View Full Version : Is flirting healthy?
Norfolkdave
12-17-2005, 01:10 PM
Ok then why do we flirt, why do you like to flirt:lf
Sunfiresix
12-17-2005, 01:13 PM
For me usually It just feels good to get a nice reply. I enjoy making people(women especially) good.
wheelhead69
12-17-2005, 06:06 PM
Because ive been married for 14yrs not much flirtting going on here at home just a whole lot of BARNEY on tv.
Traxster
12-17-2005, 07:29 PM
I think flirting is a fun way of meeting people and making new friends!!!!
Sandy
12-17-2005, 07:32 PM
i like to flirt and joke and cut up, everybody feels good then, i like that
Traxster
12-17-2005, 08:20 PM
I agree Mark.................
bonzzz4292
12-17-2005, 10:51 PM
i like to flirt with everyone..makes all feel good . it is also a good way to meet new people that you might not have said anything to in person for one reason or another.
bonzzz4292
12-17-2005, 10:52 PM
I agree Mark.................
mywifemark is my wife trax
:wa:
spare_change
12-18-2005, 06:25 AM
mywifemark is my wife trax
:wa:
Interesting response, bonzzzz. A message in there, perhaps?
Traxster
12-18-2005, 04:15 PM
Sorry MywifeMark..............................
bluevirgo69
01-01-2006, 02:37 AM
Is flirting healthy?? I tend to do flirt online, but I am finding it to be distasteful with other people that want to flirt with me. I do love my husband and he knows that I am a big flirt, but that is all that I am. I find myself that when I am asked if I am married I tend to say "NO". Sometimes, I am honest about my marriage. I am not sure what I am trying to say here. This is my first time doing this. I am sorry if I don't make any sense.
Barkiss
01-01-2006, 02:41 AM
Is flirting healthy?? I tend to do flirt online, but I am finding it to be distasteful with other people that want to flirt with me. I do love my husband and he knows that I am a big flirt, but that is all that I am. I find myself that when I am asked if I am married I tend to say "NO". Sometimes, I am honest about my marriage. I am not sure what I am trying to say here. This is my first time doing this. I am sorry if I don't make any sense.
Welcome Bluevirgo! I think you will find many of the same situations on this site. I hope you take the time to read some of the forums, and decide to stick around for a bit. I think you will find it very rewarding. :)
bluevirgo69
01-01-2006, 02:48 AM
Thank you for your reply. I think I will stick around. I was referred by a member here and found it quite interesting. I hope to meet more people here. Hope that we can become friends.
spare_change
01-01-2006, 03:11 AM
Welcome, blue! We all wrestle with these issues from time to time --- some of us find an answer, and some of us never find one. Stick around -- maybe it will all work out.
sir1279
01-01-2006, 03:23 AM
to bluevirgo I see nothing wrong with flirting on line, sometimes people just need enjoy themselfs.
Norfolkdave
01-01-2006, 08:40 AM
Hello bluevirgo welcome to this site, like spare says some find it exciting others hang back, just come in and say how you feel and we will answer you.
Sandy
01-01-2006, 10:09 AM
welcome blue to our site. there is nothing wrong with flirting. it doesn't mean your cheating, nor are you dead. on this site we joke and flirt and cut-up. the other nice thing about this place is when you need a friend to help you, we all rally together to be there for each other. so many good things can come out of flirting. :wa:
Sunfiresix
01-01-2006, 10:38 AM
Welcome Blue! it seems you will fit right in, this is a great group and a lot of fun. Flirting is natural, makes both the flirter and the flirtee feel good, even if it is secretly. yea spouses can get upset but they usually know it is just something that happens.
Welcome Blue!:wa: REally nice people here from all over the world!:D I really enjoy this site and hope you do too!
romancer522000
01-01-2006, 11:48 AM
Flirting is like any activity in life , moderation must be maintained . I love to flirt , always have and I find it keeps my wit sharp and also helps in relationships .. We all love to be flirted with as well as flirt especially if we are in this site , Flirt on all ye Faithful !!!!
Sandy
01-01-2006, 12:45 PM
:lmao
Flirting is like any activity in life , moderation must be maintained . I love to flirt , always have and I find it keeps my wit sharp and also helps in relationships .. We all love to be flirted with as well as flirt especially if we are in this site , Flirt on all ye Faithful !!!!
Flirting is an easy way for me to strike up a conversation!;) Bad part is 99% of the ladies know that is all I am doing! So it makes me an easy target at work!:D
Welcome BlueVirgo and Sir1279.....
Blue, When I first started looking for a site to join I was totally shocked at what people said to me, I thought how can you say this you don't even know me. It didn't take me long to realize thats the whole idea, the reason for flirting. We don't know each other really,we are not going to get in trouble (well maybe if you are hiding it and get caught).
I had to find just the right place for me, with people I could have fun with and still respect, I did not want to converse with freaks or pushy people. Penny & Heaterman's Married and Flirting site is for me. Here I can be a fun flirty person , I can't be that in my real life.
My hubby is here also and we have fun on the site together. I know he thinks these other ladies are hot and desirable,(I wish one of them would give him a proper :blowjob: for me:lf ) but its me he's in bed with at night. He knows I like to chat/flirt back and forth with some of the guys....some of them ( oh Spare, oh Spare you big sexy hunk of man) I can't hardly get through the day without reading their flirty remarks and words of wisdom. Hank better not ever drop me off in Colorado cause I'd have to look Spare up. ;) And I better not ever leave Hank in Boston cause he'd be wandering the streets callling......
"Penny, Oh Penny where are you". :D
Flirting will only ever be what you want it to be.....stick around for a while, see if you like us, have fun....we do :wa: Oh by the way, Flirting has been very healthy for me. I have never felt better about myself.
Welcome, blue! We all wrestle with these issues from time to time --- some of us find an answer, and some of us never find one. Stick around -- maybe it will all work out.
You said you want to wrestle...
belfast
01-01-2006, 02:30 PM
;) Wlecome BlueVirgo it is just harmless fun. Like anthing else in life it depends on your expectations. The people here are great and very friendly. When I first came to this site i wondered about my own life and what was wrong with me. Well after being here I found out there is nothing wrong with me. Not all the stuff here is about flirting but when it is! it is just fun. Enjoy the site and your husband
:knuddel: :kk :)
Norfolkdave
01-01-2006, 02:48 PM
Heck Mary some speech........................some speech I must admitt
Penny
01-01-2006, 03:00 PM
Welcome BlueVirgo and Sir1279 :kk
Who refered you here?
belfast
01-01-2006, 03:06 PM
:knuddel: Hi Penny Happy New Year:kk :wa: :)
Penny
01-01-2006, 03:07 PM
Same to you :kk
Sandy
01-01-2006, 03:13 PM
penny blue is one of mark's friends known her a long time, shes really sweet.
Penny
01-01-2006, 03:18 PM
Cool I will bump her up then, So much easier when a person comes with a refferal :)
penny blue is one of mark's friends known her a long time, shes really sweet.
Annie
01-01-2006, 03:54 PM
I think that if you have a flirtatious nature, suppressing it is unhealthy.
sweetgapeach
01-01-2006, 05:03 PM
I think it's good for someones self esteem , its a form of acceptance kinda . I tend to try to make ppl feel Welcome . As I say, I never meet a stranger . I like to know that I am still attracted ,and that other men see that , besides my Husband .
surfnchat
01-01-2006, 06:06 PM
Welcome Blue! :wa:
I think flirting is great and a good release for stress. I think you'll have plenty of fun here. ;)
italian_princess0420
01-01-2006, 06:41 PM
hey blue:wa: ...flirting can be seen as a good and bad thing...it just depends on how people look at it...EVERYTHIN has pros and cons. I have a wonderful boyfriend that i love soo much...but when i get around guys that i know, i tend to wanna flirt w/them as well. I dont take it to the extream though, and my bf knows that im playing around.
