Repeated Unwanted Advances

[Shiane]

This is a reminder to ALL site members both new and old.

This was taken directly from the code of conduct.

4) Because the purpose of the site is flirting, it is inevitable that one member may make advances toward another that are not acceptable. That rebuff will be immediately recognized and honored. You can not, and may not, badger someone into sharing time with you.

Anytime that you make advances toward someone and they tell you "NO!" YOU MUST respect their decision, end of story. This site is not your personal play ground for cybering or meeting other members in person. You must realize that not everyone is here for the same reasons that you are and No means No!

This type of behavior is not allowed on this site period (This means in the forums, in the form of private messages and also in the chat room.) This rule came directly from the site owners, if you choose to be here you will abide by this rule.

If you have a problem, report it to a moderator or directly to the site administrator at marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com.

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

I have had a rare unwanted advance, I just ignored her knowing one of the fellas here would swoop her up off me.....the others are not only wanted but encouraged. However I am sure the ladies go through this issue often, I dont know how they put up with it.. and I really feel for them, as I am sure there are some fellas out their with less than honorable intentions...but they just make the ones with some class look that much better...so to them I say.....thanks scum bags!!! ha ha ha

[Sunfiresix]

Everyone will eventually receive some sort of advances from someone--If unwanted, make it known, if they persist, report right away to one of our moderators, they are great, they are confidential and they are fair. That way unwanted stuff is dealt with--not only for you but the rest of our site members. This is our fun and relaxing place, we come to enjoy and make friends also we want to be safe from unwanted emails or pm's--please don't let them spoil this for you or us. I Know if I were to offend anyone I want to know right away--ya see that is why I don't post my ugly mug--very very offensive---Just have fun all.

[rizz]

Well...I imagine its different for guys here than gals...but agree with shawn..some of the guys here make us look like saints...unfortunatly a few ppl can ruin things by being rude and inconsiderate instead of taking the time and effort to actually get to know the people here and form sometype of relationship before bombarding them with pms.

[ksue7274]

I have to say that I have been very lucky and haven't had this problem. The people on the site are great and the mods keep things under control. Thank you guys!

[oldandnaked]

What's a guy got to do to get an advance, wanted or otherwise?

[Dir]

This is a reminder to ALL site members both new and old.

This was taken directly from the code of conduct.

4) Because the purpose of the site is flirting, it is inevitable that one member may make advances toward another that are not acceptable. That rebuff will be immediately recognized and honored. You can not, and may not, badger someone into sharing time with you.

Anytime that you make advances toward someone and they tell you "NO!" YOU MUST respect their decision, end of story. This site is not your personal play ground for cybering or meeting other members in person. You must realize that not everyone is here for the same reasons that you are and No means No!

This type of behavior is not allowed on this site period (This means in the forums, in the form of private messages and also in the chat room.) This rule came directly from the site owners, if you choose to be here you will abide by this rule.

If you have a problem, report it to a moderator or directly to the site administrator at marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com.



Thank you for this, It makes me feel safe, otherwise I wont be here…. there is no reason to come to a place where instead of having fun and making friends one finds with unwanted harassers.:55:55

Fortunately never bad happens till now .

[Sunfiresix]

Thank you for this, It makes me feel safe, otherwise I wont be here…. there is no reason to come to a place where instead of having fun and making friends one finds with unwanted harassers.:55:55

Fortunately never bad happens till now .

I hope everything is ok dirgni...:wa:

[Dir]

I hope everything is ok dirgni...:wa: with nice guys as you are YES everything is OK

[Sunfiresix]

with nice guys as you are YES everything is OK

That is good:55 we don't want you leaving or having to hide--although a little hid and seek is fun:kk

[dcowboy09]

wish i could get some repeated unwanted advances :D

[Lacey]

I've had a few.I ignore them,if it gets worse,I still ignore them,but I have stayed off to avoid them also.I'm scared to hurt peoples feelings or start trouble.


But to me,if someone says "No Thanks",it means No. Who wants to come on here and when they log out,feel like they need a hot bath and scrub really hard.I don't want to feel like that.
And if I don't know you,and have NEVER posted with you,I'm not your Baby,Honey or Sweety.If I've never talked about anything sexual with you,then I haven't opened that door.Don't talk sexual to me.I will not tell you what color my panties are. I think some men think in pm,it's open for anything, it's not,and when you get those pm's like that,for me, it makes me feel like I've come off wrong.
I have a few people on here that I'm close to,but rarely and I mean rarely,does it turn sexual everytime I have a conversation with them,there's more to me then what sex acts I can perform.
I would like someone to want to get to know me by what they learn about me through post,not what they think I look like or how good they think I'd be to cyber with.
Really,it's all about mutal respect for someone.When you fill up someones pm's with unwanted advances, you invading their personnal space.

