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scoobertina 03-13-2011 05:21 PM

Are you a hugger?
My daughter and I had a deep discussion about hugging...

I am a hugger.. I hug people I care about.. friends, family... and people I have met more than one time... if I meet someone I have met online in person I will probably hug them.. it is just who i am... however, my daughter is not a hugger... she said she needs to *shit, what is that word?* work on making her half hugs better... she isn't sure how much to hug or how little...

lol.. anyhow...

so are you a hugger? do you hug a lot, just certain people? or are you a half hugger?.. do you avoid hugging?

Savvyone. 03-13-2011 05:23 PM

Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!!

tink062570 03-13-2011 05:25 PM

I hug all the time ... it is just away of acknowleding those that are important to me . Not sure if i could go without hugging ... I am probably like you if i met some of my closest friends in the real i would probably hug them to ... just think that we all are so close it would just be natural ...

Sneaky 03-13-2011 05:33 PM


Well that isn't EXACTLY true. I will hug the people I love really good. But I'm a genuine hugger. I hate the fake hugs. I do NOT like people I don't know hugging me. I reserve my hugs for the few and sometimes I will squoosh them to death with hugs. There is NOTHING better than a REAL hug.

SpecialK 03-13-2011 05:41 PM

I will hug.. but almost never initiate a hug.... not that I'm opposed to it.. but I think that a hug actually means something.. and unless I'm really close to someone.. it generally won't happen.

moodyman 03-13-2011 05:43 PM

oh yes if ive met you a couple of times you'll likely get a hug from me, i have to say though some people are standaffish about it so i dont hug them. Most of my freinds i hug hello and goodbye though..

wayneypoo 03-13-2011 06:00 PM

alas i wasent hugged as a child hence im not a hugger ?is there a hugging rehab place near by!

texjim37 03-13-2011 07:06 PM

A Hugger .... love it.

disturbiagirl 03-13-2011 07:20 PM

I hug those I care for....

Gigglez 03-13-2011 07:29 PM

I am a very affectionate person which means I am a big time hugger ... Love hugging ... But I only hug the people I love (family/close friends/the man I am in a relationship with ... that excludes the husband LOL)

dcowboy09 03-13-2011 07:29 PM

I do enjoy a good hug .......

Devon 03-13-2011 07:49 PM

probably half hugger

Tessa76 03-13-2011 07:56 PM

I'm one of those annoying people who completely disregard personal space. I hug, I touch, I lean in...I'm all over your shit.

Han Solo 03-13-2011 07:59 PM

If you are one of my kids, then Yes........everyone else who moves in for that gets the "REALLY, WHY are you doing this" :rolleyes: face when they can't see.

BlondieS 03-13-2011 08:29 PM

NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.

joemerchant 03-13-2011 08:31 PM


Originally Posted by stellabelle (Post 2622514)
NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.

very telling statement

Just A Girl 03-13-2011 08:32 PM

I'm a hugger but only with people I genuinely want to hug........if I don't want to hug you its definitely a half hug

virgochick 03-13-2011 08:32 PM

I'm very affectionate and love hugging but only if I like the person

Kissie 03-13-2011 08:35 PM

Im a hugger!!

bluesafire 03-13-2011 08:39 PM

I love to hug! But if I don't know you, you might get one of those side hugs.

Daves70 03-13-2011 08:43 PM


Originally Posted by Savvyone (Post 2622164)
Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!!

Ya have to leave it to Savvy to always throw that little extra

I'm a hugger too - but my wife doesn't care for my kind of hugs - she prefers that I keep my arms at her waist.....but where's the fun in that?

Daves70 03-13-2011 08:47 PM

One time around Christmas while I was working at the airport a stewardess came off the flight and gave me a great big hug. I told my wife afterwards....she was absolutely wanted to call up her company to give her heck.

You know, I can still remember that hug to this

Beccs 03-13-2011 08:50 PM

I'm a hugger. Hugs make everything better. No matter how upset or angry I am, a hug from the right person just cheers me up. They make u feel safe, calm, loved and accepted.
I also hug my friends, i love them, so why not?!

Beccs 03-13-2011 08:51 PM


Originally Posted by wayneypoo (Post 2622203)
alas i wasent hugged as a child hence im not a hugger ?is there a hugging rehab place near by!

I'll rehab u, just follow the M1 and u'll get there lol

Ivan 03-13-2011 09:02 PM

I was siting in a coffee shop this morning looking out the window. Two older people, a white guy and black women, passed each other on the sidewalk. They stopped, smiled, and gave each other a big friendly hug. Thought that was cool.

How people greet really varies a lot by country ... in some places it's not done at all.

Sugarsack 03-13-2011 09:12 PM

i am a hugger... i don't hug just anyone i meet..however seeing a friend or loved one.. yes i hug A LOT - i'm touchy feely that way

Ms. M 03-13-2011 09:20 PM

I'm not much of a hugger - except with family.

I am, however, an arm-toucher...I'm that annoying person who reaches over and touches your arm when I'm talking or when I'm really into a conversation.

lucybite 03-13-2011 10:58 PM

I wasnt hugged as a child so I don't hug my family as much. But I do hug my friends and feel more comfortable when I hug them.

FLPhil70 03-13-2011 11:33 PM

I'm Italian. Anytime the family got together everyone was greeted with hugs and kisses. I got very used to that at an early age. As a result, yes, I'm definitely a hugger.

redcat 03-13-2011 11:48 PM

I like hugs and believe everyone should have several a day...the contact is good for your overall health. I don't necessarily hug someone upon meeting them but if I've enjoyed their company I'll hug them, though don't usually initiate in those situations.

Good friends and family always get hugs!

Just_a_bloke_looking 03-14-2011 12:39 AM

It really depends on my mood. Generally, I'd say I'm pretty reserved.

scoobertina 03-14-2011 01:53 AM

I have read a few things where people mention that they either weren't hugged a lot as a child or they were and thus they are the same way...

however.. I am a hugger, but my daughter is not... something is remiss here I think... I hugged my kids a lot... but I think I do get it... she got hugs from me but rarely from her dad.. and we never lived near our families... so she didnt have that family thing as I did when I grew up... yes, my family hugs... we are huggers... but I always thought that was because we are Minnesotans and we had to stay warm.. hugging was one way to do that... lol.. ok.. stupid joke... I know I know...

Cristal 03-14-2011 01:56 AM

I like hugs. Now if you are a weirdo I do have my personal space rule (3 feet) from me. I hug my friends,co-workers,kids,my babies. I do miss the romantic full body hug where you hang on tight.

nuts 4 u 03-14-2011 02:23 AM

I not a big hugger wife and kids ok . Just people not so much and guys no not at all . I know someone who force there kids hug everyone in the room .

butterflykisses 03-14-2011 02:28 AM

I love to HUG, makes me feel all warm inside, when some one hugs me and means it...

Sin 03-14-2011 01:16 PM

Having big arms a broad chest and always being warm makes me a great hugger, unless I'm cooling down after some exertion then nope!!!..... I run hot.

Gary58 03-14-2011 01:20 PM

I love to hug and can't understand why my real time crush doesn't

Tessa76 05-11-2011 11:53 PM

Hell to the yeah and I would give just about anything to have a good hug right now. A long one.

Mr_Happy 05-12-2011 12:10 AM

i love hugs

irishmclad 05-12-2011 12:44 AM

Yes,,, love giving and getting

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