Waltert
01-01-2006, 06:53 PM
Mark has FRIENDS! :D
penny blue is one of mark's friends known her a long time, shes really sweet.
italian_princess0420
01-01-2006, 09:57 PM
penny blue is one of mark's friends known her a long time, shes really sweet.
oh god....who else is comming here that is in the "circle of friends" of mark and sandy?:whee:
Sandy
01-02-2006, 12:41 AM
any and everybody we can get to. lol its a great site. your hooked aren't you ?
:na :na
italian_princess0420
01-02-2006, 12:45 AM
well i guess u can say that...i havent left yet have i?...
sir1279
01-02-2006, 12:46 AM
Welcome BlueVirgo and Sir1279 :kk
Who refered you here?I found your site by accident and tought it looked interesting.
Heck Mary some speech........................some speech I must admitt
I should have posted this first
"WARNING, MARYCAT IS OFF HER MEDICATION...SHE MAY BE HAZARDOUS FOR YOUR HEALTH" :whee:
Sorry, if I got carried away.....maybe I need to be spanked:nu
please.........;)
sir1279
01-02-2006, 12:48 AM
I found this site by accident and thought it looked interesting. Still rying to figure out everything though.
I found this site by accident and thought it looked interesting. Still rying to figure out everything though.
Stick with us....most of us are easy......;)
italian_princess0420
01-02-2006, 12:51 AM
lol
Feelgoode
01-02-2006, 02:06 AM
:ch Hi Blue,
I find flirting healthy, but as it is cyber flirting, it is safe. I am happily married, but I also like to go online and be flirtatious and have fun. It is entertaining, and I like chatting with people on line.
This site is very nice and friendly. I signed up in December, and find people here are all nice. It is also what you make of it. So...have fun.
Best wishes,
Feelgoode
bonzzz4292
01-02-2006, 12:25 PM
welcome my friend glad to see that you are intrested in the site.
flirting is a good way to relieve the stress of the day for me.
belfast
01-02-2006, 12:33 PM
Stick with us....most of us are easy......;)
Wow with an outfit like that Mary u got me hooked:kk :knuddel:
belfast
01-02-2006, 12:35 PM
any and everybody we can get to. lol its a great site. your hooked aren't you ?
:na :na
Well if they are as nice and friendy as you and mark the bring them on:knuddel: :kk :wa:
Wow with an outfit like that Mary u got me hooked:kk :knuddel:
It is nice isn't it ;)
belfast
01-02-2006, 12:39 PM
Stick with us....most of us are easy......;)
Easy hell i like a challange :kk :)
belfast
01-02-2006, 01:29 PM
It is nice isn't it ;)
Just as nice as the lady who wears it all my love:kk
Just as nice as the lady who wears it all my love:kk
Damn....:kk
belfast
01-02-2006, 05:27 PM
Damn....:kk
Why dam ur sweet really :kk
sir1279
01-02-2006, 07:04 PM
marycat looking at the picture by your name makes me wonder who would want to argue with you.....me I would just think of hugging you....
Zpanther
01-02-2006, 08:58 PM
Is flirting healthy?
hmmmmmm..... like a lotta things, kinda depends on who, what, where, when and how I 'spose. I've heard it can lead to swelling or wetness in the groin area, occasionally can result in a bruised ego or increased heartrate... and it's possible to even get your face slapped or your nose punched. But I've also heard it can have it's upside too.... and well, it's not the only unhealthy activity I've been known to engage in, soooooo..... ;)
There are degrees of flirting, such as the playful banter in line at the grocery store, just because the man in front of you is hot and you want to feel that rush of energy surge through your body when he smiles at you. There is the serious flirting that happens when someone is tryign to get laid. And there is everything in between, which is what seems to happen here.
For me, flirting here helps me stretch my sexual muscles, talk to some really hot guys, and feel that little rush every time I log on. Flirting makes me smile, makes me laugh, and makes me feel good about myself. I have no intention of having an affair -though God knows I've thought of it- and this site is my way of getting it done without the guilt or the lies.
Zpanther
01-02-2006, 10:25 PM
There are degrees of flirting, such as the playful banter in line at the grocery store, just because the man in front of you is hot and you want to feel that rush of energy surge through your body when he smiles at you. There is the serious flirting that happens when someone is tryign to get laid. And there is everything in between, which is what seems to happen here.
For me, flirting here helps me stretch my sexual muscles, talk to some really hot guys, and feel that little rush every time I log on. Flirting makes me smile, makes me laugh, and makes me feel good about myself. I have no intention of having an affair -though God knows I've thought of it- and this site is my way of getting it done without the guilt or the lies.
So I guess everything you do on here is 'in-between,' being as you have no intention of having an affair. Could you............. well..... could you give us an example or two of what you might do if you were actually trying to get laid.
Pretty much everything I've ever said here and then some!
When I was single, I never hesitated to let a man know when I was interested, and I haven't changed; only my circumstances have.
Penny
01-02-2006, 11:30 PM
Your doing fine Enjoy your stay :kk
I found this site by accident and thought it looked interesting. Still rying to figure out everything though.
bluevirgo69
01-03-2006, 12:39 AM
[B]Thanks to all who have replied. I really appreciate the comments. So far, I think I have enjoyed myself so far on this site and I have Mark to thank for that. Keep in touch...
Why dam ur sweet really :kk
That was a good Dammnnnnnnnnn ;)
hmmmmmm..... like a lotta things, kinda depends on who, what, where, when and how I 'spose. I've heard it can lead to swelling or wetness in the groin area, occasionally can result in a bruised ego or increased heartrate... and it's possible to even get your face slapped or your nose punched. But I've also heard it can have it's upside too.... and well, it's not the only unhealthy activity I've been known to engage in, soooooo..... ;)
I can relate to the wetness in the groin area ;)
There are degrees of flirting, such as the playful banter in line at the grocery store, just because the man in front of you is hot and you want to feel that rush of energy surge through your body when he smiles at you. There is the serious flirting that happens when someone is tryign to get laid. And there is everything in between, which is what seems to happen here.
For me, flirting here helps me stretch my sexual muscles, talk to some really hot guys, and feel that little rush every time I log on. Flirting makes me smile, makes me laugh, and makes me feel good about myself. I have no intention of having an affair -though God knows I've thought of it- and this site is my way of getting it done without the guilt or the lies.
Very good Jazzy......the rush is great....One day after work not too long ago, Hank ran me to the grocery....everyone was in a hurry to get home. I passed a man in the aisle who looked like a hardworking construction worker, ya know the look....grubby, sweaty, hair all touseled, jacket on crooked....well anyway- he gave me a quick wink and a smile....god only knows why, I think he was just a nice happy kind of guy - but it sure made my day. I was so happy I told Hank as soon as I got in the car. Isn't it something that sometimes it only takes a little wink and a smile to make someones day.
marycat looking at the picture by your name makes me wonder who would want to argue with you.....me I would just think of hugging you....
What a nice comment.....However, I am much more huggable than my avatar.
belfast
01-03-2006, 01:10 PM
:knuddel: :) Well mary cat here is a wink and a smile for you.
:knuddel: :) Well mary cat here is a wink and a smile for you.
Thanks :kk Now if I don't start kissing the guys in the grocery I'll be ok ;)
belfast
01-03-2006, 03:29 PM
Thanks :kk Now if I don't start kissing the guys in the grocery I'll be ok ;)
Ok Mary if you do will you tell me where you shop so that I can go and get my kiss :kk :knuddel:
Ok Mary if you do will you tell me where you shop so that I can go and get my kiss :kk :knuddel:
Well you're in Michigan...it wouldn't be far to drive
Cotties
01-04-2006, 03:27 AM
Has your tolerance to Hanks spanking increased Marycat? I hope he gives you a few extra smacks for me when he reads this.:sp: I can relate to the wetness in the groin area ;)
Has your tolerance to Hanks spanking increased Marycat? I hope he gives you a few extra smacks for me when he reads this.:sp:
Aww, I don't need a spanking...isn't a wet groin a good thing?
