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Old 08-21-2011, 05:45 AM   #1
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Default Do people stop flirting after 50?

Do people stop flirting and searching for love after age 50?

Most of the people here are in their 30s and 40s. The over 50 crowd is quite small and that holds for dating sites and other place people meet as well.

How would you explain this trend?
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Old 08-21-2011, 05:47 AM   #2
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i'm living proof that they dont lol
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Old 08-21-2011, 05:52 AM   #3
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I don't think it's a trend, Ivan. I think a lot, over 50, have reconciled themselves to whatever they think their life is, or has to be. Yet, for a myriad of reasons, there are some of us who feel differently.

I didn't start to flirt til after I was 50. There are days I wish I had remained clueless and never woke up to the fact I wanted "more" in my life...but I wouldn't trade the past few years either. So, I think I'll continue to flirt.
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Old 08-21-2011, 05:58 AM   #4
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I'm not going to stop....
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Old 08-21-2011, 06:08 AM   #5
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when i die ill stop flirting and even then maybe
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Old 08-21-2011, 06:08 AM   #6
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I don't know but I have heard a woman gets "new sexual energy" around 50 these days...?
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Old 08-21-2011, 06:09 AM   #7
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I doubt it.
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Old 08-21-2011, 06:16 AM   #8
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absolutely not in my case, i think i have flirted more since i was 50 than any other time in my life.
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Old 08-21-2011, 07:26 AM   #9
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I've stopped looking for love and I am not yet 50... but I don't plan to stop flirting... not ever...
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Old 08-21-2011, 08:10 AM   #10
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I don't think it's a trend, Ivan. I think a lot, over 50, have reconciled themselves to whatever they think their life is, or has to be. Yet, for a myriad of reasons, there are some of us who feel differently.

I didn't start to flirt til after I was 50. There are days I wish I had remained clueless and never woke up to the fact I wanted "more" in my life...but I wouldn't trade the past few years either. So, I think I'll continue to flirt.
I tend to agree with you Red. Before 50 people make a decision to either get divorced or accept things as they are.
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Old 08-21-2011, 08:17 AM   #11
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Hail no they don't!....

Where I work, 75% is over 50 and they are some of THEE best flirts I've ever known...SO much fun...
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Old 08-21-2011, 08:18 AM   #12
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Boy I hope not..otherwise I'm a statistical error
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I don't know but I have heard a woman gets "new sexual energy" around 50 these days...?
Amen!!!
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Old 08-21-2011, 09:01 AM   #14
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I don't know but I have heard a woman gets "new sexual energy" around 50 these days...?
Great ... then I'll just wait around for 5 years for that miracle to happen with the wife.
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Old 08-21-2011, 09:10 AM   #15
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online flirting? i'm not entire sure it's our age, as much as it is our generation ivan. those in their 30's now were in college when the internet really came of age, and were well ensconced in its provocations, so it's a natural vehicle to revisit. those of us who matured on its periphery are few and far between.
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online flirting? i'm not entire sure it's our age, as much as it is our generation ivan. those in their 30's now were in college when the internet really came of age, and were well ensconced in its provocations, so it's a natural vehicle to revisit. those of us who matured on its periphery are few and far between.
I'm not sure what all that means, but I am certain that you have a nice rack.

Guess that should answer the question: Do people stop flirting after 60?
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50 is the new 30 are so I am told.. If this is the case we could all live forever
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mmmmmm nice tits msmangrove

guess i havent stopped
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no, no we don't.
sometimes we get rusty though and like old machinery you have to keep it lubed and tuned...
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flirt hmmm... but i do think Max's eyes are out on stalks.
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Well, I'm heading towards my 46th birthday.....I can't see myself suddenly stopping at 50!!
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I was born a flirt and will die a flirt.. I don't think age has anything to do with our sexual outlook or flirting ability. attitude has a lot to do with the way we act.
If we never grow up, then we never grow old. IMHO
Maybe the way I think comes from the fact that I come from a long line of free thinker and loose morals. ;-)
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Old 08-22-2011, 08:46 AM   #25
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I will tell after I hit 50, but I doubt it will change
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