Dumping "friends" - Page 5

Ivan · 12-21-2017, 12:24 AM

I want to dump friends, but find it difficult.

Like right now I have MishMash tied up in the trunk of the car, but just haven't found the right place to dump him. Yet, I'm thinking behind a donut shop would perfect.

MisterBlueSky · 12-21-2017, 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Ivan

I want to dump friends, but find it difficult.

Like right now I have MishMash tied up in the trunk of the car

https://youtu.be/ckPHBJWQvpE?t=16s

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Originally Posted by Ivan

but just haven't found the right place to dump him. Yet, I'm thinking behind a donut shop would perfect.

Don't act hastily - find the wrong place, and it will come back to haunt you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_W7DvKlsks

Just A Girl · 01-26-2018, 06:31 PM

I know this is very important to some people. I unfriend when I'm angry or hurt about something. But getting the boot from someone multiple times from the same person without having a clue why makes me hesitant to be friendly again.
Call me cynical

Ally · 01-28-2018, 06:12 PM

I've had a few friends "dump" me here and I assume because I'm not as active or interacting with people lately. I can understand that. I would hope if it was for another reason, they would let me know.

dixiechik · 01-28-2018, 06:57 PM

Yep I have cleaned out my friends list. When I go to your wall to say hello and it is not open them I assume you don't want to communicate. Which is always a members prerogative. If you never communicate with me then poof you are deleted. Really, it's not a big deal to me.

hijiller · 01-28-2018, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by dixiechik

Yep I have cleaned out my friends list. When I go to your wall to say hello and it is not open them I assume you don't want to communicate. Which is always a members prerogative. If you never communicate with me then poof you are deleted. Really, it's not a big deal to me.

Dix, I shut my wall for a sabbatical while the departure of you know who was in class 4 hurricane status.

Reopening in February. But you know, as long as there are Tides and Dawgs, you rock with me.

JerseyGirl · 01-28-2018, 07:22 PM

I need to do the same but maybe they can dump me instead..i just got tired of making the first move to communicate ..I know who my friends are

SoCal guy · 01-29-2018, 09:46 AM

I've never unfriended anyone. Need all the friends I can get!

leggy · 01-29-2018, 11:24 AM

It was once said to me."Im keeping my circle closer" That s ok with me..

I do the same when I feel closed in..

not to hurt

OneFineDay · 01-29-2018, 12:40 PM

In the past let's say seven years there were only two people who felt bothered by me to the point they requested not to post after them, both have been on the "friends" relationship before, if not here then on other forums.

Well, I set them to "ignore" in order not to be tempted to react to their posts, and if that makes them happier it's okay with me. On the other hand I tend to clean out members who haven't been around for a longer time, let's say six months to six years, depending on the closeness we had.

hikergeek · 04-15-2018, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SoCal guy

I've never unfriended anyone. Need all the friends I can get!

That's where I am too. Let me just leave it at that.

JerseyGirl · 04-15-2018, 09:30 PM

I have dumped people of my friends list and also been dumped .I don't take it to heart and I hope they don't.. I don't keep a circle on here I am willing to get to know others but if I am sent a friend request and accept and not a word from them so yea I delete them..

flirtingenie · 04-16-2018, 01:16 PM

I haven't dump any one on my friends list but I have been dumped and it because I didn't get go on for a while.

Iceburn · 04-18-2018, 10:51 AM

Anyone who doesn't respond in more than monosyllabic grunts gets the boot.

billy383 · 04-18-2018, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Iceburn

Anyone who doesn't respond in more than monosyllabic grunts gets the boot.

Hunh?

Just A Girl · 04-18-2018, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Iceburn

Anyone who doesn't respond in more than monosyllabic grunts gets the boot.

Bah

Iceburn · 04-18-2018, 12:27 PM

Well. that's you two for the chop..congratulations!

disturbiagirl · 04-18-2018, 02:09 PM

I tend to dump those with whom there is no interaction.

Iceburn · 04-18-2018, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by disturbiagirl

I tend to dump those with whom there is no interaction.

Ditto hunny!

sexysaber82 · 04-18-2018, 04:54 PM

If you can’t take a dumping around your friends, then they weren’t you’re friends in the first place.

billy383 · 04-18-2018, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by sexysaber82

If you can’t take a dumping around your friends, then they weren’t you’re friends in the first place.

daisyduck · 04-19-2018, 01:34 PM

Doesn't matter to me here or RL. Got bigger fish to fry!!

Just A Girl · 04-19-2018, 02:56 PM

Sometimes I care and sometimes I don't. A friends list on this forum isn't really indicative of friends.

SunnyD · 04-19-2018, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Just A Girl

Sometimes I care and sometimes I don't. A friends list on this forum isn't really indicative of friends.

I used to be very anal about it and probably hurt a lot of peoples feelings along the way, but I've actually considered even opening my wall lately. Maybe its a sign that I observe less petty behaviors or maybe I just got to old to care

Just A Girl · 04-19-2018, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by SunnyD

I used to be very anal about it and probably hurt a lot of peoples feelings along the way, but I've actually considered even opening my wall lately. Maybe its a sign that I observe less petty behaviors or maybe I just got to old to care

Maybe that's the true definition of being an old timer...when your give a fuck about walls and friends lists is broken?

