Bad Thoughts about coworkers

[hrdbody]

Not really having much contact with members of the opposite sex, I find that most of the little contact I do have is with the few employees I have, who are all female. Being in a marriage in which sex does not really exist, I often find myself noticing my employees in a non-work related manner, which I know is not a good idea. Problem is that it seems like it is almost impossible not to do. I find myself taking looks that I shouldn't and maybe looking a little too long at someone here and there.

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?

[SunnyD]

Dang I read the title and thought I would get tips on how to drag off the evidence after I killed one of them, lol! Sorry no help on your problem:)

[jmsmith12345]

I have some hot co-workers and we flirt all of the time, but it is just flirting, nothing more.

[Nick182]

yep... I'm also guilty. That's pretty much all I can say about that ;)...

[fever]

I work in a small office and would NEVER flirt at work...that's why I have everyone here!

[Constance]

Yea, I have a work husband. Thats what I call it anyway. I spend more time at work then at home. We are really good friends and we have a flirty relationship. It will never go further than that. I would not want to mess up a good friendship. When you see each other almost everyday, that could be real hard.

[hrdbody]

Dang I read the title and thought I would get tips on how to drag off the evidence after I killed one of them, lol! Sorry no help on your problem:)

Sorry, I've found it's best not to post those tips online because it really gives the district attorney an advantage. All of those tips have be given by a public phone. :ok

[HitnRunRomance]

Not really having much contact with members of the opposite sex, I find that most of the little contact I do have is with the few employees I have, who are all female. Being in a marriage in which sex does not really exist, I often find myself noticing my employees in a non-work related manner, which I know is not a good idea. Problem is that it seems like it is almost impossible not to do. I find myself taking looks that I shouldn't and maybe looking a little too long at someone here and there.

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?
Yeah, I have these same thoughts, I think basically everyone does. I believe most women are having them as well. It may or may not be you, but I feel they are having things roll around in their heads as well as men. Of course, we men have to be very careful about this.
As far as dealing with the issue we just have to deal with it, unless one of your co-workers just comes up to you and throws herself at you. However, most of these women are the ones you really have to look out for!

[cheerymissy_34]

Dang I read the title and thought I would get tips on how to drag off the evidence after I killed one of them, lol! Sorry no help on your problem:)


lol....im so with ya sunny

[MarriedQt]

Office love affairs can be alot of fun......but when the fun ends its really hard to work with that person again and could get really messy! Just keep your hands to yourself and its ok to let your eyes wander......but just keep the staring to a short glance...otherwise you might find yourself in a lawsuit for sexual harrasement!

[HarleyRyder]

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?


I do...and that's why I am here! :)

I have to find other avenues for venting the pent up energy...sometimes I'll write out the fantasy playing in my head...then send it to a special friend that I know would appreciate it...

[HarleyRyder]

Dang I read the title and thought I would get tips on how to drag off the evidence after I killed one of them, lol! Sorry no help on your problem:)

Being a huge CSI fan...I appreciate this comment... :nu

[Good_Lad]

I have one very attractive coworker. She's married. Couldn't keep my eyes off her at first. Then as time went by, we developed a really nice friendship. Now, I wouldnt have anything happen to ruin that.
Oh, and she's the bosses daughter.

[HarleyRyder]

Oh, and she's the bosses daughter.


In order to maintain employment...that's probably a good call to leave that one as friends... ;)

[SunnyD]

Yeah I know what you mean and I think the flatbed dolly is tipping people off;)! It worked so much better when Sassynsweet and I worked together as it required very little discussion or planning:)

Sorry, I've found it's best not to post those tips online because it really gives the district attorney an advantage. All of those tips have be given by a public phone. :ok

[Atrebla Rose]

Well I am very bad,,,I have bad thoughts about my co worker all the time,,,naughty ones too...even have a few good ones,,,and since I am the only one I work with,,,that means me!!!!! damn I should hire a office boy!!!!!:sc

[Big O]

Well I am very bad,,,I have bad thoughts about my co worker all the time,,,naughty ones too...even have a few good ones,,,and since I am the only one I work with,,,that means me!!!!! damn I should hire a office boy!!!!!:sc

I'd like to hear more about what you would like to do to your co worker, and with what......

