How much of a flirt are you in real life?

[manofiron]

I was thinking this earlier because of something that happened at work. I've been told I am just as bad in real life as online and today I admitted it.

I was talking to a customer at my business today and noticed she had some huge design scrolls with her. We started talking about her going to school for fashion and she asked if I wanted to see. Not really wanting her to struggle opening them up, I without missing a beat say "If you put half as much thought into your designs as you do in your appearance, I'm sure they look great" Thank god she giggled because the moment I said it, I realized what I did.

So how about everyone else? It's one thing here where we all don't actually meet and can just sit back and goof off But on the streets, are you a real flirt or are you a closet flirt?

[Krystal]

I'm a closet flirt, lol. I have to get to know a person just a tad before I really flirt with them....and then only if they react well to the first few innuendoes. If they don't, I clam up and stop flirting with that person. If they do, and it's received well....then look out!

[fly]

I'm a flirt........:sg

[sexytiger]

I agree with you Krystal... the same way... I am opening up a little more though

[lonely1now]

I am a huge flirt in person also. If that person starts flirting back, then there is nothing that is going to hold me back.

[OnceAKing]

Who me?... I can barely spell it, much less do it...online or in person. It's not flirting if you reallly mean it, Is It?

[WandaRing]

I'd try to lie to you and say that I flirt with everyone but my red cheeks (no my face cheeks) would give me away. :yks

[Shawn]

Nope... way shy and barely talk to anyone in person

[cheerymissy_34]

MAJOR FLIRT here....
my friends always said i was and after hearing it like forever i finally started to "watch myself" and yep they were right and hell half the time i dont even mean to be

[Charmed]

I flirt a lil

[Han Solo]

LOL.........Noooo.......Oh, I'll talk to anyone and make jokes to strangers in the supermarket or wherever else.....but nothing considered flirty.

[msu]

Not even close!!!

[92115guy]

Nah...a combination of being really shy and trying to maintain my professionalism means that I never flirt overtly. I am pretty good at the subtle flirt though...a nice smile or a glance seems to be less offensive than "hey, great boobs..."...lol

james

[NotTooGirly]

I know I'm flirtatious in real life, but for the most part I try to keep it as discreet as possible because I know that the simplest things can be misconstrued. On here I can really cut loose and say some things I would never, ever actually say (although I definitely think them!).

[rizz]

ok..im pretty shy..but all that goes out the window after a drink...flirting level is directly proportional to blood alcohol it seems

[92115guy]

On here I can really cut loose and say some things I would never, ever actually say (although I definitely think them!).

LOL...yeah, I can't imagine people saying some of this stuff out loud like they do in here...hehe...but posting on here is kinda just like letting people peek in your head.

james

[fever]

I flirt a lot, but not in an over-the-top kind of way. Just my way of hoping the people whose paths I cross have a great day!

[92115guy]

Just my way of hoping the people whose paths I cross have a great day!

What a great outlook. I agree and feel the same way. It's nice making someone smile isn't it?

james

[fever]

What a great outlook. I agree and feel the same way. It's nice making someone smile isn't it?

james

It is, especially in these parts...people forget to have a great day sometimes!

[92115guy]

I thought never-neverland was perfect...lol

Yeah, the same here though. It doesn't always work but that one time it does is worth it.

james

[fourisit]

I am a big flirt and I love it but for the most part it is innocent lol and my husband is just as bad

[fever]

I thought never-neverland was perfect...lol

Yeah, the same here though. It doesn't always work but that one time it does is worth it.

james


Never neverland IS perfect...but sometimes I have to drive the LA freeways to get home!!

[92115guy]

LOL...yeah, I understand....and you're right about forgetting to smile...geez...

james

[vicarious]

I'm pretty shy by nature, but I flirt with those I know...I have some 'girlfriends' that I flirt with and pass innuendo.

[Nick182]

I'm more of a flirt in real life then I am here.

[Brink]

‘Cornelius’ - a play on my actual name - is the word I've been labelled with by some of the friends who have observed my attempts to flirt. Don’t know what possesses me to be so twee - I guess banal clichés at least fill the gaps in silence...while detracting from the strange expressions, which may or may not be travelling across my face.

I work and socialise more with women, but have learned, sans the reports, to put flirting aside…lest a woman bizarrely initiates it herself, of course! It would have to be in-your-face obvious though, and timed appropriately, otherwise my conversation might slip away to those well-known, seductive topics of work, cars, cats, Russian proverbs, Keira Knightley, Sudoku...

