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![]() So, guys and gals Im just wondering who. if any of you feel like you don't fit in with the rest of the members on here?
I personally feel like I'm doing something wrong (although I won't be changing who I am anyway). I'd love to have a couple of girlfriends/guyfriends I'm not picky that I can joke around with, share stuff I don't want made public and debrief with) but no matter what I do I seem to be repelling people (that may be a little over dramatic!). Does anyone feel this way? Or have you felt this way and been able to oversome it? If you've overcome it, explain how you did it.... |
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![]() Just be who you are. Be true to yourself and just say "fuck it" to the rest of it. You'll find your niche or you'll stand apart, but either way, don't worry about it too much. It'll be alright.
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that's about as well said as it will get ... emphasis on don't worry about it too much
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![]() I don't fit in .. AT ALL. Not here. Not anywhere. I kinda prefer it that way
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![]() No, but I really don't care!
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![]() I am the same, I don't fit in anywhere either. But that is part of the fun of being me.
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![]() I bet thers are many that feel the same way, that they haven't built the relationships that it seems others on the site have. I feel that way too. Just be yourself and have fun...u seem cool
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![]() i dont fit in but i dont care , i am just ducky thats it.
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![]() So Oz...judging by the responses on this thread, you fit in just fine...coz no one fits in!
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![]() I keep coming back to this thread.
I'm thinking back to when I was new. I was the most hated girl on this site. Admittedly I probably deserved it but that's how it was. It took me a LONG time to even feel comfortable posting with any if the women here. They already had strong friendships with each other. But after a while I just kinda jumped in. And I've made some amazing friendships here over the years. One that I consider my best friend. She was with me on my wedding day. And I have others that I text almost daily. They are on my Facebook. And known by my family as my friends. Give it time. Don't stress too much. Be who you are and don't apologize for it. And, like i have offered in the past, if you ever need a friend you are welcome to message me.
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![]() Hell no I don't fit in.. Never have, never will.. I don't have but one close friend on this site... I have always danced to my own beat in the forums and I will continue..
I have to say that there are times when I wish I could be funny and witty and banter around like others do... but I can't.. never will be able to.. so I accept who I am.. and pay no attention to being one of the crowd.. I just need my bestie..
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![]() There are people here that have been talking and getting to know each other for years it seems! And they have built great solid relationships!
People GET who they are .... As a newbie I can honestly say I've been made to feel very welcome but also understand it takes time to build trust and relationships! Whatever form those are! Just trying to be me though and hope I fit in! |
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![]() why try to fit in...being the same isnt worth it...being yourself and let those who should flock to you, come to you. fitting in is for sheep and high school!
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Thats great that you feel that way Kraken, but some aren't built that way. I'm a very outgoing and friendly person and as I said can fit in everywhere. To suddently find myself in a situation where I don't kinda sucks.
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you are a sweetheart.. just come in here and do your thing.. don't worry about what others do.. have fun.. and if you aren't having fun.. create your own fun.. that's my motto... and hence why I need batteries tomorrow...
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![]() Perhaps the need or desire to fit in is part of a desire to connect, since so many of us feel disconnected in one way or another. So there is no shame.
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