[MrHyde]

Yea, I have a work husband. Thats what I call it anyway. I spend more time at work then at home. We are really good friends and we have a flirty relationship. It will never go further than that. I would not want to mess up a good friendship. When you see each other almost everyday, that could be real hard.

I had a work wife. We got really close...and we both wanted each other. She asked me point blank one night when we were having some drinks and chatting online. I was honest and so was she. We flirted a lot...almost kissed...she showed me some pictures of herself....and then one day decided to switch jobs at work. She recently told me she did so because she didn't want to cross the line with me and she would have because we spent everyday together. I really appreciated it and was bummed all at the same time.

[Constance]

I had a work wife. We got really close...and we both wanted each other. She asked me point blank one night when we were having some drinks and chatting online. I was honest and so was she. We flirted a lot...almost kissed...she showed me some pictures of herself....and then one day decided to switch jobs at work. She recently told me she did so because she didn't want to cross the line with me and she would have because we spent everyday together. I really appreciated it and was bummed all at the same time.

I guess when you work around the atmosphere that we work in, it is easy to find something that is not so depressing. You have to find a good place in your mind to get away from the horrible things other people have to go through. We dill with allot of children and it still hard to go home and not think about it.

[MrHyde]

I guess when you work around the atmosphere that we work in, it is easy to find something that is not so depressing. You have to find a good place in your mind to get away from the horrible things other people have to go through. We dill with allot of children and it still hard to go home and not think about it.

That is true. It's a bonding experience to go through that with another. Ya know?

[scoobertina]

I flirt alot at work... well when others are around... this job there isn't a soul I would cross the line with.. but when I worked in the Hydraulics field.. oh yeah.. there was this hot guy... Santiago.. mmm I loved Texas... anyhow.. we flirted off and on the entire 2 years I was there.. met up once after I left there for another shop.. and well... we started to ummm enjoy ourselves but I cut it off... I wasn't ready for an affair...

then at my last job I was not flirting but I noticed one of the managers... he isn't hot... far from it.. but he laughed all the time.. he was sweet... sexy in his own way.. and unfortunately he reminded me of someone... as I walked out the door I gave him my email.. we are very, very close now...

[RedVixen]

Not really having much contact with members of the opposite sex, I find that most of the little contact I do have is with the few employees I have, who are all female. Being in a marriage in which sex does not really exist, I often find myself noticing my employees in a non-work related manner, which I know is not a good idea. Problem is that it seems like it is almost impossible not to do. I find myself taking looks that I shouldn't and maybe looking a little too long at someone here and there.

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?

Be very careful.....some women can construed most anything as sexual harassment :(

[danoesky]

I worked in a call center once as a trainer. Most of the pople who worked there were women, I had several women that I had flirtyness with some real yound women who were really trying to get noticed. I didn't want to go there with them it would have just been bad. Well maybe good for a little while but probably a bad hangover afterwards.

Anyway now I work with 3 middle aged dudes, no more fun chicks to talk to, except for here. :)

[pensive]

I a women here that I would love to... ummm... get to know. That said, we are a small office and I like my job very much. So I keep it to the occasional glances and dirty thoughts about what I would like to do with her, an monitor cable and a desk and nothing more.

[hrdbody]

Be very careful.....some women can construed most anything as sexual harassment :(

Trust me, I go out of my way to try and avoid problems. I don't need the problems.

[Krystal]

I'd suggest that you not cross that line with an employee. I crossed it with a coworker, who was on equal grounds with me, more or less.....and then, by choice, I went to work for him when he branched out on his own.

All things stopped completely then and there.....but it made for an awkward situation having to work for him AND his WIFE.

If they work FOR you.....you're treading on thin ice. You can get into all sorts of trouble there. If they work WITH you....it's doable....but think, REALLY think about it before you go there.

[PEBBLIEPOO]

Some days I just have to think about the guys I work with all I work with is guys. There is one or two I would concider but will never happen.

