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Old 06-17-2013, 03:22 PM   #1
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I am new to this site. I've been married for ages and love my husband with every part of my being. The problem is that we've grown apart and I'm not sure he's interested in closing that gap. He enjoys getting online to find friends who can fill that whole in his life. I don't believe he has any plans to leave, he's comfortable with the routine and our raising our child. But he expresses no intimacy towards me and doesn't seem like he wants to re-kindle it.

Is it normal for spouses to become more like housemates or co-parents but not want to feel the love and passion with each other anymore? If so, how long can you keep up that online romance before you cross over into physically cheating?

I'm interested in other's experiences and opinions. I want to have my relationship back with my husband but he doesn't like to talk about issues. I wouldn't expect him to walk away from online friends but I would expect that they don't replace me in meeting those intimate needs he has (physically or emotionally).

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Old 06-17-2013, 03:31 PM   #2
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Looks like you will find many in your situation .. Welcome to the site.
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:36 PM   #3
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:38 PM   #4
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Welcome to the site and I wish I had anything to add, but good luck. We are all chasing something, hopefully sometime we can catch it.
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:40 PM   #5
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Many of us here are in the same boat.
Not sure that anyone will have a perfect answer but everyone will have an opinion.
I have friends on here but no significant other.
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:55 PM   #6
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Hi, this site will be good for your confidence enjoy
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:01 PM   #7
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There are quite a few who happen to have their hubbies on this forum just like you
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:07 PM   #8
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You can count me as a plus one for your situation. Beyond being mates and parents, my wife has no other interest in anything else from the marriage. We just bobble along like room mates, a situation she is extremely comfortable with. I'm not, which is why I've found myself here.
I hope you find what you're after.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:09 PM   #9
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Welcome. From time to time relationships do tend to form on here. A word to the wise, be careful!
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:16 PM   #10
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:35 PM   #11
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Significant other I don't think that's gonna happen with me
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:07 PM   #12
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no significant other here, but lve chatted with some very nice people.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:34 PM   #13
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:36 PM   #14
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:42 PM   #15
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Hi and Welcome.
I don't have an online significant other. And I don't know that anyone can say what's normal in a marriage. Lots of hugs.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:49 PM   #16
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No partner here but welcome to the site!
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:59 PM   #17
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Hi Subrina....you have some interesting questions and thoughts running through your head.

If you asking for opinions about your husbands chances of meeting one of these women he chats to online..............I'd say its pretty low...very actually

now do I have a significant other on line.....I'd have to say yes and saying that it doesn't mean I want to run off and make babies with her

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Old 06-17-2013, 06:04 PM   #18
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When I asked my ex husband for a divorce he found this site.. he knew I was here and he came in looking to see what went wrong in our marriage... it was not the site that went wrong, we grew apart..

all I can suggest to you is to try to talk to him, try to rekindle the magic, but it takes two to tango and if he is truly not interested being here will not help bring him back.. and I am wondering if he is here and that is why you chose this site to come to..

honestly, I love to see happy endings, and I hope you find it.. with the man you married... and if it doesn't work out, then I hope you find that this place is a good place to come when you are lonely.. and that you find something to fulfill your needs...

I myself have had online SO's, and i'm not on the market for another.. they only lead to heartache when you can't have what you want..
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Old 06-17-2013, 06:50 PM   #19
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welcome to the site

Oh.. good catch hijiller.. lol.. that's what I get for skimming...

I think it is far more common that people realize, actually..to connect with other people online.. it offers a level of emotional intimacy that isn't always there in a marriage..

And.. I sincerely hope you're able to recapture that with your husband if that's what you both want. Hugs to you.

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Old 06-17-2013, 06:53 PM   #20
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I think she is worrying about her husband forming a relationship..it doesn't sound like she is ready herself..she is still madly in love.
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Old 06-17-2013, 07:11 PM   #21
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I think she is worrying about her husband forming a relationship..it doesn't sound like she is ready herself..she is still madly in love.

Nailed it..........Welcome and good luck
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Old 06-17-2013, 07:28 PM   #22
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I think the majority of people who meet online probably never occupy the same physical space and out of the few that do most don't end up together long term. Having that knowledge probably isn't going to make you rest any better at night knowing someone else is getting what you desire even online!
Communication in any relationship is essential to its survival and if both of you are thinking about what he wants.. you need better representation so SPEAK UP.
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Old 06-17-2013, 07:39 PM   #23
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Old 06-17-2013, 07:56 PM   #24
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welcome to the site. Online relationships can have so many different flavors with anything from purre friendship only to occasional friendships to wild passionate lust.

So the only question to answer is what flavor do you like ?
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:06 PM   #25
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Hmmmmm, I thought I had one once....then one day I thought I dumped her, then one day, I thought she dumped me....then, I quit going online for a while....now....I don't know
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