Bed time, who goes first?

[toosarcastic]

Most nights my wife falls asleep around 9:30pm or so, I tend to stay up until at least 11pm and some times later. Every now and again she will ask me to come to bed with her, so I will lay down and read next to her as she falls asleep.

[cherokeered]

when we slept in the same bed....I did...so I would be asleep before he got to bed....

Now it depends and is irrelevant since we no longer sleep together

[UltimateNaneki]

My ex always went to bed first....he would lay there watching TV and when he would fall asleep...I would then go to bed.

[Me]

Him if I am lucky!!!

So I can play.............

[stucknmarriage74(f)]

i always go to bed first...and he stays up with his mistress t.v. lol

[Sensual Woman]

almost always me, so I can be asleep before he comes up....that way I can actually have some pleasant dreams

[yaser]

i always go to bed first...and he stays up with his mistress t.v. lol
And you are jealous about the mistress.

[yaser]

almost always me, so I can be asleep before he comes up....that way I can actually have some pleasant dreams
Sensual,please open the window and look out..

[pagirl]

He goes to bed 1st, he falls asleep 5 minutes after hitting the pillow and then starts snoring and I can't get to sleep. So I wait until I fall asleep on the sofa, wake up around 2am and move into the bedroom...

[yaser]

He goes to bed 1st, he falls asleep 5 minutes after hitting the pillow and then starts snoring and I can't get to sleep. So I wait until I fall asleep on the sofa, wake up around 2am and move into the bedroom...
Knock knock.. :knuddel:

[Wil]

not real sure...we sleep at opposite ends of the house...

[Nice]

He definately goes to bed first...

[3ch17ro]

i am in same boat, alone it doesn't really matter, when ever i fall over or decide to actually go, but before, it was her, first 98 percent of the time

[Iwantutowantme]

Half of the time we go to bed together, and half of the time she goes to bed before I do............ I would have to be sick, before I went to bed before her..lol

[ksue7274]

He usually goes to bed first....good time for me to play.

[Iwantutowantme]

He usually goes to bed first....good time for me to play.

Does that mean 'we' can play tonight?? :)

[Lissa]

he goes to bed first..I am a night owl so I usually am up till 1 or 2 am

[JCDxn]

depends on who is the most tired... most of the time I go to bed first because he is not here... but when he is home he is normally the first to go to bed..:)

[OutofTownMan]

We almost always go to bed at the same time. When I am home. I have a hard time falling asleep if she doesn't at least come to bed at the same time.

[private beaches]

i always go to bed first...and he stays up with his mistress t.v. lol

Same here!

[duanehofner]

We go together

[Augustus]

when we slept in the same bed....I did...so I would be asleep before he got to bed....

Now it depends and is irrelevant since we no longer sleep together

Are you 2 still married and/or live in the same house?


Augustus

[Augustus]

when we slept in the same bed....I did...so I would be asleep before he got to bed....

Now it depends and is irrelevant since we no longer sleep together

I like the new avatar.......

Hope those are female butt cheeks



Augustus

[Augustus]

Depends on what happening during that week, if the kids have homework, then i end up going to bed first, and that usually around 11 or 12

Aside from that , she in the bed first...

Augustus

[Nice]

he does, while i stay up and chat....shhh....

[Shawn]

She is normally out by 8:30...i am up till atleast 11, ...I cherish that alone time

[OC_guy]

He goes to bed 1st, he falls asleep 5 minutes after hitting the pillow and then starts snoring and I can't get to sleep. So I wait until I fall asleep on the sofa, wake up around 2am and move into the bedroom...
you just need to find someone who doesnt snore :) ...like me

[Sylar]

I think this question assumes that I ever sleep. We both go to bed at the same time...but sleep is this elusive myth I've only read about ..not that I'm complaining, or anything....lol...I'll sleep when I'm dead. :D

[scoobertina]

Well.... Me goes to bed before I do.... then Myself will usually join us after she has seen to her needs... sometimes many hours after I do... but Me is always in bed early...

[nolarry]

she always goes first

[unctarheel_32]

I usually hit the bed before my gf because i'm tired from working.

[TheTurtle]

definitely the wife.

