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Old 03-12-2013, 03:46 AM   #1
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I bet you think this thread is about you.

Spurred on by the Reality Check thread.[something about ditching a person because they reminded you of a water buffalo in the looks department even though you are as boring as a banana taking a nap.]


I pose the question.

Would you rather be rejected on

your looks

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Old 03-12-2013, 03:48 AM   #2
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and no..I have no idea if that is a man or woman


and if anyone says thats a picture of me....bring it on you sookie lala's
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Old 03-12-2013, 04:02 AM   #3
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My looks for sure..I know Im no movie star...but I can guarantee you a laugh or two

Oh..and shave yer pits Aussie!
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Old 03-12-2013, 05:13 AM   #4
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woohooooo cotties made a thread about me!!! yay...


looks, I want people to actually like me for who I am.. deep down... although you have to admit... looks sometimes is what gets your foot in the door..
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Old 03-12-2013, 06:32 AM   #5
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Looks for sure! Looks don't last .... Personality is what counts and what will be around a lot longer than looks.
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Old 03-12-2013, 06:34 AM   #6
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yeah, I say looks too....
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Old 03-12-2013, 06:43 AM   #7
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what the fuck is a sookie lala??


Yeah..looks...personality would suck.
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Old 03-12-2013, 06:44 AM   #8
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Have to go with looks too. Your personality is really the core of who you are, so the rejection of that would be worse.
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what the fuck is a sookie lala??


Yeah..looks...personality would suck.
stick with me girli...I'll give you some culture...but no spelling tips

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Old 03-12-2013, 07:02 AM   #10
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stick with me girli...I'll give you some culture...but no spelling tips

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Old 03-12-2013, 07:40 AM   #11
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I just wanna get laid...and ya don't need personality for THAT! (And hell, I been having a lot of fun with neither!)
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Old 03-12-2013, 07:56 AM   #12
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I guess looks but all in all it's sucks either way!
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Old 03-12-2013, 08:15 AM   #13
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I'm so used to being rejected it would be nice to have a reason for a change
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Old 03-12-2013, 08:17 AM   #14
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My looks. I can't entirely help my looks, I've gonly got so much to work with. But my personality, that's all me, and a much bigger insult.
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Old 03-12-2013, 08:23 AM   #15
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Hmmm I'd say my looks. Personality is very personal and who you are.
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Old 03-12-2013, 08:29 AM   #16
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I've been rejected on both, life goes on. I'm more insecure about my looks, so I'd rather be rejected for my personality.
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Old 03-12-2013, 09:01 AM   #17
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oh a choose your rejection thread .. I would have to say either sucks but once i would like it to be my personality ...
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Personality, for sure. If you don't like my personality, you are a boring, dull, unimaginative, dope. I wouldn't want to spend a minute with you. My looks have never scared anybody off especially since i discovered the magic lotion in the pop up ad..only $9.99 an ounce plus tax.
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Old 03-12-2013, 09:19 AM   #19
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Personality, for sure. If you don't like my personality, you are a boring, dull, unimaginative, dope. I wouldn't want to spend a minute with you. My looks have never scared anybody off especially since i discovered the magic lotion in the pop up ad..only $9.99 an ounce plus tax.
This is a very touchy topic. Being rejected is never a good thing. Looks and personality are really a combination to unlock another's interest in you. Someone is always perfect in somebody's eyes! That being said, I've been rejected for both so to me it really doesn't matter! Ladies...its all about your booties!! A nice ass heals all looks and or personality issues! Let me ask tho...what quality in a man actually helps to erase looks and personality issues?
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This is a very touchy topic. Being rejected is never a good thing. Looks and personality are really a combination to unlock another's interest in you. Someone is always perfect in somebody's eyes! That being said, I've been rejected for both so to me it really doesn't matter! Ladies...its all about your booties!! A nice ass heals all looks and or personality issues! Let me ask tho...what quality in a man actually helps to erase looks and personality issues?
a muzzle and a dark room .. just saying
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Old 03-12-2013, 09:22 AM   #21
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Old 03-12-2013, 09:27 AM   #22
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Personality. I can always adjust accordingly and lie where needed to circumvent any future issues. You can't fix ugly.
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Old 03-12-2013, 09:31 AM   #23
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Well I'm ugly and crazy so Iv been rejected on both
More than once
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Old 03-12-2013, 06:03 PM   #24
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What is this rejection you speak of??? lol
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Rejection hurts no matter what, but I would rather be rejected based on my looks. If you don't want to get to know me as a person, based solely on what I look like...then you're shallow and I don't need you in my life anyway.
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