Not wanting to come off as harsh,JMO

[AL(m)]

Not Quite sure how to answer this one...... dont think i Have had unwanted advances....... but then if a Lady was to say no.. then I would respect her wishes.......It has to be a two way street for flirting to work...... if its not then it only becomes stalking and thats just not what am about.......so I will try my best to be repsectfull of the other flirters.. and if someone gets upset with me please let me know and I will stop........
I have had a few rude comments made but then I dont have to listen to them... and if I ignore them then how can they hurt me??? each to their own...... So I will continue to enjoy the site..... :) :55

[Dir]

wish i could get some repeated unwanted advances :D....That is why i called you perverted :lmao:lmao

[cherokeered]

I don't really worry too much about it....I figure I can always put them on the ignore list...but really haven't found too many that don't let go....and after awhile they usually get the drift....but most bolt as soon as you say you just want to be friends...except for the ones who don't mind being just a friend....

[dcowboy09]

....That is why i called you perverted :lmao:lmao

yes, yes i am, but in a nice considerate way........:D

[Dir]

yes, yes i am, but in a nice considerate way........:D..i may say in a couriuos way ....

[dcowboy09]

..i may say in a couriuos way ....

how curious??

[Annie]

I've had a few.I ignore them,if it gets worse,I still ignore them,but I have stayed off to avoid them also.I'm scared to hurt peoples feelings or start trouble.

But to me,if someone says "No Thanks",it means No. Who wants to come on here and when they log out,feel like they need a hot bath and scrub really hard.I don't want to feel like that.
And if I don't know you,and have NEVER posted with you,I'm not your Baby,Honey or Sweety.If I've never talked about anything sexual with you,then I haven't opened that door.Don't talk sexual to me.I will not tell you what color my panties are. I think some men think in pm,it's open for anything, it's not,and when you get those pm's like that,for me, it makes me feel like I've come off wrong.
I have a few people on here that I'm close to,but rarely and I mean rarely,does it turn sexual everytime I have a conversation with them,there's more to me then what sex acts I can perform.
I would like someone to want to get to know me by what they learn about me through post,not what they think I look like or how good they think I'd be to cyber with.
Really,it's all about mutal respect for someone.When you fill up someones pm's with unwanted advances, you invading their personnal space.

Not wanting to come off as harsh,JMO

Exactly! You are not coming off harsh, and don't think you did something wrong to get those pm's! It's wrong of them, not you.

You have said exactly what I feel in a much better way than I could have! Thank you! Just please don't stay away because someone else can't act in a socially acceptable way... put them on ignore and then let one of the moderators know, that's what we are here for.

[Dir]

how curious??how bad ...how dangerous

[dcowboy09]

how bad ...how dangerous and how can be nice ...

how can be very nice.......:D

[Sunfiresix]

I don't really worry too much about it....I figure I can always put them on the ignore list...but really haven't found too many that don't let go....and after awhile they usually get the drift....but most bolt as soon as you say you just want to be friends...except for the ones who don't mind being just a friend....

And a good friend you are....:wa:

[MCat]

Thinking this thread is not the place to flirt....

It should be in the Sanctuary but then everyone wouldn't be able to see it.

[cherokeered]

And a good friend you are....:wa:

thanks hun....I do consider this site more a friendship site than a pick up joint...I just don't think some people realize that....and some are just plain ignorant as to what "no" really means apparently....
I also think it works both ways....women can be just as forward as men...sending unsolicited pics and stuff....ya think we were a bunch of horny teenagers on this site or something sometimes....sigh

[Lacey]

Exactly! You are not coming off harsh, and don't think you did something wrong to get those pm's! It's wrong of them, not you.

You have said exactly what I feel in a much better way than I could have! Thank you! Just please don't stay away because someone else can't act in a socially acceptable way... put them on ignore and then let one of the moderators know, that's what we are here for.