My tolerance for spanking has not increased :na
belfast
01-04-2006, 03:09 PM
Well you're in Michigan...it wouldn't be far to drive
No it wouldnt.. :wa:
No it wouldnt.. :wa:
:nu But we won't do that now will we...
Traxster
01-05-2006, 01:02 AM
Hey Blue.I tend to agree with you............Flirting can be fun if not taken to seriously and done tastefully!!!!!!!!!!
Tastefully? Guess that rules me out...
Nice to see you back Traxster!
Traxster
01-05-2006, 01:22 AM
Jazzy...............if it taste good hah??????????????
I'm always tasty honey, but not always tasteful...
tiger50
01-05-2006, 06:24 AM
Aha..... i have had some judgement passed on me here... in as much as once a cheater, always a cheater
May i now say.... if you flirt,(are you cheating??) it may well be the desire of something more, perhaps, once a flirter, always a flirter...
:nu
Norfolkdave
01-05-2006, 06:27 AM
I enjoy flirting, this site is harmless fun and the flirting different, here its jovality, and erotic yes but we can control it as we dont meet as such, each of us has our own little world.
tiger50
01-05-2006, 07:47 AM
know u do Dave and its cool.... u horny old bugger.... just get a bit pissed at some people on here who like to be a judge and deal in generalisations :drink:
Norfolkdave
01-05-2006, 08:13 AM
know u do Dave and its cool.... u horny old bugger.... just get a bit pissed at some people on here who like to be a judge and deal in generalisations :drink:
Hit the nail on the head secrets out now shit never mind...lOl, I can see how you feel, dont let it get you down my friend, theres an old saying you know, " What go's around comes around":D
I don't to whom you're referring Tiger, but it's not up to any of us to pass judgement here.
I think there are some people who, for one reason or another don't seem capable of monogamy, but that's there business. People cheat for so many reasons; more than I want to start listing here.
As far as flirting goes, I have always been a flirt and see no reason to change. I don't consider flirting cheating. I sleep with my husband, I am committed to him for better or for worse, and I looove men! I can't get enough of them! Their scent, their unique energy, their attention, the timbre of their voices, yummy! Nothing wrong with appreciating the opposite sex; it's when it turns into a physical relationship that it's cheating.
*dragging my poor, dilapitaded soapbox to another thread...*
Aha..... i have had some judgement passed on me here... in as much as once a cheater, always a cheater
May i now say.... if you flirt,(are you cheating??) it may well be the desire of something more, perhaps, once a flirter, always a flirter...
:nu
GeekMaster
01-05-2006, 02:05 PM
I don't to whom you're referring Tiger, but it's not up to any of us to pass judgement here.
I think there are some people who, for one reason or another don't seem capable of monogamy, but that's there business. People cheat for so many reasons; more than I want to start listing here.
As far as flirting goes, I have always been a flirt and see no reason to change. I don't consider flirting cheating. I sleep with my husband, I am committed to him for better or for worse, and I looove men! I can't get enough of them! Their scent, their unique energy, their attention, the timbre of their voices, yummy! Nothing wrong with appreciating the opposite sex; it's when it turns into a physical relationship that it's cheating.
*dragging my poor, dilapitaded soapbox to another thread...*
I just love a lady on a soapbox!!!
Norfolkdave
01-05-2006, 02:08 PM
I just love a lady on a soapbox!!!
You would................Happy New Year:D
spare_change
01-05-2006, 04:08 PM
I don't to whom you're referring Tiger, but it's not up to any of us to pass judgement here.
But, I think, in fairness Jazzy, that you will admit that there are some on this site that are very quick to pass judgement. In fact, we had a whole thread here where the consensus was exactly as Tiger says --- "once a cheater, always a cheater."
Absolutely Spare, I've seen a bit of finger pointing here and there. Only from the perfect people though...
belfast
01-05-2006, 04:42 PM
Well if flirting is cheating the the rate of infidelty has just tripled. We are all just human and always feel good when someone of the opposite sex thinks that something about us is attractive. I know I do and I am sure the ladies do.
Think about the name of this site and there is your answer.
We have fun with the threads and the chat yet we never see each other.
Thanks to all of you for this wonderful forum that we can express our feeling and gain new freind
:wa: :knuddel: :kk
And thanks for the other night in the chat room Irish! *snicker*
belfast
01-05-2006, 07:30 PM
And thanks for the other night in the chat room Irish! *snicker*
My pleasure anytime lovely lady:knuddel:
Cotties
01-05-2006, 09:31 PM
No it not always a good thing... if it stays wet for too long women often try to rape their husbands when all he wants is a :blowjob:
can also make a mess on the sofa waiting for hubby to come home:D
Aww, I don't need a spanking...isn't a wet groin a good thing?
My tolerance for spanking has not increased :na
Cotties
01-05-2006, 10:22 PM
Is flirting cheating........... I think the occasional headjob doesn't count as cheating...
as long as you like it and not love it..
I work with with 90 women and 5 men... these women get in a line in the mornings so I can tell them one at a time how good they look today.. I feel like a piece of meat and just love it... it makes them feel good too. it's also free... ;)
No it not always a good thing... if it stays wet for too long women often try to rape their husbands when all he wants is a :blowjob:
can also make a mess on the sofa waiting for hubby to come home:D
Well shit ( sorry, I say shit alot) ....see we can't make you happy all the time either...we better just keep on flirting, maybe our methods and physical responses will improve with time.;)
firefly
01-05-2006, 11:28 PM
I think flirting is pretty harmless. I do know that this site is great and I always feel better about myself after being here. Everyone needs a self esteem boost sometimes and that is what flirting does. Plus I notice I flirt more with the hubby which leads to other lovely things! :sex
I think flirting is pretty harmless. I do know that this site is great and I always feel better about myself after being here. Everyone needs a self esteem boost sometimes and that is what flirting does. Plus I notice I flirt more with the hubby which leads to other lovely things! :sex
Exactly....thats what happens with us too. We have a lot more fun now that we have met all of these lovely people :hp:
And by the way, nice to see you firefly.
Define headjob, Cotties. Do you mean messing with your head, like an ego boost? Or a blowjob?
Is flirting cheating........... I think the occasional headjob doesn't count as cheating...
as long as you like it and not love it..
I work with with 90 women and 5 men... these women get in a line in the mornings so I can tell them one at a time how good they look today.. I feel like a piece of meat and just love it... it makes them feel good too. it's also free... ;)
firefly
01-05-2006, 11:40 PM
Exactly....thats what happens with us too. We have a lot more fun now that we have met all of these lovely people :hp:
And by the way, nice to see you firefly.
Thank you Marycat! I have missed this place and everyone here!
And we missed you! Welcome back sis!:wa:
Cotties
01-05-2006, 11:58 PM
As a married man I like the answer you chose...the ego boost.... I'm not encouraging anyone to run off and get their little fella cleaned by a stranger..
Define headjob, Cotties. Do you mean messing with your head, like an ego boost? Or a blowjob?
firefly
01-06-2006, 12:09 AM
And we missed you! Welcome back sis!:wa:
:wa: Thank you!
Barkiss
01-06-2006, 12:38 AM
:wa: Thank you!
No kidding..Welcome back firefly!!! :)
firefly
01-06-2006, 12:43 AM
No kidding..Welcome back firefly!!! :)
Barky! :knuddel: I think I have missed you most of all!
Barkiss
01-06-2006, 12:44 AM
Barky! :knuddel: I think I have missed you most of all!
