I need advice - Page 2

jimmy-love-fl · 11-06-2009, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by redcat

.might be wise, in your clean-up process, to remove your pics from your sig line, etc.

Good point. LOL

neil48 · 11-06-2009, 05:16 PM

WoW, no hugs from me but eating my popcorn here now......good luck....

3pmac · 11-06-2009, 05:54 PM

[quote=redcat;1765793]Jimmy...not knowing how much anyone knows, or how far they will go...might be wise, in your clean-up process, to remove your pics from your sig line, etc.

Red....

redcat · 11-06-2009, 05:55 PM

Jimmy...change your profile details too....jeeez, do I have to tell you everything? LOL

redcat · 11-06-2009, 05:55 PM

[quote=3pmac;1765853]

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Originally Posted by redcat

Jimmy...not knowing how much anyone knows, or how far they will go...might be wise, in your clean-up process, to remove your pics from your sig line, etc.

Red....

What????

pointofnoreturn · 11-06-2009, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Dragon_lady

Jimmy... you only have 2 choices here... tell or not to tell.

You can wait and see if the "friend" will talk, and in the mean time you clean up as much stuff that can be linked to you and hope she will not. Personally, that's what I'd do (hell, that's what i've DONE).

You can sit down with your wife and start from the beggining... tell her about your feelings for her and about her and then explain what you did to find a certain peace and balance in your life and how you came to cheat on her. Difficult huh?

I will always remember a piece of advice I have heard somewhere about cheating: never "confess", it only serves your own conscience. Between you and me, she will be pissed at you weather its you who tells her or that friend no?

Never offer up information unless requested. It does not make them feel better. It also will not make you feel better when you have upset her even more. I say ride it out a bit....

IALionGuy · 11-06-2009, 06:54 PM

Redcat, you're so-o-o-o hot when you get tough . . .

pointofnoreturn · 11-06-2009, 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by jimmy-love-fl

I had a really rough night last night. I got a phone call from someone in my past from over a year ago. She basically told me she had told her best friend that we were together, and one night her best friend was drunk and they were driving by my billboard and she developed diarrhea of the mouth and started talking about how her friend had slept with this guy and how he was married. Well, she didn't take too well to it, because her husband cheated on her at some point, so she was on a mission. I guess they had talked enough about it, that she went through and found my old personal ad on Ashley Madison. I didn't even know it was still viewable by people but apparently it was. Not that it showed my face or anything, but for her it was confirmation.

She told them both she felt like she needed to tell my wife. They think they have her talked out of it, but it scares the shit out of me. Any thoughts, or suggestions?

Now where is that billboard, and are you still on Ashley Madison???I am looking.....Be careful honestly...

jimmy-love-fl · 11-07-2009, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by pointofnoreturn

Now where is that billboard, and are you still on Ashley Madison???I am looking.....Be careful honestly...

I'm not on there any more, so you won't find me. Or were you looking for the billboard?

11-06-2009, 05:16 PM	#27
neil48 Flirting God Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: NC Age: 49 Posts: 2,839 My Mood: Thanks: 398 Thanked 431 Times in 385 Posts	WoW, no hugs from me but eating my popcorn here now......good luck.... __________________ I,ll be good

11-06-2009, 05:54 PM	#28
3pmac Too much time on my hands Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 41 Posts: 1,161 My Mood: Thanks: 172 Thanked 213 Times in 178 Posts	[quote=redcat;1765793]Jimmy...not knowing how much anyone knows, or how far they will go...might be wise, in your clean-up process, to remove your pics from your sig line, etc. Red.... __________________ I live in my own little World, But its OK,They know ME here Life begins at the end of your comfort zone

11-06-2009, 05:55 PM	#29
redcat Forum Leader Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 53 Posts: 10,815 My Mood: Thanks: 1,500 Thanked 1,669 Times in 1,208 Posts Blog Entries: 8	Jimmy...change your profile details too....jeeez, do I have to tell you everything? LOL

11-06-2009, 06:54 PM	#32
IALionGuy Super Flirt Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: IA Age: 60 Posts: 300 Thanks: 56 Thanked 32 Times in 31 Posts	Redcat, you're so-o-o-o hot when you get tough . . .