Thank you,Annie!!!:)

[sexytiger]

So far no one has made any unwanted advances toward me. All the ladies have been sweet hearts. The men have been nice and not advanced on me after they relized that sexyTiger is not a gal

[private beaches]

This is a good thread - thank you, Shiane!


I have not had ANY problems w/ this but am a newbie. 99.9% of the men here are THE BEST and I enjoy posting w/ everyone.

But,I will not give ANY personal info if/ or until I feel very comfortable w/ you, as member. For me, flirting is progressive and based on trust. I know this is unique to me because I tend to be on the very shy side. I think Lacey summed up a lot of how I feel in her post. If I open the door on a subject, in a pm or chat, then I am comfortable w/ you. If not, please respect that. (which everyone has :) )

[RedVixen]

Haven't had any real problems in this respect either...if I do, it goes to the wonderful Mods here :)

[MIGHTY]

Have been in the Lounge before when men will pop up and tell me what they are doing to themselves and what they want to do to me, or vice versa. It makes me ill sometimes to think that people think this is acceptable behavior. If I want to know that you are stroking and getting ready to shoot the gun, I'll ask you. Otherwise, don't freakin tell me, cause you are NOT the one I will be thinking of later when I'm moaning in the dark.......just for reference........

[Wil]

...there is no other site like this that I know of...I learned early on that this is not a pick up site and that is a relief (no...really)...I've been stopping by for almost a year and there a several ladies that hold a special place in my heart...kind, considerate and quite funny...I would never think of making advances on any of them because I can't imagine screwing that up...


...and for the record...I will not clean out your garage for a peek MC...:D

[pagirl]

This site has been a wonderful place for me. The attention that I have gotten has been fun and exciting. I haven't been around long but I love it here and plan on sticking around a long time. Everyone has been great. There are a few people I have connected with. I am learning how to come out of my shell. I certainaly hope I haven't done anything to make anyone feel uncomfortable and I would hope they would tell me if I had.

Wonderful place for me! Thank you!

:kk :hug: :kk

[Sneaky]

I've had a few.I ignore them,if it gets worse,I still ignore them,but I have stayed off to avoid them also.I'm scared to hurt peoples feelings or start trouble.


But to me,if someone says "No Thanks",it means No. Who wants to come on here and when they log out,feel like they need a hot bath and scrub really hard.I don't want to feel like that.
And if I don't know you,and have NEVER posted with you,I'm not your Baby,Honey or Sweety.If I've never talked about anything sexual with you,then I haven't opened that door.Don't talk sexual to me.I will not tell you what color my panties are. I think some men think in pm,it's open for anything, it's not,and when you get those pm's like that,for me, it makes me feel like I've come off wrong.

there's more to me then what sex acts I can perform.

When you fill up someones pm's with unwanted advances, you invading their personnal space.

Very well articulated Lacey. I know exactly where you are coming from. I have been able to politly respond to people, "thank you, but no thank you" and they get the hint. It's a fine line to walk, because this IS a flirting site.

I am always suprised when someone I have never posted with, and never really seen much, will shoot me a PM out of the blue with very sexually leading content and they have no idea about me, and no desire to get to know me at all, they just think I am Angelina Jolie, or whoever my current avatar is. I don't know, I think we do have some kick ass women here that are pretty smart and pretty sexy, and we have depth and brains and standards. When I receive a suprise PM from a stranger and they start talking dirty right out of the gate without even a hello it makes me feel objectified and that is NOT a turn on.

That does not happen often though. On the whole, what makes this site different from others is that you can be a sexually liberated woman, and talk about it, and still be treated with respect in most cases. The "Ignore" list is nice too. And we have the best mods here ever. If I ever had a problem I would feel more than comfortable talking to them.

[wtd4200]

Hopefully I haven't bothered anyone. I don't think I have. Noone has made any unwanted advances towards me. Come to think of it noone has made any advances towards me

[Hotshotfireguy]

I have had a rare unwanted advance, I just ignored her knowing one of the fellas here would swoop her up off me.....the others are not only wanted but encouraged. However I am sure the ladies go through this issue often, I dont know how they put up with it.. and I really feel for them, as I am sure there are some fellas out their with less than honorable intentions...but they just make the ones with some class look that much better...so to them I say.....thanks scum bags!!! ha ha ha

Amen brother....without them guys making us look good, I wouldn't stand a chance :lmao

[Kit*]

some guys take things to a disgusting level but the few good ones like Shawn, make tthe site more then worth the unwanted advances. sorry my spelling is more then bad LOL

[wisconsin(m)]

Have been in the Lounge before when men will pop up and tell me what they are doing to themselves and what they want to do to me, or vice versa. It makes me ill sometimes to think that people think this is acceptable behavior. If I want to know that you are stroking and getting ready to shoot the gun, I'll ask you. Otherwise, don't freakin tell me, cause you are NOT the one I will be thinking of later when I'm moaning in the dark.......just for reference........

