Are you a hugger?

scoobertina · 03-13-2011, 05:21 PM

My daughter and I had a deep discussion about hugging...

I am a hugger.. I hug people I care about.. friends, family... and people I have met more than one time... if I meet someone I have met online in person I will probably hug them.. it is just who i am... however, my daughter is not a hugger... she said she needs to *shit, what is that word?* work on making her half hugs better... she isn't sure how much to hug or how little...

lol.. anyhow...

so are you a hugger? do you hug a lot, just certain people? or are you a half hugger?.. do you avoid hugging?

Savvyone. · 03-13-2011, 05:23 PM

Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!!

tink062570 · 03-13-2011, 05:25 PM

I hug all the time ... it is just away of acknowleding those that are important to me . Not sure if i could go without hugging ... I am probably like you if i met some of my closest friends in the real i would probably hug them to ... just think that we all are so close it would just be natural ...

Sneaky · 03-13-2011, 05:33 PM

No.

Well that isn't EXACTLY true. I will hug the people I love really good. But I'm a genuine hugger. I hate the fake hugs. I do NOT like people I don't know hugging me. I reserve my hugs for the few and sometimes I will squoosh them to death with hugs. There is NOTHING better than a REAL hug.

SpecialK · 03-13-2011, 05:41 PM

I will hug.. but almost never initiate a hug.... not that I'm opposed to it.. but I think that a hug actually means something.. and unless I'm really close to someone.. it generally won't happen.

moodyman · 03-13-2011, 05:43 PM

oh yes if ive met you a couple of times you'll likely get a hug from me, i have to say though some people are standaffish about it so i dont hug them. Most of my freinds i hug hello and goodbye though..

wayneypoo · 03-13-2011, 06:00 PM

alas i wasent hugged as a child hence im not a hugger ?is there a hugging rehab place near by!

texjim37 · 03-13-2011, 07:06 PM

A Hugger .... love it.

disturbiagirl · 03-13-2011, 07:20 PM

I hug those I care for....

Gigglez · 03-13-2011, 07:29 PM

I am a very affectionate person which means I am a big time hugger ... Love hugging ... But I only hug the people I love (family/close friends/the man I am in a relationship with ... that excludes the husband LOL)

dcowboy09 · 03-13-2011, 07:29 PM

I do enjoy a good hug .......

Devon · 03-13-2011, 07:49 PM

probably half hugger

Tessa76 · 03-13-2011, 07:56 PM

I'm one of those annoying people who completely disregard personal space. I hug, I touch, I lean in...I'm all over your shit.

Han Solo · 03-13-2011, 07:59 PM

If you are one of my kids, then Yes........everyone else who moves in for that gets the "REALLY, WHY are you doing this"

face when they can't see.

BlondieS · 03-13-2011, 08:29 PM

NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.

joemerchant · 03-13-2011, 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stellabelle

NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.

very telling statement

Just A Girl · 03-13-2011, 08:32 PM

I'm a hugger but only with people I genuinely want to hug........if I don't want to hug you its definitely a half hug

virgochick · 03-13-2011, 08:32 PM

I'm very affectionate and love hugging but only if I like the person

Kissie · 03-13-2011, 08:35 PM

Im a hugger!!

bluesafire · 03-13-2011, 08:39 PM

I love to hug! But if I don't know you, you might get one of those side hugs.

Daves70 · 03-13-2011, 08:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Savvyone

Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!!

Ya have to leave it to Savvy to always throw that little extra in....lol.

I'm a hugger too - but my wife doesn't care for my kind of hugs - she prefers that I keep my arms at her waist.....but where's the fun in that?...lol.

Daves70 · 03-13-2011, 08:47 PM

One time around Christmas while I was working at the airport a stewardess came off the flight and gave me a great big hug. I told my wife afterwards....she was absolutely furious....lol......she wanted to call up her company to give her heck.

You know, I can still remember that hug to this day....lol.

Beccs · 03-13-2011, 08:50 PM

I'm a hugger. Hugs make everything better. No matter how upset or angry I am, a hug from the right person just cheers me up. They make u feel safe, calm, loved and accepted.
I also hug my friends, i love them, so why not?!

Beccs · 03-13-2011, 08:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wayneypoo

alas i wasent hugged as a child hence im not a hugger ?is there a hugging rehab place near by!