[Ottoman]

Not really having much contact with members of the opposite sex, I find that most of the little contact I do have is with the few employees I have, who are all female. Being in a marriage in which sex does not really exist, I often find myself noticing my employees in a non-work related manner, which I know is not a good idea. Problem is that it seems like it is almost impossible not to do. I find myself taking looks that I shouldn't and maybe looking a little too long at someone here and there.

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?

I need to send you a picture of my co workers..........
It will cure you.

[Sneaky]

Not really having much contact with members of the opposite sex, I find that most of the little contact I do have is with the few employees I have, who are all female. Being in a marriage in which sex does not really exist, I often find myself noticing my employees in a non-work related manner, which I know is not a good idea. Problem is that it seems like it is almost impossible not to do. I find myself taking looks that I shouldn't and maybe looking a little too long at someone here and there.

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?


Noooo. LOL. The people I work with I have bad thoughts too, but more along these lines:

"Could her pants BE more high waters? I mean where the hell is the flood?"
"Someone needs to tell that chick that work and the show Suvivor are not the same. There is no "weakest link" and nobody is getting voted off the island and she looks like an asshole in meetings."
"Irregardless is not a word and everytime she says that I want to hurt her."
"She should really get her thyroid checked out. Nobody's eyes should bulge out that much."
Stuff like that. LOL.

[cherokeered]

I have thoughts about co-workers...doubt they would like them though....:yks

[juyjungle]

flirt, i might get you something :)

[Loves2Flirt]

Question is who else struggles with these same kinds of issues with coworkers and how have you dealt with them?

ME ME ME! I want my boss.....and it is NO secret to him and some co-workers. At a recent work party, I made out with one of the other bosses, and I think the boss I want is jealous. I totally understand where you are at. You just can't help who you are attracted to.

[Intensetaster]

ME ME ME! I want my boss.....and it is NO secret to him and some co-workers. At a recent work party, I made out with one of the other bosses, and I think the boss I want is jealous. I totally understand where you are at. You just can't help who you are attracted to.


I am currently taking applications!! I have had a relationship with a co-worker and it was soooo hot and made the glances at work so HOT too. We only got together when we worked the same night shift which was only 2 to 3 times per month. Her husband was transferred away but I still have awesome memories.

[rj1002]

We have a very small business and have never had more than a couple of employees at any time. Last one was quite pretty, but young enough to be my daughter (actually younger than my daughter). I have to admit, I looked, but never flirted. Don't think she'd have appreciated and, to tell the truth, an age difference that great would have made me uncomfortable. (I know - I really am no fun at all.)

We've since by design shrunk our business down to where it's just me (full time) and my wife (part time), so it's just not an issue.

But, thinking about it, it would be really nice to have someone in here again. Any ladies out in Los Angeles looking for a part time job? Pay is low, but the hours are flexible and the benefits...well, the benefits are very negotiable.:ok

[Agent]

I would with some really fine ladies. Yes, I have thought about them. More than once.

[danoesky]

ME ME ME! I want my boss.....and it is NO secret to him and some co-workers. At a recent work party, I made out with one of the other bosses, and I think the boss I want is jealous. I totally understand where you are at. You just can't help who you are attracted to.

:lmao Can I be one of your bosses???????

[Loves2Flirt]

:lmao Can I be one of your bosses???????

I'm sifting through applications. I have to say, it IS super fun!!!!!!!!

[angel08]

Well, unfortunately, i work with alot of women and the few men I do work around i'm not attracted to so no problems for me. I would just be careful and definitley not come on too strong. Sexual harassmnt is a mofo nowadays!

[tallguy32]

BTDT It was fun but not worth the stress. She was married, I was in a relationship. We where both employees. One night her husband called me and asked what was going on. Yikes. Stoped that one right then and there.

[Lethe]

I worked for years in high-stress enviornments. Staff flirted and joked as a stress reliever. But everyone knew what was acceptable and what was not. A relationship or two would evolve from it, but normally it was just fun and stress relief. I have had several female coworkers I was attracted to and flirted with, but I didn't want to create disruptions for my employer and for me. So I kept everything above-board.

I don't have a problem with OTJ flirting, as long as everyone is OK with it.