WOW..........what an interesting reply. Do you ever notice that some women just plain have class? I don't know you much Mighty but you strike me as a classy lady.

[Shiane]

I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who replied. We have a lot of new people on this site, some have never been on a site like this. We want them to feel comfortable, we want them to have fun, and we don't want them to think that this type of behavior is acceptable here. The whole idea behind this thread was just to remind all of you, both new and old members, men and women alike of how we expect people to behave here.

With 20,000+ members sure we are going to have a few who will ignore this rule. But, you do not have to accept it, the moderators here encourage you to report problems. We can't fix the problems if you don't tell us about them.
The ignore button works well, but if it doesn't fix the problem you need to let us know.

We don't care who you interact with and to what extent, just as long as both parties willingly consent. We want this to be a comfortable evironment where everyone can have fun.

You shouldn't worry about flirting with someone, if they aren't interested they will tell you, the majority of people here know when to back off. I myself have enjoy spending time with so many of you here, I'm having a ball here and I want the same for each of you! There are so many really fabulous people here, you can't help but get addicted to this place. Many have said previously this is the best site around, they're right and we want to keep it that way.

[Sunfiresix]

The main point to be made is in this weird world we can have a spot to go and interact with like minded people and feel totally safe while here. That is what the site is about friends and enjoying ourselves and each other. I am so happy to know everyone here. (almost everyone, anyway, well at least a few--ya know what I mean)

[IsThisIt@50?]

Agree with u Sneaky. It amazes me the number of guys who come on site, often for the first time, immediately pick up on a name in the chat room and PM. They immediately start with the sex talk like they think this is a cyber site and we are all sex crazed. lonely women looking to 'get off' talking to them. Its one thing if you and someone engage in a conversation that turns playful then moves in a direction you both want to proceed. Most of the ones I have encountered have been very 'gentlemanly' about my lack of interest in 'going there' with them. I, too, am here to have a good time, good conversation, and if the chemistry is right, maybe a little something more.:55

[Hotshotfireguy]

Respect is what it's all about. You treat everybody the way you want to be treated. I personally cannot stand opening up a conversation with a/s/l. The ladies here are incredible. Have made some really good friends, and like any other friend it crawls all over me to think some "dude" thinks he can start out a conversation by telling them how big his "thing" is. If you gotta tell them, there's a problem.

[OICurready4me]

WOW..........what an interesting reply. Do you ever notice that some women just plain have class? I don't know you much Mighty but you strike me as a classy lady.

She is extremely classy. She's much too modest to admit it but she is inside and out, an absolutely wonderful, beautiful, intelligent woman. There are alot of nitwits that have come on to her and still do that just don't get the picture. If it weren't for the fact she is so damn nice, she should really tell alot of these creeps to F&*( off!

I guess those guys are the same one's who go into a bar and talk nasty to every woman in the place figuring that one of those sleazy women will take them up on their offer. It really is sad to see, but like Shawn in SD said, the creeps make us good guys look even better. Thanks!

[OICurready4me]

Agree with u Sneaky. It amazes me the number of guys who come on site, often for the first time, immediately pick up on a name in the chat room and PM. They immediately start with the sex talk like they think this is a cyber site and we are all sex crazed. lonely women looking to 'get off' talking to them. Its one thing if you and someone engage in a conversation that turns playful then moves in a direction you both want to proceed. Most of the ones I have encountered have been very 'gentlemanly' about my lack of interest in 'going there' with them. I, too, am here to have a good time, good conversation, and if the chemistry is right, maybe a little something more.:55


Do you know why that is so? Because there have been member(s) here that I know of that will grab any newbie that hasn't even had a post yet and start cybering with them in the chat rooms. With that in mind, that is their first exposure to this site so they think that is what we do here, which, as we all know, is not the truth. I truly think that a member should not have access to the chat rooms until they have at least 150 posts which I think would probably stop that because then the new member would get to know how the site operates, with all the posting and such, have a look around at how people treat others, with respect while having some fun and get the hint that if they are looking for a big cyber party, they should take it elsewhere. Just my little rant...sorry.