Oh don't tease me...I don't handle it well...;)
firefly
01-06-2006, 12:49 AM
Oh don't tease me...I don't handle it well...;)
*sighs* I know....we are going to have to work on your endurance.
Barkiss
01-06-2006, 12:49 AM
*sighs* I know....we are going to have to work on your endurance.
shhhhhhh!!! That was between you and me...;)
firefly
01-06-2006, 01:05 AM
shhhhhhh!!! That was between you and me...;)
Oops! Sorry studly!
tiger50
01-06-2006, 09:37 AM
But, I think, in fairness Jazzy, that you will admit that there are some on this site that are very quick to pass judgement. In fact, we had a whole thread here where the consensus was exactly as Tiger says --- "once a cheater, always a cheater."
Thanks for the support mate...
now my soap box says..... Non illegitimie carburundum.... and i wont. :drink:
Sandy
01-06-2006, 09:44 AM
i don't believe flirting is cheating, its all done in fun, we all new a goods boost. welcome back firefly.
I totally believe its healthy....I have never felt so good:gs
tiger50
01-06-2006, 09:57 AM
I don't to whom you're referring Tiger, but it's not up to any of us to pass judgement here.
I think there are some people who, for one reason or another don't seem capable of monogamy, but that's there business. People cheat for so many reasons; more than I want to start listing here.
As far as flirting goes, I have always been a flirt and see no reason to change. I don't consider flirting cheating. I sleep with my husband, I am committed to him for better or for worse, and I looove men! I can't get enough of them! Their scent, their unique energy, their attention, the timbre of their voices, yummy! Nothing wrong with appreciating the opposite sex; it's when it turns into a physical relationship that it's cheating.
*dragging my poor, dilapitaded soapbox to another thread...*
wat would u say jazz about a monogamous affair????? if it ends, it will never happen again. I just coudnt do it.... the reasons it started, the reasons it endures, and the reasons it may end , are my business, you can never understand it.... and i dont expect you to..... I shared a bit of this on here... am now sorry i did.. but it is me.... To all those who like to flirt, cool, To those who like to pass judgement... PISS ORF...
Now how many friends do i have left?????
wat would u say jazz about a monogamous affair????? if it ends, it will never happen again. I just coudnt do it.... the reasons it started, the reasons it endures, and the reasons it may end , are my business, you can never understand it.... and i dont expect you to..... I shared a bit of this on here... am now sorry i did.. but it is me.... To all those who like to flirt, cool, To those who like to pass judgement... PISS ORF...
Now how many friends do i have left?????
You have friends left ...don't get your panties in a ruffle... :knuddel: As my kids say "Its all good"
tiger50
01-06-2006, 10:16 AM
awww thanks baby.... yeh my kid says that too....
belfast
01-06-2006, 01:52 PM
Well if you dont believe it is healthy why are you here. I have felt so much better since I came to this site. If you log onto a site that says Married but Flirting then your flirting.
And there are other discussion a man and a woman can have besides flirting
Oh shit did I steal Jazzy's soapbox. She will kill me when she finds it gone;)
Norfolkdave
01-06-2006, 01:54 PM
Well if you dont believe it is healthy why are you here. I have felt so much better since I came to this site. If you log onto a site that says Married but Flirting then your flirting.
And there are other discussion a man and a woman can have besides flirting
Oh shit did I steal Jazzy's soapbox. She will kill me when she finds it gone;)
LOL Jesus man, give it back, without it it will be hell.:D
Traxster
01-06-2006, 08:33 PM
Well jazzy tasteful isn't as important as tasty!!!! low carbs???????:lmao
Sandy
01-06-2006, 08:58 PM
lol belfast quick here she comes. :lmao :nu
belfast
01-06-2006, 09:00 PM
Thanks better get me ruuning shoes on or I am dead meat:knuddel:
lol belfast quick here she comes. :lmao :nu
Irish, you can borrow my soapbox anytime! You know that!:kk
Well if you dont believe it is healthy why are you here. I have felt so much better since I came to this site. If you log onto a site that says Married but Flirting then your flirting.
And there are other discussion a man and a woman can have besides flirting
Oh shit did I steal Jazzy's soapbox. She will kill me when she finds it gone;)
Maureen
01-07-2006, 02:21 AM
Welcome blue! :3welcome: I just started getting involved & it's a great place. You get alot of healthy love from everyone. It's not creepy but warm and toasty. Like a blanket & hot chocolate on a snowy day. Hope you enjoy it as much.:lf
Hey Maureen! Nice to see you posting! Great job sis! :wa:
Keep an eye on this lady, guys! She can do the can-can like a pro!
tiger50
01-07-2006, 09:27 AM
Hi Maurene welcome ... here and from downunder
Norfolkdave
01-07-2006, 10:38 AM
Hey Maureen! Nice to see you posting! Great job sis! :wa:
Keep an eye on this lady, guys! She can do the can-can like a pro!
She can, can she, I love a woman who can,:D
romancer522000
01-07-2006, 10:40 AM
HMMMMM i love a pro being that I am such an amateur at this .
You're doing just fine Romancer! Just fine!
belfast
01-07-2006, 03:37 PM
I confess Jazzy Mywife mark made me do it Honest :knuddel:
Irish, you can borrow my soapbox anytime! You know that!:kk
belfast
01-07-2006, 03:40 PM
Welcome Maureen.
You will get out of this site what you want. So far i have enjoyed the chat and banter. They are all great people here.
BTW thanks for the table dance the other nite.:kk :knuddel:
QUOTE=Maureen]Welcome blue! :3welcome: I just started getting involved & it's a great place. You get alot of healthy love from everyone. It's not creepy but warm and toasty. Like a blanket & hot chocolate on a snowy day. Hope you enjoy it as much.:lf[/QUOTE]
romancer522000
01-07-2006, 04:04 PM
You're doing just fine Romancer! Just fine!
Now tell me my head isnt swelling getting a compliment from Jazzy !!!! wow also heading to the showers !!!!!!!!
belfast
01-07-2006, 04:58 PM
Well lets be honest Dave have you met a woman you did not like LOL :wa:
She can, can she, I love a woman who can,:D
Penny
01-07-2006, 05:19 PM
Is she a real life friend of yours?
Hey Maureen! Nice to see you posting! Great job sis! :wa:
Keep an eye on this lady, guys! She can do the can-can like a pro!
No, just met her in chat one night, and she seemed so fun and interesting, we all encouraged her to stick around and post a bit!
Sandy
01-07-2006, 11:55 PM
lol ok belfast you asked for it now. :nu :sp:
bluevirgo69
01-08-2006, 02:02 AM
I enjoy it emensly. I liking it more and more as I visit here....Thanx
tulsasurgeon
01-08-2006, 02:30 PM
I love flirting with married women,,,Hi Virgo
Norfolkdave
01-08-2006, 02:34 PM
Well lets be honest Dave have you met a woman you did not like LOL :wa:
Yes once LOL, we wont go into that, lets say a pike looks better.......:lmao
belfast
01-08-2006, 03:53 PM
Moi in toruble ..Now I had best run from the both of you . Only open my mouth to change feet:knuddel:
lol ok belfast you asked for it now. :nu :sp:
Sandy
01-08-2006, 04:44 PM
lol, what feet belfast, you should be choking on both of them right now. :D :nu
belfast
01-08-2006, 04:46 PM
Yeah I am. But still gonna run from both of ya. Wait amI going to get a spanking ;)
lol, what feet belfast, you should be choking on both of them right now. :D :nu
Sandy
01-08-2006, 11:12 PM
lol no i'll let you off the hook this time. but if you do it again look out. :nu :na
Cotties
01-09-2006, 01:58 AM
That's beautiful Tiger......I'll still be your friend :knuddel: you have a heart as big as goldwat would u say jazz about a monogamous affair????? if it ends, it will never happen again. I just coudnt do it.... the reasons it started, the reasons it endures, and the reasons it may end , are my business, you can never understand it.... and i dont expect you to..... I shared a bit of this on here... am now sorry i did.. but it is me.... To all those who like to flirt, cool, To those who like to pass judgement... PISS ORF...
