Lately, I've been doing a lot of soul searching. A lot of it it the kind where you kick yourself in the ass a lot (which is much harder than it sounds) and wonder "What the fuck, Katy?"

I've been on this site now since August 25, 2009. About thirteen months longer than I ever thought I'd be here. I came here because I was bored with my marriage, more bored than I could ever imagine being with a person who actually had a pulse and this strange "Mr. Toad's Wild Ride"...