[private beaches]

Do you know why that is so? Because there have been member(s) here that I know of that will grab any newbie that hasn't even had a post yet and start cybering with them in the chat rooms. With that in mind, that is their first exposure to this site so they think that is what we do here, which, as we all know, is not the truth. I truly think that a member should not have access to the chat rooms until they have at least 150 posts which I think would probably stop that because then the new member would get to know how the site operates, with all the posting and such, have a look around at how people treat others, with respect while having some fun and get the hint that if they are looking for a big cyber party, they should take it elsewhere. Just my little rant...sorry.

My 2cents worth? (My opinion and 6 bucks will buy you a McD's coffee though) As a newbie, I think that this would be a great idea for exactly the reason you stated OIC. I dont go to the chat rooms b/c I dont want any untoward sexual advances from members I dont know well enough yet. So I just avoid it and use pm. But I know the chat room is popular and I respect that for the others that use it w/o reservations.

[OICurready4me]

My 2cents worth? (My opinion and 6 bucks will buy you a McD's coffee though) As a newbie, I think that this would be a great idea for exactly the reason you stated OIC. I dont go to the chat rooms b/c I dont want any untoward sexual advances from members I dont know well enough yet. So I just avoid it and use pm. But I know the chat room is popular and I respect that for the others that use it w/o reservations.

I have nothing against the chat rooms. If you use them respectfully, it is fine. I have been in there many times myself but I know of one person that would sit in there just waiting for people to come in and 90% of the time, it was newbies who would go in there, without even a single post under their belt. They immediately start cybering and lo and behold, they think this is some sort of porn site, because of it. Next think you know, the guys are sending pics of their units to women unsolicited.

[wisconsin(m)]

Ummm.......SORRY, I guess. Hopefully I use tact.

[Jelly]

I have had a rare unwanted advance, I just ignored her knowing one of the fellas here would swoop her up off me.....the others are not only wanted but encouraged. However I am sure the ladies go through this issue often, I dont know how they put up with it.. and I really feel for them, as I am sure there are some fellas out their with less than honorable intentions...but they just make the ones with some class look that much better...so to them I say.....thanks scum bags!!! ha ha ha


Did u say class??? Really? :lmao

Seiously, there are a lot of great guys here. And the very few that scare the hell outta me won't keep me away. what would i do without the friends I have made here???

Thanks really, guys. Most of you rock and really know how to make a girl feel special. Luv Ya!!! :kk

[WandaRing]

:D I'm kind of slow sometimes when someone is hitting on me, recently a young girl of 20 came on to me in the chat room, I wasnt sure at first so I asked others in pm's if she was hitting on me...she finally came right out and asked me if I would talk about sex with her....uggg! No thank you! I told a mod and she got rid of her for me...it felt weird because I wasnt sure and by the time that I was aware of what was happening it was too late...:whee:

[madmod]

I must admit this site is pretty good and runs quite smoothly really .... :)

As a guy I generally don't get the unwanted and annoying advances (it's most often guys who do that), but I don't see a lot of it happening to the girls either so that seems promising. Most of the time some sleazy guy will pop up, make a few comments, and then give up if he's ignored or put in his place.

Oftentimes the guy isn't really all that sleazy and he's just read this place all wrong from the outside .... Once he works out what's really going on, he calms down and becomes a valuable contributor to the discussions/threads. I think a lot of people come here looking for one thing and find another (then hopefully find what they were originally looking for later on) .... Make sense?! ;)

[duanehofner]

I avoid the room more often, just pop in to say a few hellos. I've been told too often to lay of of smart mouth kids.

[Huzyerdaddi]

My problem is quite the opposite....where's the "Unrepeated Wanted Advances" thread?

[ethans_so_bad]

You're welcome, Shawn. Glad I can help.



I have had a rare unwanted advance, I just ignored her knowing one of the fellas here would swoop her up off me.....the others are not only wanted but encouraged. However I am sure the ladies go through this issue often, I dont know how they put up with it.. and I really feel for them, as I am sure there are some fellas out their with less than honorable intentions...but they just make the ones with some class look that much better...so to them I say.....thanks scum bags!!! ha ha ha

[jimmy-love-fl]

:lmao:lmao:lmao

You're welcome, Shawn. Glad I can help.

