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Old 08-23-2010, 10:50 AM   #76
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This subject was one of those watershed moments when I realized just how far apart my hub and I are.

Hub knows I won't have more kids. My pregnancies (22 years apart) were nine months of daily hurling, 24 hour a day nausea and since it took me 22 years to get up the gumption to go through that again, I will be 60 the next time I've forgotten enough to try again.

Not to mention that hub's business is over $1.5 million in debt, we have a house that will never be worth what we owe - even though we have poured over $20k into it in six years and I'm not married to anything that could be considered an equal partner. Oh yeah, his being a drunk too, the deal was if I got pregnant, he would control his daily drinking. bwaahaaahaaa

Anyway, when I brought it up, because trying to find 10 minutes for each other is hard enough, let alone when I have to use the contraception 15 minutes before, here was the conversation.

Him: No. I only have one child and if something happens to her, I'm going to have another one.

Me: You can't replace a child

Him: I would.

Me: Not with me.

Him: If something happens to our daughter, I'd divorce you anyway.

Alrighty then. Can't get much clearer than that.

He still wonders why I'm not hot for him 24/7, jeesh.
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:09 AM   #77
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Back in 2000 after many arguments and apprehension on my part I finally agreed to it.I went out,saw a DR,and made the appt. However,a week later I was seriously injured in work,and was on light duty(desk job) for a year. So it never got done,or came up again.The injury was worse than the V,so if given the choice the V doesn't sound so bad.
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:23 AM   #78
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I got mine in 2002...it really wasn't all that bad. Unfortunately, I've probably had sex less than 10 times since then
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:48 AM   #79
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I can't wait for my hubby to get his done, and for now we are recouping from tonsil surgery about an hour ago!
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:55 AM   #80
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Ok, so after my wife and I are done having kids, the plan is for me to get a vasectomy. I was reading the "Condoms?" thread earlier and the big "V" seemed to come up several times.

I'm curious what all the men have to say about this. I'm sure some have already gone through this process. Did anything change afterwords (other than the lack of sperm of course)? Are your orgasms the same? Does the feeling change? Do you last longer, shorter, no change? Do you feel emasculated? Does it make you feel like you can go out an have an affair and not worry (come on, we've all thought it, right)???? Any of your thoughts are welcome and appreciated!

Women, do you notice any changes in your husbands sex life?? Sex drive decrease/increase? Taste different? Anything you can think of?
All I got it your getting one or got one and well that means skin to skin , nice and warm inside me? wink...
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:57 AM   #81
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My hubby says he is open to doing it, and then it never goes anywhere after that. So I am guessing it's a no.
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Old 08-23-2010, 11:58 AM   #82
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My hubby got one four years ago and while it was traumatic for him at the time, we had to stop having kids! I highly recommend it to anyone.
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Old 08-23-2010, 12:03 PM   #83
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Old 08-23-2010, 12:09 PM   #84
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My hubby got one four years ago and while it was traumatic for him at the time, we had to stop having kids! I highly recommend it to anyone.
Traumatic?

I had one done and it was NOTHING.

I have had SHOTS that hurt worse...
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Old 08-23-2010, 09:00 PM   #85
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Old 08-23-2010, 09:03 PM   #86
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my husband had one after we had our 2nd child. We were done having biological children and the thought of my being on birth control for the next 25-30 years didn't appeal to me.

He had his done on a Thursday, Friday I took the kids and visited my sister and he stayed with his parents. Dr said there was less blood with the procedure then when a guy cuts himself shaving. No big deal.
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Old 08-23-2010, 09:09 PM   #88
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No I almost had one many years ago but decided against it. Luckily because I divorced and remarried and had another child. I may be getting older and the bullets may be fewer and slower but they still work.
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Had mine done 4 year ago. No regrets at all. I'm done with having babies. I'm shooting blanks and LOVING it!
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I got the big V myself. Love it and never looked back. Not really that painful, very sexy to not be loaded. And no change in anything regarding sex life. No change in taste, volume, or anything.
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My grandparents had a farm...I saw what happened to steers & hogs when they got fixed....no thanks
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Make sure you remind your wife that once you have the procedure, it trumps her "I gave birth to the children!!" ranting. You will have endured something much more difficult and don't be afraid to let her know about this whenever the opportunity presents itself.
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Make sure you remind your wife that once you have the procedure, it trumps her "I gave birth to the children!!" ranting. You will have endured something much more difficult and don't be afraid to let her know about this whenever the opportunity presents itself.

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don't even come close sorry 22 hours in labor here and I don't let him forget that....
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