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Old 07-18-2008, 01:36 PM   #26
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It's almost at the top of my list. I think without sex sometimes to remind me that I am more than a mom, I would slide into a place where I would lose ME.
You are so much more than a mom!! But your a great mom too.
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Old 07-18-2008, 01:42 PM   #27
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Just remember Torin....the first and last letters in the word mom are the start to spelling mmmmmm.....
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Old 07-18-2008, 01:59 PM   #28
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Well now i feel bad! Been married 7 years... with him much longer!

Granted... not the greatest relationship ever... love is not the first or second reason of that relationship.

i'm probably gonna go "Duh!" if i ever fall in love and experience it!
I didn't mean to make you feel bad. Not my intention at all.
I was just sort of clarifying what I thought cowgirl meant.
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:06 PM   #29
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It's almost at the top of my list. I think without sex sometimes to remind me that I am more than a mom, I would slide into a place where I would lose ME.
Yes...exactly!
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:06 PM   #30
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hmmmmmmmm will she help it go down.
that's why she's the "head" nurse....

she should have on knee pads - makes her easy to spot!
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:36 PM   #31
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I agree that sex is important, but for me it's part of feeling connected. Intimacy can be achieved without sex, and meaningless sex doesn't really help build intimacy.

Which is NOT to say that I object to sex as an end, in and of itself...just don't know that it's "important" in that context.
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:44 PM   #32
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I didn't mean to make you feel bad. Not my intention at all.
I was just sort of clarifying what I thought cowgirl meant.
YOU didn't make me fell bad, no worries... its more of the situation, you know, realizing i just might me missing something.
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:48 PM   #33
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I agree that sex is important, but for me it's part of feeling connected. Intimacy can be achieved without sex, and meaningless sex doesn't really help build intimacy.

Which is NOT to say that I object to sex as an end, in and of itself...just don't know that it's "important" in that context.
Good point! Not just sex, but intimate sex. My wife throwing her legs open and saying fine do what you want, but be quick about it, does nothing for me.
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:52 PM   #34
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I agree. I only get attention from him when he is turned on but as soon as he is "done" there is no more intimacy. We dont touch or kiss or anything unless i intiate it and for me that is a big part of sex. The intimacy that starts way before the actual act of intercourse.
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Old 07-18-2008, 02:52 PM   #35
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Sex is very important, but if you are not on the same page mentally it does not mean much.
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Old 07-18-2008, 03:05 PM   #36
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Old 07-18-2008, 03:09 PM   #37
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The intimacy that starts way before the actual act of intercourse.
And hopefully lasts long after...
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Old 07-18-2008, 05:59 PM   #38
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I think it is one of the most important elements of a relationship, right after communication, and respect. Try to stay committed with these.
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I think it is one of the most important elements of a relationship, right after communication, and respect. Try to stay committed with these.
Nicely put....I agree
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Old 07-18-2008, 07:34 PM   #40
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It is important but it isnt the only thing
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Old 07-18-2008, 09:47 PM   #41
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Intimacy is important. If you can achieve that without sex then fine, but sex makes it easier to obtain that closeness - "oneness".
I agree with part of that. I have the intimacy without the sex, and it is for this reason, I never knew how important sex really is. It's a huge void.
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Old 07-18-2008, 09:57 PM   #42
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Sex is very important, if the two people are compatible. Just having sex for the sake of sex isn't that interesting to me. When I feel a real connection with someone, I think it takes the relationship to a whole different level. I have found that person and it is fantastic and fulfilling, whenever we have it.
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Old 07-18-2008, 09:58 PM   #43
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When you're not getting it, it becomes all consuming. Yeah....I'd say it's important. It may not be the backbone of a relationship, but if you're lacking in that area, the rest kinda falls apart.
Gotta agree with ya Krystal...reminds me of when I decided I wasn't going to stay married to my first wife who everyone in the family totally loved and adored...My dear father decided he needed to have a heart to hear talk with me...lol at 33 years old..."Son", he said in his most fatherly voice, "You know She's a mighty fine girl and mother to your kids so what's the problem? Can't ya'll work it out?" SEX dad I said...pure and simple, sex! I aint gettin any. Well he said..you know sex isn't everything, Son...No dad, you're right sex is not everything....but the lack of it is!...And with that I filed for divorce and he never had another negative word to say to me about it.
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I agree. I only get attention from him when he is turned on but as soon as he is "done" there is no more intimacy. We dont touch or kiss or anything unless i intiate it and for me that is a big part of sex. The intimacy that starts way before the actual act of intercourse.
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Old 07-20-2008, 08:16 PM   #45
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sex is important as well as closeness and affection and companionship....
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Not the most important but as a compliment to intimacy...
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I agree Sun....but it can't hurt
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I think it holds different importance for different people. For me it is pretty important. I think for many men it is an easier way for us to experience powerful intimacy that maybe women can reach non sexually. There is nothing more powerful for me than sex with someone I love....double intimacy.
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Old 07-21-2008, 03:16 AM   #49
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Sex is extremely important to me! I had a relationship in college where it was based primarily on sex and my marriage was based primarily on everything but (and we were not sexually compatible at all)...so I think there has to be a happy medium for me...I need someone who will pound me three times a day and then play a good game of scrabble...
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Old 07-21-2008, 04:32 AM   #50
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