[ethans_so_bad]

Well I mean cmon, there have to be bad guys in order for there to be good guys right? I'm just doing the world a favor being me.



:lmao:lmao:lmao

[Big O]

what makes me laugh are the guys that come on and their first post is an ad from a personals page. "good looking male from Maine looking for lonely married woman to share sexual encounters." I just sit here and shake my head....(the big one of course!)

[ethans_so_bad]

They deleted the funniest one of those EVER the other day, the guy from Africa. Did you see that?



what makes me laugh are the guys that come on and their first post is an ad from a personals page. "good looking male from Maine looking for lonely married woman to share sexual encounters." I just sit here and shake my head....(the big one of course!)

[Big O]

They deleted the funniest one of those EVER the other day, the guy from Africa. Did you see that?

No, I missed that one....Maybe I'll ask a mod to let me see it.

[Zpanther]

what makes me laugh are the guys that come on and their first post is an ad from a personals page. "good looking male from Maine looking for lonely married woman to share sexual encounters." I just sit here and shake my head....(the big one of course!)

Maine? (I thought you said you live in Florida....) :(

[Big O]

Maine? (I thought you said you live in Florida....) :(

are you coming on to me??? Is there a mod online now?!?!?!?!

[Big O]

are you coming on to me??? Is there a mod online now?!?!?!?!

Good to see you around Z! At least I know you are still vertical!

[ethans_so_bad]

If they'd let you, it would be worth it.



No, I missed that one....Maybe I'll ask a mod to let me see it.

[Zpanther]

Good to see you around Z! At least I know you are still vertical!

heh heh..... I think maybe I'll give that a shot........ Let's see.... 'good looking guy in........ uh..... somewhere in the Middle East........hoping to see a female without a burkha....... have my own camel.'

[Big O]

heh heh..... I think maybe I'll give that a shot........ Let's see.... 'good looking guy in........ uh..... somewhere in the Middle East........hoping to see a female without a burkha....... have my own camel.'

lmao!:lmao

[Han Solo]

I am always suprised when someone I have never posted with, and never really seen much, will shoot me a PM out of the blue with very sexually leading content and they have no idea about me, and no desire to get to know me at all, they just think I am Angelina Jolie, or whoever my current avatar is. I don't know, I think we do have some kick ass women here that are pretty smart and pretty sexy, and we have depth and brains and standards. When I receive a suprise PM from a stranger and they start talking dirty right out of the gate without even a hello it makes me feel objectified and that is NOT a turn on.

:sc Awwwwwww, Hell.......does this mean that I need to stop the littany of graphically lewd, smutty and suggestive messages that I send on a daily basis??......I mean, I am sort of respectful....I DO address you as 'Your Worshipfulness' in them......that makes it OK, Right??? :D

[WandaRing]

They deleted the funniest one of those EVER the other day, the guy from Africa. Did you see that?

A posting from Africa? What happend to it? :D

[ethans_so_bad]

Did you have something to do with that?



A posting from Africa? What happend to it? :D

[Sneaky]

:sc Awwwwwww, Hell.......does this mean that I need to stop the littany of graphically lewd, smutty and suggestive messages that I send on a daily basis??......I mean, I am sort of respectful....I DO address you as 'Your Worshipfulness' in them......that makes it OK, Right??? :D

Yeah. Usually if someone says graphically lewd, smutty and suggestive messages BACK that may idicate that those are not necessarily unwanted. Unless we are doing the role playing thing. And then we both know the story there. ;)

Dude, what is UP with that speedo? LMAO! :whee:

[Iwantutowantme]

"repeated unwanted advances"......... I dont recall getting any repeated, unwanted advances. Still hoping for my first ''advance''. When I receive that, then I will take advantage of it to the fullest extent possible. And if they repeat the advance again, then I will be thrilled to know she liked me and wants more of the same.........:):wa:

[dave42]

Well I haven't really had any problems here. I have met one person and we have been very good friends for a year and a half. It has given me an opportunity to meet people who I would not normally meet in my everyday life.

[Shiane]

They deleted the funniest one of those EVER the other day, the guy from Africa. Did you see that?

LOL You guys are so bad!!!!!! :D

Unfortunately for you guys:na we do try to get rid of the personal ad type threads. I really haven't figured out why people post things like that. I guess there are a lot of sites where that is the thing to do, they don't realize this isn't one of them.


