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Old 07-02-2012, 01:13 AM   #1
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...which is more important?

When I was single (and more naive), I dated someone (for six months) that physically didn't work for me. She was HUGE. But, she was so damn fun to be around. Her size was a turnoff, and that is something I regret.

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Old 07-02-2012, 01:20 AM   #2
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Its always a lil bit of both...anaheim hills eh? Rite down the rd from me
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Old 07-02-2012, 01:23 AM   #3
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Really? Nice to know someone from the 'hood is in da house!
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Old 07-02-2012, 03:14 AM   #4
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Depends what you are lookin for.
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Old 07-02-2012, 04:02 AM   #5
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Both. Can over look some physical flaws if they have a good personality.
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Old 07-02-2012, 04:05 AM   #6
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A stimulating personality can go a long way for sure and an average person can miraculously become beautiful as time goes by and the two of you grow close and intimate and in love....
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Old 07-02-2012, 05:37 AM   #7
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A stimulating personality can go a long way for sure and an average person can miraculously become beautiful as time goes by and the two of you grow close and intimate and in love....
Yes that is true. Looks are important at first, but the strength of the relationship is as the personalities are rich and deep and meaningful
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Old 07-02-2012, 06:39 AM   #8
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Although there has to be some physical attraction, for ME it's the personality that matters. My ex-husband was one of the finest looking men I have EVER seen dayuuuuuummmm....that man was an ass!! I'll take average and fun anytime tyvm!
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:08 AM   #9
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personality here too, especially online. you get to know the minds first. Sexy is 99% mental
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:14 AM   #10
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Personality intrigues and draws you in and actually can make someone more attractive physically, but if the person is drastically outside of your norm it will always be a problem no matter how hard you try.
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:26 AM   #11
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Personality intrigues and draws you in and actually can make someone more attractive physically, but if the person is drastically outside of your norm it will always be a problem not matter how hard you try.
So you finally admit my gills ARE a distraction. And isn't it YOU that always says having a nose is sooo overrated? You could have just PM'd me this and saved me the public humiliation! Does this mean we're breaking up?
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:35 AM   #12
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Looks are a personal thing. lets say I answer looks. Now you will think I'm insensetive. But what if what I find attractive is not what 99% of the world finds attractive.
Am I still insensetive?
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:40 AM   #13
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I think there has to be at least a small amount of physical attraction but personality is what matters in the long run.
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I would have to say both. Not entirely one or the other. I go more on personality and character. Which is a funny word seeing how I'm posting in a Married and flirting forum.
They're are people that are visual, so looks will play a big part in there sexual relationaship. So when there is someone that brings both to the table.....

HOLY HELL, Fireworks!!
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:52 AM   #15
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I told you it wasn't looks or personality with you its purely that lack of hygiene thing! When I bought you the extra big bottle of Tide with Febreeze what did you really do with it?

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Old 07-02-2012, 08:57 AM   #16
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I would have to say both. Not entirely one or the other. I go more on personality and character. Which is a funny word seeing how I'm posting in a Married and flirting forum.
They're are people that are visual, so looks will play a big part in there sexual relationaship. So when there is someone that brings both to the table.....

HOLY HELL, Fireworks!!
Light the fuse hot stuff..
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Old 07-02-2012, 09:00 AM   #17
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Actually "insensitive" isn't a word that even comes to mind with you! You try to put out that badboy image like you don't care about anything or anyone, but you are intelligent, funny, sweet and hot. I have always sensed you enjoy a woman's mind too, lol.

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Looks are a personal thing. lets say I answer looks. Now you will think I'm insensetive. But what if what I find attractive is not what 99% of the world finds attractive.
Am I still insensetive?
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I told you it wasn't looks or personality with you its purely that lack of hygiene thing! When I bought you the extra big bottle of Tide with Febreeze what did you really do with it?
I drank it. It smelled delicious!
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my ex is a very good looking man... but that was it... he was also very mad all the time.. he is a good man and kind.. generous to his friends.. but just not happy.. and nothing I could do ever made him happy... I am finding out that I keep searching for the man I need to make happy... and I need to stop that..

for me.. it has to be personality.. someone who can make me laugh, think, who can give to me and not take all the time.. someone who is going to be there for me when I need them..

if he happens to be drop dead gorgeous I won't complain, but then again, looks are in the eye of the beholder..
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I drank it. It smelled delicious!
chew on your socks honey.. I'll talk to you later
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Looks fade over time but character and personality are lasting, but still there is something deeper values and princables. I guess most call this a persons character but is it more important? It's not that there dosen't have to be some sort of attraction just that it's not alway looks or personality that draws you but the whole person.
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Personalities fade and change too. See divorce rate and member list here
As for looks fading some get better with age. I find my wife better looking now then in past which helps mitigate personality flaws she has or developed.
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