01-26-2018, 06:31 PM	#103
Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 45 Posts: 63,606 Thanks: 32,840 Thanked 36,408 Times in 22,564 Posts Blog Entries: 23	I know this is very important to some people. I unfriend when I'm angry or hurt about something. But getting the boot from someone multiple times from the same person without having a clue why makes me hesitant to be friendly again. Call me cynical __________________ *I'm mostly peace, love and light & a little go fuck yourself...*

01-28-2018, 06:57 PM	#105
dixiechik Can you see me now? Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Where peaches grow and the confederate flag flows Age: 48 Posts: 24,188 Thanks: 7,200 Thanked 9,199 Times in 5,912 Posts	Yep I have cleaned out my friends list. When I go to your wall to say hello and it is not open them I assume you don't want to communicate. Which is always a members prerogative. If you never communicate with me then poof you are deleted. Really, it's not a big deal to me. __________________ *If I offend you cry me a river, I'll bring snacks and a raft. I will literally float down your tears while munching on chips and working on my tan.*

01-29-2018, 11:24 AM	#109
leggy Sa... Mooch! Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: stage left Age: 56 Posts: 16,671 Thanks: 4,984 Thanked 4,185 Times in 3,258 Posts Blog Entries: 1	It was once said to me."Im keeping my circle closer" That s ok with me.. I do the same when I feel closed in.. not to hurt __________________

04-16-2018, 01:16 PM	#113
flirtingenie Silver Hair Lady Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Arkansas Age: 59 Posts: 16,864 Thanks: 4,531 Thanked 3,754 Times in 3,050 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I haven't dump any one on my friends list but I have been dumped and it because I didn't get go on for a while. __________________

04-18-2018, 10:51 AM	#114
Iceburn Thread Terrorist Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: In the land of Naughty Sneakies Age: 59 Posts: 49,127 Thanks: 22,297 Thanked 25,720 Times in 20,353 Posts Blog Entries: 16	Anyone who doesn't respond in more than monosyllabic grunts gets the boot. __________________ ~ A good man has few enemies. A ruthless man has none ~

12-21-2017, 12:24 AM	#101
Ivan Flirting God Join Date: May 2010 Location: Europe / USA Age: 61 Posts: 12,116 Thanks: 5,310 Thanked 6,563 Times in 4,012 Posts	I want to dump friends, but find it difficult. Like right now I have MishMash tied up in the trunk of the car, but just haven't found the right place to dump him. Yet, I'm thinking behind a donut shop would perfect.

01-28-2018, 06:12 PM	#104
Ally Je ne sais pas Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Canada Age: 40 Posts: 19,745 Thanks: 6,031 Thanked 7,575 Times in 4,983 Posts Blog Entries: 27	I've had a few friends "dump" me here and I assume because I'm not as active or interacting with people lately. I can understand that. I would hope if it was for another reason, they would let me know.

01-28-2018, 07:22 PM	#107
JerseyGirl (｡♥‿♥｡) Join Date: Dec 2010 Age: 52 Posts: 46,018 Thanks: 17,640 Thanked 18,777 Times in 14,584 Posts	I need to do the same but maybe they can dump me instead..i just got tired of making the first move to communicate ..I know who my friends are

01-29-2018, 09:46 AM	#108
SoCal guy Flirting God Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Los Angeles Age: 62 Posts: 11,864 Thanks: 3,541 Thanked 2,694 Times in 2,412 Posts	I've never unfriended anyone. Need all the friends I can get!

01-29-2018, 12:40 PM	#110
OneFineDay East of the Big Pond Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Far Far Away Age: 58 Posts: 5,640 Thanks: 3,226 Thanked 2,102 Times in 1,835 Posts Blog Entries: 1	In the past let's say seven years there were only two people who felt bothered by me to the point they requested not to post after them, both have been on the "friends" relationship before, if not here then on other forums. Well, I set them to "ignore" in order not to be tempted to react to their posts, and if that makes them happier it's okay with me. On the other hand I tend to clean out members who haven't been around for a longer time, let's say six months to six years, depending on the closeness we had.

04-15-2018, 09:30 PM	#112
JerseyGirl (｡♥‿♥｡) Join Date: Dec 2010 Age: 52 Posts: 46,018 Thanks: 17,640 Thanked 18,777 Times in 14,584 Posts	I have dumped people of my friends list and also been dumped .I don't take it to heart and I hope they don't.. I don't keep a circle on here I am willing to get to know others but if I am sent a friend request and accept and not a word from them so yea I delete them..

04-18-2018, 12:27 PM	#117
Iceburn Thread Terrorist Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: In the land of Naughty Sneakies Age: 59 Posts: 49,127 Thanks: 22,297 Thanked 25,720 Times in 20,353 Posts Blog Entries: 16	Well. that's you two for the chop..congratulations! __________________ ~ A good man has few enemies. A ruthless man has none ~

04-18-2018, 02:09 PM	#118
disturbiagirl 💜PrincessHotLips💜 Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: CastleBananaHammock Age: 50 Posts: 31,010 Thanks: 9,467 Thanked 8,959 Times in 6,169 Posts Blog Entries: 10	I tend to dump those with whom there is no interaction. __________________ If we only have this moment, let's make it last

04-18-2018, 04:54 PM	#120
sexysaber82 Fallen Angel Join Date: Jan 2011 Age: 35 Posts: 7,425 Thanks: 4,297 Thanked 3,364 Times in 2,853 Posts	If you can’t take a dumping around your friends, then they weren’t you’re friends in the first place. __________________

04-19-2018, 01:34 PM	#122
daisyduck *Beautiful disaster * Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Down south Age: 37 Posts: 30,100 Thanks: 6,667 Thanked 6,134 Times in 4,887 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Doesn't matter to me here or RL. Got bigger fish to fry!! __________________

04-19-2018, 02:56 PM	#123
Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 45 Posts: 63,606 Thanks: 32,840 Thanked 36,408 Times in 22,564 Posts Blog Entries: 23	Sometimes I care and sometimes I don't. A friends list on this forum isn't really indicative of friends. __________________ *I'm mostly peace, love and light & a little go fuck yourself...*