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Old 07-24-2008, 05:29 PM   #26
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DAMN NICE PITHY SUGAR HERE JIMMY...
Thanks Lucky. I thought it was pretty good when it entered my head. I might just have to help JM make Hallmark cards. LOL
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...how would you have me do that...

your a smart man,,,,,you will figuare it out,,,,,
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Beauty is something that shines from within the woman, she has confidence in herself and must like herself as she is. You do not have to be a Barbi doll, they do not do it for me, give me a plain everyday girl next door, type lady who walks with confidence and knows what she wants and who she is. Every lady has her own beauty, she just has to bring it out to the world.
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What do you do to ensure you feel sexy? Any helpful hints for someone trying to find herself again?
The "physical" is a small part of it. The "sexy" is a small part of it. You need to look at your whole being.




Ask yourself:
  • What have you always wanted to do but were afraid to?
  • When are you quiet when you are dying to speak up and involve yourself? Get past your fear, do it & celebrate those small victories.
Also:
  • Buy some clothes that are pretty and make you feel good & sexy as you are NOW.
  • Read erotica.
  • Watch a sexy movie.
  • Take a bubble bath with yummy smelling oils while drinking a glass of wine and listening to soft music and think about what really turns you on without censoring what it may be. Sometimes you'll suprise yourself.
  • Get a pedicure.
  • Get your hair colored.
  • Find what makes you laugh & laugh a lot.
  • Do something selfish that you feel too guilty to do.
  • Exercize.
  • Fall in love with yourself as you are now.
  • Don't take shit from anyone. When you do you allow that type of behavior, you allow that person to steal a little peice of who you are and they don't deserve it!
  • Buy some new sheets with a high thread count and a fluffy pillow.
  • Talk to your girlfriends-- you need GOOD girlfriends. They will be there when the other stuff falls apart. They will be your memory if they really love you when you forget who you are.
  • Smile & flirt.
  • Do nice things for others.
  • Let go of your rage and anger. (Um, I still work on this one daily. LOL)
The changes take time, but before you know it people who have known you a long time will start asking if you've lost weight or had "work" done. They'll stare at you and tell you that you seem "different". Just smile and make them wonder. If you are a happy person full of sensual energy people will be drawn to you.
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Old 07-24-2008, 10:51 PM   #31
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How do you get your sexiness back?

1. Get a theme song....oh yes....that's right....it was an easy pick last July when I started my sexy back journey. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgsTSHeNrlU

2. Make yourself a priority. I have always wanted to run....I would actually have dreams of me running and felt like I could run forever. So one day I finally got off my butt and did it. A year later I'm still at it and down 50 lbs.

3. Buy some lingerie.....nothing makes you feel sexier than some sexy lingerie...even if no one sees it.

4. Come here!!! Flirt and feel sexy because there are men here ready to make you feel like the sexy woman you already are.

5. Ignore anyone who puts you down because if you are going to change, do it for YOU...no one else!!!!
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Old 07-24-2008, 11:06 PM   #32
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Thank you for posting this. I live in the same situation. I have come a long way in the last year, but have so much further to go. They will continue to pick you apart even when you are learning to feel better about yourself. So I will read these post too and wish you luck!
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Old 07-24-2008, 11:31 PM   #33
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I think her voice and walk can go a long way.
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Old 07-24-2008, 11:33 PM   #34
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eyes... smile.... laugh.... and the way that she looks at you....
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Old 07-25-2008, 12:21 AM   #35
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I'm attracted to a combination of physical beauty and attitude. My definition of physical beauty is fairly encompassing. I adore the female form like art. I love the curves, all of them. I don't like the caricatures of women that are foisted on us by the media. I prefer the forms of women that you see in art.

But the most perfect physical beauty cannot compensate for a lack of intellect and attitude. Conversely, intellect and attitude will compensate for most any physical flaws, which, quite frankly, I probably haven't noticed or if I have, don't consider flaws anyway.

My wife is physically attractive and she has the intellect and attitude to make things interesting when she wants to. But I've learned that it doesn't matter what I think, if she doesn't feel attractive, nothing I can say will change that. Sometimes, it's very frustrating. She catches the eye of some random construction worker and tells me it makes her feel good to know she still has it. I make the comment that she doesn't appreciate my compliments, I'm told that they don't count because we're married and I'm obligated to tell her she's attractive. Trust me, I'm not, and sometimes her attitude turns me off.
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Old 07-25-2008, 12:32 AM   #36
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I'm a stay at home mom and I NEVER feel sexy anymore....hubby tells me how hot i am and i laugh it off.
But i do feel sexy when i get dressed up and put on makeup and do my hair. Wearing heels helps alot too!
Or if i want to feel sexy in bed i just toss on the thigh highs and a lacy teddy and let my hubby ravage me.
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You painted a very good picture.. i think you are sexy... keep the good work and buy more high heels...