Now how many friends do i have left?????
Sandy
01-09-2006, 09:35 AM
aw tiger i like u, i'm sorry if it seemed i passed judgement on you. i wasn't trying to, just saying how i feel. your right i don't anything about your situtation, and even if i did, i can't sit in judgement on anybody, its not my place to. so i would still like to be your friend if thats ok with u. i like the way you post, and your sense of humor. :wa:
I would still say it's not for any of us to judge another's decision to cheat or not. Everyone's situation is unique and until someone walks a mile in someone else's shoes, the yhave no right to pass judgement (heck, that still doesn't give them the right!)
I'm behidn you on this one Tiger.
wat would u say jazz about a monogamous affair????? if it ends, it will never happen again. I just coudnt do it.... the reasons it started, the reasons it endures, and the reasons it may end , are my business, you can never understand it.... and i dont expect you to..... I shared a bit of this on here... am now sorry i did.. but it is me.... To all those who like to flirt, cool, To those who like to pass judgement... PISS ORF...
Now how many friends do i have left?????
Waltert
01-09-2006, 07:52 PM
Of course flirting is good for your health, that is why were all here for our health right!
It is good to get that old heart pumping!
belfast
01-10-2006, 11:04 AM
Your right someone once said
"Dont put both of your feet in you mouth at once or you won't have a leg to stand on"
So there I am without a leg to stand on and choking :knuddel: and:kk
lol, what feet belfast, you should be choking on both of them right now. :D :nu
KIRA187
01-10-2006, 11:10 AM
Hey Maureen! Nice to see you posting! Great job sis!
Keep an eye on this lady, guys! She can do the can-can like a pro!
So now thee were three in the dancing troupe? Jazz, Lee and now Mo! I better get my ticket for the next show. The duet was hot but I have a feeling the trio is going to be HAWT!!!!
That's right Walter! Get that heart rate up! That boosts your metabolism burns calories, improves circulation..hey! Sounds like flirting really is good for your health!!
Of course flirting is good for your health, that is why were all here for our health right!
It is good to get that old heart pumping!
Yes! Lena and I were doing our show on the banquet table in chat (that damn table has more mileage on it than my soapbox!!) and we saw Maureen getting into the music, and asked her to join us! She was kicking up her heels to beat the band! Wait until you see her!
Better call now for reserved seating; next show is sure to be a sellout!
So now thee were three in the dancing troupe? Jazz, Lee and now Mo! I better get my ticket for the next show. The duet was hot but I have a feeling the trio is going to be HAWT!!!!
Norfolkdave
01-10-2006, 01:06 PM
Who is this Maureen, if shes this good then I,ll have a couple tickets, how though will I know I wont waste my money
belfast
01-10-2006, 02:28 PM
Well guys don't get jealous but this was my birthday present..thank you ladies for the best birthday ever. Bye the way Jazzy tounge on the CPR was a nice touch:knuddel: and :kk ladies
Yes! Lena and I were doing our show on the banquet table in chat (that damn table has more mileage on it than my soapbox!!) and we saw Maureen getting into the music, and asked her to join us! She was kicking up her heels to beat the band! Wait until you see her!
Better call now for reserved seating; next show is sure to be a sellout!
quax999
01-10-2006, 03:40 PM
If flirting wasn't healthy, would any of us be here?
It was our pleasure Irish! Only our finest routine for such a fine man!
You liked the tongue on the mouth to mouth segment? Glad to hear it! That wasn't a regular part of the show, so I think I'll have to write that in, especially if you're going to be attending!
I'm also glad you liked my little red corset costume with the matching pasties! Now, if you're finished wearing it as a hat, would you mind terribly if I got it back?;)
Well guys don't get jealous but this was my birthday present..thank you ladies for the best birthday ever. Bye the way Jazzy tounge on the CPR was a nice touch:knuddel: and :kk ladies
belfast
01-10-2006, 07:08 PM
After I get my picture taken in it so that so that I can show off to the guys:knuddel: and :kk
It was our pleasure Irish! Only our finest routine for such a fine man!
You liked the tongue on the mouth to mouth segment? Glad to hear it! That wasn't a regular part of the show, so I think I'll have to write that in, especially if you're going to be attending!
I'm also glad you liked my little red corset costume with the matching pasties! Now, if you're finished wearing it as a hat, would you mind terribly if I got it back?;)
Good idea! I'll just sit myself down here on your lap and smile for the camera!
Sandy
01-10-2006, 09:11 PM
do u guys want me to take the pic for u ?
Good idea sis! Seeing as I'm topless, you may be my best chance of getting the picture taken sometime in the next week!
Do you honestly think that someone who can keep up with Lena and I could ever be a waste of money?!
Who is this Maureen, if shes this good then I,ll have a couple tickets, how though will I know I wont waste my money
belfast
01-11-2006, 09:24 AM
No I dont want you to take the picture I want you and Lenna right there with Jazzy and I:knuddel: and:kk
do u guys want me to take the pic for u ?
belfast
01-11-2006, 09:29 AM
Trust me Dave it would not be a waste of money. I still can't get the smile of my face....... :lf :lf ;) ;)
Who is this Maureen, if shes this good then I,ll have a couple tickets, how though will I know I wont waste my money
belfast
01-11-2006, 09:36 AM
Move over just a little Jazzy your blocking out Lena.. And as long as your topless I will never look straight into the camera :lf :lf :kk :knuddel: :kk
Good idea sis! Seeing as I'm topless, you may be my best chance of getting the picture taken sometime in the next week!
Norfolkdave
01-11-2006, 10:21 AM
Good idea! I'll just sit myself down here on your lap and smile for the camera!
The lense has cracked:lmao
Norfolkdave
01-11-2006, 10:23 AM
Trust me Dave it would not be a waste of money. I still can't get the smile of my face....... :lf :lf ;) ;)
This is the evil trade, stirring one up and one cant see anything:lmao
That sounds very nice! You beautiful goddess you!
Good idea! I'll just sit myself down here on your lap and smile for the camera!
eroticjoy
01-29-2006, 02:03 AM
When i first got on the net about 4 years ago... my hubby and i were seperated.. and i had profiles filled out on dating sites that i was divorced.. until i met a guy and we dated about a year and i finally had to tell him the truth... was a hard lesson to learn... i NEVER do that anymore..especially sence he moved back in last year... Yeah im a BIG flirt and i enjoy it and who doesnt like being flirted with.. isnt that why we are all here? I m a little envious of those who can do it openly.. wish that were my case.
lewers smith
01-29-2006, 02:37 AM
i think flirting is very healthy
Leatherman
01-30-2006, 01:53 AM
it is healthy and makes you look better, it could even be required in my opinion, it's a lot of fun when your with your mate and both of you are flirting with others just mere inches from each other, yes, grades will count toward the final score.
Rainmaker
02-02-2006, 02:46 PM
i agree-flirting is very healthy
Marika
02-02-2006, 03:50 PM
Are fantasies real? Can someone create fantasies that seem so real?
Marika
02-02-2006, 03:52 PM
Yes, someone can.
Penny
02-02-2006, 04:11 PM
I think they can
Are fantasies real? Can someone create fantasies that seem so real?
Norfolkdave
04-25-2006, 07:36 AM
Are we all enjoying ourselves, the site, and the people in general, is it as you thought it was, and how do you find the posts.
yaser
04-25-2006, 08:34 AM
[U]Limits of flirting where it starts and where it ends.. and wher the second stage starts[/u
Flirting is healthy if it remains within the limits of flirting...but what are limits of flirting?I would like to know?