[hank69]

I'm in bed first....sometimes we go together,But not often...I need more sleep than she does

[Sneaky]

He does. Bothered me for a loooong time. Now it would sort of cramp my evening routine if he decided to suddenly stay up with me.... if ya catch my drift (wink, wink, nudge nudge......) ;)

[merdock67]

She goes to bed first, but I wake up first. I will go to bed with her some times but I am up late most nights. I have a hard time sleeping.

[Karebear3003]

i always go to bed first...and he stays up with his mistress t.v. lol

Same here!

[1hotrod]

She goes to bed first. If I get too much sleep I'm tired all day. I know does't make sense but that's the way it is for me. Besides since I found this site that's the only time at home I can get on and chat.

[Thumpintwin]

i always go to bed first...and he stays up with his mistress t.v. lol

Did I ever mention how much I hate TV? Just sayin:D

[bigrred30]

she's always the first in bed, I like it that way since then I can have my alone time with no kids and no wife.

[Big O]

well it's me and the dogs around 8:30. I never hear her come to bed unless she puts the tv on and it wakes me up. I hate it when she does that.....

[Grey Wheels]

I was almost always in bed at least an hour after my bride as a way to avoid the frustration of a lack of intimacy... Now I am in bed first and the process leaves me COLD!

[RedVixen]

Husband is in bed first during the week as he gets up for work alot earlier than I do.

[Baterman]

Then I can play mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[Zarret]

Then I can play mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Play what?? :lf

[Zarret]

I was almost always in bed at least an hour after my bride as a way to avoid the frustration of a lack of intimacy... Now I am in bed first and the process leaves me COLD!

I leave my husband sleeping on the couch every night. He usually finds his way into the bedroom an hour or so later. But I agree the process is COLD and lonely.

[Nick182]

we go to bed together around 11pm. I try to go first because I like to hop in bed and usually within minutes I'm sound asleep. She's a TV watcher, so I'm usually disturbed by the TV light & sound... so I toss and turn for an hour before I fall asleep... sometimes she turns it off quickly though.

[COWGIRL69]

we go to bed about 9 but he falls asleep first 15-20 min later i wear him out usually, just wish it took longer to do it some times

[noodlegurl]

We both go to bed together...... Or that is what I am hopping for the next time around.

[househub]

you know when wifey goes to bed, its when i come here

[inquisitive]

most times he is in bed first, but lately.... he has been able to out last the night owl in me.

[Lethe]

Our job screws up our sleep schedule so much that it's just whoever falls asleep first.

[fourisit]

He goes first I always stay up and chat or read or watch tv. He is a morning person and I am a night owl.

[woodsman8]

I work at night and sleep in the am. I am working right now, watching people sleep.

[EmotionalAffair]

He usually goes to bed first unless I fall out on the sofa.

[stevelooking]

we always went at the same time until i found this site. now i stay up and chat and play here for awhile. at least i get alot of activity here, very fun. thanks everyone.

[Sunfiresix]

I go first usually 10pm read for a while, she may follow in an hour and a half or stay on the couch...

[private beaches]

I go first, he stays up watching sports or book tv

[darlingcherry]

I spend my nights alone so I guess I go to sleep first?! He works most nights.

[TheTurtle]

It depends on what you mean. Technically, I go to bed first since I hit the hay around 11 am most mornings; she goes to bed at 10pm. Of course, we work different shifts... :p

[Dir]

Never at same time

[MB54]

Usually her, I am on this site.

[Dir]

Usually her, I am on this site. same here :cry::cry:sometimes feels bad for that

[MB54]

same here :cry::cry:sometimes feels bad for that

Why????? They choose this way for us.

[Dir]

Why????? They choose this way for us. only they ??

[MB54]

only they ??

Well we have choosen to, but with a little help.

[Dir]

Well we have choosen to, but with a little help. I used to take all the blame ..probably just to get strengh to find the solution ..to belive that is on my hands

[MB54]

I used to take all the blame ..probably just to get strengh to find the solution ..to belive that is on my hands

No one should have to take on that responsoblity alone!

[Dir]

No one should have to take on that responsoblity alone!yes i know but is part of my personality though

[MB54]

yes i know but is part of my personality though

A strong woman i take it?