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I'm a stay at home mom and I NEVER feel sexy anymore....hubby tells me how hot i am and i laugh it off.
But i do feel sexy when i get dressed up and put on makeup and do my hair. Wearing heels helps alot too!
Or if i want to feel sexy in bed i just toss on the thigh highs and a lacy teddy and let my hubby ravage me.
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Old 07-25-2008, 12:54 AM   #38
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Okay...some of you know that I have not had a wonderful marriage (like many of us)...my self esteem has been shattered by a husband that finds my looks "disgusting"...many of you have helped me through some of this but I am curious....how in the world do I get my sexiness back?!

Ladies:

What do you do to ensure you feel sexy? Any helpful hints for someone trying to find herself again?

Gentlemen:

What does a woman do that screams "sexy" to you? Is it her looks, attitude, or a little of both?

Thanks...you are all sooo awesome!!!!
For me Sexy is all about the attitude and using the body that you have!! All woman have a "female" body, all it takes to be sexy with that, is the attitude that you have what it takes to be Sexy!! You need to find a way to let your self love who you are, then you can feel sexy enough for any man!

If when you are comfortable with yourself, and feeling sexy, your husband still does not like who you are, then I would say that the problem is his, not yours!
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Old 07-25-2008, 01:19 AM   #39
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How do you get your sexiness back?

1. Get a theme song....oh yes....that's right....it was an easy pick last July when I started my sexy back journey. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgsTSHeNrlU

2. Make yourself a priority. I have always wanted to run....I would actually have dreams of me running and felt like I could run forever. So one day I finally got off my butt and did it. A year later I'm still at it and down 50 lbs.

3. Buy some lingerie.....nothing makes you feel sexier than some sexy lingerie...even if no one sees it.

4. Come here!!! Flirt and feel sexy because there are men here ready to make you feel like the sexy woman you already are.

5. Ignore anyone who puts you down because if you are going to change, do it for YOU...no one else!!!!

Congrats Sweet lady,,,,,,
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Old 07-25-2008, 02:44 AM   #40
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Its all about confidence
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What does a woman do that screams "sexy" to you? Is it her looks, attitude, or a little of both?

Thanks...you are all sooo awesome!!!!
Mostly that I could talk to her about anything and that we don't seem to run out of things to say...
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for me it has to be the total package, she has to have it all.
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A woman's personality and the way she treats other people is sexy. A woman can look great and have a perfect body, but if she's bitch, she's not sexy.
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Gentlemen:

What does a woman do that screams "sexy" to you? Is it her looks, attitude, or a little of both?

Thanks...you are all sooo awesome!!!!
Some of both...attitude 60% and looks 40%. I think a woman that is comfortable with the way she looks and dresses sexy is nice. I mean I've seen women that would be considered overweight, but like the way they look, and show confidence (not bitchiness) and style that are a lot sexier than a woman who could be Miss America and is a bitch. If a woman is to thin thats a turn off for me.
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Confidence in yourself first and all the rest just falls into place. Now that is very sexy indeed. I add to that a sprinkle of high maintenance, and all those four inch heels!
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Passion and desire that you can see, smell and taste, along with a total lack of inhibition in bed. A sexy woman smolders even with her clothes on.
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The "physical" is a small part of it. The "sexy" is a small part of it. You need to look at your whole being.





Ask yourself:
  • What have you always wanted to do but were afraid to?
  • When are you quiet when you are dying to speak up and involve yourself? Get past your fear, do it & celebrate those small victories.
Also:
  • Buy some clothes that are pretty and make you feel good & sexy as you are NOW.
  • Read erotica.
  • Watch a sexy movie.
  • Take a bubble bath with yummy smelling oils while drinking a glass of wine and listening to soft music and think about what really turns you on without censoring what it may be. Sometimes you'll suprise yourself.
  • Get a pedicure.
  • Get your hair colored.
  • Find what makes you laugh & laugh a lot.
  • Do something selfish that you feel too guilty to do.
  • Exercize.
  • Fall in love with yourself as you are now.
  • Don't take shit from anyone. When you do you allow that type of behavior, you allow that person to steal a little peice of who you are and they don't deserve it!
  • Buy some new sheets with a high thread count and a fluffy pillow.
  • Talk to your girlfriends-- you need GOOD girlfriends. They will be there when the other stuff falls apart. They will be your memory if they really love you when you forget who you are.
  • Smile & flirt.
  • Do nice things for others.
  • Let go of your rage and anger. (Um, I still work on this one daily. LOL)
The changes take time, but before you know it people who have known you a long time will start asking if you've lost weight or had "work" done. They'll stare at you and tell you that you seem "different". Just smile and make them wonder. If you are a happy person full of sensual energy people will be drawn to you.

Sneaky, that was awesome!!! I completely agree. I think confidence is a HUGE part of being sexy.
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