Men: What makes a woman attractive to you?

[Loves2Flirt]

We live in a society that is super obsessed with a woman's looks, but I have come to find that most men aren't in total agreement with the general consensus.

So tell me, what makes a woman attractive to you?

[Loves2Flirt]

I've been told a woman's confidence makes her super sexy.

[gspotlover]

How they treat other people. The hottest looking woman in the room may be the biggest bitch in the room as well. I wouldn't waste a load on her. I'd rather be with the girl who smiles and treats everyone as if they are special.

[SOUTHGAHEAT]

If shes confident doesnt matter what she looks like. If shes got the confidence then the rest is just gravy. Theres always something physical that I will find attractive on her once the confidence has won me over

[woodsman8]

Just give me a plain Jane next door type lady who is comfortable with who she is and is in love with life. One who walks with pride and confident in herself.

[bluegrass_74]

Do you mean physically? It is going to differ. But for me I like nice legs and cool eyes.

But the most attractive thing is confidence and the fact that she is attrated to me.

[Nick182]

A sexy look in her eyes and a nice smile.

[Holiday]

I think its a combination of looks and brains. I like active girls that are into sports as well. I cant stand a girl who is only high maintenance.

[Rays]

I actually prefer a girl with a little muscle, and a nice curve to her ass. I'll take that over chicken legs and protruding rib cages any day.

[Bandit]

Physical beauty is enjoyable to look at but intellect, optimism, and a sense of humor make a woman beautiful to me.

[Han Solo]

I'm going with a Ridiculously Rich, Nymphomaniac, that loves sports, and thinks that a "sometimes surly" disposition on a man is wildly attractive...........course that's just off the top of my head though:ok

[Nomad(m)]

There are so many facets to what makes a woman attractive. I think the biggest thing is her personality! She needs to be confident and comfortable with herself, and well put together, this will come out in her mannerisms, and nonverbal gestures. This helps to create that "whole package".

[hrdbody]

Right now, it's women that act like women. A nice walk, a cute disposition, just the mannerisms of a woman. Young women today act more like men than women. What about a skirt or dress once in a while? Doen't have be every day, just once in a while, is that too much to ask?

[Bandit]

I'm going with a Ridiculously Rich, Nymphomaniac, that loves sports, and thinks that a "sometimes surly" disposition on a man is wildly attractive...........course that's just off the top of my head though:ok

:lmao :lmao

[Holiday]

Confidence in a woman is also really attractive.

[Icarus]

I'm going with a Ridiculously Rich, Nymphomaniac, that loves sports, and thinks that a "sometimes surly" disposition on a man is wildly attractive...........course that's just off the top of my head though:ok

I have to go with Mr. Solo on this one. I'm working hard to achieve "Trophy Husband" status. So, any woman that can support my cosmopolitan tastes while requiring little more out of me than looking fabulous meets my criteria. It doesn't hurt if she is 80 or 90 either.:lf

[catmom]

I'd rather be with the girl who smiles and treats everyone as if they are special.


Gee - I hope I'm that kind of girl....I try to be....

[jmsmith12345]

The fact that she lacks a penis usually makes a woman attractive to me.

[Holiday]

The way she dresses could help a lot. No CROCS. Not attractive. Its like wearing sweats.

[Sweetdreams069]

outgoing, funny, sexy, full of surprises, independent, not clingy, great in bed, great out of bed..... :sc good, honest person.... I know she's out there somewhere.

[1hotrod]

I like to look at the fit hard body girls....but what makes a woman attractive to me is how she acts and treats others around her including me. Looks are nice but not totaly important.....I do like a cute ass though....lol

[fly]

outgoing, funny, sexy, full of surprises, independent, not clingy, great in bed, great out of bed..... :sc good, honest person.... I know she's out there somewhere.


Of COURSE she is......
I know MANY women who would fit that description!

[Loves2Flirt]

See, ladies! There are REAL guys out there!!!!!!! That's how I am...I love who I am. I think God created an incredible person in me, so I hold my head high. Doesn't hurt that I like to wear short skirts almost everyday, either! *snickers*

[Sweetdreams069]

Of COURSE she is......
I know MANY women who would fit that description!


Yeah you are right. Maybe that's why I can't just settle for one. I want a couple of them :D

[tallguy32]

I dated a girl back when I was just out of high school. She was stunningly beautiful and very willing in bed. Problem was I couldn't stand her additude. She didn't last long. I wanted to kick her out of my car so many times.
The women I've enjoyed the most this life have not been the most beautiful on the planet. They have been people with good hearts, the kind that would give anything to help a friend. They loved life and where happy every day just to great the morning. I could do anything with these people and have a good time. That's someone worth being with and who will stay attractive for years to come.

