Shy and intimidated...

[clifton54]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf

[Dsparate Hswife]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf

Hi Clifton! Welcome to the site...it can be intimidating, but we are a pretty easy-going bunch here...a lot of nice people...

:3welcome:

[Shawn_N_Sandiego]

My suggestion would be talk it up in the main room first.... pm's from someone new may feel like you going through their purse... safe and harmless... but still uncomfortable.......welcome to the site.. post in the threads... you'll do fine

[Fargo...really]

Welcome, Clif, and good luck

[Sneaky]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf

Yeah I agree with Shawn & Desperate Housewife. We are a very nice group, and as you get to know us you'll see we aren't scary at all. Well maybe in a scary goofy kinda way, but not a scary mean way. I'm sure newbies get annoyed when we tell them this, but really it's best to post in the threads for a bit, get your post count up & get to know people. Then when you go in the chat room you'll know who others are and they'll no you & it will be WAY less intimidating.

Have fun and welcome!!!

[navigater]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf
Hey Clifton welcome to the site..Just mingle around in the fourms and make post.Peplle will eventually get to know you and before you know it you will have a great bunch of friends..Have fun and enjoy

[softrosepetal]

Good luck with the chat room. I find it almost scary! I can't keep up with all of the windows that pop up. Love to chat. But posting works better for me.

[tator]

good luck and have fun with it, i am new to and love it!

[redcat]

Hi clif...welcome to the site.

[clifton54]

wow, there are nice people in here. thank you everyone that replied. I didn't think i would get so many so quickly. You've all made me feel welcome. I can't thank you enough

[yaser]

wow, there are nice people in here. thank you everyone that replied. I didn't think i would get so many so quickly. You've all made me feel welcome. I can't thank you enough

Welcome Clifton..The ladeis here love the newcomers much..Thye jump on him..

[clifton54]

Welcome Clifton..The ladeis here love the newcomers much..Thye jump on him..



well that kind of scares me and excites me at the same time...lol

[yaser]

well that kind of scares me and excites me at the same time...lol

No need to be scary..They come one by one only..

[SunnyD]

Welcome and Enjoy the site! I think if you look at the posts for a while you will see your not the only new person and we welcome anyone with open arms that is here for friendship.

[cyclops]

Hi and welcome to the site clifton.

Relax pour a beer and post in the threads, you will get to know us all in no time.

[fishon]

Welcome to the site Clifton

[UltimateNaneki]

Hey Clifton...we are not a scary bunch....until you get to really know us...:lmao, just joking :)
Put your feet up and have fun !

[WhiteKnight]

Hi being new here my self i feel the sme way, however the people are nice and helpfull, and will point you in the right way..have fun

[Lousianaguy]

I am new here and so far had a good experience in the chatroom!
Nice people so far :-)

[mike76239]

good luck and ENJOY!

[Tiglet]

Welcome Clifton :wa:

Don't be scared, we don't bite, unless you ask of course.

[clifton54]

Welcome Clifton :wa:

Don't be scared, we don't bite, unless you ask of course.


Biting can be fun Tiglet...... :ok

[Shiane]

Welcome Clifton! My best advise is to just jump right in where ever you feel like it. This place is full of nice folks and you will get to know many of them soon enough. Do be careful with the pm's until you get to know people a bit. Unfortunately "some" people tend to use them like drive bys and many people are left feeling a little gun shy if you get my drift.

[LuckyJest]

Welcome Clifton, but stop that right now!!! Oh, and kick your feet up on the coffee table too!!! And get your flirt on!!! But take all the time you need!!!

[clifton54]

Welcome Clifton! My best advise is to just jump right in where ever you feel like it. This place is full of nice folks and you will get to know many of them soon enough. Do be careful with the pm's until you get to know people a bit. Unfortunately "some" people tend to use them like drive bys and many people are left feeling a little gun shy if you get my drift.


i was wondering about that...thanks

[newhere]

Welcome

[MrHyde]

Just have fun and join in the main room conversations. They are usually funny and flirty and not too serious. From there you will click with certain people and form some bonds.

[dicksr4chicks]

welcome clifton I'm shy to just have fun

[gdgrlgnbd]

Welcome Clifton, don't be shy. Join in and have fun, no one minds PM if u need help or want to chat unless your first question is an obnoxious one. Just say "hi".

[MrHyde]

Welcome Clifton, don't be shy. Join in and have fun, no one minds PM if u need help or want to chat unless your first question is an obnoxious one. Just say "hi".