I'll rehab u, just follow the M1 and u'll get there lol

Ivan · 03-13-2011, 09:02 PM

I was siting in a coffee shop this morning looking out the window. Two older people, a white guy and black women, passed each other on the sidewalk. They stopped, smiled, and gave each other a big friendly hug. Thought that was cool.

How people greet really varies a lot by country ... in some places it's not done at all.

03-13-2011, 05:21 PM	#1
scoobertina scoobalicious Join Date: Apr 2007 Age: 52 Posts: 76,303 Thanks: 20,766 Thanked 17,778 Times in 12,031 Posts Blog Entries: 87	Are you a hugger? My daughter and I had a deep discussion about hugging... I am a hugger.. I hug people I care about.. friends, family... and people I have met more than one time... if I meet someone I have met online in person I will probably hug them.. it is just who i am... however, my daughter is not a hugger... she said she needs to shit, what is that word? work on making her half hugs better... she isn't sure how much to hug or how little... lol.. anyhow... so are you a hugger? do you hug a lot, just certain people? or are you a half hugger?.. do you avoid hugging? __________________

03-13-2011, 05:23 PM	#2
Savvyone. Flirting God Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 55 Posts: 26,021 Thanks: 7,445 Thanked 7,160 Times in 5,643 Posts	Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!! __________________ Wanted deleted but then started to try and come back under various names.

03-13-2011, 05:41 PM	#5
SpecialK My blog is my homepage.. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Currently Panhandling Age: 51 Posts: 17,106 Thanks: 7,262 Thanked 6,151 Times in 4,794 Posts Blog Entries: 5	I will hug.. but almost never initiate a hug.... not that I'm opposed to it.. but I think that a hug actually means something.. and unless I'm really close to someone.. it generally won't happen. __________________ It may look like I'm doing nothing, but I'm actively waiting for my problems to go away.

03-13-2011, 07:06 PM	#8
texjim37 Flirting Gentleman Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: In my home with lots of trees and green grass with a garden to spend delightful moments. Age: 80 Posts: 683 Thanks: 152 Thanked 67 Times in 66 Posts	A Hugger .... love it. __________________ Today is the beginning of the rest of your life.

03-13-2011, 07:20 PM	#9
disturbiagirl ♥His Sweet Seductress♥ Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: at the corner of Happy & Content Age: 49 Posts: 29,212 Thanks: 8,941 Thanked 8,168 Times in 5,601 Posts Blog Entries: 8	*I hug those I care for....* __________________ Time to go

03-13-2011, 05:25 PM	#3
tink062570 Sheena Queen of tartness Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: in that spot right between the heart and soul ... NEVERLAND Age: 47 Posts: 36,386 Thanks: 7,572 Thanked 7,298 Times in 5,567 Posts Blog Entries: 49	I hug all the time ... it is just away of acknowleding those that are important to me . Not sure if i could go without hugging ... I am probably like you if i met some of my closest friends in the real i would probably hug them to ... just think that we all are so close it would just be natural ...

03-13-2011, 05:33 PM	#4
Sneaky Flirting Guest I Love It Here Join Date: Jun 2007 Age: 46 Posts: 26,879 Thanks: 13,097 Thanked 11,466 Times in 7,237 Posts Blog Entries: 18	No. Well that isn't EXACTLY true. I will hug the people I love really good. But I'm a genuine hugger. I hate the fake hugs. I do NOT like people I don't know hugging me. I reserve my hugs for the few and sometimes I will squoosh them to death with hugs. There is NOTHING better than a REAL hug.

03-13-2011, 05:43 PM	#6
moodyman Flirting Guest Flirting Is My Life :) Join Date: Nov 2010 Age: 56 Posts: 1,527 Thanks: 242 Thanked 289 Times in 265 Posts Blog Entries: 1	oh yes if ive met you a couple of times you'll likely get a hug from me, i have to say though some people are standaffish about it so i dont hug them. Most of my freinds i hug hello and goodbye though..

03-13-2011, 06:00 PM	#7
wayneypoo its!ok ill shoot the guy. Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Seek and you will find Age: 52 Posts: 5,922 Thanks: 833 Thanked 1,677 Times in 1,287 Posts Blog Entries: 82	alas i wasent hugged as a child hence im not a hugger ?is there a hugging rehab place near by!