Frank_2525
04-25-2006, 10:27 AM
Flirting is a healthy thing for the ego.
clueless32m
11-15-2006, 05:18 PM
What can some harmless flirting hurt?
cherokeered
11-15-2006, 07:14 PM
Flirting is very healthy...it helps to build confidence and allows you to be adventuresome without actually crossing the line....and it builds sexual tension....that can be shared with your partner....or someone...lol
spare_change
11-15-2006, 07:29 PM
Flirting is very healthy...it helps to build confidence and allows you to be adventuresome without actually crossing the line....and it builds sexual tension....that can be shared with your partner....or someone...lol
Of course, it builds sexual tension on both sides -- one of which might not have a partner to share it with
cherokeered
11-15-2006, 07:33 PM
Of course, it builds sexual tension on both sides -- one of which might not have a partner to share it with
Well, then do you want me to explain masturbation to you....
Cherokee....:wa:
spare_change
11-15-2006, 07:34 PM
Well, then do you want me to explain masturbation to you....
Cherokee....:wa:
Hardly an adequate substitute, wouldn't you agree?
cherokeered
11-15-2006, 07:37 PM
Hardly an adequate substitute, wouldn't you agree?
Oh...I don't know...I like the real thing...would prefer it...but since I don't have my partner in this time zone...well, masturbation is a good way to go...lol
Cherokee....
spare_change
11-15-2006, 07:40 PM
Oh...I don't know...I like the real thing...would prefer it...but since I don't have my partner in this time zone...well, masturbation is a good way to go...lol
Cherokee....
So one skips merrily into the bedroom to a waiting, and loving spouse for hours of romantic and frenetic sex, while the other, left alone, does the best he/she can. Doesn't seem fair, does it?
cherokeered
11-15-2006, 07:48 PM
So one skips merrily into the bedroom to a waiting, and loving spouse for hours of romantic and frenetic sex, while the other, left alone, does the best he/she can. Doesn't seem fair, does it?
No...but then I don't skip to a waiting spouse....I sleep in a seperate room from mine...and so does my partner....
I think that if you are flirting...then the assumption is that it's casual...flirting is just a casual thing...it does nothing more than ignite the imagination or inflame the blood....
Flirting can be done anywhere....at anytime...and with anyone....it can be public or private....
And who says the one left is alone?....how does anyone know for sure what is actually done once the two are apart....
spare_change
11-15-2006, 07:57 PM
No...but then I don't skip to a waiting spouse....I sleep in a seperate room from mine...and so does my partner....
I think that if you are flirting...then the assumption is that it's casual...flirting is just a casual thing...it does nothing more than ignite the imagination or inflame the blood....
Flirting can be done anywhere....at anytime...and with anyone....it can be public or private....
And who says the one left is alone?....how does anyone know for sure what is actually done once the two are apart....
Obviously, my situation is no different than yours. I would guess many do not share your assumption that it's casual, but in fact, hope that it is more and are always disappointed when it doesn't. "Does nothing more than ignite the imagination or inflame the blood".... nothing more? Isn't that enough?
As for knowing whether or not the other is left alone -- I suspect we often know - and don't care. So, I guess the question becomes ..... Is flirting essentially a selfish pastime, one in which we get our imagination ignited, and blood inflamed, and don't care about the impact on the other?
Guess I never thought of it that way ----
cherokeered
11-15-2006, 08:11 PM
Obviously, my situation is no different than yours. I would guess many do not share your assumption that it's casual, but in fact, hope that it is more and are always disappointed when it doesn't. "Does nothing more than ignite the imagination or inflame the blood".... nothing more? Isn't that enough?
As for knowing whether or not the other is left alone -- I suspect we often know - and don't care. So, I guess the question becomes ..... Is flirting essentially a selfish pastime, one in which we get our imagination ignited, and blood inflamed, and don't care about the impact on the other?
Guess I never thought of it that way ----
Flirting is very different than having a relationship with someone....I know that some people often are looking for someone to pay attention to them...they crave the attention...and when someone casually flirts with them or is friendly...they can jump to the conclusion that it's a relationship...when all the other person is doing is flirting or revving their engine to get it on later with a spouse...both parties are most likely unaware of either side of the coin unless they take the time to get to know one another....and sometimes people even lie...surprise, surprise....
Flirting on the threads here is supposed to be casual titilating fun...not serious heavy duty relationship stuff....if you take it offline somewhere...messenger, msn, pm's....then the assumption could be made that you are forming a more intimate relationship then perhaps you intended....
As far as flirting...when you flirt, you know what it is and what it is gonna do to you....it's up to you to decide if it's right for you...and if it means anything...the other party I would think would have their own expectations and agenda going as well.....
Cherokee....
Cotties
11-15-2006, 09:56 PM
Is flirting a selfish pasttime. Never. Selfish??
Most of the time I like to flirt with women who don't get much attention. They seem to appreciate it more. You know the women that doesn't feel attractive as everyone else in her work place. She goes and gets a few inches cut off her hair. Well I'll be the first one to tell her I like what she's done and how cute it makes her look. That blushing smile she gives me for recognising it can make my day......as long as it makes her day too
As for knowing whether or not the other is left alone -- I suspect we often know - and don't care. So, I guess the question becomes ..... Is flirting essentially a selfish pastime, one in which we get our imagination ignited, and blood inflamed, and don't care about the impact on the other?
Guess I never thought of it that way ----
In my case it is healthy as long as I don't get caught.
What a sweet thing to do, Cotties! I tried to rep you for that, but it seems I have to spread the wealth!
I think that's such a wonderful gesture.:kk
Is flirting a selfish pasttime. Never. Selfish??
Most of the time I like to flirt with women who don't get much attention. They seem to appreciate it more. You know the women that doesn't feel attractive as everyone else in her work place. She goes and gets a few inches cut off her hair. Well I'll be the first one to tell her I like what she's done and how cute it makes her look. That blushing smile she gives me for recognising it can make my day......as long as it makes her day too
Is flirting healthy? It can boost your spirits, make you feel desirable, be fodder for fantasies, but you have to be careful. Your intentions can be misunderstood or you can hurt the one you love. It's a fine line when you're showing someone some extra attention. So much can get lost in translation.
spare_change
11-16-2006, 12:09 AM
Is flirting a selfish pasttime. Never. Selfish??
Most of the time I like to flirt with women who don't get much attention. They seem to appreciate it more. You know the women that doesn't feel attractive as everyone else in her work place. She goes and gets a few inches cut off her hair. Well I'll be the first one to tell her I like what she's done and how cute it makes her look. That blushing smile she gives me for recognising it can make my day......as long as it makes her day too
It is ALWAYS selfish -- go back and read the threads. Even your comment -- "make your day" -- that's why you did it --so she would be beholden to you.
Cotties
11-16-2006, 12:12 AM
but I'm sharing my feelings. yes my own satisfaction is important but it takes two to make it feel rightIt is ALWAYS selfish -- go back and read the threads. Even your comment -- "make your day" -- that's why you did it --so she would be beholden to you.
yaser
11-16-2006, 12:27 AM
Flirting is very healthy...it helps to build confidence and allows you to be adventuresome without actually crossing the line....and it builds sexual tension....that can be shared with your partner....or someone...lol
But you crossed the line I believe..when will you stop? :kk
yaser
11-16-2006, 12:31 AM
It is healthy because there are ladies and gentlemen who like to talk on sex...I feel very happy when I am wanted and needed. Even it is impossible to meet the one you love..(At leat it is my case).
cherokeered
11-16-2006, 12:57 AM
But you crossed the line I believe..when will you stop? :kk
Yasar...lots of people cross the line...that is why the line is there...and it is a personal chopice as to whether you cross the line or not....but crossing the line is ot right for everyone...and does not necessarily involve love...but it is a mutually crossed line....