Here is the post you all have been talking about and it isn't hard to figure out why it was removed.

Hello
I'm here to satisfy any woman between the ages of 40 - 50 who needs some soft and gentle touches that could let her release stress. It's going to be wonderful with me. I'm ready to give her the best of sex :sexthat she needs unconditionally.

Get in touch with me if you're a white woman in need of an African hot sex.

[Hotshotfireguy]

LOL You guys are so bad!!!!!! :D

Unfortunately for you guys:na we do try to get rid of the personal ad type threads. I really haven't figured out why people post things like that. I guess there are a lot of sites where that is the thing to do, they don't realize this isn't one of them.


Here is the post you all have been talking about and it isn't hard to figure out why it was removed.


Dang, I've been working on an ad........here's what I had so far......" Married man ( but sister is heading to college, so won't be for long), still have all my teeth(except fer that one the mule kicked out), Clean(just bought a brand new #5 warshtub), and plenty of chickens, so food won't be a problem. Write if interested. Or call BR549. I'll be watin' " :D :D :lmao Guess I'll have to do something else

[ethans_so_bad]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want that entire post as my signature.

I understand the reason it was deleted, but you have to admit, once the vultures descended on that one, you haven't laughed that hard in a while. There should be hell to pay for stupidity on that scale.




LOL You guys are so bad!!!!!! :D

Unfortunately for you guys:na we do try to get rid of the personal ad type threads. I really haven't figured out why people post things like that. I guess there are a lot of sites where that is the thing to do, they don't realize this isn't one of them.


Here is the post you all have been talking about and it isn't hard to figure out why it was removed.

[wisconsin(m)]

Dang, I've been working on an ad........here's what I had so far......" Married man ( but sister is heading to college, so won't be for long), still have all my teeth(except fer that one the mule kicked out), Clean(just bought a brand new #5 warshtub), and plenty of chickens, so food won't be a problem. Write if interested. Or call BR549. I'll be watin' " :D :D :lmao Guess I'll have to do something else

Nice........I can't believe how two great minds think alike hotshot, I was just writting one as well, mine was much more simpler (love that word).......Cowboy looking for a good cowgirl to go on the range with..send picture of your horse...

[wisconsin(m)]

LOL You guys are so bad!!!!!! :D

Unfortunately for you guys:na we do try to get rid of the personal ad type threads. I really haven't figured out why people post things like that. I guess there are a lot of sites where that is the thing to do, they don't realize this isn't one of them.


Here is the post you all have been talking about and it isn't hard to figure out why it was removed.

Shiane, your making this way to much fun for us guys. :D

[Shiane]

Shiane, your making this way to much fun for us guys. :D

I ain't never heard of too much fun! (Hey isn't that a song!)

"Too much fun, whats that mean, its like too much money, theres no such thing."

[Hotshotfireguy]

I ain't never heard of too much fun! (Hey isn't that a song!)

"Too much fun, whats that mean, its like too much money, theres no such thing."

Wow, Daryll Singletary, haven't heard that song in a while

[Shiane]

Wow, Daryll Singletary, haven't heard that song in a while


Yep, I haven't either.... lol but I still remember the words!

[wisconsin(m)]

I ain't never heard of too much fun! (Hey isn't that a song!)

"Too much fun, whats that mean, its like too much money, theres no such thing."

Careful there Shiane................that zipper looks a little close

[cherokeered]

Most of the time the men are very good about not wanting to come on too strong or be too forward....but then, think I can also be intimidating....lol

And hey, if they don't behave....I just neuter them....:D

Seriously...never had a bad problem....

[WandaRing]

Did you have something to do with that?
Me? :( :D

[AL(m)]

Would love to get some repeated unwanted.....( :sc :sc hmm not really un-wanted...) now how does one go about getting them???? :sc
Oh well would love to get just one dirty letter too......... :whee: :lmao

[TIGUY]

Unless it has happened to me (and it never has...here) I can only say what I have been told by other women I go private with...

There have been quite a few stalkers and jerks who profess their love after two days...and refuse to take "no" for an answer or become arrogant and controlling. I personally feel all women and men...have to write back and tell them to stop bothering you or go to a Mod immediately. Don't play around with these jerks thinking you don't want to hurt their feelings and most of all, please don't think you're in love with them because of their charm directed to you that you haven't experienced in many years.

