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Old 11-04-2011, 10:13 PM   #51
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Now that I think about it...any takers on the long distance thing?
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Old 11-04-2011, 10:15 PM   #52
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Wasn't it a hypothetical question? and yes I even made a list with a pros and cons and a business plan of how to get one. LOL
Would you mind sharing? Im lost on this.....
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:07 AM   #53
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I think a little distance is good...would appreciate it more. I was involved with a guy I worked with for 5 years, and it just got to be TOO MUCH.
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:08 AM   #54
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local and single are my preference...
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:23 AM   #55
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Local ideally but long distance would be okay if the feeling is mutual.
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:25 AM   #56
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Well i have done both and prefer long distance and yes i do have feelings for him and miss him when i dont get to see him for a few weeks but i do know what we have and wouldnt change the distance thing because its safe and we make sure noone gets hurt
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:44 AM   #57
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Well i have done both and prefer long distance and yes i do have feelings for him and miss him when i dont get to see him for a few weeks but i do know what we have and wouldnt change the distance thing because its safe and we make sure noone gets hurt
Well said. That's kinda how I would prefer it. I think local is convenient and seem great on the surface but not so good for reality.
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Old 11-05-2011, 12:49 AM   #58
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don't think I'm ready for a real "local" relationship so I will settle for long distance...
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Old 11-05-2011, 02:09 AM   #59
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Long distance is the safest .. it is just hard to get enough...!
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Old 11-05-2011, 06:04 AM   #60
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I'm thinking out of town would be better. No chance of running into each other when you're not expecting it. Plus not being able to see each other anytime would add more to the excitement. Local would cause too many problems IMO.
I agree - that chance of a random encounter would be problematic. Absense makes the heart grow founder - is that ol saying.
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Old 11-05-2011, 07:26 AM   #61
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Long distance can work, if you both feel the same way.
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Old 11-05-2011, 07:34 AM   #62
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I guess it would depend on the state of my first relationship.
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Old 11-05-2011, 07:41 AM   #63
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long distance can be a lot of fun... local can be a lot of trouble.. but with the right person, well...
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Old 11-05-2011, 08:37 AM   #64
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If it is a FWB, then local. If real feelings are involved, long distance.
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Old 11-05-2011, 08:40 AM   #65
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my thoughts for what they are worth
i think one that is about 1.5 hrs away is idea
that way there is very little chance of someone seeing the both of you
that would put you in a compromising situation
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Old 11-05-2011, 08:48 AM   #66
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Closer is better. Not down the road, but an hour or 2 away
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Old 11-06-2011, 01:36 AM   #67
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I did very local as in one of my bosses at work and trust me thats something you dont wanna do if you plan on staying at ur job as i do......So that being my first affair the long distance one works just great for me and he is a great guy
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Old 11-06-2011, 01:36 AM   #68
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long distance...longer this weekend grrrrrrrr
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Old 11-06-2011, 03:34 AM   #69
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Long distance. Local is just too dangerous. Pressure and drama are not good for a relationship.
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Old 11-06-2011, 04:06 AM   #70
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i like to have the distance...it keeps me out of trouble.....
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Old 11-06-2011, 05:48 AM   #71
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I'm thinking international......
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Old 11-06-2011, 09:28 AM   #72
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I insisted on distance when I first dipped my toe in this pool so that I'd stay out of trouble. Then I found what I was looking for. I've been cursing the distance ever since.
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Old 11-06-2011, 09:32 AM   #73
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With the price of gas these days??? LOCAL.
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Old 11-06-2011, 09:44 AM   #74
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Long distance sucks, Ill take local thank you....but around here, a three hour drive would be considered local
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Old 11-06-2011, 09:50 AM   #75
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been long distance and i mean between here and the USA. whilst i would never rule it out completely again.

you really need to have trust though , the longer you are apart the trust issues will drag you apart , and sometimes ie me, you hang on but all the time they are fucking someone else and using you.
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