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Old 05-19-2014, 08:32 PM   #51
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Welcome, I just don't understand the 2 year thing...........
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Old 05-20-2014, 04:25 AM   #52
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have you found anyone yet? Just wondering, that's all
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I've started just one small and light conversation with 1 person so far, but that doesn't mean that that is the direction it will go in - we're just getting to know each other so far. I'm still open as always and always looking for like-minded people that want to have some direct fun with me - whether it's by chat, text, phone, e-mail, and/or eventually in person.

Interested? Let me know, and we can find a way to exchange contact info.

I just happen to be direct and frank about what I'm looking for, but that doesn't mean I'm not open to anything else - I always have room in my life for more friends and open-minded discussions. I'm just open about my regular horniness that makes me want attention of that kind from time to time, and so am in search for a person or people that I can call upon or be there to be called upon by them when looking for that kind of attention, talk, and play time - as in, mutual masturbation, should the opportunity arise

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Old 05-20-2014, 04:27 AM   #53
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Welcome, I just don't understand the 2 year thing...........
Cheers for the welcome - much appreciated!

I can understand your confusion on the 2 years of inactivity at first, but as I'm sure many here can agree with me - life happens.
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Old 05-20-2014, 04:44 AM   #54
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Jon. Hello.

I think you might want to edit your post above where you quote your personal details. That's a no no. And if you don't edit, then it will simply be deleted by a mod when the see it. I mean the site is quiet just now, but later it won't be and people will see it.

I admire your eye wateringly honest candour, hope you find what your looking for and all that but it just might not be here. But what do I know.

I reiterate what most people are saying - have a mooch about for a while in the threads and meet people that way. Post and talk and be funny. I think that's the best way to get noticed and to let people get a hint of your personality.
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Old 05-20-2014, 10:09 AM   #55
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Dude, while your tenacity and openness are admirable, I think you are missing a few of the finer points of M&F, trust and finesse.

Trust: People will notice you here at 150 posts and you may even be taken seriously after 500. This is a good thing as you know that the people that you interact with are not here to scam you or take advantage of your vulnerability.

Finesse: asking for some action on your first post is kind of like walking into a party of strangers, whipping out your cock and yelling "who's up for some fun". At this online party, I know that there are various reasons why people are here. Some just want to talk and some might actually be up for a little more than just talk...if you take some time to mingle at the party, you might actually meet some interesting characters and maybe even a few will trust you enough to tell you why they are here.

Otherwise, you might need to go take your chances on Craigslist...just make sure you check the chicks you meet for weapons and Adam's Appels
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Old 05-20-2014, 01:08 PM   #56
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Thank you, ChicksDigMe, and to everyone else for taking the time to write out everything that I'm doing incorrectly here - appreciate the tips.

Like I said earlier, even though I stated my intentions from the beginning (in the appropriate forum as per its description), I am happy to and always willing to have other conversations besides those with people. I just didn't want to mislead in any way, and try to be upfront so as to not waste anyone's time. I believe that is important for someone to know what my true intentions are, even though I could take my time and get to know them and make sure we are both comfy with each other before anything else.

Feel free to talk to me about other things or try to get to know me, if you'd like to still.
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Old 05-20-2014, 01:11 PM   #57
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Hi Jon.. post in other threads to get to know the group and this one will just die a peaceful death. Most of us don't want our intro posts unearthed after we've been here for any amount of time either.
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Old 05-20-2014, 01:35 PM   #58
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Hi Sunny D,

I hear ya, and while I will defn. post on other threads that I feel I can contribute something worthwhile to, I am defn. not ashamed or embarrassed of my intro post and don't mean to make it go away and never come back

I did modify it slightly on Day 1 to make it slightly less crude as per the suggestion of a user here, but it still has my honest thoughts and intentions in it, and it may make me come off as shallow immediately, but it was what was on my mind then and is quite often and so put it out there for potentially interested parties
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Old 05-20-2014, 01:45 PM   #59
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Old 05-20-2014, 01:52 PM   #60
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Old 05-20-2014, 02:45 PM   #61
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Hi Lily,

I've started just one small and light conversation with 1 person so far, but that doesn't mean that that is the direction it will go in - we're just getting to know each other so far. I'm still open as always and always looking for like-minded people that want to have some direct fun with me - whether it's by chat, text, phone, e-mail, and/or eventually in person.

Interested? Let me know, and we can find a way to exchange contact info.

I just happen to be direct and frank about what I'm looking for, but that doesn't mean I'm not open to anything else - I always have room in my life for more friends and open-minded discussions. I'm just open about my regular horniness that makes me want attention of that kind from time to time, and so am in search for a person or people that I can call upon or be there to be called upon by them when looking for that kind of attention, talk, and play time - as in, mutual masturbation, should the opportunity arise
I really wasn't expecting this when I asked the question. I was just curious as to how things worked out for you after your introduction.
I'm sorry I'm really not into long distance relationships (or anything of the sort) I've done them before and it's not something I want to do ever again.
Best of luck to you!!
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For the first few days I stayed away from married but looking threads because I was thinking it was a place to hook up. Then I realized everybody just sort of posts anywhere and most people just look at the new page and don't really go into the forums. It is a little confusing for newbies I guess. Just my
You mean you read some threads to learn a little bit about who you were addressing? Imagine that.
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For the first few days I stayed away from married but looking threads because I was thinking it was a place to hook up. Then I realized everybody just sort of posts anywhere and most people just look at the new page and don't really go into the forums. It is a little confusing for newbies I guess. Just my
Couldn't agree more. It's quite obvious from that board's title and description what it's meant to be for and the OP was just following its guidelines. As a newbie he wouldn't be aware of how the site's developed and I guess the vast majority are like me and only look at the 'new posts' the vast majority of the time completely ignoring the board it's been posted on.
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Couldn't agree more. It's quite obvious from that board's title and description what it's meant to be for and the OP was just following its guidelines. As a newbie he wouldn't be aware of how the site's developed and I guess the vast majority are like me and only look at the 'new posts' the vast majority of the time completely ignoring the board it's been posted on.
A newbie? Whether you post or not, 2 years is a lot of opportunity to get to know the site. I don't want to pile on, but if he had spent a couple of evenings looking at posts I don't think he would've introduced himself with a Craigslist ad.
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A newbie? Whether you post or not, 2 years is a lot of opportunity to get to know the site. I don't want to pile on, but if he had spent a couple of evenings looking at posts I don't think he would've introduced himself with a Craigslist ad.
Nah, just because he's joined up 2 years ago doesn't mean he's been getting to know the site. I joined up (much) longer than 2 years before I started posting in earnest about a year ago.

The reason? I joined to use the chat room which was (and still is) pants. So I stopped even looking on here until I returned last year to post on the boards. HAving said that I didn't jump in with both feet like the OP has but I'm not gonna have a go at him for that because the board is quite clear what it's there for and was probably there way before Craig's List started, as I only became aware of when I saw the documentary related to it about 18 months ago.
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Pile on ahead, LuckySometime I don't mind at all. But like I said, life happened, and I didn't look at this site again till now. I did spend a couple of evenings looking at posts at first, and saw the usual flirts and jokes, enjoyed them, and then stumbled upon something that made it seem like it was OK to post my details if I was looking for a little something more than flirting, as you can see by the description of this forum that we have been talking about for a few days now. So, I added my details, as I am interested in more than flirting, and am hoping other potentially like-minded or curious individuals will respond and we'll see what happens
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Wait....you mean...people here actually have AFFAIRS??? Real ones? Like butt-naked hot sex in person affairs?



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