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Old 03-18-2011, 12:30 PM   #1
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Default Can it ever be 'just sex'?

'It didn't matter- it was just sex'.

True or false?

I think true.
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:32 PM   #2
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yep, I believe it... it can be just sex... sometimes you need a lil more than you are getting... I have met people who think that way.. so I do think you can have just sex..


not me however...
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:35 PM   #3
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Hell yea! and some times it can be just,.... Mind Blowing Sex!!
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:37 PM   #4
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If you are lucky ... you can seperate the two but yes it can be just sex .... love is something else entirly
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:40 PM   #5
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What about just loving to have sex? LOL
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:40 PM   #6
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What about just loving to have sex? LOL

I thought we all did that on here lol
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:46 PM   #7
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Sure can. I've exploited myself millions of times.
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:48 PM   #8
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it can be but is much better when its not just sex
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:49 PM   #9
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You mean they bring pizza?
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:49 PM   #10
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I never had luck with "just sex"....
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:49 PM   #11
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mmhmm
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:52 PM   #12
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I'm not so sure...maybe if the two people see eye-to-eye and know exactly what's expected. However my guess is one or both parties will almost always be somewhat invested.
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:53 PM   #13
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You mean they bring pizza?

I was thinking more like whip cream and strawberries
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Old 03-18-2011, 12:55 PM   #14
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of course.....but if the attraction was strong enough I would prefer the sex...then sex again....then sex again....there must be more to that than just the sex itself....
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Old 03-18-2011, 02:42 PM   #15
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absolutely can be just sex.
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Old 03-18-2011, 02:46 PM   #16
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just sex.. hopefully mind blowing.. has to be rules and agreement on both sides. BTW - I get to make the rules.
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Old 03-18-2011, 02:46 PM   #17
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absolutely can be just sex.
I agree!......Lets show em how its done, strictly as a research study.
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Old 03-18-2011, 02:51 PM   #18
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Yes... Ive been having just sex with my wife for awhile now. We hardly ever held hands, kissed, or even touched. Things are slowly turning around. At one time there was no emotion or anything. Just rub on some ky and go. So yes it can be just sex. I dont like just sex though. Its better when both parties can be emotionally involved.
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Definitely true. I had a very nice "just sex" affair with an ex co worker of mine for about 6-7 months. We did have a talk somewhere in the middle because she started to want me around more, but we always knew the ground rules right from the get go. Alas, I moved away and have been searching for a open minded woman like her since. This was a little over a year ago.
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I agree!......Lets show em how its done, strictly as a research study.

Ok but ONLY in the name of research!!! You keeping the notes or am I??
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Old 03-18-2011, 04:32 PM   #21
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Personally, I don't think it could be "just sex" but doesn't mean it has to be love. There's a middle ground in there where you care but know you're not going to change things, i.e. make a life together. It could even be love, but both parties know the ground rules, etc.
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If the sex is just mediocre or with a passing stranger, then it can be "just sex". If the sex is good & there's a connection, that's when it can get sticky...
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Old 03-18-2011, 05:07 PM   #23
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sure. can it ever be just 'boiling bunnies on the stove' and not 'batshit crazy woman boiling bunnies on the stove'?
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Oh yeah, it definitely can be just sex, you gotta be lucky though
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