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myimage13 07-18-2008 06:30 AM

Sex! Is it important?
 
Sex! Is it important?



So how important is sex in a relationship? Are you waiting for the sun to go down or is it just a tiny little desire?



Post your views


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crlscone 07-18-2008 07:29 AM

sex is very important

icylady125 07-18-2008 07:39 AM

not alwys...but affection and closeness is!

jmsmith12345 07-18-2008 07:44 AM

I feel that sex is very important in that it connects two people in a way nothing else does.

sweet 07-18-2008 08:17 AM

I think sex is an important part of a relationship. It's a great way to express the love and the passion you have for each other. Of course there are always other ways to show someone you love them, but this is just a way that's so much more fun. ;)

catm 07-18-2008 08:23 AM

Intimacy is important. If you can achieve that without sex then fine, but sex makes it easier to obtain that closeness - "oneness".

Orca08 07-18-2008 08:33 AM

is this a trick question?
like i have said in the post about the meaning of life SEX is part of it lol

btw cat what if that hardon never goes down lol

RedVixen 07-18-2008 08:38 AM

Sex is important whether you're in a relationship or not.

mrwhatif 07-18-2008 09:25 AM

I agree, food shelter and sex

wastntim 07-18-2008 09:28 AM

I'm not sure how important it is. I've spent most of the last two years w/o it and am still married, but maybe that's how I found this site.

catm 07-18-2008 09:28 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orca08 (Post 1073128)
is this a trick question?
like i have said in the post about the meaning of life SEX is part of it lol

btw cat what if that hardon never goes down lol

then you need to go to the emergency room! Ask for the Head Nurse :lmao

Orca08 07-18-2008 09:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by catmom (Post 1073183)
then you need to go to the emergency room! Ask for the Head Nurse :lmao

hmmmmmmmm will she help it go down.

Frenchie_lady 07-18-2008 09:58 AM

Well, the less you have, the more it becomes important.

But in a relationship, it has to be equally important (or not important) to both partners. I have friends that rarely have sex and they are both in perfect harmony about it.

COWGIRL_LEO7 07-18-2008 10:01 AM

Sex is very importantant. It's a way to really show someone you love them.

Frenchie_lady 07-18-2008 10:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by COWGIRL_LEO7 (Post 1073212)
Sex is very importantant. It's a way to really show someone you love them.

I hear that a lot... sex being the expression of love... i truly feel like an alien on that... to me, sex is just sex, no matter how great it is.

MarriedQt 07-18-2008 10:03 AM

I think its important......sex is a natural release and a great way to make up after a fight!!

sweet 07-18-2008 10:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dragon_lady (Post 1073214)
I hear that a lot... sex being the expression of love... i truly feel like an alien on that... to me, sex is just sex, no matter how great it is.

True... but I think she's talking about when two people are in a commited relationship, which in that case I agree that sex is one way to show love for the other person. Now if you're not in a relationship and just want to have sex with someone because you're attracted to them, then no, sex wouldn't be an expression of love.

TheTurtle 07-18-2008 11:03 AM

Sex is extremely important; as well as the enjoyment and desire by both partners.

Constance 07-18-2008 11:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrwhatif (Post 1073179)
I agree, food shelter and sex

Well, I guess just the basics are all we need. But it never hurts to have a little more. :sc

Krystal 07-18-2008 11:23 AM

When you're not getting it, it becomes all consuming. Yeah....I'd say it's important. It may not be the backbone of a relationship, but if you're lacking in that area, the rest kinda falls apart.

Frenchie_lady 07-18-2008 11:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweet (Post 1073246)
True... but I think she's talking about when two people are in a commited relationship, which in that case I agree that sex is one way to show love for the other person. Now if you're not in a relationship and just want to have sex with someone because you're attracted to them, then no, sex wouldn't be an expression of love.

Well now i feel bad! Been married 7 years... with him much longer!

Granted... not the greatest relationship ever... love is not the first or second reason of that relationship.

i'm probably gonna go "Duh!" if i ever fall in love and experience it!

Nick182 07-18-2008 12:20 PM

For me and my relationship... sex is important. Not just for me... but her as well.

Rays 07-18-2008 12:24 PM

For a guy it is near the top of the list. Tough to explain why, but if the sex is not there, then nothing else matters.

LuckyJest 07-18-2008 12:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mrwhatif (Post 1073179)
I agree, food shelter and sex



I think it's food, shelter, sex...clothing optional....

Torin 07-18-2008 12:35 PM

It's almost at the top of my list. I think without sex sometimes to remind me that I am more than a mom, I would slide into a place where I would lose ME.


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