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alwaysCurious
12-19-2005, 07:24 PM
What are your missed sexual opportunities? What were the ultimate chances you had that you didn't take? What do you regret not doing (or came to regret doing even)?

My first regret is not staying with my first really serious girlfriend when I was 18. She was ready and ripe for the plucking and I was too scared, immature, and inexperienced to know better. I dumped her after a night of heavy-petting and dry humping because I was a moron. :(

The second big regret was when I was 20. I was working nightshift with a very hot 30 year old married woman. Her husband had just cheated on her and she was looking for revenge. She invited me over for movies one day and I declined. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Ahhhh...what she could have taught me. :whee:
sex_kitten_4u
12-19-2005, 07:29 PM
What are your missed sexual opportunities? What were the ultimate chances you had that you didn't take? What do you regret not doing (or came to regret doing even)?

My first regret is not staying with my first really serious girlfriend when I was 18. She was ready and ripe for the plucking and I was too scared, immature, and inexperienced to know better. I dumped her after a night of heavy-petting and dry humping because I was a moron. :(

The second big regret was when I was 20. I was working nightshift with a very hot 30 year old married woman. Her husband had just cheated on her and she was looking for revenge. She invited me over for movies one day and I declined. Stupid, stupid, stupid. Ahhhh...what she could have taught me. :whee:

I HAD A CJNCE AT SOMETHING WONDERFULL JUST 6 DAYS AFTER ME AND MY 2ND HUBBY SPLIT AND IT WAS SO UNEXPECTED COZ I DID NOT KNOW HE WAS INTERESTED IN ME IN THAT WAY WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER A MONTH NOW ,,,,,, DO I REGRET IT NO WAY AND AM GLAD I DID NOT MISS THE OPERTUNITY,,,, MOST OTHER WOMEN AND MEN WOULD NOT HAVE BUT WHENT FOR IT BUT THE MARRIGE WAS LONG DEAD AND I HAD FANCIED THE PANTS OFF HIM FOR AGES NOW I HAVE A SMILE A MILE WIDE EVERY DAY AND AM HAPPIER NOW THAN I HAVE BEEN SINCE I WAS 19 HE JUST ROCKS MY WORLD:)
DMan
12-19-2005, 07:58 PM
Missed Opportunities!! So many when i was in college ,,,,;) but had only been married a year........and it just so caught me off guard! Wasnt looking, and the chances were all over the place!:cry:


Dont know if i should have acted.......but always wonder!:(
Sunfiresix
12-19-2005, 08:02 PM
Too many to count, they were always so damn pretty and well built, I still think of a lot of them today--
sex_kitten_4u
12-19-2005, 08:26 PM
Too many to count, they were always so damn pretty and well built, I still think of a lot of them today--

SO YOU LIKE THE BIGGER LADIES THEN ?
Norfolkdave
12-20-2005, 06:43 AM
Missed Oppotunitities

My first girlfriend was faboulous, I still think of her, and we should have got married, sometime ago I had a phone call, and I know I was wrong, but the voice on the other end said enough. How she traced me I,ll never know, Everything came flooding back it was wonderful, we cried, we laughed, but she rang for another reason, she was very ill, sadly she passed away April this year, and did I cry, memories are wonderful but sad.
tiger50
12-20-2005, 07:03 AM
SO YOU LIKE THE BIGGER LADIES THEN ?
I do yess, find a lot of them incredibly sexy....
dont much like cuddling a lady when all you can feel is bones...
sex_kitten_4u
12-20-2005, 11:46 AM
I do yess, find a lot of them incredibly sexy....
dont much like cuddling a lady when all you can feel is bones...

wow a lot more men seem to like the larger ladys these days:kk
MCat
12-20-2005, 12:07 PM
wow a lot more men seem to like the larger ladys these days:kk

They have finally gotten their heads out of their asses....:D
spare_change
12-20-2005, 12:32 PM
We all have regrets of opportunities missed, or chances untaken. When I was 19, and just joined the Air Force, I was stationed in Texas. One day, I was in a mall downtown and I ran into the wife of my older brother's best friend. Her husband was in Viet Nam at the time. I had lusted over her since I was in junior high. We had dinner a few times, and then she made an offer - an offer I refused because, after all, she was married. What a fool I was! I have regretted it ever since.
tiger50
12-20-2005, 09:56 PM
They have finally gotten their heads out of their asses....:D

This is a call to war..:nu :drink:
sweetgapeach
12-20-2005, 10:16 PM
In 1985 I went out with a guy , that I just fell for.I had just broke up from my boyfriend i had had all through High School. He was from Indiana ,a little bit older and omg just a hotty. Anyways, I ended up leaving and going to live with my Dad and he asked me to stay. And I left, I have regretted it ever since. I can still see his smile!!
But at the same time if I stay with that path , would i have missed this path. Which the biggest part have been my Babies. That I could not miss.
MCat
12-21-2005, 09:16 AM
This is a call to war..:nu :drink:

Bring it on you big pussy cat....I'll wrestle ya
Norfolkdave
12-21-2005, 12:27 PM
Bring it on you big pussy cat....I'll wrestle ya

I got to support my buddy, I,ll bring the Bell!:lmao
spare_change
12-24-2005, 08:45 PM
I'm giving 3-2 on MC in three rounds, by a knockout.
sex_kitten_4u
12-28-2005, 09:40 AM
They have finally gotten their heads out of their asses....:D

and about time to marycat :lmao
romancer522000
12-28-2005, 10:03 AM
My biggest regret was when I was 18 and wanted to have this g/f so bad but was not raised that way . Regretted not doing it for 31 yrs , Then the phone rang it was her we were both divorced and ended up being my wife . It was well worth the wait !!!!!!
Norfolkdave
12-28-2005, 10:49 AM
They have finally gotten their heads out of their asses....:D

Deaf!!!!!!!:lmao
Zpanther
01-06-2006, 10:36 PM
Many, many over the years. Most of them were in a work environment though, and I've always stayed away from those. Thought about a lot of them since, but never regretted not getting involved with someone at work. Didn't even have to think about it all that much. All I had to do was look around in whatever work environment I've been in to see the grief and misery and failed or stifled careers that too often resulted from those work affairs.
Lena
01-06-2006, 10:41 PM
That is true ZP!!
Gfrog
06-19-2006, 08:43 PM
I missed out the opportunity of a life time a long time ago!!!! I'll never know what could have happened!!
Sandy
06-19-2006, 09:32 PM
i wonder sometimes, but then i look at what i have, i don't wonder anymore. :D
Gfrog
07-01-2006, 10:38 PM
I think I've missed out on alot in my life!!
SaltyLime
07-24-2006, 02:06 AM
the 'what ifs' can be amusing...so far, i don't regret any turn-downs...
yaser
07-24-2006, 02:16 AM
the 'what ifs' can be amusing...so far, i don't regret any turn-downs...better not to look back...go ahead...focus on the gains not losess....
yaser
07-24-2006, 02:17 AM
I think I've missed out on alot in my life!!NOt gained anything?
yaser
07-24-2006, 02:19 AM
I am sure I will have many surprises ahead.
njsteverio
07-24-2006, 01:33 PM
I tried not to miss any. The good, the bad and the Ugggggleeee.
inquisitive
01-26-2008, 05:03 PM
lots of missed chances to do something different, go down a different path... don't really regret to much.
jimmy_love_fl
01-26-2008, 05:17 PM
I was dating a girl when I was 17 and she moved away. When she moved back, I was dating my wife to be and she kept trying to get me to come back to her. Now she is a playboy centerfold! She was kind of mental, but damn she was hot. I should have slept with her a few more times for old times sake.