Cherokee...it takes two to flirt successfully......:)
You hit the nail on the head, Cher. Very insightful.Yasar...lots of people cross the line...that is why the line is there...and it is a personal chopice as to whether you cross the line or not....but crossing the line is ot right for everyone...and does not necessarily involve love...but it is a mutually crossed line....
Cherokee...it takes two to flirt successfully......:)
yaser
11-16-2006, 01:06 AM
Yasar...lots of people cross the line...that is why the line is there...and it is a personal chopice as to whether you cross the line or not....but crossing the line is ot right for everyone...and does not necessarily involve love...but it is a mutually crossed line....
Cherokee...it takes two to flirt successfully......:)
You have not left antything tome to say hun..
cherokeered
11-16-2006, 01:07 AM
It is ALWAYS selfish -- go back and read the threads. Even your comment -- "make your day" -- that's why you did it --so she would be beholden to you.
You are somewhat right...it is a selfish act to flirt because it is always done to make the you feel better as well...but, it is also not a one-sided act....to be a successful flirtation...and there is a dualtity to the satisfaction that is received...both parties receive the ego boost...
Flirting is an age old form of seduction that is done to draw out an interested subject...let your intentions be known...find out if the attraction is shared ...and then it is up to each individual to go as far into it as they want....
Cherokee....
hotstuff
11-16-2006, 01:21 AM
Well said Jazzy. I'd like to cross the line with you anytime.
I'm flattered, hotstuff, but I have a wonderful man waiting on the other side of that line right now. Well said Jazzy. I'd like to cross the line with you anytime.
spare_change
11-16-2006, 01:26 AM
You are somewhat right...it is a selfish act to flirt because it is always done to make the you feel better as well...but, it is also not a one-sided act....to be a successful flirtation...
Cherokee....
I did it!! I did it!!! I got a "somewhat right" outta Cher!! Will miracles never cease!!
yaser
11-16-2006, 01:29 AM
What can some harmless flirting hurt?
How can you be sure it is harmless?
yaser
11-16-2006, 01:30 AM
I'm flattered, hotstuff, but I have a wonderful man waiting on the other side of that line right now.
I think it is the best aspect of flirting here Jazzy.
Cotties
11-16-2006, 01:41 AM
well today you are completely wrong Spare:D ...it isn't selfish.......I love to give compliments...I did it!! I did it!!! I got a "somewhat right" outta Cher!! Will miracles never cease!!Spare you're lucky Tiger didn't hear you say that
For me, I just enjoy the camraderie here. It's all in fun for me, and I hope the guys here know that too. I think the world of all my friends here, but there's only one man who owns my heart. I think it is the best aspect of flirting here Jazzy.
spare_change
11-16-2006, 01:43 AM
well today you are completely wrong Spare:D ...it isn't selfish.......I love to give compliments...Spare you're lucky Tiger didn't hear you say that
Of course you love to GIVE compliments -- because of what you GET from it.
Tiger?? Pfft!! Bring him on! When I get done, he'll have to spend thirty minutes trying to get the knot out of his tail.
Im going to have to say yes...but to a point. Just like someone said...there is a line. Otherwise why get married? I find it arousing the romance, playing out some fantacies or maybe great ideas and adding conversation with my wife.
I like to flirt, and sure there sometimes is a desire to do more or want more, but thats where I have to stop.
I have what I need and want for life ( yes I do want to flirt with you sexy nice ladies)...I wouldnt want to ruin it over most likely a one time thing.
I have never had any serious offers nor have I made any? Its fun to play and go along with it and get you know some of the wild sides of the gals here! :)
spare_change
11-16-2006, 02:05 AM
Im going to have to say yes...but to a point. Just like someone said...there is a line. Otherwise why get married? I find it arousing the romance, playing out some fantacies or maybe great ideas and adding conversation with my wife.
I like to flirt, and sure there sometimes is a desire to do more or want more, but thats where I have to stop.
I have what I need and want for life ( yes I do want to flirt with you sexy nice ladies)...I wouldnt want to ruin it over most likely a one time thing.
I have never had any serious offers nor have I made any? Its fun to play and go along with it and get you know some of the wild sides of the gals here! :)
But, the question is -- while it is just fun and games for you, and you don't ever intend to go any further, what about the other person? Maybe you are leading them on -- maybe they think there is more -- maybe they want more. Then, you suddenly have to go and they are left disappointed, disillusioned, and empty handed. Is that what you intended? How do you stop it?
Cotties
11-16-2006, 02:07 AM
woo hoo...I'll scratch that one down as a win for me..
give and take.....thats not selfish;)
Of course you love to GIVE compliments -- because of what you GET from it.
Tiger?? Pfft!! Bring him on! When I get done, he'll have to spend thirty minutes trying to get the knot out of his tail.
spare_change
11-16-2006, 02:10 AM
woo hoo...I'll scratch that one down as a win for me..
give and take.....thats not selfish;)
You must be pretty hard up for a win, if you're going to take that one!
Your motives are selfish --
spare_change
11-16-2006, 02:18 AM
Is flirting healthy? It can boost your spirits, make you feel desirable, be fodder for fantasies, but you have to be careful. Your intentions can be misunderstood or you can hurt the one you love. It's a fine line when you're showing someone some extra attention. So much can get lost in translation.
Bingo!
spare_change
11-16-2006, 02:24 AM
For me, I just enjoy the camraderie here. It's all in fun for me, and I hope the guys here know that too. I think the world of all my friends here, but there's only one man who owns my heart.
Blushing ---- and secretly, so damn proud!!
Cotties
11-16-2006, 02:31 AM
thats you wrong twice in a day....I'm going for three...
You must be pretty hard up for a win, if you're going to take that one!
Your motives are selfish --
Cotties
11-16-2006, 02:41 AM
damn you're making it easy today..
we all learn how to play the game from an early age. we all build up our defence mechanisms to counter act rejections. So we get better at playing the game called flirting.
Now some people will and always have played the game unfairly. But we all know that when you allow yourself to become vunerable people can get hurt.
So practise makes perfect. I have never intended to hurt a women by flirting with her, sometimes she has allowed her defences down in order to feel emotion whether it be good or bad. She made the choice. Later on they are nearly always grateful they chose to experience the highs and lows of life.....no matter the consequences...
it makes people feel alive
Cotties
11-16-2006, 02:43 AM
hey..that comment was for you:55 But, the question is -- while it is just fun and games for you, and you don't ever intend to go any further, what about the other person? Maybe you are leading them on -- maybe they think there is more -- maybe they want more. Then, you suddenly have to go and they are left disappointed, disillusioned, and empty handed. Is that what you intended? How do you stop it?did I answer the question or just go in a pretty circle
Norfolkdave
11-16-2006, 04:50 AM
I think its nice to flirt even better if you can have cyberfun on a repeat basis.
yaser
11-16-2006, 06:19 AM
For me, I just enjoy the camraderie here. It's all in fun for me, and I hope the guys here know that too. I think the world of all my friends here, but there's only one man who owns my heart.
Dear Jazzy, all of us look for somebody special here or there or any place wherever we can find.Happy to hear that you have found your heart friend.I think all of us must be happy here if such encounters tkae place.