I do better to laugh, carefully tease, cajole, debate or talk genuinely with a woman, than is the calamity of the Cornelius flirting with them. In time, a fully-grown connection may come along, where I can take a moment to joke and fool about, say my stupid clichés, whatever, and it doesn’t seem fake, desperate or ingratiating. That’s just how I come across, many people here flirt naturally, with impressive flair.

[Frenchie_lady]

I'm not much of a flirt, here or real life. I'm quite shy and very much of a cluts. Usuall all attemps result in me making a fool of myself.

I've also been described as a "pissy face", which meant for the person that granted me such a title that i looked unapproachable. Personally, could explain why i rarely have guys actually come up to talk to me. And I used to think it was because i was not cute enough lmao

Sincerely, i've been told i was a flirt in here, but i'm usually totally unaware of it, part of my charm maybe? lol

[jmsmith12345]

I used to be much more of a flirt, but I have mellowed over the years.

[Orca08]

yes i love to flirt. i love to give a sexy woman eye contact whether i am in a grocery store or at a bar. now approaching them - hmmmmmm i can be very shy. i guess i use my eyes to make them blush and then uh not sure lol

[private beaches]

:lmao A really, really bad one! Its better for me to just smile and be my usual shy self!

[MarriedQt]

I'm a flirt!! If it walks, talks and is male I flirt my ass off!!

[Luna]

I used to be a flirt before I got married but then I think I forgot how... so, flirtier here absolutely.

I think flirting is what has been missing in my life and I plan to make the effort to partake in it more often. :)

[Constance]

I am no different here then I am anywhere else. I have a flirty personality.

[Luna]

I'm not much of a flirt, here or real life. I'm quite shy and very much of a cluts. Usuall all attemps result in me making a fool of myself.

I've also been described as a "pissy face", which meant for the person that granted me such a title that i looked unapproachable. Personally, could explain why i rarely have guys actually come up to talk to me. And I used to think it was because i was not cute enough lmao


I find that very hard to believe!!! You seem so charismatic and bubbly to me.

[dixiechiknga]

Nope... way shy and barely talk to anyone in person


Yeah right Shawn I believe that! lmfao

[cherri]

I admit I'm a big flirt. Here and in the real world. There are a lot men who are so darn sexy and desirable. Whether married or not, they need to know they are attractive and very much desired. So I flirt with them. I'm not over the top and rude, if anything I try to stroke their . . . .ego (pun intended). Lol. I'm definitely not shy, not with how I feel or what I want. Very open and honest about everything.

[Fwd40s]

I am definitely not much of a flirt in real life unless I know you well. Of course I don't think I'm much of a flirt on here either except for the fact that I do enjoy having fun, making others smile and being honest. Is that flirting or just nice ?

[scoobertina]

I am the same in real life.... no ifs, ands, or buts about it... well... there is one big difference... I am more subtle...

[clifton54]

I am definitely not a flirt in real life, way too shy. That's why I like this site so much, easier for me to be myself.

[midnightcallerman]

I used to be a flirt before I got married but then I think I forgot how... so, flirtier here absolutely.

I think flirting is what has been missing in my life and I plan to make the effort to partake in it more often. :)

Moongirl, I feel pretty much the same. Marriage took a lot out of my steady flirting activities (mainly online) but I loved to flirt any chance I got. I started to be that way again although my shyness sometimes steps in the way. Sometimes it is that shyness though that gets other ladies to flirt with me. :)

[Penny]

Ive been told I flirt with every man I talk to even when I dont mean to, I guess I'm just that way :gs

[sandycrotch]

I have always been a flirt in real life, I think why I like being here so much. I flirt with anything and everything. Not sure why, just always have. May go back to my early adulthood working in restaurants. I worked with women of ages ranging from 18 - 40, and I flirted with all of them, maybe just for something to break the boredom and repetition of the work. So I suppose I have about 26 years experience in flirting. I will look for your "Help Wanted" sign and and see if I am the most qualified for the job.

[living to Flirt]

I would have to say I am worse in here than in real life.... unless I know you, then, well, lets just say I have gotten myself into trouble.

[pdude]

big time, whats the harm?

[Lacey]

I've been told I'm a flirt when men are around. I don't see it,maybe it's just natural to flirt. A little eye contact,a smile and a little laugh here and there, that's all. Is that flirting?

[softrosepetal]

I'm not good at flirting online or in real life.

[phantomkreeper]

Found out from a friend I am a flirt and I dont entend to be one. Just being myself......

[scoobertina]

I think most of us are huge flirts whether we realize it or not...

[Dsparate No More]

I am a HUGE flirt in person...