[Loves2Flirt]

I dated a girl back when I was just out of high school. She was stunningly beautiful and very willing in bed. Problem was I couldn't stand her additude. She didn't last long. I wanted to kick her out of my car so many times.
The women I've enjoyed the most this life have not been the most beautiful on the planet. They have been people with good hearts, the kind that would give anything to help a friend. They loved life and where happy every day just to great the morning. I could do anything with these people and have a good time. That's someone worth being with and who will stay attractive for years to come.

Will you marry me? :sng Damnit, I'm already married. Well, come flirt with me then!

[Lowman1988]

A fantastic sense of humor. A warm heart. A giving attitude. Willingness to have fun. Adventurous in bed. I would tell you the name of a person who fits this description but I would be in trouble.

[navigater]

Her confidence in herself,attitude and the way she treats others...looks are only skin deep it's the inner beauty that counts..

[jaayseee]

confident, sexy, outgoing

[Eagleton]

My sense of humor and I am a great hugger.

[MrHyde]

Spunk...stand up to me. Call me on my shit. Make fun of me (friendly though). I like a woman that is nurturing...mothers, teachers, nurses. I like women that are funny...and that get my humor. I like women that are fun loving and can go camping or to a fancy party. I like women that are not afraid to be sexy.

[gadzooks]

eyes get me first. warm, friendly. you can tell a lot about a person by their eyes. a great smile, like they enjoy being with you. back is sexy. she must be happy and independent.

[stellabelle]

eyes get me first. warm, friendly. you can tell a lot about a person by their eyes. a great smile, like they enjoy being with you. back is sexy. she must be happy and independent.


Look into my eyes....

[mrbillie702]

No "Dick" or scars where there used to be one!

[Tiglet]

I like to look at the fit hard body girls....but what makes a woman attractive to me is how she acts and treats others around her including me. Looks are nice but not totaly important.....I do like a cute ass though....lol

Oh, oh. Hmmmm, I better upgrade my workouts :p

[OnceAKing]

No "Dick" or scars where there used to be one!

Damn, I could have done totally without that picture today,,,,Geeeze lol

[OnceAKing]

Let's see, I can be pretty picky...just not today...hair helps, on her head I'm sayin..at least a wig or enough for a comb over...a torso is always good, sorta gives ya somethin to, ummmm, "love on",,, and legs...well legs are nice but not a total deal killer...oh yeah, here's the two biggies no three...A brain and warm and wet..at the very least above room temperature.

Hmmmmmm attractive enuff for me! Ok I'm off to work!

[Intensetaster]

the smile......a confident and happy smile not a put-on one....the eyes will sparkle with their happy heart

[Stew]

Definitely her eyes and her intensity

[Charmed]

I'm taking notes.......

[yaser]

I'm taking notes.......

psychological hugging tightly...You do it..

[Samgoody]

It is all about the eyes.

[Andytyme]

Being Strong. Being confident. Being Happy!.

[Constance]

Being Strong. Being confident. Being Happy!.


That sounds really nice. Alot to put on a gal though. I hope you find her.

[MunkyBrain]

Somebody weird like me...

She's my best friend, loves kids, loves the outdoors and likes to do new stuff..and I'm not talking sex here (although that's cool too) I just mean someone who gets off on new places and experiences and meeting new people.

Her favorite holiday is Halloween. She likes rural farms and bohemian looking urban lofts but can't stand the suburbs.

Bonus points if she's goth. I gotta thing for goth girls.

[gdg]

Spunk...stand up to me. Call me on my shit. Make fun of me (friendly though). I like a woman that is nurturing...mothers, teachers, nurses. I like women that are funny...and that get my humor. I like women that are fun loving and can go camping or to a fancy party. I like women that are not afraid to be sexy.

I am going back to school hoping to finish and be a nurse b4 I need one. lol
I take care of everyone and love humor. I love camping and parties also. Wow, I guess I may be attractive. WOO HOO

[iltfdita]

I am going back to school hoping to finish and be a nurse b4 I need one. lol
I take care of everyone and love humor. I love camping and parties also. Wow, I guess I may be attractive. WOO HOO


GREAT!

