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Sugarsack 03-13-2011 09:12 PM

i am a hugger... i don't hug just anyone i meet..however seeing a friend or loved one.. yes i hug A LOT - i'm touchy feely that way

Ms. M 03-13-2011 09:20 PM

I'm not much of a hugger - except with family.

I am, however, an arm-toucher...I'm that annoying person who reaches over and touches your arm when I'm talking or when I'm really into a conversation.

lucybite 03-13-2011 10:58 PM

I wasnt hugged as a child so I don't hug my family as much. But I do hug my friends and feel more comfortable when I hug them.

FLPhil70 03-13-2011 11:33 PM

I'm Italian. Anytime the family got together everyone was greeted with hugs and kisses. I got very used to that at an early age. As a result, yes, I'm definitely a hugger.

redcat 03-13-2011 11:48 PM

I like hugs and believe everyone should have several a day...the contact is good for your overall health. I don't necessarily hug someone upon meeting them but if I've enjoyed their company I'll hug them, though don't usually initiate in those situations.

Good friends and family always get hugs!

Just_a_bloke_looking 03-14-2011 12:39 AM

It really depends on my mood. Generally, I'd say I'm pretty reserved.

scoobertina 03-14-2011 01:53 AM

I have read a few things where people mention that they either weren't hugged a lot as a child or they were and thus they are the same way...

however.. I am a hugger, but my daughter is not... something is remiss here I think... I hugged my kids a lot... but I think I do get it... she got hugs from me but rarely from her dad.. and we never lived near our families... so she didnt have that family thing as I did when I grew up... yes, my family hugs... we are huggers... but I always thought that was because we are Minnesotans and we had to stay warm.. hugging was one way to do that... lol.. ok.. stupid joke... I know I know...

Cristal 03-14-2011 01:56 AM

I like hugs. Now if you are a weirdo I do have my personal space rule (3 feet) from me. I hug my friends,co-workers,kids,my babies. I do miss the romantic full body hug where you hang on tight.

nuts 4 u 03-14-2011 02:23 AM

I not a big hugger wife and kids ok . Just people not so much and guys no not at all . I know someone who force there kids hug everyone in the room .

butterflykisses 03-14-2011 02:28 AM

I love to HUG, makes me feel all warm inside, when some one hugs me and means it...

Sin 03-14-2011 01:16 PM

Having big arms a broad chest and always being warm makes me a great hugger, unless I'm cooling down after some exertion then nope!!!..... I run hot.

Gary58 03-14-2011 01:20 PM

I love to hug and can't understand why my real time crush doesn't

Tessa76 05-11-2011 11:53 PM

Hell to the yeah and I would give just about anything to have a good hug right now. A long one.

Mr_Happy 05-12-2011 12:10 AM

i love hugs

irishmclad 05-12-2011 12:44 AM

Yes,,, love giving and getting

glamourgirl 05-12-2011 01:01 AM

kind of... i come from a long line of shake hands while you kiss on the cheek kind of people, but there is a left handed hug in there also... takes a minute

BlueEyedMale40 05-12-2011 01:03 AM


Originally Posted by Tessa76 (Post 2758996)
Hell to the yeah and I would give just about anything to have a good hug right now. A long one.


cordelia. 05-12-2011 05:07 AM

Definitely a hugger....I also believe that physical touch makes in impact on emotional and physical health. When I was teaching, I couldn't count the number of precious hugs I got every single day. Now that I am home all day and in a land devoid of touch I can tell a difference. And for those I love, those big, hold you tight hugs are the best...the kind where you just get wrapped up.

Scoobertina, my kids aren't overly "huggy" either. They are more like their dad in that sense. But when they DO hug just melts my heart, esp my teenage son, who now towers over me (when did that happen????)

I do admit to having one of those big body pillows that I hug every night while sleeping.

Big O 05-12-2011 05:17 AM

I am a hugger and a toucher.... I can't get enough with people I care about.
and don't laugh but after having sex there is nothing better....

newoman. 05-12-2011 06:38 AM

I like to hug and be hugged...about 10 years ago it was my birthday and we didn't have any money. My other half gave me an IOU saying " IOU 2 hugs per day for the rest of time" ....I still have that note on the fridge, and I collect on it every day without fail.

Cono 05-12-2011 06:45 AM

Hugging,Cuddling i love it all

Cheekee71 05-12-2011 07:21 AM

Lena 05-12-2011 07:30 AM

Love to hug and be hugged!
But not just anyone passing by, has to be with someone I care about!

Lena 05-12-2011 07:31 AM


Originally Posted by Cheekee71 (Post 2759401)

awww cute!!

pjcmcg66 05-12-2011 07:31 AM

Am a huge hugger; love to hug with abandon :) I don't discrimate … hug people I just met too, just with a little less onslaught. It's just the way I am -- miss touch so much, can't get enough I suppose. and I've been lucky; people usually hug back, although some with more reticence, and don't take offense. none of that one-armed can't-let-the-boobs/nether regions-touch crap either! good, full nonsexual just i-love-to-hug hugs!!

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