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This time of year

Posted 10-08-2018 at 10:33 AM by Just A Girl
It used to be my favorite. It still is really but since my mom died a few years ago in November, it puts a bit of gloom over crunchy leaves, pumpkins and the holidays.
Every year around this time, I feel myself check out from life. I am aware of it. This morning over coffee my husband comes out of nowhere with "I'm not letting you do it this year". I looked at him sideways because I wasn't sure what he meant and he says "your mom".
I burst into tears. ...
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Second guessing

Posted 07-11-2018 at 09:21 AM by Just A Girl
I constantly second guess myself. Some of it is a character flaw. Parts of it are the scars left from the many narcissists I've encountered in my life.
I've been doing some reading lately on the characteristics of a narcissist. Mostly because that word is used a lot and I wanted a more solid definition.
I've decided that my Dad, as much as I adored the man was a text book narcissist. When my parents were married and subsequently divorced, my family would always say "he'd...
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Good Enough

Posted 09-08-2017 at 01:15 PM by Just A Girl
I think during various points in all of our lives, we all struggle with our self esteem. If you haven't, I'm jealous. If you have, then perhaps you will relate more to this blog than those that have not.
Generally, my life is pretty happy. I love my new home and the slower, simpler life than I'd known. My job is fairly normal in that some days I love it and some days I hate it. I'm blessed to work from home and I get paid pretty well for what I do. I have an amazingly perfect Bubba...
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I know this may shock you....

Posted 05-30-2017 at 09:46 PM by Just A Girl
I am an introvert. I'm not shy but I relish, savor and refuel on my alone time. Chit chat is fine in small doses but too much makes me uncomfortable.
This has caused some issues with friends and family over the years. The people who know me well know that my need for solitude is no reflection on them but I'm not so oblivious that I can't understand the frustration.
This caused a lot of issues when my hubs and I were first married. He took my need to make down time personally....
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Dear Bubba...

Posted 03-16-2017 at 12:25 PM by Just A Girl
Dear Bubba,
I wish you could wrap your brain around just how proud I am of you for being an amazing young man. The independence and responsibility you have shown your freshman year at college have truly surprised me. Not because I didn't think you were able but because it was such a life change. Every time I see you, you look different. You don't look like a kid anymore. You look like a young man. When you call me to tell me about what's happening in your life, the confidence and happiness...
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