[1hotrod]

Oh, oh. Hmmmm, I better upgrade my workouts :p

Your perfect sweetheart!!

[Tiglet]

Your perfect sweetheart!!
Gosh, I just don't know what to say......:inlve

[OnceAKing]

Gosh, I just don't know what to say......:inlve

Geeeze, ya'll just go get a room! lmao

[dixiechiknga]

No "Dick" or scars where there used to be one!
LMFAO !!!! Good point!!

[No Wife Tonight]

Wit, good sense of humor and a great body.

[Krystal]

Wit, good sense of humor and a great body.

Two out of three ain't bad, lol. :sc

[catmom]

Spunk...stand up to me. Call me on my shit. Make fun of me (friendly though). I like a woman that is nurturing...mothers, teachers, nurses. I like women that are funny...and that get my humor. I like women that are fun loving and can go camping or to a fancy party. I like women that are not afraid to be sexy.

You want spunk huh? I got spunk...yea - I've got your number Mr. try to Hyde but you can't!

[No Wife Tonight]

Two out of three ain't bad, lol. :sc

I know what you mean, i can do without the wit sometimes .... lol

[Iwantutowantme]

being friendly, not stuck up
being attacted to me, not every guy in the room
being honest, not a deceiver
being caring, not having an air of arrogance around her
being focused, not spaced out
being a flirt, but not a one night stand type
being a good partner, working together, not competing in a man verses
woman senerio
being a loving, warm and affectionate woman, not spiteful, cold, and frigid
being a person that wants to be compatible by compromise and being
open minded
being open for sexual experimenting,
being with me :) :) :)

[gdg]

being friendly, not stuck up
being attacted to me, not every guy in the room
being honest, not a deceiver
being caring, not having an air of arrogance around her
being focused, not spaced out
being a flirt, but not a one night stand type
being a good partner, working together, not competing in a man verses
woman senerio
being a loving, warm and affectionate woman, not spiteful, cold, and frigid
being a person that wants to be compatible by compromise and being
open minded
being open for sexual experimenting,
being with me :) :) :)

Seems fair everybody wants to know that their partner is attracted to them. It is very important.

[Samgoody]

OK, I will forgo my typical sarcasm, but just this once...

What makes a woman attractive to me...

Someone who is open to sharing in the excitement and adventure that is life. She is willing to see and bring out the passionate side in me, and will let me see and bring out the passionate side in her. She is NOT an emotional wreck; only interested in "larger than life" (large car, large bank account and large cocks). I don't swim in the shallow end of the pool, and she shouldn't either.

I love a woman that understands the importance of companionship, friendship, trust and unbridled passion. The companionship is a woman to completely enjoy just hanging out with. The friendship is a woman to talk to and rely upon. The trust is a woman who can be a confidante. It all needs to be wrapped within the fire of unbridled passion, exploration and creativity. NOW that is what makes a woman attractive.

[Eagleton]

A sense of humor and a positive attitude.

[Soffie]

A sense of humor and a positive attitude.
(Hey, how did that happen! I am not big enough to be considered 2 users!) Thank you, Eagleton! You are a gentleman, always!:hug:

[Wil]

We live in a society that is super obsessed with a woman's looks, but I have come to find that most men aren't in total agreement with the general consensus.

So tell me, what makes a woman attractive to you?

a woman who doesn't take any shit from anybody...and there are quite a few strolling around this place I'm happy to see...:kk

[Will81NJ]

I need a woman who is spontaneous, fun, sure of herself, and inteligent

[SkillfulMeans]

I’m attracted to intelligent women .. Hair up and glasses is a plus..

[Loves2Flirt]

I fit everyone's answer....I must be God's gift to men! TEEHEE!

[danoesky]

A woman's mind is my greatest attraction. How she thinks how we communicate. Then a nice butt :ok

[tallguy32]

I've always been attracted to women with a good soul. Someone who is living life to their personal best and loving every minute of it. Someone alive with the thrill of still being on the planet and willing to explore everything that they can. Someone who has resbonsibilities and keeps them but knows that sometimes work just has to wait. No ones headstones ever said "if only I spent more time at work"

[Loves2Flirt]

I've always been attracted to women with a good soul. Someone who is living life to their personal best and loving every minute of it. Someone alive with the thrill of still being on the planet and willing to explore everything that they can. Someone who has resbonsibilities and keeps them but knows that sometimes work just has to wait. No ones headstones ever said "if only I spent more time at work"

Will you marry me? Crap, we're already married to other people! DAMN! That was beautiful!