[Dir]

A strong woman i take it? yes very strong ....but with some weekness too

[MB54]

yes very strong ....but with some weekness too

You sound very sexy!

[Dir]

You sound very sexy!thank you :kk

[MB54]

thank you :kk

No thank you.

[Dir]

No thank you.:knuddel::kk

[MB54]

:knuddel::kk


WooHoo, a double!!!

[Dir]

WooHoo, a double!!!..yes you deserved it .. though

[MB54]

..yes you deserved it .. though

you are too kind

[loverboy6969]

it depends. i work nights and she works days. on my days off we sleep togeather. it always starts with cuddling and things heat up from there. very slow start with lots of foreplay and end with hmmmmmmmm:sex

[Sunfiresix]

I do --actually so I can get an hours reading without noise.

[SunnyD]

Usually about the same time.

[skinnyone]

Usually about the same time.

Lucky guy!!

[skinnyone]

My wife is always in bed and asleep before me.

[rizz]

she does always..just not soon enough sometimes...

[Me]

she does always..just not soon enough sometimes...

nope, not soon enough

[rizz]

nope, not soon enough
whatever..its your hubby always holding things up..time difference..lol

[Me]

whatever..its your hubby always holding things up..time difference..lol

omg I know!!!

Mr 8:00 bedtime is torturing me staying up til 10:00.

[rizz]

omg I know!!!

Mr 8:00 bedtime is torturing me staying up til 10:00.
lol..doesnt he realize its keeping me up til 2am eastern

[Me]

lol..doesnt he realize its keeping me up til 2am eastern

I'll have to remind him......

Damn it Mr!!! It's not 10:00 everywhere in the world and we have playing to do!!!

[rizz]

I'll have to remind him......

Damn it Mr!!! It's not 10:00 everywhere in the world and we have playing to do!!!
lol..the 10 isnt bad..its the midnight ones that hurt

[Me]

lol..the 10 isnt bad..its the midnight ones that hurt


didn't hear u complaining!!!

[rizz]

didn't hear u complaining!!!
nope..your worth staying up for

[Me]

nope..your worth staying up for
Awwwwwwwwwww

[cherokeered]

me...and I was asleep....sigh...something woke me up...

[tiger50]

me...and I was asleep....sigh...something woke me up...

sigh... get some more sleep baby..... heyy love you.....:kk

[VeryBlueEyes]

the bedroom is no place for a TV

[FLfire4u(m)]

Well up till recently we always went to bed at the same time. We felt that that was necessary to our relationship. BUT now, she has started playing World of Warcraft. Oh Boy, now I fight to stay up till midnight while she comes crawling in around 2

[TheTurtle]

Well up till recently we always went to bed at the same time. We felt that that was necessary to our relationship. BUT now, she has started playing World of Warcraft. Oh Boy, now I fight to stay up till midnight while she comes crawling in around 2

That is not what I expected to hear! While I know in my head women play rpgs just like men do, in my experience they are few and far between. Why don't you get another computer, get on there yourself, and engage her character? ;)

[FLfire4u(m)]

Ha Ha Ha, I thought of that. I already have my own computer but it doesnt meet the requirements for the game. Plus I may get hooked too and then that would take me away from here.

[VeryBlueEyes]

we always go to bed together.

[Shafe]

I'm usually the last to go to bed. I can't fall asleep early -- nighttime hours are just too much fun :-)

[Jabbuk]

No contest anymore. Since we don't sleep together and I'm addicted to the chat room, she's in bed long before me.

[meow meow]

Most nights my wife falls asleep around 9:30pm or so, I tend to stay up until at least 11pm and some times later. Every now and again she will ask me to come to bed with her, so I will lay down and read next to her as she falls asleep.

I normally go to bed first. This kitty needs her rest.

[Curiousoneonly]

He does. :)

[learman3]

depends on the night...Thursday - Saturday she does. The rest of the time together.

[cherri]

My husband goes to bed around 9 or 9:30 p.m. at the latest. I read to the kids till they fall asleep (I just read "The Old Man and The Sea" to them). They fall asleep around 9 to 10pm. After I read to them, I read my books or I'm up painting a project. Like a sixteen foot banner for my son's football float, or posters for the school's carnival.....lol. I'm a night owl, he isn't.