MIGHTY
11-16-2006, 06:24 AM
I agree with the concensus..it's healthy to flirt. For me, it is mostly innocent. I've found here, that if I'm having a bad day or just a little lonely, flirting gets me in a better mood. If you think about it, most of the flirting round here ends with a :lmao or lol. It's fun and can be just what a girl needs to put a skip in her step.:D
longnhard32
12-05-2006, 02:01 PM
most people are freindly here we do have fun. but try not to be to nasty. hope to see you in chat. we all like to flirt(not krud)
yaser
12-05-2006, 02:05 PM
I agree with the concensus..it's healthy to flirt. For me, it is mostly innocent. I've found here, that if I'm having a bad day or just a little lonely, flirting gets me in a better mood. If you think about it, most of the flirting round here ends with a :lmao or lol. It's fun and can be just what a girl needs to put a skip in her step.:D
But I am afraid if we can pass the boundary of flirting one day....We are human beings we can always be inclined to devaite form the rgiht way.
yaser
12-05-2006, 02:08 PM
most people are freindly here we do have fun. but try not to be to nasty. hope to see you in chat. we all like to flirt(not krud)
Welcome longnhard...Nastiness is punished here kindly..Be flirty and horny but be polite ..
Willy S
12-05-2006, 03:23 PM
yes
dartgirl
12-05-2006, 03:59 PM
I certainly think so. I know that being here has saved my sanity and gave me something lacking in my life.
Penny
12-05-2006, 04:02 PM
That is so cool to here :kk
I certainly think so. I know that being here has saved my sanity and gave me something lacking in my life.
I totally agree...it has only made our marriage healthier:55
steamy
12-05-2006, 04:09 PM
Breakfast of Champions....................:D
Breakfast of Champions....................:D
More like Fruit Loops...:)
steamy
12-05-2006, 04:18 PM
More like Fruit Loops...:)
(laughing) Well you know variety is the spice of life:D
yaser
12-05-2006, 04:33 PM
That is so cool to here :kk
Want to warm up?
longnhard32
12-05-2006, 05:55 PM
never nasty !!! all ways fun ? try it you may like it.
CJSinIL
12-05-2006, 06:02 PM
Why would someone come on here and say flirting isn't healthy. Its like going to sexaholics anonymous and not having sex.
OICurready4me
12-05-2006, 06:14 PM
It's not only healthy, I think it is necessary in many cases. I don't know how often I've been in a store for whatever reason and needed help from a woman. If I just act like a matter of fact customer, they don't deal with me the same way. If I starting playing a little bit, it is like there is no way they can't play back and you get treated differently after that. The best part is getting her all worked up and walking away, watching the big smile you just put on her face.
steamy
12-05-2006, 06:15 PM
It's not only healthy, I think it is necessary in many cases. I don't know how often I've been in a store for whatever reason and needed help from a woman. If I just act like a matter of fact customer, they deal with me the same way. If I starting playing a little bit, it is like there is no way they can't play back and you get treated differently after that. The best part is getting her all worked up and walking away, watching the big smile you just put on her face.So so true......................
BuckiDave
12-05-2006, 07:59 PM
Like the saying goes just because you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't window shop at the bakery/ Plus it is nice to see if you can still get a reaction or "have it" even if you would never follow through. My only problem my it and flirting skills improved after marriage danr youthful shyness and timidity (is that a word?)
MIGHTY
12-05-2006, 10:37 PM
Flirting, sometimes, gives me just the motivation I need to get through another grouling night at work or just a typical day at home. It also gives me sweet dreams....:D
Cotties
12-06-2006, 12:23 AM
The doc says I'm healthy...and he's an expert:) I'm in good shape :) :)
yaser
12-06-2006, 09:53 AM
Flirting, sometimes, gives me just the motivation I need to get through another grouling night at work or just a typical day at home. It also gives me sweet dreams....:D
You are making use of us for your dreams :kk ?
when i look at Momma and see how she's changes since coming on this site ,then i would say it a great thing...she has made so many friends and her confidence in herself has gone way up...and of course when u guys all make her horny ...well i get the cake ....
and Traxster...he gets sloppy seconds ...heheheheheheheeh
How do i taste Big Daddy ????......
XMONKEYLOVINSX
12-07-2006, 12:31 AM
i think flirting is very healthy i like to flirt because it has always made me feel a little bit younger i know i am a young buck now but when i do it i feel a childlike inocense
OICurready4me
12-07-2006, 12:51 AM
i think flirting is very healthy i like to flirt because it has always made me feel a little bit younger i know i am a young buck now but when i do it i feel a childlike inocense
If I pulled down your panties and gave you a nice spanking:sp: that would make me feel a bit younger
SaltyLime
12-07-2006, 02:53 AM
If I pulled down your panties and gave you a nice spanking:sp: that would make me feel a bit younger
lol!! she hasn't any on...left them at my place :wa:
Traxster
12-07-2006, 04:15 AM
when i look at Momma and see how she's changes since coming on this site ,then i would say it a great thing...she has made so many friends and her confidence in herself has gone way up...and of course when u guys all make her horny ...well i get the cake ....
and Traxster...he gets sloppy seconds ...heheheheheheheeh
How do i taste Big Daddy ????......
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!! Now do ya hear me complaining ????:whee: about being second?? The other, won't go there!!!:lmao
PlayfulMale69
12-07-2006, 05:54 AM
Flirting is healthy to those that are flirting, unless they are caught by their spouse who doesn't approve and cuts something off. ;)
Frenchie
12-07-2006, 09:42 AM
funny
I'm really surprised that there's people who think it isn't.... I didn't see that coming. I mean I understand it but funny.... oh well
I'm naked if anyone cares!
Momma
12-07-2006, 05:04 PM
WHAT THE HELL !!! I started to read this post and I thought....
Aaww, how sweet of him to say that....
sloppy second?.....SLOPPY SECONDS ?? :nu:nu (:D)
when i look at Momma and see how she's changes since coming on this site ,then i would say it a great thing...she has made so many friends and her confidence in herself has gone way up...and of course when u guys all make her horny ...well i get the cake ....
and Traxster...he gets sloppy seconds ...heheheheheheheeh
How do i taste Big Daddy ????......
Cotties
12-08-2006, 12:14 AM
I hear Momma makes him clean up his mess..I can't see where the problem is:sc Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!! Now do ya hear me complaining ????:whee: about being second?? The other, won't go there!!!:lmao
rick_63
12-12-2006, 05:52 AM
Flirting is a good thing
cherokeered
02-17-2007, 11:54 PM
flirting is good therapy.................:55
tiger50
02-17-2007, 11:57 PM
flirting is good therapy.................:55
helll noo it leads to cyber sex an sleazy stuff like that... leaves stains, ruins keyboards... :sc
pointofnoreturn
02-20-2007, 04:36 PM
Whe nyou flirt with your spouse and get no response. Well then yes, I think it is healthy. Someone needs to give you some attention.
NYCMasterplumber
02-20-2007, 06:22 PM
Flirting makes the world a better place to be.
Come on lady's admit it how many of you flirt with a tradesman working in your home or the pool guy or some guy sitting across from you in a restaurant even if you are with your other half.
Manhattan is a flirts paradise, especially working in offices.
I had one female employee who made a habit of wearing low cut tops and making sure there was eye contact as she bend over to hand me some contract to sign and her skirts were extremely short and she made it a point to her bending over a file cabinet rather then stoop lady like
One of my separated accounts made it a habit when I or one of my employees went to her home of leaving her panties hanging by the basin or tub then saying oops I forgot to tidy up.
Some forms of flirting are almost an art form .... Other are just plain outlandish
letterman01
02-21-2007, 12:47 AM
it keeps you young and alive!
PlayfulMale69
02-21-2007, 01:29 AM
Whe nyou flirt with your spouse and get no response. Well then yes, I think it is healthy. Someone needs to give you some attention.
I like the way you think point!! I agree that it is good.
Cotties
02-21-2007, 08:03 AM
depeneds who its with
I only flirt with people who like to have a peek at my muff now and then :na
Cotties
02-21-2007, 08:14 AM
well I'll be waiting for the next show and tell :lf ...I sure wish I sat next to you in schoolI only flirt with people who like to have a peek at my muff now and then :na
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