[ldon]

A woman with a sense of humor that looks into your eyes when she talks and smiles when you talk. A woman who is unaware of her own beauty. A woman who appreciates a man for whom he is and not what he does. I wish I could read minds because I'm sure I have mistaken a smile for more than it was intended. But it's that stare back that always makes my stomach feel funny wishing I know what the person behind that stare was thinking. What do you think? Do woman who lock stares signify a mutual attraction?

[ptceleb]

I like a woman who knows how to be a woman. One that is not afraid of her sexuallity and not afraid to explore what she feels. Sense of humor is a must. And I have to admit that I appriciate smooth shapely legs. Always the first thing I look at.

[yaser]

She must circle me psychologically..

[tallguy32]

Will you marry me? Crap, we're already married to other people! DAMN! That was beautiful!


Sorry, most days I'm pretty happy right where I am. On those other days I quietly look for the lady who matches my above requirements. I know that if I ever find her there will be serious hell to pay. Sometimes I hope I find her, sometimes I'm glad she is so elusive

[knightrider72]

a womans smile is priceless so give her something to smile at

[Samgoody]

Buck naked in nothing but high heels, the remote in one hand, and a big juicy steak in the other.

[PunkyBob]

Not trying to use me to validate themselves...I am not your salvation nor your stepping stone...

[HitnRunRomance]

I've been told a woman's confidence makes her super sexy.
I think looks are very important to a man. The older I get however, the more I can relate to other things. I don't know if it's a "confidence" thing, or the way certain women carry themselves. There is a difference in that confidence (to me)can show a little roughness around the edges, while other charateristics such as class and taste can be very appealing.

[Domus]

spiritual...

[Agent]

Smiling eyes lit my moonlight.

[Brink]

For me, the most attractive women are polite, intelligent, successful, modest, composed, and a little coy, with a great smile, a sharp wit, and the capacity to cause a scandal!

Any three off that list and I can hardly contain myself.

[Loves2Flirt]

What do you think? Do women who lock stares signify a mutual attraction?

Usually if she's attracted she will lock her gaze. Only other reason I'd lock gazes with a man would be if he were my friend. Otherwise, it'd just be awkward.

[Nomad(m)]

I gotta go with their heart, and the eyes. You can see into a womans heart and soul, through their eyes. If the eyes are right on, then you know the heart is not far behind.

[Constance]

I gotta go with their heart, and the eyes. You can see into a womans heart and soul, through their eyes. If the eyes are right on, then you know the heart is not far behind.

Thats why all the women love you so much!!!!!:sng

[pensive]

Ok I am answering this before reading any other posts because I do not want to be influenced.

First before looks or anything is the mind. The woman must be able to have an intelligent conversation. She can be Catherine Bell hot but if she sounds like a freaking 8th grader I am immediately turned off.

The second thing is that she must be open minded. I don't care if she is conservative or liberal, christian or buddist, or good looking or not. If she is closed minded it is a shlong shrinker. Period. A closed mind is a small mind. Unfortuantely, too many closed minded people don't think they are.

The next thing I find attractive in a woman is drive to improve oneself. I believe that learning never stops. Further reexamining ones self is a must for self development..
However, to re-examine ones self they must be confident in the type of person they are at heart. So self confidence is a must. Not cockyness. But the confidence that only comes from being comfortable in one's own shoes.

The final thing that a woman must have is a genuine kindness for strangers. The type of person that treats everyone with respect no matter what their station. I should not matter if they are homeless or a CEO. She should be able to be kind from the beginning. That does not mean a pushover. But the initial treatment must be kind. I think how one treats strangers they will never meet again says what kind of person they are.

If all of that is there physical appearance is only a minor thing. One must be attractive, but so much of physical attractiveness is effected by the things above. The face is especially affected by the points above. Before anything else, I look at the face. Then the ass... HA! but the face is first.

So that is probably way longer than it needed to be but hey you asked.

[Constance]

outgoing, funny, sexy, full of surprises, independent, not clingy, great in bed, great out of bed..... :sc good, honest person.... I know she's out there somewhere.


Wow sweet, I hope you find her. She sounds great. You might have to look for awhile though. She sounds perfect. :ok

[92115guy]

There are so many things that make a woman attractive. There is "checking her out on the street" attractive. That is face and butt (in that order...lol). I am a sucker for a curvy figure and a cute face.