[yaser]

I am a HUGE flirt in person...

:sc?

[IsThisIt@50?]

Have always loved to flirt and joke around with the men I work with and come in contact with in my world..Not trashy about it (usually anyway)...but just have a good time with my friends and with others I come in contact with.

[Domus]

lousy flirt...

[Sensual Woman]

A big time flirt...

[PunkyBob]

Yeah, I'm shameless. Can't help it, though.

[Constance]

Yeah, I'm shameless. Can't help it, though.


Punky, not you. I think I have seen you somewhere before, I am sure of it.

[Sensual Woman]

Yeah, I'm shameless. Can't help it, though.

Part of your charm hun :ok

[PlayfulMale69]

I enjoy flirting in real life. The office banter is fun. If I couldn't flirt the days would drag by slowly.

[danoesky]

I'm an extrovert and it gives me a kick to get a flirty thing going with the cuty at the check out counter at the Ace hardware store :)

I also love to meet eyes in cars, that's always fun. I have favorite customers that are woman that I like to crack up on the phone :)

So yes I'm a big flirt for real.

[mer]

well it depends on if i'm drinking or not...if i'm not drinking i'm not flirty at all!! but couple of drinks in me and watch out!!

[gdg]

I love to talk to people and flirt a little. Great moral boosts both ways.

[cherokeered]

I can be very flirty...depends on my mood...

[Constance]

I enjoy flirting in real life. The office banter is fun. If I couldn't flirt the days would drag by slowly.

Some how I can see that. I bet your are a mess.

[Luna]

LOL...yeah, I can't imagine people saying some of this stuff out loud like they do in here...hehe...but posting on here is kinda just like letting people peek in your head.

james


That is so true....

[MrHyde]

Just a little.

[countrygent07]

I'm a wanna-be flirt. It's something I have never done well, although I've carefully observed masters of the craft, male and female both. While my admiration for these champion flirters (this includes my wife) is undiminished, I seem unable to get a handle on it.

[Tndream]

I admit, im a closet flirt.
I try to flirt in public with cute guys, I wind up failing miserably though.
So I just hang around here and shamelesly flirt with you guys.

[FizProf]

I am as shy as a church mouse...

[pagirl]

I am not a flirt in real life at all...

[Tiglet]

Hell I don't flirt anywhere, I'm just friendly.

[Wil]

I chat with everyone I meet...flirt with women but tend to turn shy around ladies I'm really attracted to...:sc

[sweet]

I'm not much of a flirt outside of this site. If I know the person, I might flirt with them a little bit though, but I'm mostly very shy.

[dixiechiknga]

I am worse in real life than I am here.....OMG!!!!:ok

[Ally]

Other than a little eye contact and smiling, I'm completely useless when it comes to flirting.

[WandaRing]

A couple of days ago I was on a half filled transit bus, I asked the driver to call out a street for me, as soon as I sat down, he looked at me and said "so what's happening on Commercial? Red face I said I live there. He proceeded to tell me some jokes...as I sat like 6 feet behind him blushing like hell....Yeah I'm a great flirt, I couldn't wait to get my red face off the bus.

[gatorgal]

He would totally disagree, but I really am shy.. Cant say that im much of a flirt...

[Hotshotfireguy]

He would totally disagree, but I really am shy.. Cant say that im much of a flirt...


I'm not much of a flirt either.

[gatorgal]

I'm not much of a flirt either.



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[Hotshotfireguy]

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What??? :sg :sg :sg :sg

[UltimateNaneki]

Well I thought I only flirted here...that is a bunch of crock...I answer the phone at work and I talk to truckers...it seems I how one a beer ;)...:lmao

[msu]

I basically don't flirt at all----only an occasional MEANT compliment on how a lady looks, and even then I get concerned over HR (if at work!).....

[gatorgal]

What??? :sg :sg :sg :sg


LMAO.. I dont even know how to respond to that.. We all know you are a big flirt!!.. as long as you have fun doing it.. I say.. go for it....

[No55Mad]

I'd have to say am a flirt....stopped in at Trader Joe's today to get some stuff and made some innocent comments to the woman behind me. More than just hello, the interchange always is exciting...even though you will never see the person again.

[PunkyBob]

Punky, not you. I think I have seen you somewhere before, I am sure of it.

a) Post office wall?

b) Bravo channel?

c) I tried to hit on you?

[Missy38]

No, i'm not a big flirt in real life, can't you tell?

[FlirtyGirl1]

I'm a huge flirt thus the name. I flirt with everyone because I want them to feel good and I enjoy it :) The problem is that if they are a flirt too then it can go way too far. I have to watch myself.

