4me]

I once dated a guy who I swear would choke me close to unconcious, suck on my neck, even punch my back :nu and of course slap, and never leave a mark. sigh- shoulda married him, but he was such a freak like me i wondered if i could ever satisfy him.


Did he ever allow you to choke him, bite his neck and beat him over the head with a beer bottle, just for shits and giggles? Hell, you probably wouldn't have to worry about satisfying him, he'd probably kill you first.

[jman]

I think we need to form a club or support group.

[OICurready4me]

Yes, we could make the introductions then hand them a deck of cards or a board game or something. God knows they wouldn't dream of playing strip poker...


I like your thinking, Jazzy, that would be a good idea. Maybe they could enjoy a good game of slap jack while we enjoy a game of hide the salami.

[ahria]

Oh! I know that category!! Except the answer is always "not a hope in hell", isn't it?

..or is that just my spouse?


Jazzy, does your husband travel? Because I get the eerie feeling we're married to the same man! :cry:

[SweetKisses]

Jazzy, does your husband travel? Because I get the eerie feeling we're married to the same man! :cry:

You just beat me to the same comment...I think the three of us all must have the same one!

[fondew2004]

Why are people shy to ask what they want in the bedroom? I know somethings are taboo, but if you with someone, I think it should be easy to ask what you want....
Really? It isn't easy at all....there is the fear of rejection; there is the fear that your partner will think you're disgusting; there is the fear it may drive your partner away; there is the fear your partner might reciprocate with a "suggestion" that you won't like.
Then what will you do?

[mrpleaser13]

i always get what i ask from my lady