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Old 01-22-2010, 10:03 AM   #26
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Odd, why delete every post before you leave?
Maybe someone got caught being here.
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Old 01-28-2010, 03:44 PM   #27
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Hi I am brand new to this, as well as I am happly married with two kids.
I am struggling in the fact that I want to flirt and have some fun and make some new freinds in the prosscess...But is it worth it? what if the wife finds out, that would be the end. She would deivorce me for sure.

I'm interested only online chatting and stuff but I am worried about the wife finding out.

I think it would be nice to have a little extra in my life from here, But is it worth it.

any comments please feel free. Im sure other people have felt the same.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:08 PM   #28
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The guilt kills me. Because normally, this isn't me or what I truly want. I have wished many times things could be different. This is not how I want things to be. This is just how they are. My fear is not for myself. Never for me. I fear for my friend, I fear for my kids. I fear hurting everyone.
My spouse is oblivioius to me personally. He doesn't want to talk to me or to converse about what is wrong. So many times I am left alone, talking to his back or the walls. Otherwise, it's a perfectly working partnership. On the business end of things, everything runs smoothly which in turn it looks like we work well together. We don't, not on any intimate level. That is where it is lacking. I feel guilty because I always think I could be doing more. But I don't, and in essence, I've pretty much given up. It took my years to figure out that I was miserable and unhappy, and not wanting a way out, but yet, wanting to stay put and keep things as normal as I could for the kid's sake. So one day, without searching, I found the one thing, or shall I say, the one man who could make me happy. And he left, because I didn't leave the marriage. I was crushed, and back to being miserable. But I continue to look and search for that kind of happiness again......hoping one day to find it! It keeps me going, it keeps my head up, and in some small way, it keeps me smiling. If I didn't have it. I would be one miserable, angry individual. To me, that wouldn't make a very good Mom. They need a whole Mom, not a half of one. My husband played his part in this. He made his decisions on what he said and how he was going to treat me. I think he knew in some small way, he was driving me away.....from him. Not pulling me closer to him. So, yes, I wish things were different. But they aren't, and I am living with all that I have left.
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Old 01-28-2010, 08:24 PM   #29
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Hi I am brand new to this, as well as I am happly married with two kids.
I am struggling in the fact that I want to flirt and have some fun and make some new freinds in the prosscess...But is it worth it? what if the wife finds out, that would be the end. She would deivorce me for sure.

I'm interested only online chatting and stuff but I am worried about the wife finding out.

I think it would be nice to have a little extra in my life from here, But is it worth it.

any comments please feel free. Im sure other people have felt the same.
If you are happily married with kids and you KNOW your spouse would divorce you if they caught you here...then not just no, but, FUCK NO this site isn't worth that...

But that's just my opinion..I don't play Russian Roulette to allieviate boredom.

It's interesting to note that the person who started this thread left and deleted their posts. While I don't know the circumstances that led to that and may be wrong..shit like that usually happens when people get caught by their spouses.

And that happens here quite a bit...people get caught. Not everyone...it depends on a lot of factors, not the least if which are how computer literete your spouse is, do you share a computer and does your behaviorchange enough that they get suspicious and start digging.

I got caught. But the difference between me and you and so many others is I had nothing to lose. And so, like I said earlier: "no guilt and I don't care"

Bottom line: If you have something to lose and DO care, don't risk that by coming here. "cuckold cream pie" threads are nothing to toss away a good relationship for.
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Old 01-28-2010, 09:15 PM   #30
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If you are happily married with kids and you KNOW your spouse would divorce you if they caught you here...then not just no, but, FUCK NO this site isn't worth that...

But that's just my opinion..I don't play Russian Roulette to allieviate boredom.
The "Russian Roulette" analogy is very good, Munky. I've asked myself what would I do IF I got caught, and it honestly would have the possibility of turning into something interesting ... I doubt it, but possibly. I'm 100% confident that the revolver is nowhere nearby, and I hope that others will consider your analogy, too.
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I used to feel a little guilty and nervous about being here, but not now. If I get caught, I'll just tell her that she's lucky I flirt here and I'm not have an affair in RL since she no longer wants to have sex (at least with me : )!
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Old 09-25-2018, 04:14 PM   #32
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Old 09-25-2018, 05:46 PM   #33
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I grew up catholic...I thrive on guilt
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Old 09-28-2018, 05:03 AM   #34
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Old 11-17-2018, 07:13 PM   #35
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I do not feel guilt for being here, and I do not fear being caught. He knows I used to be a chat mod. I do not come here when he is home, most times out of respect for him. I spend what time we have together, keeping my focus on him and us. I am not doing anything other than flirting, and I do not have a problem with him flirting. A little flirting in any relationship is healthy. This is my escape and I work hard at keeping a balance, some days the balance is a little off centered, it just means I have more work to catch up on later on.
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Old 11-17-2018, 07:15 PM   #36
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It’s really hard to feel guilty about being here given the spouses behavior. Especially given that in response to my calling her out on it with the counselor her only response was to tell me to move out.
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