[YourAssMyHand]

I'm open and willing to engage but it really depends on the person, situation, and setting.

[Luna]

As I mentioned before, marriage repressed my flirting.. but it's been slightly awakened over the last little while. I accidentally flirted at the grocery store today. A guy passed by me and I sort of smiled and then I was thinking in my head "he was cute" and then i turned the corner and he was there again, and I sort of laughed out loud like a goof. I guess that is not really flirting is it.. well, okay.. at least i am trying......

[92115guy]

As I mentioned before, marriage repressed my flirting.. but it's been slightly awakened over the last little while. I accidentally flirted at the grocery store today. A guy passed by me and I sort of smiled and then I was thinking in my head "he was cute" and then i turned the corner and he was there again, and I sort of laughed out loud like a goof. I guess that is not really flirting is it.. well, okay.. at least i am trying......

It's all about the baby steps....


james

[Loves2Flirt]

In 2008, I turned over a new leaf and have made some big changes in my life...I'm now a pretty big flirt. HENCE my name! More than anything, I love seeing the reactions I get.

[OnlY4Sum]

I tend to be shy at first, but once I know you, no hold barred, let the flirting begin!

[sassy~pants]

Before marrying the man of my dreams...... I was a HUGE flirt.... and once I found him I lost the desire to flirt with other men.... completley... I am content with him and no longer desire looking to find attentioin elsewhere.

[lilolekimba67(f)]

big flirt

[1sxymama]

I flirt a lot and they love it

[jmsmith12345]

I am no more of a flirt in real life than I am here

[Torin]

I really don't flirt at all in real life. I'm the typical soccer mom. Cute & wholesome.

It's only this place that brings out my inner slut. :D

[texsgal]

It depends on my mood and what I want :)

[vicarious]

I really don't flirt at all in real life. I'm the typical soccer mom. Cute & wholesome.

It's only this place that brings out my inner slut. :D

I'm pretty much the same way. I can be pretty shy when it comes to flirting in person. I'm also not observant when it comes to women flirting with me. It takes a really big flashing sign from her saying, "Yo! I'm flirting with you!"

But, Torin...if I ever see you in public...I'll do my best to make you blush :)

[learman3]

I don't think I start the flirting, but if someone flirts with me and I pick up on it. I would definitely flirt back.

[jmsmith12345]

I really don't flirt at all in real life. I'm the typical soccer mom. Cute & wholesome.

It's only this place that brings out my inner slut. :D

By saying you have an inner slut, does that imply an outer slut as well? are you sure you're not a Gemini?

[tallguy32]

I'm a terrible flirt. The better the mood I'm in the more I flirt. I've been in a good mood lately

[sweet]

I really don't flirt at all in real life. I'm the typical soccer mom. Cute & wholesome.

It's only this place that brings out my inner slut. :D

Yep! Same here!

[wisconsin(m)]

More and more as I have learned as long as your tasteful most women enjoy a compliment and like a little harmless teasing and flirting.

[Violet]

I'm a flirt, shamelessly so. I only curve it at my husband's work, around his boss, and around some of his friends/family. My husband's family are East Indian and there are just some stark cultural differences I try to respect.

[GentinAA]

I do have to get to know a lady a bit before flirting overtly, usually. In a social setting, after a glass or two of good Pinot Noir, well... I'm loosened up! I will compliment a lady on a nice haircut or good looks - I don't consider that flirting. Flirting is saying or acting in a way that says I'm interested in taking this a step further, whether it's possible, likely or not! For instance, a compliment is "Nice haircut!" A followup flirt would be "I like the way it shows off your neckline just behind your ears." A more overt flirt would be to gently brush her hair with my hand as I say that and letting my fingers touch her skin on her neck.

I've never actually gone that far with anyone other than my wife ... but I'd like to!

[Loves2Flirt]

Huge

[MrHyde]

It is a natural part of my personality...it comes out more here...but I am known as a flirt in real life too.

[JJordan]

Flirting is a natural reaction for me... sometimes for better, others for the worse!

[upstr84u]

24/7 big time flirt
can't hide this much built up pressure

[1sxymama]

do it all the time its fun

[Catman354]

Since I've come here and hung out on this site I've become more of a flirt. I used to be a big flirt and nieve on top of that. Age and wisdom have changed that. Now I'm just learning to be nice to be people anyway (even if they don't deserve it).

[Charmed]

I'm very shy and soft spoken........(winks)

[timd1223]

I'm very shy and soft spoken........(winks)


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good one