But then there is the attractive that only comes from knowing someone. That is actually a much deeper attraction and comes from many different areas. She needs to be intellectually stimulating (and I need to be able to stimulate her in an intellectual manner). She needs to be strong willed and not give in to just anything I say but needs to be open minded enough to hear my point of view without simply dismissing it. Confidence...confidence is always sexy.

That seems like such a short list to me. Wow, it is really hard to vocalize what I find attractive. But this is a start.

james

[Samgoody]

Wow sweet, I hope you find her. She sounds great. You might have to look for awhile though. She sounds perfect. :ok

No such thing as the perfect woman...

True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

[PlayfulMale69]

Well the first thing I notice is the hair. Yes I do notice the curves and boobs shortly thereafter. But the confidence and the smile on her lips that she is comfortable in her skin is very nice. If she has that confidence and is looking at me like wouldn't you like to be comfortable in my skin too, that is just a plus. :-)

[Shawn]

Long legs and Big Who-Ha's ... I am shallow like that

[MrHyde]

Those little things that you start to notice after spending time together. Like dimples. They way they walk (mmmmm). Their laugh. They way they take care of their loved ones. All that stuff.

[Loves2Flirt]

Those little things that you start to notice after spending time together. Like dimples. They way they walk (mmmmm). Their laugh. They way they take care of their loved ones. All that stuff.

Wow......

[MarkmyWords]

Well, it's my first post so I figured this would be a great place to start! I have thought about this, and there isn't ONE thing that makes a woman attractice to me (or not attractive.)

The great thing about women is that they're all different. Variety is the spice of life. Each one of you has something special that I notice. Could be your eyes, hair, body, how you flirt, how you dress...or how you carry yourself.

I realize most men would claim they're "boob" "ass" or "leg" men. I love all those things too, but a woman doesn't need to have all those things to be really, really sexy.

[Loves2Flirt]

Welcome to the boards! You're gonna love it here!

[muzzlethumper]

a good overall attitude, witty but not at others expence, carring but firm in her beliefs, generous yet, willing in bed, cultured and well read.

[MarkmyWords]

Thanks Amy, seems like a fun place. Just worried about being a newbie on any board- especially this one.

[Sensual Woman]

Thanks Amy, seems like a fun place. Just worried about being a newbie on any board- especially this one.

Well , welcome

[MarkmyWords]

Thank you as well Sensual. Everyone seems to be friendly here, and the guys seem to "normal." Sure, there's a lot of talk about sex but it seems to be done in a much more tasteful (and I think intersting) way compared to other sites. I think I'll like it here.

[Sensual Woman]

Thank you as well Sensual. Everyone seems to be friendly here, and the guys seem to "normal." Sure, there's a lot of talk about sex but it seems to be done in a much more tasteful (and I think intersting) way compared to other sites. I think I'll like it here.

I think you will too. We are a friendly, open and supportive bunch for the most part....we call it the M&F family...get to know people...you will make some great friends!

[MarkmyWords]

I hope I already have ;)

[Guitar Strummer]

Confidence. It shows in the walk. They way she carries herself. Everything here is just the individual traits of confidence. If the lady has it....she owns the room when she walks in without trying. Nothing to prove. No "point to make". Just confident and happy as a result. Sexy as all hell.

IMHO of course.

[navigater]

Her smile,her personality,the way she carries herself....

[OICurready4me]

A woman who has a good sense of herself. Dresses nicely (accents her curves mainly), smiles, funny, wears a little makeup but doesn't overdo it, and is friendly. Nothing makes a woman more unattractive than aloofness. There is no reason for it.

[sandycrotch]

Without reading any of the other posts,(I don't want to appear to be influenced by the others) I will answer thusly. What makes a woman attractive is simply being a woman for starters. Secondly, a great sense of humor. Then being smart, which if there is a great sense of humor they usually are smart. Then a being sexy, a hot body helps, but a smile, the way they hold themselves, confidence, those can all be sexy.

[Bandit]

Smiling eyes. And dimples, love the dimples.

[arch30NC]

Sexy shyness!! Funny and very outgoing personality! And of course her ass and legs!

[YourAssMyHand]

I think everything is attractive about women. Usually, I get caught up in an infectious smile.

[Constance]

I think everything is attractive about women. Usually, I get caught up in an infectious smile.

Well then I am your girl. I love to smile.

[jman]

A smile-a walk-a sexy voice many different things

[Iwantutowantme]

thier attention, smiles, laughter, hugs, kisses, good communication, and the physical ability to to dance......