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Old 05-25-2010, 04:28 PM   #1
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Like the thread here discussing why men have an affair here's one for the ladies.

They say women and men are not the same. Is it true? Are the reasons given for men to have an affair different than those for a woman? Speak up girls. What do you have to say for your beautiful selves?
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For the same reasons as men. LOL
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sex...sex...sex....sex....sex......sex.....sex.... oh yeah and i like to be held! LOL
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Old 05-25-2010, 04:34 PM   #4
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For the attention!!
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I imagine because they aren't content with the guy they are with.
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There is a thread that Happygirl started last year I believe. Good thread, Happy. Anyhow this was my reply. I think when it comes down to it...it is to feel alive again.

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With life's demands and such one can get lost along the way. Feelings that you once shared with your husband are gradually lost over time. And then one day something goes off inside you and you think is this it?

For some they fall out of romantic love, for others they have lost all love. It is I love you but I am not in love with you. The passion is lost.

One will be honest with their spouse about their feelings and their spouse has no idea what is going on as they thought everything is perfect. You are partly to blame because you led him to believe everything is ideal when all along you knew it was not. You knew something was missing and has been for quite some time.

One will do whatever it takes to regain what has been lost, but if your spouse is content with the way things are they will continue with the status quo because they do not see a problem.

So, needless to say one may venture out in search of that feeling that has been lost with the hopes they will find it and it will breathe life into them once again, hence to feel alive again. This in a sense woud enhance one's home life.

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I have another reason.....good grief, like we need another reason.

An opportunity presents itself as someone from your past, someone that you deeply loved walks back into your life.
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I think its because someone else can give you those feelings you have lost in your relationship.
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For the attention, the thrill and the desire. The feeling of being wanted.
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To meet me of course
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Because we can.
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I forgot to mention......boredom. Oh, is that a poor excuse. Ah well.
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DId I say sex? Being held... oh and the free mints on the pillow of that very expensive room you have to pay for every other time! LOL
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The warranty expired on one of hubby's parts??? Is that a good excuse?
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Im gonna have to go with sex on this one, at least for me.
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Speaking from what I have been told:affection.
It is important for us to understand: sex is always the pay off, (the currency) not the real reason.
Let’s face it; if it was about sex, there are ways to get sex without an affair.
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Sex with hub is PATHETIC!
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pretty sure i know my own reasons, and lack of affection/attention isn't one of them.
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isn't it only one reason? it's the mans fault right? lol
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I forgot to mention......boredom. Oh, is that a poor excuse. Ah well.

Boredom is a huge reason why anyone cheats. My guess is we're all bored or we wouldn't be here. It's so routine day after day after day, that if you find someone new that you click with you become alive again! I'm gonna have to give into my best judgement and text my real life flirt now. LOL
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Boredom is a huge reason why anyone cheats. My guess is we're all bored or we wouldn't be here. It's so routine day after day after day, that if you find someone new that you click with you become alive again! I'm gonna have to give into my best judgement and text my real life flirt now. LOL
Often times one can try to spice it up a bit, but it takes two to make work.
Sad but true.

You go girl. LOL
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Boredom is a huge reason why anyone cheats. My guess is we're all bored or we wouldn't be here. It's so routine day after day after day, that if you find someone new that you click with you become alive again! I'm gonna have to give into my best judgement and text my real life flirt now. LOL
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Well, because I wanted someone to want me, make me feel wanted, to hold me and say those things women like to hear. I enjoyed the thrill and mainly the SEX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
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