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Old 07-14-2010, 07:59 PM   #51
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Intelligence is important to me, as I love learning new things and do enjoy a good conversation. I'm not the smartest person in the world and would feel a bit intimidated by the super-smart-rocket-scientist type, but generally other people's intelligence fascinates me, as we all have our areas of expertise. An intelligent conversation and a wicked sense of humor goes far with me.
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I am attracted to many things in a man... One thing is intelligence, nothing more frustrating than nothing to talk about. However, humor is very important as well, a man that is able to laugh with you, laugh at himself, and even laugh at you from time to time is ok by me. A man needs to be sensitive, caring, sexy, sensual.... I could go and on, but intelligence is up there.
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Intelligence is important to me, as I love learning new things and do enjoy a good conversation. I'm not the smartest person in the world and would feel a bit intimidated by the super-smart-rocket-scientist type, but generally other people's intelligence fascinates me, as we all have our areas of expertise. An intelligent conversation and a wicked sense of humor goes far with me.
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I am attracted to many things in a man... One thing is intelligence, nothing more frustrating than nothing to talk about. However, humor is very important as well, a man that is able to laugh with you, laugh at himself, and even laugh at you from time to time is ok by me. A man needs to be sensitive, caring, sexy, sensual.... I could go and on, but intelligence is up there.
I consider humor a PART of intellegence. If you have all the book smarts in the world but can't see the absurdity of things every day...then you really AREN'T all THAT smart.
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Old 07-14-2010, 08:41 PM   #55
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I don't think it is "intelligence" as much as it is being quick thinking, creative, clever, witty and even sarcastic. Intelligence can be sexy, however that alone does nothing for me.

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To what degree and in what sense are you attracted to intelligence? Are you looking for someone with the same intellect as you or would you prefer it to differ?
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I don't think it is "intelligence" as much as it is being quick thinking, creative, clever, witty and even sarcastic. Intelligence can be sexy, however that alone does nothing for me.
I agree Sunny D. Add in a good heart and you have a wonderful package.
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I am attracted to intelligence. But, I think it's all the other attributes that go along with it~a witty sense of humor, sarcasm, conversation. And, because I am completely lacking in common sense, I find that to be a form of intelligence I'm attracted to as well. I just want to find out how to get more of it!
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Old 07-14-2010, 11:49 PM   #61
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Seduction, desire and pleasure all start in the mind. Keep my attention and you may keep all of me. Hahaha. I love long conversations with intelligent women. It's wonderful to look into her eyes and see someone looking back. Makes me feel very good that such an intelligent women wants me.
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Old 07-14-2010, 11:59 PM   #62
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I love intelligence in a woman, nothing gets me hotter than a spirited discussion of
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Old 07-15-2010, 12:07 AM   #63
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Intelligence is just one of the things a man has to have for me to be attracted to him. He needs creativity, wittiness and most of all to be a good man with some kind of morals and values
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I still say I am not the brightest person out there.. but I really got a huge turn off when I heard not just one man but two say something about dumb..

I believe everyone is intelligent in their own right.. maybe they are very well educated.. but maybe they learned by watching and doing.. I may not have any college degree.. I may not be the best able to discuss politics.. I may not understand those things.. but if I am curious enough I research it.. and my ideal man is not a MENSA member either.. one of my friends for many years was married to a super intelligent.. MENSA card holding member.. but he just couldn't figure out the mundane things... I would never call him dumb.. because he sure wasn't dumb.. but he couldn't put a door handle on for anything..

I am not dumb.. but I am not a smart person either.. at least I can spell correctly for the most part.. and I like to think I can add to a conversation.. call me dumb because I can't discuss politics or something equally boring.. unless I want to really know the issues.. then I think you are not my cup of tea...

totally turned off by the men who call women dumb.. I bet if you looked deep enough you would find she is brilliant at something.. it may be matching purses to shoes.. but there is something that everyone is smart about..
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Old 07-15-2010, 03:21 AM   #65
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Intelligence ... humph!

As I've said in other posts, all my serious relationships have been with women Ph.Ds. And I ended up married to a university prof with countless patents and publications in molecular biochemistry. Yes, very smart and very attractive too.

And yet Im tired of smart. Just give me the nasty biker chick with tattoos and big boobs.
I know exactly what you mean: it can be exciting at first to be talking with such persons who have PhD and or are extremely mentally attractive, however, over a long time, if she is unable to remove her glasses, she becomes a bore.

The trouble is that there are too many women who simply have nothing to say, whose agenda of activities are raising children, educating their children ( not ours of course..), and who can only think of purchase Prada, Nucci, Gucci, etc.. and talk about what the Jones' have had for dinner the other night.

A "product mix" is necessary.
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Intelligence is obviously subjective. What I find intelligent the next person may not!

I am simple...I want a man I can have a conversation with about almost anything and if he doesnt know what I am talking about then he will learn and vice versa!

I think an open mind is supah sexy! Someone who is optomistic and non fatalistic! Give me that over a PHD...I have know a few and they can be very unintelligent in my eyes!
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I still say I am not the brightest person out there.. but I really got a huge turn off when I heard not just one man but two say something about dumb..

I believe everyone is intelligent in their own right.. maybe they are very well educated.. but maybe they learned by watching and doing.. I may not have any college degree.. I may not be the best able to discuss politics.. I may not understand those things.. but if I am curious enough I research it.. and my ideal man is not a MENSA member either.. one of my friends for many years was married to a super intelligent.. MENSA card holding member.. but he just couldn't figure out the mundane things... I would never call him dumb.. because he sure wasn't dumb.. but he couldn't put a door handle on for anything..

I am not dumb.. but I am not a smart person either.. at least I can spell correctly for the most part.. and I like to think I can add to a conversation.. call me dumb because I can't discuss politics or something equally boring.. unless I want to really know the issues.. then I think you are not my cup of tea...

totally turned off by the men who call women dumb.. I bet if you looked deep enough you would find she is brilliant at something.. it may be matching purses to shoes.. but there is something that everyone is smart about..
Scoob they are called educated idiots
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Intelligence can have so many sides. Being a deep thinker, being clever, being street smart, being accomplished in a special area, or being wise.

From personal experience I would say wisdom and street smarts are the best combo to live with. I married a "professor" and he does entirely too much thinking. It would be great if he could have figured out how to fix the drainage problem in the bar frig. Finally, I took everything out, and found a misplaced rusty screw in the drain hole. He was researching refrigeration on the internet at the time.

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Gosh.. where have I been all your life

I love an intelligent woman, but agree that quick wits and humour are also important components in engaging with another person.
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Intelligence ... humph!

As I've said in other posts, all my serious relationships have been with women Ph.Ds. And I ended up married to a university prof with countless patents and publications in molecular biochemistry. Yes, very smart and very attractive too.

And yet Im tired of smart. Just give me the nasty biker chick with tattoos and big boobs.

One doesn't necessarily have to be educated to be "smart". I consider myself to be very intelligent and yet I don't have a Ph.d Far from it in fact.

And why would you necessarily assume that a "biker chick with tattoos and big boobs" is "nasty" and stupid? I've ridden on many a Harley in my day, sport a few (tasteful, in my opinion), tats and I'm D cup. I'd be happy to spar with you verbally any time.
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