03-13-2011, 07:29 PM	#10
Gigglez ~ * ~ Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: ~ East ~ Age: 45 Posts: 9,376 Thanks: 4,296 Thanked 5,801 Times in 3,672 Posts	I am a very affectionate person which means I am a big time hugger ... Love hugging ... But I only hug the people I love (family/close friends/the man I am in a relationship with ... that excludes the husband LOL)

03-13-2011, 07:29 PM	#11
dcowboy09 Distinquish Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Texas Age: 50 Posts: 11,875 Thanks: 388 Thanked 1,330 Times in 1,107 Posts	I do enjoy a good hug ....... __________________ Its amazing how people react when you treat them as they treat you they usually don't like it

03-13-2011, 07:49 PM	#12
Devon Flirting God Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Southwest USA Age: 41 Posts: 915 Thanks: 121 Thanked 165 Times in 117 Posts	probably half hugger

03-13-2011, 07:56 PM	#13
Tessa76 Flirt In Waiting I Love It Here Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Marin County, CA Age: 41 Posts: 5,848 Thanks: 1,706 Thanked 1,393 Times in 1,039 Posts	I'm one of those annoying people who completely disregard personal space. I hug, I touch, I lean in...I'm all over your shit.

03-13-2011, 07:59 PM	#14
Han Solo Back in Meh-Trocity Join Date: Aug 2007 Age: 46 Posts: 22,138 Thanks: 1,944 Thanked 7,717 Times in 4,830 Posts	If you are one of my kids, then Yes........everyone else who moves in for that gets the "REALLY, WHY are you doing this" face when they can't see. __________________ I don't hate people. I just feel better when they aren't around.

03-13-2011, 08:29 PM	#15
BlondieS The Mad Hatter Join Date: May 2008 Age: 52 Posts: 15,762 Thanks: 4,352 Thanked 4,148 Times in 2,959 Posts	NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.

03-13-2011, 08:32 PM	#17
Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 44 Posts: 57,542 Thanks: 29,685 Thanked 33,026 Times in 20,419 Posts Blog Entries: 21	I'm a hugger but only with people I genuinely want to hug........if I don't want to hug you its definitely a half hug __________________ *Do no harm but take no shit...*

03-13-2011, 08:32 PM	#18
virgochick Loving life Join Date: May 2009 Location: somewhere in between Age: 43 Posts: 19,207 Thanks: 6,313 Thanked 4,785 Times in 3,629 Posts	I'm very affectionate and love hugging but only if I like the person __________________ "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." ~ Marilyn Monroe

03-13-2011, 08:35 PM	#19
Kissie Flirting Goddess Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Ala-Bammy!!! Age: 54 Posts: 14,819 Thanks: 851 Thanked 2,394 Times in 1,615 Posts Blog Entries: 44	Im a hugger!! __________________ Looking to touch...and be touched....

03-13-2011, 08:39 PM	#20
bluesafire Hanging Out Join Date: Mar 2011 Age: 46 Posts: 199 Thanks: 3 Thanked 23 Times in 20 Posts	I love to hug! But if I don't know you, you might get one of those side hugs.

03-13-2011, 08:47 PM	#22
Daves70 Positive Join Date: May 2010 Location: In the hearts of friends Age: 47 Posts: 533 Thanks: 173 Thanked 128 Times in 115 Posts	One time around Christmas while I was working at the airport a stewardess came off the flight and gave me a great big hug. I told my wife afterwards....she was absolutely furious....lol......she wanted to call up her company to give her heck. You know, I can still remember that hug to this day....lol.

03-13-2011, 08:50 PM	#23
Beccs Lost and Lonely Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Wearside, England Age: 30 Posts: 8,769 Thanks: 2,010 Thanked 2,344 Times in 1,716 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I'm a hugger. Hugs make everything better. No matter how upset or angry I am, a hug from the right person just cheers me up. They make u feel safe, calm, loved and accepted. I also hug my friends, i love them, so why not?! __________________

03-13-2011, 09:02 PM	#25
Ivan Sidekick Join Date: May 2010 Location: Europe / USA Age: 60 Posts: 11,265 Thanks: 4,926 Thanked 6,085 Times in 3,722 Posts	I was siting in a coffee shop this morning looking out the window. Two older people, a white guy and black women, passed each other on the sidewalk. They stopped, smiled, and gave each other a big friendly hug. Thought that was cool. How people greet really varies a lot by country ... in some places it's not done at all.