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Posted 10-19-2010 at 03:30 PM by Kissie
I am frustrated...I am pissed off beyond belief!!!
Ty's behavior is going in the wrong direction...and I just dont know how to handle it anymore...I would love to be able to duct tape him to the fan and just not deal with it anymore!!!!!
I am tired of the school not helping me...and I am tired of hsi behavior specialist patting me on the back and telling me I am doing a good job...BULLSHIT!!!!
If I was doing such a good job with Ty...why arent things getting better????
Today the school decided that they could no longer deal with the behavior and tossed it all back into my lap and sent his ass home for the day...he is only 6 and getting a day long suspension...what the fuck am I supposed to do????
I have made a choice that I am not sure is going in the right direction...although I dont knwo what the right direction is...I have made an appt with his primary care...and think I will talk to him about maybe getting Ty checked for ADD or ADHD...I really dont think that is the problem...but what the hell it is worth a try right????
If anyone has any ideas I am open to them...
All I can say is.....
H E L P!!
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Frenchie_lady's Avatar
First, as usual, I think you are stronger than you think... but jeez, I so feel your lack of patience and fear of not doing what needs to be done.

I think you are going in the right direction to have him checked. Even if its not ADD or ADHD, they will check him for more than just that; either way, you should have answers.

I never asked... but was his mother on drugs when she was pregnant with him? That could go a long way explaining his behavior. And that could help professionals steering him and you in the right direction.

Have you talked to the school teacher and principals? Do they know you have a behavior specialist? Do they communicate together? Somehow, you need to get EVERYONE on the same plan, otherwise Ty will find the cracks and never change.

I feel for you, although differently, I'm having some of the same issues as you are. I will keep you advised of how we are doing on our end and try to comfort you.

You are his best hope hunny, keep that in mind, and give yourself some credit will ya? Oh, and some time off just for you as well.

Posted 10-20-2010 at 03:56 PM by Frenchie_lady Frenchie_lady is offline
Sensual Woman's Avatar
You need to DEMAND an emergency meeting with the school and an evaluation by the school psychologist. They are legally obligated to educate him, in public school or the district must pay for an alternative school if they can't handle him there. Get him evaluated by a child psychaitrist. And hang in there! You can call on me anytime.
Posted 10-21-2010 at 05:56 PM by Sensual Woman Sensual Woman is offline
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