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Old 03-13-2011, 05:21 PM   #1
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My daughter and I had a deep discussion about hugging...

I am a hugger.. I hug people I care about.. friends, family... and people I have met more than one time... if I meet someone I have met online in person I will probably hug them.. it is just who i am... however, my daughter is not a hugger... she said she needs to *shit, what is that word?* work on making her half hugs better... she isn't sure how much to hug or how little...

lol.. anyhow...

so are you a hugger? do you hug a lot, just certain people? or are you a half hugger?.. do you avoid hugging?
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Old 03-13-2011, 05:23 PM   #2
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Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!!
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Old 03-13-2011, 05:25 PM   #3
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I hug all the time ... it is just away of acknowleding those that are important to me . Not sure if i could go without hugging ... I am probably like you if i met some of my closest friends in the real i would probably hug them to ... just think that we all are so close it would just be natural ...
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Old 03-13-2011, 05:33 PM   #4
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No.

Well that isn't EXACTLY true. I will hug the people I love really good. But I'm a genuine hugger. I hate the fake hugs. I do NOT like people I don't know hugging me. I reserve my hugs for the few and sometimes I will squoosh them to death with hugs. There is NOTHING better than a REAL hug.
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Old 03-13-2011, 05:41 PM   #5
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I will hug.. but almost never initiate a hug.... not that I'm opposed to it.. but I think that a hug actually means something.. and unless I'm really close to someone.. it generally won't happen.
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Old 03-13-2011, 05:43 PM   #6
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oh yes if ive met you a couple of times you'll likely get a hug from me, i have to say though some people are standaffish about it so i dont hug them. Most of my freinds i hug hello and goodbye though..
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Old 03-13-2011, 06:00 PM   #7
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alas i wasent hugged as a child hence im not a hugger ?is there a hugging rehab place near by!
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:06 PM   #8
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:20 PM   #9
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I hug those I care for....
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:29 PM   #10
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I am a very affectionate person which means I am a big time hugger ... Love hugging ... But I only hug the people I love (family/close friends/the man I am in a relationship with ... that excludes the husband LOL)
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:29 PM   #11
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I do enjoy a good hug .......
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:49 PM   #12
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:56 PM   #13
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I'm one of those annoying people who completely disregard personal space. I hug, I touch, I lean in...I'm all over your shit.
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Old 03-13-2011, 07:59 PM   #14
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Old 03-13-2011, 08:29 PM   #15
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NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.
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NOT a hugger. But I am a toucher. for those of you with your mind in the gutter, I just mean I often touch a person's arm when I'm talking to them.
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I'm a hugger but only with people I genuinely want to hug........if I don't want to hug you its definitely a half hug
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I'm very affectionate and love hugging but only if I like the person
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I love to hug! But if I don't know you, you might get one of those side hugs.
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Definitely a hugger.....I even hug trees on occasion.....just to keep my skills up !!!
Ya have to leave it to Savvy to always throw that little extra in....lol.

I'm a hugger too - but my wife doesn't care for my kind of hugs - she prefers that I keep my arms at her waist.....but where's the fun in that?...lol.
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One time around Christmas while I was working at the airport a stewardess came off the flight and gave me a great big hug. I told my wife afterwards....she was absolutely furious....lol......she wanted to call up her company to give her heck.

You know, I can still remember that hug to this day....lol.
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I'm a hugger. Hugs make everything better. No matter how upset or angry I am, a hug from the right person just cheers me up. They make u feel safe, calm, loved and accepted.
I also hug my friends, i love them, so why not?!
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I'll rehab u, just follow the M1 and u'll get there lol
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I was siting in a coffee shop this morning looking out the window. Two older people, a white guy and black women, passed each other on the sidewalk. They stopped, smiled, and gave each other a big friendly hug. Thought that was cool.

How people greet really varies a lot by country ... in some places it's not done at all.
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