I will say though, I have heard very little of this since I have returned to the site but that doesn't mean it has disappeared. The past "low lifes" do not seem to be here anymore thanks to the Mods and their own choice.

I say we need to politely stop their craziness the minute they walk in the room and start posting for the first time thinking they are in a porn shop. I tried to do this in the past and the Mods came down on me because it's their job...and I agree with that. I am too heavy handed with that stuff...they are better at it.

Great reminder Shiane...Thanks

[AL(m)]

Have to agree with you here TIGUY... women should be treated with respect always.. and one should never push there self on another...... also the ones that seem to fall in "Love" at the drop of a hat...... they need to learn what "Lust" is.....
But I agree this place should and is a place where one can come to chat and meet new people with respect and a little flirting ......


Unless it has happened to me (and it never has...here) I can only say what I have been told by other women I go private with...

There have been quite a few stalkers and jerks who profess their love after two days...and refuse to take "no" for an answer or become arrogant and controlling. I personally feel all women and men...have to write back and tell them to stop bothering you or go to a Mod immediately. Don't play around with these jerks thinking you don't want to hurt their feelings and most of all, please don't think you're in love with them because of their charm directed to you that you haven't experienced in many years.

I will say though, I have heard very little of this since I have returned to the site but that doesn't mean it has disappeared. The past "low lifes" do not seem to be here anymore thanks to the Mods and their own choice.

I say we need to stop politely their craziness the minute they walk in the room and post the first time when they knowlingly think they are in a porn shop. I tried to do this in the past and the Mods came down on me because it's their job...and I agree with that. I am too heavy handed with that stuff...they are better at it.

Great reminder Shiane...Thanks

[VeryBlueEyes]

They should read the rules of conduct and if they can't abide by them, turn the person in.

[FLfire4u(m)]

Havent been here very long, but anyone that may have come on to strong, other members have looked after me and warned me. For that I thank you (you know who you are). Now I just hope I haven't pushed to hard or far.

[Barkiss]

Yes...no matter what I say, Lena will not leave me alone. It is going on 3 years now..someone make it stop! ;)

[kaycee727(m)]

I'm glad I read through this thread. Its good to know how everyone feels. And I will apoligize right now to all here, men and women. Once you get to know me I sometimes say the wrong things and if you let me know I will not take it bad. I will accept all constructive crtism as gaciously as possible. It will be my dog that will get the brunt of it. Just kidding,I love them and would never hurt anyone.

[Penny]

People here are very nice and forgiving :)

[Misty]

Yes...no matter what I say, Lena will not leave me alone. It is going on 3 years now..someone make it stop! ;)

if I seek permission before stalking, would that still be considered annoying? hehehe


psssssssssssssssst say No
say nooooooooooooooooo

[Barkiss]

if I seek permission before stalking, would that still be considered annoying? hehehe


psssssssssssssssst say No
say nooooooooooooooooo

No, No, No, No, NO, NO, NO, NOOOOOOO! ;)

[Misty]

No, No, No, No, NO, NO, NO, NOOOOOOO! ;)

right here goes then

full stalk in progress ................ so once I'm up the stalk do i get deflowered?


lol these puns are killing me :D

[Barkiss]

right here goes then

full stalk in progress ................ so once I'm up the stalk do i get deflowered?


lol these puns are killing me :D

Only if I get to plant the seed...

[Misty]

Only if I get to plant the seed...

sure sure ... and i get to play with your tools (its all part of the deal) .....;)

[Barkiss]

sure sure ... and i get to play with your tools (its all part of the deal) .....;)

Are you sure you can handle such an advance piece of machinery?

[Misty]

Are you sure you can handle such an advance piece of machinery?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I 'll have you humming a different tune soon :D

[Barkiss]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I 'll have you humming a different tune soon :D

You already do...;)

[Misty]

You already do...;)

and why the heck am i grinning? :D :D :D :D will figure it out soon, i am sure :)

[Lena]

Yes...no matter what I say, Lena will not leave me alone. It is going on 3 years now..someone make it stop! ;)
hmmmmmm...... :nu

[househub]

this is an interesting thread, but i dont agree with any of the questions, so i cant vote, hi lena too

[Lena]

this is an interesting thread, but i dont agree with any of the questions, so i cant vote, hi lena too
Hi Househub!! :wa: