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skippy34 01-31-2012 08:33 PM

How can I tell if you're available?
 
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DiscreetGuy 01-31-2012 08:39 PM

I'll get back to you as soon as something works.

scoobertina 01-31-2012 08:53 PM

I've just asked... no reason to beat around the bush...

I really think you are a special guy.. I'd love to get to know you better... are you married? this might be why I scare men.. is this too forward?

however in a married relationship it can be different.. how about.. I'd love to get to know you better.. You seem really great. and then let it go from there.. if you become friendly with them you will find out if they are available or not within the first few chats...

Bailey~* 01-31-2012 08:57 PM

I'm not sure any of us know the answer to this.. and I imagine we've all been running the idea around in our heads off and on since around 14 years of age...

It's not just married people.. It's always hard to guess who might be attracted to us or open to something.

you usually just have to take a leap of faith.

As a married person, your leaps just have to be a little more careful.. especially if you're leaping close to home.

tnfem 01-31-2012 09:00 PM

I show him my boobs.

DiscreetGuy 01-31-2012 09:04 PM

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Originally Posted by tnfem (Post 3367159)
I show him my boobs.

And then there is the indirect approach.......

tnfem 01-31-2012 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by DiscreetGuy (Post 3367164)
And then there is the indirect approach.......

Yeah...indirect is showing my ass

billy383 01-31-2012 09:40 PM

Wow, a tough and serious question. Of course each situation will be unique. In general it helps if each of you has been married awhile. Being good friends helps, but then there's the added pressure of fear of screwing up a friendship. Seriously ladies, do you think a true friend is going to be upset to find out your sexually attracted to him? But friends or not, be a grownup, dont pout or turn hateful if your rejected (or worse-become persistant). I have friends who are wild about a girl and I just dont see it, and other girls that aren't the belle of the ball but Something about them stimulates me. So it really is true, it's not you-its them! Most important of all, way most important of all...at least TRY. We've got one shot at life, every opportunity for happiness (and pleasure) that we let slip by is gone forever. And if you need practice...I'M AVAILABLE!:sex

Fwd40s 01-31-2012 09:41 PM

I've made direct statements of interest......with no success

I've played post stalking....still didn't work

I've shown friendly interest.....no goal but makes me feel better

So it doesn't matter. If it's meant to happen it will otherwise you are just SOL.

daisyduck 01-31-2012 09:50 PM

When you see the little green light on:sg

Shawn 01-31-2012 09:53 PM

I think most will assume you are talking here at M&F ... which I think is a bit easier .. after you get to know them its really up to them to let you know they are "taken" and your relationship will be on the friend type level ... kiss of death but one you should respect.

In R/L ... those are some treacherous waters to navigate ... especially if you have friends whom know the individual .. one wrong move, bad comment and you are strutin around with the Scarlett letter on your forehead labeled as "Pervy-guy" .... good luck either way ...

Fwd40s 01-31-2012 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by daisyduck (Post 3367222)
When you see the little green light on:sg

Do you mean the one below the red light at some of the major intersections ?

daisyduck 01-31-2012 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Fwd40s (Post 3367229)
Do you mean the one below the red light at some of the major intersections ?

No the green light on your forehead!:p

tnfem 01-31-2012 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Shawn (Post 3367226)
and you are strutin around with the Scarlett letter on your forehead ...

The letter goes on your forehead??? I thought it went on your chest...kinda like superman...:D

likesherbuttons 01-31-2012 10:06 PM

A little pinch ....

Savvyone. 01-31-2012 10:33 PM

When I mention I am used but in good condition.

Fwd40s 01-31-2012 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Savvyone (Post 3367309)
When I mention I am used but in good condition.

Quit being modest, you're in great condition......just look at those heels

DomesticDiva 01-31-2012 10:56 PM

How can I tell what's in that blue bottle behind ya :sc

Texmale1974 01-31-2012 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by DomesticDiva (Post 3367357)
How can I tell what's in that blue bottle behind ya :sc

Seriously, what is it? You were focusing on his dong and you saw the blue bottle huh?

DomesticDiva 01-31-2012 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Texmale1974 (Post 3367410)
Seriously, what is it? You were focusing on his dong and you saw the blue bottle huh?


:yks u must think I'm some kinda perv er' sumfin....:p

artemis 01-31-2012 11:26 PM

Still confused... Who is really available? And this information will help how ?

skippy34 01-31-2012 11:46 PM

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LittleMiss 01-31-2012 11:46 PM

I'll actually pay attention to you and give you more than one word answers...on here or in real life

artemis 02-01-2012 12:00 AM

I agree with Littlemiss. But sometimes it's hard to tell in a thread.. I've asked someone sorta & been asked.. I guess in all subtle ways... But sometimes people out here "like"/"interact" with multiple people at once.. How? Beats me! I can't... So hence confused & being flirty & friendly and that's it... For now.. :)

dcowboy09 02-01-2012 12:03 AM

I usually hang a neon sign out that says "available", thought it was better than "open for business"


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