[Jaded]

He always goes to bed first, Im such a night owl

[bryonboru]

Usually it is her but if she is being a witch then I will go to bed first.

[happygirl101]

He does! I have insomnia and he can sleep by 9pm...

[bryonboru]

Happy Smoke a joint and I'm sure you will go to sleep shortly there after.

[MSU]

I don't remember.......

[redmondnsa]

she does most nights

[glamourgirl]

not me...its 4a and i am still up! where is the insomniac thread???

[Penny]

I would go to bed at 8 if I thought I could get away with it. I like getting up early and going to bed early. He would stay up all night and sleep all day if he could.

[Brak_45]

Her ...she has to get up early for work...:sry

[Big O]

I am always in bed first. It's from all those years of delivering bread. I still get tired early and I get up early....

[JoyS]

He does....I am a night owl!

[goodguyiniowa]

she falls asleep on the couch and then goes to bed hours before i do.

[Khandie]

When I'm with him we always go to bed together and wake up together.

[Khandie]

:ok

[sophia1]

when we are together, will go at the same time whenever that is

[Loomis]

She's in bed first. As many others have said that's the time to come here. :-) Or follow other night time rituals on our own...

[ravishingrickrude]

me

[scoobertina]

he is in bed before I ever leave work... ;)

[Raina]

My hubby works thirds so when he is home I go first. I usually go to sleep between 1 and 2 am and then he goes to bed at 4 or 5 am.

[Onyx Hades]

He goes first. I'm a nightowl.

[goodguyiniowa]

Night owls seem to be the theme here!

[scoobertina]

he does...

[Gubby]

She goes to bed first, I stay up with the creatures of the night, LOL

[Engineer-in-action]

Yup. Night owl here, too.

[katydid2]

Always me (I'm the one who actually has a job to wake up for) and then him. I just try really hard to be asleep before he crawls in bed.

[Big O]

I delivered bread for many years and I always went to bed first. Even though I am semi retired now I still go to bed early.

[leggy4]

:lmao I thought this thread was about who initiates it first???/ That would be me... like the last 17 years.......

[HvenSent]

He does too...sometimes he makes me go to bed with him because he doesn't like the fact I stay online on "facebook" lol , wink

[BlueEyedMale40]

He does too...sometimes he makes me go to bed with him because he doesn't like the fact I stay online on "facebook" lol , wink
You too? :-)

[HvenSent]

You too? :-)

Yeah I guess its the cover up, wink

[Sensual Woman]

me...then I don't have to talk to or look at my husband

[virgochick]

Hubby normally passes out watching tv in the living room leaving me to go to bed first but not to sleep ;)

[mustangrick]

sometimes her, sometimes me, just depends how tired i am

[Fwd40s]

She goes first. I'm a late night person.

[RockinGirl]

Well.... I sleep alone

But I guess it's me since I get up really early.

[chubbybutcute]

I always try to go to bed first otherwise his snoring wont let me fall asleep:nu

[sweet]

We usually go to bed together, unless I have some cleaning or laundry to finish before I head to bed.

[NYYlvr]

since I sleep alone, I guess I do

[Jack Robinson]

She always does

[sexychitchat]

virgochick such a waste you need a difu gent and not have to be a diy girl and I'm free

[sexychitchat]

all depends on what roll play we might be doing.

[lanie]

he does.

[Madmonk2010]

I usually do. I have to get up to go to work. That's usually when she gets online and plays around.

[Miss Kitty]

I have trouble getting to sleep at night, so the hubby usually gets to sleep way before I do

[disturbiagirl]

well it's usually a toss up between me and the cat....I guess for the most part I go first....I really don't know what she does.....:lmao:lmao:lmao

[rxbabe]

Him always, although I sleep on the couch... he snores and sleeps very
oddly. Thrashes about, pulls my hair... sleeping with him usually results
in me ending up on the couch anyway, so I just take out the middleman.

Besides, I love my quiet time when all the house is asleep...

I do things... :yks

[rxbabe]

But if I had someone to snuggle with, then I'd be going to bed whenever he did...

[fever]

There's no formula here...all depends on how I can get the most "me" time...

[Writerman]

She does as a rule.