So is it bad if my first question is "so do you shave down there?"

[PEBBLIEPOO]

Welcome to the site and i hope you find what you are looking for.

[fever]

Welcome Clifton! I'm sure you'll find your way in no time...chat room can be confusing, but everyone is usually very welcoming! As for PMs, i agree it can be difficult to gauge...but as long as you're respectful, I don't think it's an issue.

[cherokeered]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf

Welcome to the site....:wa:

[YourAssMyHand]

The chat room is one of the few places in life where you can put it out on the line without everyone seeing how embarassed you are to say it.

[WandaRing]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf
Hey clifton, I am the same way in real life. I find it much easier to post then to talk one-on-one with most people but when it becomes sexual...I admit I run, make an excuse to leave quickly.

Get to know people through their postings, it's really helpful and if there is something you like that they have said it can become an opener to send them a hello in the friends box...just be yourself.

[sandycrotch]

Hello, I'm fairly new here and just looking for some tips. I find the chat room intimidating and I'll admit I have a tough time keeping up to the conversations (my son keeps me busy...lol) And I'm not sure how people respond to private messages. Any suggestions would be a huge help. I'm just looking to meet other married people like myself and see where things lead.

thanks to anyone that responds :lf

Hey Clifton, just be yourself, try and find a conversation that interests you and pipe in now and then. An occasional good quip will get you noticed and if you make the room laugh, they will take notice of you and initiate conversation back with you. Remember, there is no speed limit or minimum speed in there, just do the best you can and you will get the hang of it. The best advice I can give; practice, practice , practice.

Hang in there man and if you ever need a wingman, look me up in there and I'll fly with you.

[MarriedQt]

Welcome to the site Clifton......have fun and enjoy.....if you can't keep up in the main room you can always ask to chat in PM with someone.....that way they aren't bombarded by PM's that usually get ignored!

[msmangrove]

Hey Clifton Iam new also, just wanting to meet people and chat.

[dixiechiknga]

Clift trust me you are not shy honey!! LOL

[Bandit]

:3welcome: to M&F! I've been having pretty good luck by opening with "so, do you have any naked pictures of your bad self?"

[JonJon62]

Clifton, I've been here about 3 months now. My experience has been that if you allow people to get to know you first, through posting, not be pushy, not be afraid to share of yourself, and be respectful and kind ... you will make good friends quickly.

This is a wonderful community with many great people.

[OnceAKing]

:3welcome: to M&F! I've been having pretty good luck by opening with "so, do you have any naked pictures of your bad self?"

LMAO There ya go Bandit, I use something similar and usually get 2-3 offers to cyber right off the bat...must be something about that "bad self" picture that gets em goin.

[jmsmith12345]

Tell them how you can touch you nose with your tongue...that usually works for me.

[OnceAKing]

Tell them how you can touch you nose with your tongue...that usually works for me.

I'm not even gonna tell you what that just did for me...damn...where's the towel?

[jmsmith12345]

I'm not even gonna tell you what that just did for me...damn...where's the towel?

I never knew you cared, but I think your light switch says it all. :D

[HappyBob]

Good morning ... from Michigan. I guess you figured it out. I am new here and haven't chatted in years. I hope I can find a site/room with people. I have or think I have entered 3-5 rooms and haven't found anyone in them. What the heck!!!! LOL

[HappyBob]

Darn!!!! I guess I will say Bye for now.

[Atrebla Rose]

Good morning ... from Michigan. I guess you figured it out. I am new here and haven't chatted in years. I hope I can find a site/room with people. I have or think I have entered 3-5 rooms and haven't found anyone in them. What the heck!!!! LOL

Hi Happy Bob and welcome,,,you are in threads not chat rooms. there are lots of us here, it just isnt instant messaging. THe chat rooms are at the top under Married Chat Rooms,,,,,good luck and I hope you find what your looking for!

[1sxymama]

hi happy bob

[Dipstick51]

I was the shyest person on the face of the earth. look at me now lol

[Iowa Guy 77]

Hey sometimes you just have to jump in and say scew it to everyone else. But you have to listen to what your heart.mind is telling ya too.

[sexycoco]

welcome, there are easy chat days and Hard ones it depends on the crowd, just feel your way around it gets better

[curiousity]

Welcome Cliff, you will get the hang of it... there are great people here

[wan2b]

If you've gotten this far, you need not worry. You'll probably be one of the better ones.