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Old 05-05-2011, 11:15 PM   #51
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I know mine hasn't and won't but at times I think he knows I have
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Old 05-06-2011, 01:22 AM   #52
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when I told him I was planning on moving...he got a match.com account... and proceeded to date. WHILE I WAS STILL IN THE HOUSE. So yeah...I see that as a form of cheating.
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Old 05-06-2011, 01:24 AM   #53
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when I told him I was planning on moving...he got a match.com account... and proceeded to date. WHILE I WAS STILL IN THE HOUSE. So yeah...I see that as a form of cheating.
Just because you were married and living together (and had young kids in the house).... you women and your rules.
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Old 05-06-2011, 01:27 AM   #54
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WOW me being a man im sorry for his fucked up attitude and his lame ass excuses of why he cheated on you. you are a very strong woman in one way but very unsecured on the other im glad that you have finally stood up for what is right and not wanting to reconcile is what you should have done the first time because as you know once a cheater always a cheater and that goes both ways whether your a man or a woman i know some people say im staying for the sake of the kids, but last time i checked we were born into this world alone and not tied up to anything (unless it was the umbilical cord) lol there's a saying in my country that a drop of water as harmless as it sounds can make a hole in a rock giving it enough time to do so in other words once the damage is done is hard to heal from those wounds so to those ladies or gentlemen that have been on the victim side of the cheat as hard as it could be its best to move on and let time heal it because once that trust is broken it is hard to trust anyone again
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Old 05-06-2011, 04:52 PM   #55
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No, I don't think she has. But, during a camping trip last summer I walked back to the campfire (it was almost 1:00am) and stopped about 50 feet outside the campfire and saw my best friend touching my wife's bare thigh (she had shorts on), touching on the inside of the thigh. His wife had gone to bed much earlier. We had all been drinking...quite a bit. My wife was gently and slowly pushing his hand away... very gently and he kept going back for more. Happened no less that 5 times in the few minutes I watched. By the look on her face and the way she appeared to be whispering to him she clearly was enjoying the attention. It was a weird mixture of emotions for me watching that. It was the tequila.
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Old 05-16-2011, 02:54 AM   #56
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Yes, thru the computer, and it still hurts a lot even though it wasn't in person. But I'm sure thats next.
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Old 05-17-2011, 03:02 AM   #57
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Not yet .. and I wonder when she will.
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Old 05-17-2011, 05:35 AM   #58
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she has before. she'll do it again. goes thru cycles,when she starts to want to lose weight,take care of herself..she'll get looking real nice again,then the guys start to notice, and she'll probably screw someone...again
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Old 05-17-2011, 09:53 AM   #60
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As far as I know the answer to that is NO.
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Old 05-17-2011, 09:54 AM   #61
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Old 05-17-2011, 10:06 AM   #62
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Yes I have been cheated on. I caught him, was livid and so deeply hurt and our marriage was never the same again. There was some trust built back up but it never reached the same level as prior to the cheating. I told myself for years that I was okay and that we had moved on. Though, I do believe that it would have ended our marriage eventualy as I realized years later I never really truly healed from it. I am not sure you ever really do.
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Old 05-17-2011, 12:45 PM   #63
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I havent and she hasnt
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Old 05-17-2011, 12:50 PM   #64
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Not sure I'd like to believe no but prior to dating me she said she cheated on her past boyfriend alot. She was in sales and had alot of late nights out where she was drinking but when she came home super late she was horney so maybe she wasn't physically cheating. She's is a flirt like me but I think I'm more guilty in the cyber area
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Old 05-17-2011, 12:51 PM   #65
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Not sure I'd like to believe no but prior to dating me she said she cheated on her past boyfriend alot. She was in sales and had alot of late nights out where she was drinking but when she came home super late she was horney so maybe she wasn't physically cheating. She's is a flirt like me but I think I'm more guilty in the cyber area

hmmm would she be a member and you not know about it?
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Old 05-17-2011, 12:55 PM   #66
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Old 05-17-2011, 04:18 PM   #67
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I dont think he has .... but it wouldnt shock me if he did
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Old 05-17-2011, 05:32 PM   #68
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Not as I know of...
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I'm sure she hasn't.
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Have you seen me? Heck no he hasn't.




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Old 05-17-2011, 10:38 PM   #71
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no he hasnt, it's way too much work for him. It would mean he would need to shave, take her out, dress up (without me telling him what to wear), um talk to her, give her compliments. He sees it as a waste of energy.
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Old 05-17-2011, 10:39 PM   #72
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I dont know. Thats between her conscience and God Almighty. I wish i could definitely say yes but i cant. Its best not to dwell on it.
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Old 05-17-2011, 10:43 PM   #73
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when I told him I was planning on moving...he got a match.com account... and proceeded to date. WHILE I WAS STILL IN THE HOUSE. So yeah...I see that as a form of cheating.
it is cheating. If not physically surely emotionally. And on top of that its downright disrespectful.
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no he hasn't - I have
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