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Old 10-19-2009, 11:12 AM   #26
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Did you actually show this to Mr. Spock?

Did he respond?

Very interested to find out...
No, I have not shown this to him. I know it would not make any difference. Thank you to all of you for your kinds words and encouragement. It's nice to know that I am not the only one feeling this way.
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Old 05-21-2010, 11:06 PM   #27
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That was a very moving letter. No one derserves to be treated that way. While reading your letter I felt anger, frustration and compassion. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.
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Old 05-22-2010, 03:15 AM   #28
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I just wanted to applaud you for your bravery and clarity. Both of these may serve you well in finding a way out or to resolving this.

Meanwhile I'm so sorry to see so many people walking in your shoes...

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Old 05-22-2010, 06:53 AM   #29
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Wow...

Very powerful letter. It's always good to write things out for clarity and catharsis. I'm glad you posted this. I can't imagine having a spouse who worked opposite shifts and still getting along after any long period of time. Ships passing in the night is not a great basis for a LTR.
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Old 05-22-2010, 10:35 AM   #30
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Kissme... it broke my heart to read this letter and yet I applaud you for sticking it out as long as you have. That being said, the human species requires contact, affection and love. We die without it, emotionally and physically. (case in point: children in foreign orphanages). You are still young, you need to spread your wings and fly. You have so much to give. And somewhere out there is a man who is willing to return your love and commitment. If you do ever decide to move on, I suggest you give him this letter as you walk out the door with your suitcase. It probably wouldn't resonate with him while you're still in the house, but when he looks at your empty closet, maybe he will finally get it.

Good luck to you, sweetie! And know that you're not alone.
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Old 05-22-2010, 12:20 PM   #31
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Wow Kissme .. that is deep and emoitional ... I too (like many others here) feel the same type of pain. It took alot to write that ... you are a ery strong person for having posted that.
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