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Old 10-17-2010, 12:42 PM   #26
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WEll at first I wanted to say local for obvious reasons, but then thought about it some more and probably long distance would make it more special and less drama.
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Old 10-17-2010, 12:53 PM   #27
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WEll at first I wanted to say local for obvious reasons, but then thought about it some more and probably long distance would make it more special and less drama.
does it mean, you are thinking of having one? LOL.
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Old 10-17-2010, 01:01 PM   #28
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If a physical affair long distace would seem like a good idea but let time together. So closer to local would be good but not too close. Having never do it, but I would think in a different city than where you live would be a good place to meet alot less chance of being spotted.
But I have to say the most important is the good fit, the person you match up with is most important. That I think needs to be your first criteria.
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Old 10-17-2010, 01:01 PM   #29
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does it mean, you are thinking of having one? LOL.
Wasn't it a hypothetical question? and yes I even made a list with a pros and cons and a business plan of how to get one. LOL
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Old 10-17-2010, 01:04 PM   #30
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Well heck fire.. I don't know shouldn't say I guess. Local for obvious reasons, long distance I guess for starters to get to know eachother, more time involed.
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Old 10-18-2010, 03:52 PM   #32
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Long distance, and for me I define that as some one who is no more than a 5 hr drive from me. This allows you to come in and out of each others lives with out the fear of running into them when your out with the family.
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Old 10-18-2010, 04:01 PM   #33
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wow, after reading this....i feel stupid...I kept thinking it would be so much better if local.....but i'm being persuaded by this thread.......thanks for starting this one...!
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Old 10-18-2010, 04:44 PM   #34
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Well heck fire.. I don't know shouldn't say I guess. Local for obvious reasons, long distance I guess for starters to get to know eachother, more time involed.

next door maybe?
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Is an hour and a half away considered local?
I live 6 hours from New Orleans and go there often. I am always running into people I know there. The last time I was in Denver, I ran into a guy I use to work with. I think the ultimate consideration is this.....Is the Risk worth the Reward?
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I prefer Long Distance.....We dont want to hurt anyone, why take a risk of seeing friends or family while out locally with our special friends.

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Old 10-09-2011, 08:31 PM   #37
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local would be great
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Old 10-10-2011, 07:05 PM   #38
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I'd have to find the one I would want to have the affair with first...then I don't think it would matter...I can be very resourceful
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I'd have to find the one I would want to have the affair with first...then I don't think it would matter...I can be very resourceful
Absolutely... for me I would like to try to keep it in the same time zone, flights are cheap, and I like the resourcefulness...
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Absolutely... for me I would like to try to keep it in the same time zone, flights are cheap, and I like the resourcefulness...
Resourcefulness is definitely a plus
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Old 10-17-2011, 12:36 PM   #41
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An hour away would be perfect I suppose, but honestly webcam would be pretty nice.
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Old 10-20-2011, 12:09 AM   #42
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I've had both experiences. The local was strictly "intimate," the long distance was much more a relationship. Both were a lot of fun. I think if local it's better if you don't leave the bedroom.
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Old 10-20-2011, 12:10 AM   #43
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Don't have time for an affair of any kind at this point in my life
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I would be in BIG trouble if he were local. I would never get anything done, my kids would never have any of my time, no one else would see me. It would be riskier for him because we agree we wouldn't be able to control ourselves as much as we should. As much as I hate it, this may be best for both of us.
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Local would be more convenent but if you dont want to be caught meeting in another city makes more sense
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Old 10-20-2011, 02:28 PM   #46
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if u live on small town local it is not good , but on a big city , , could be allright
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I'm thinking it would take just as long to plan a local hook up as it does to plan a long distance one. Other than running the risk of a local, common acquaintance or interest, I doubt it would matter either way.
I think Stella covered it but id personally go with long distance.
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local is trouble! I rather have a long distance...
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Now that I think about it...any takers on the long distance thing?
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Well this is a intresting thread, at the moment I am involved with someone 800 miles from me, we talk as much as we can and have met twice, to be honest I do wish we were closer but then again would we take more chances. I will say since meeting I find it harder not to see her and touch her. but it is what it is. I think the emotional side is stronger and the desire for each other makes it wonderfull when we do get together. just my thoughts.
Id love to feel that again.
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